FabSwingers.com forum: Big mistake

By *ackson85 OP Man
over a year ago

lurgan

What was your big first mistake on fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Believing anything anyone says

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Telling Mrs P she could pick first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting a couple where the wife was being pressured into swinging. Before we met I wasn't 100% sure she was up for it. My gut was trying to tell me something. However I still drove for an hour to their place. After about 20 minutes of chatting I knew 100% she was only doing it to please him. I was honest and told them I didn't think they were ready yet for swinging. I then left and drove home. From now on I will trust my instincts.

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By *idpunkMan
over a year ago

carrickfergus

"Meeting a couple where the wife was being pressured into swinging. Before we met I wasn't 100% sure she was up for it. My gut was trying to tell me something. However I still drove for an hour to their place. After about 20 minutes of chatting I knew 100% she was only doing it to please him. I was honest and told them I didn't think they were ready yet for swinging. I then left and drove home. From now on I will trust my instincts. "

Wise words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Believing anything anyone says

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking mods just wore Parker's & rode around on scooters!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Putting to much trust in people

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

Being a bit naive and trusting that people were as honest as I am. Oh boy...big lesson learnt...!!!

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

What a lovely man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting a couple who locked there child in there bedroom while we played, as soon as we realised we left.

Letting a woman bitch about me without defending myself, thinking I was being the bigger person. Although even over a year later her and her friends still sit and bitch about me, and the amount of people who don't ask for my side of the story is unreal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meeting a couple who locked there child in there bedroom while we played, as soon as we realised we left.

Yep, some people believe gossip without a thought; don't worry about idiots - & you probably did the right thing btw!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not using enough Chloroform

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

spending many hours for a few days in a row with a youngish 'new' girl - she was really keen to meet us but had so many questions and not sures about meeting her first couple - we explained were not pushy - meet in a public place and chat first all that safe stuff - the chat went round in circles so we said its up to you and left her to it - next day puts up the verification table and had met loads previously and showed the veris - she must have been bored to chat that way - never again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being a bit naive and trusting that people were as honest as I am. Oh boy...big lesson learnt...!!!

Ditto and lesson well learnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being a bit naive and trusting that people were as honest as I am. Oh boy...big lesson learnt...!!!

Exactly this

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Traveling some distance for a meet that never happened. It didn't occur to me that people would get their cheap thrills from tinewasting. I know now.

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By *ifestootooshortMan
over a year ago

Near You

"Being a bit naive and trusting that people were as honest as I am. Oh boy...big lesson learnt...!!!

Exactly this

Totally agree with this!! Most in here talk the talk but disappear and ignore you after a while, guess they just get turned on at the thought maybe?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Going to Spalding. It was a great meet and I had a good laugh, especially walking round a corner and into the midst of a group of guest workers, who just looked at my boobies and said 'Plastique', completely missing the fact the rest of me was questionable, too.

The mistake, though, was in not checking a map first. I thought it was about 40 minutes away. Possibly just the far side of Newark on the A17. Nope, it was that far, I wished I'd packed some sarnies.

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

I have made any yet.

I don't trust easily in the real world and I certainly don't trust easily here.

I came into this world with my eyes and mind wide open and had no expectations. I just chill and enjoy the thrill of the ride

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being a bit naive and trusting that people were as honest as I am. Oh boy...big lesson learnt...!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I made a innocent comment on a thread and fook me .. I got slaughtered for it

Good job I have thick skin or I would have ran for the hills x

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Meeting without skyping first..and I traved to the meet, that was in a hotel not a club..... That won't happen again...

And still the same old pics from years ago that don't depict the current image of the gent I met (unless he has got some bang tidy rejuvenation cream and shed 'a few' pounds) are there reloaded weekly on his profile.

He felt we were a match made in heaven.... I did not

And to add to that... He was a nice guy and attractive to me.. I just felt that I had been mislead, duped and that was what ruined it for me.

Glad I had the experience all the same as I learnt a lesson that has helped me tailor make my own person meeting process, that works well for me.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

"I made a innocent comment on a thread and fook me .. I got slaughtered for it

Good job I have thick skin or I would have ran for the hills x "

I am so awkward on forums as I see this occurring sometimes and it upsets me.

A comment I made to be humerous was taken out of context and requoted a while ago.

Luckily I noticed and managed luckily to nip it in the bud.. It was a uncomfortable feeling though.

Lola x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being a bit naive and trusting that people were as honest as I am. Oh boy...big lesson learnt...!!!

Exactly this

Totally agree with this!! Most in here talk the talk but disappear and ignore you after a while, guess they just get turned on at the thought maybe? "

I think yours might be not google reversing your pic before putting it up!

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By *entkevMan
over a year ago

Dover

Actually believing it to be a genuine meeting website.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messaging way to many local people the first week I joined. I didn't really have a solid profile or decent pictures. I probably got a few blocks because of that, and if patient enough they I could have had the opportunity to meet.

Patience is key.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

thinking it would be easy to get a meet

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings

"Messaging way to many local people the first week I joined. I didn't really have a solid profile or decent pictures. I probably got a few blocks because of that, and if patient enough they I could have had the opportunity to meet.

Patience is key.

I have never met Patience is she nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Actually believing it to be a genuine meeting website.

Some do meet on here some don't but there are so many single males they can't all get to meet people just when they want to.

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings

"Actually believing it to be a genuine meeting website.

Some do meet on here some don't but there are so many single males they can't all get to meet people just when they want to."

You are spot on with that not many meets

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By *entkevMan
over a year ago

Dover

"Actually believing it to be a genuine meeting website.

Some do meet on here some don't but there are so many single males they can't all get to meet people just when they want to."

I know youre right and I wasnt having a rant just quoted my first thought.

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By *hoursMan
over a year ago

manchester

lady who said she was 47, drove hour n half arrived at house looked through window and saw ornaments and decor like me grans house... door opened to the lady who was defo at the best late 60s and her hubby was in a rockin chair!! at that point i took an emergency phone call.....

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings

"lady who said she was 47, drove hour n half arrived at house looked through window and saw ornaments and decor like me grans house... door opened to the lady who was defo at the best late 60s and her hubby was in a rockin chair!! at that point i took an emergency phone call....."

Maybe you should of carried on and thought how happy you could have made her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking I wouldn't get attention because I'm curvy spent months insecure for no reason

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Putting to much trust in people "
Yep that was exactly mine too!

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom

Opening my mouth on the forums.... Some people think I can't have an opinion...... Funny he's not here anymore x

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings

"Thinking I wouldn't get attention because I'm curvy spent months insecure for no reason "

Don't let this place get to you keep smiling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thinking I wouldn't get attention because I'm curvy spent months insecure for no reason "

With an avatar like that. No chance lol x

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"What was your big first mistake on fab?"

not reading the faq's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely trusting people to easily

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

"Being a bit naive and trusting that people were as honest as I am. Oh boy...big lesson learnt...!!!

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trusting ! Never trust anyone

EXCEPT ME LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Putting on suspenders that are too big for me now, and coming out like it

Her

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"Trusting ! Never trust anyone

EXCEPT ME LOL"

can i trust you?.....i know i can x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trusting ! Never trust anyone

EXCEPT ME LOL

can i trust you?.....i know i can x"

Of course , I'm luffly

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

"What was your big first mistake on fab?"

Drinking to much wine in the afternoon before a meet, then getting totally out of control. Connie xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not using enough Chloroform

Gimp

Borrowing Gimp's handkerchief

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes actually being polite on here gets you nowhere just hassle...

Made that mistake a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I made a innocent comment on a thread and fook me .. I got slaughtered for it

Good job I have thick skin or I would have ran for the hills x "

Been there x done that x been blocked too x

written word loses the humour so easily

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