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The male physique - hard and defined or soft and smooth?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Which do you personally prefer ladies?

In my view a man should always have some degree of strength to his appearance, ie thickness in his traps (those triangular bits on either side of his neck), shoulders, chest, arms and upper back, but supposing he does, do the ladies then prefer a defined, athletic look to the male physique, or the soft but thick and strong look so often referred to as the 'rugby build'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice smile and a big cock are more important....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A nice smile and a big cock are more important....!

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1 out of 2 ok?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not over concerned what a lady likes in a guy or even me for that matter in terms of physique, as I'm more concerned about how I feel about myself.

My arms are lacking though (bloody genetics) I have a good back and shoulders. Traps are coming along nicely as I have a nice shadow on the Rhomboids now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a rugby player build and a nice toned athletic body. It needs to suit the man though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely rugby player build for me. XL size!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely rugby player build for me. XL size! "

How's 2XL for you?!?

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By *iverpool LoverMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"I'm not over concerned what a lady likes in a guy or even me for that matter in terms of physique, as I'm more concerned about how I feel about myself.

My arms are lacking though (bloody genetics) I have a good back and shoulders. Traps are coming along nicely as I have a nice shadow on the Rhomboids now "

agree with E jay, its not important what the opposite sex or anybody for that matter likes most about someone elses physique, it ultimately comes down to what you yourself like about you and feel happiest with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally go for "Man shaped" My fwb has a very physical job with a little padding too (his penchant for biscuits is to blame apparently).. I love to stroke and play with his chest, arms and tummy.

Defined hard muscles are not for me. Visually I find them a turn off so wouldn't even get to the physical stage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

out of the two I prefer the defined athletic physique.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love a rugby player build and a nice toned athletic body. It needs to suit the man though "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not over concerned what a lady likes in a guy or even me for that matter in terms of physique, as I'm more concerned about how I feel about myself.

My arms are lacking though (bloody genetics) I have a good back and shoulders. Traps are coming along nicely as I have a nice shadow on the Rhomboids now "

From thus side of the keyboard you don't lack anything.....Phwor

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I always find these questions interesting... because it almost feels like the question asker's need some sort of affirmation...

tall or short?

fat or thin?

black or white?

single or married?

young or old?

ect..... ect.... ect....

you are not going to appeal to everyone.... so why try??? so I don't these threads help other peoples confidence in any way shape or form....

if you were going to ask a million people what they like, I am sure you would get a million answers! I think we lovingly call it.... erm.... preference

so if someone was white... and everyone said they liked black guys.... what ya going to do about it????

if someone was young.... and everyone said they likes older guys..... what you going to do about it????

so in reality... its not someone wanting to find out an answer.. because there isn't going to be a "one size fits all" answer..... its just basically a fishing exercise

p.s anyone like a large, black, approaching 40, sarcastic, tells it like it is, guy?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defined and athletic all the way, don't want any sted head that can't fit through doors

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

defined athletic physique

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Defined and athletic for me please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men should be big and strong for me. I like strong arms and shoulders. Not keen on a big gut or too much padding but some is ok.

Quite partial to muscle guys too tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"defined athletic physique "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a type I prefer. I see a person,not a shape. I think I'm lucky that I have diverse tastes. It's probably a face that clinches the deal for me physically

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