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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

what do u do if ur boyfreind is no good at sex and u've tried to teach him but nothing works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a Roger or new Boyfriend

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

well i do play with myself quite alot even b4 sex with him

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

"what do u do if ur boyfreind is no good at sex and u've tried to teach him but nothing works

Join a swinging site as a single female!

Oh, you already have!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"well i do play with myself quite alot even b4 sex with him "
hope he doesnt read this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your a bit old for playing with Dolls, have you tried experimening with the Karma Sutra or any other type of Curry ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have the decency to speak to him about it and not slag him off on a public forum?

Sorry for the bluntness..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

not botherd if he reads this he knows what i think (big dent 2 ego ) but he's just not willing to try new things he's a swinger too thats how we met through a freind but dont think he's done anything we've even tried clubs but just dont know what to do next

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

wondrs where the problem lies buttly.mmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i have spoke to him about it loads but just carnt seem 2 get through to him

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"wondrs where the problem lies buttly.mmmmmmm"

what does this mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so this Guys not your FB thats oh so good then ? is he your Boyfriend or just a Sexual contact ?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I hope hes not a member .....

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

"not botherd if he reads this he knows what i think (big dent 2 ego ) but he's just not willing to try new things he's a swinger too thats how we met through a freind but dont think he's done anything we've even tried clubs but just dont know what to do next "

And you still have the cheek to call him your boyfriend?

Again sorry for the bluntness from me too but you are not doing yourself any favours here by slagging him off in a public forum!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

The woman is asking for advice, I can't see why anyone is objecting.

To the OP......have you tried showing him what you like? moving his hand to where you want him to put it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

NOT slagging him off just want 2 know what 2 do next

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The woman is asking for advice, I can't see why anyone is objecting.

To the OP......have you tried showing him what you like? moving his hand to where you want him to put it?"

yeah tried that

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Tried watching porn together ? talking about what you both like when not in bed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try just playing with ya sen! 4 a while,,,sumtimes that helps.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tried watching porn together ? talking about what you both like when not in bed?"

not watched porn together but talked loads about what we both like he just never goes through with it

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Tried watching porn together ? talking about what you both like when not in bed?

not watched porn together but talked loads about what we both like he just never goes through with it "

Is he a B/F or fuck buddy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tried watching porn together ? talking about what you both like when not in bed?

not watched porn together but talked loads about what we both like he just never goes through with it

Is he a B/F or fuck buddy?"

my boyfreind we been 2gether nearly a year

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tried watching porn together ? talking about what you both like when not in bed?

not watched porn together but talked loads about what we both like he just never goes through with it

Is he a B/F or fuck buddy?"

if he was my fuck buddy would just stay friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have spoke to him about it loads but just carnt seem 2 get through to him "

Maybe he just doesn't give a shit and is happy to get his own rocks off no matter what. Have you considered that?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Ah was gonna say get rid !!.....I can't now

Depends on how much you want him I suppose as to wether you walk away or not.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

PS Bubbly.....you need to re set your Avatar.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i have spoke to him about it loads but just carnt seem 2 get through to him

Maybe he just doesn't give a shit and is happy to get his own rocks off no matter what. Have you considered that?"

maybe

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"PS Bubbly.....you need to re set your Avatar."

my what ????

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ah was gonna say get rid !!.....I can't now

Depends on how much you want him I suppose as to wether you walk away or not."

i love him but would feel guilty sleeping with someone else and not him

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

The little profile pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have spoke to him about it loads but just carnt seem 2 get through to him

Maybe he just doesn't give a shit and is happy to get his own rocks off no matter what. Have you considered that?

maybe "

ans you're ok with not knowing for sure?

sounds like a doomed relationship to me.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Ah was gonna say get rid !!.....I can't now

Depends on how much you want him I suppose as to wether you walk away or not.

i love him but would feel guilty sleeping with someone else and not him "

I am confused now..........you are on this site looking for sex with guys and couples and you would feel guilty sleeping with someone other than your BF?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i have spoke to him about it loads but just carnt seem 2 get through to him

Maybe he just doesn't give a shit and is happy to get his own rocks off no matter what. Have you considered that?

maybe

ans you're ok with not knowing for sure?

sounds like a doomed relationship to me."

maybe u r right but like i say i do love him but just dont know what to try next

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"Ah was gonna say get rid !!.....I can't now

Depends on how much you want him I suppose as to wether you walk away or not.

i love him but would feel guilty sleeping with someone else and not him

I am confused now..........you are on this site looking for sex with guys and couples and you would feel guilty sleeping with someone other than your BF?"

This thread is confusing the fook out of me as well.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah was gonna say get rid !!.....I can't now

Depends on how much you want him I suppose as to wether you walk away or not.

i love him but would feel guilty sleeping with someone else and not him

I am confused now..........you are on this site looking for sex with guys and couples and you would feel guilty sleeping with someone other than your BF?

This thread is confusing the fook out of me as well.....

Beginning to suspect someone is bored and enjoying the attention tbh. Yep I am getting a little cynical!

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"Ah was gonna say get rid !!.....I can't now

Depends on how much you want him I suppose as to wether you walk away or not.

i love him but would feel guilty sleeping with someone else and not him

I am confused now..........you are on this site looking for sex with guys and couples and you would feel guilty sleeping with someone other than your BF?

This thread is confusing the fook out of me as well.....

Beginning to suspect someone is bored and enjoying the attention tbh. Yep I am getting a little cynical!"

I think I was born cynical.......

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

It's not confusing, it is one female member saying her bf, who is also a member here, is crap in bed and she is asking for advice on how to make him better!

easy peasy really lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I am not sure she said he is a member?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes 2 to tango! Maybe your not very good at getting him going!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It takes 2 to tango! Maybe your not very good at getting him going!

thats not the problem him getting going its his lack of experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is he your tuesday guy from your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm, I posted some advice but deleted it after reading your profile (should have read it first!

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You say you've been with your boyfriend a year, but you've been on site over a year and meeting people. How does that tie in with your earlier comment about not wanting to sleep with other people, especially as you have a regular fuck buddy?!!

I'm confused!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a friend once who was struggling with her husband, not interested in sex at all, she was so desperate that she shoved her hand down his front and got a massive bruise on her hand, left him after that, got herself a new boyfriend now who seems a lovely guy

if i were you, id move on, plenty of single guys on here who im sure would treat you better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It takes 2 to tango! Maybe your not very good at getting him going!

thats not the problem him getting going its his lack of experience"

its not about experience ..the good guys know instinctively what makes a woman tick if that woman turns them on ....end of !!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Dear OP

You have talked to him.

You have explained what you like.

You have tried to show him.

You have tried different situations.

It's time to accept he doesn't give a shit about your pleasure and either accept that for the rest of your life that's how it's going to be or bin him for a giver.

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By *uton_coupleCouple
over a year ago

luton

looking at your verifications you seem well into the swinging sceene , and one must assume you get a lot of sexuall gratification from that

as far as relationship with bf is concerned why cant you consider that as being one that is loving and happy , and that you have a soulmate in life , and be content with that

there are many types of relationship of this type of ilke that work very well

most people are the way they are and it can be impossible to change them

it is a bit like showing the pope a few boxing films , and expecting him to go into training to fight mike tyson

or perhaps suggesting to a vicars wife , who thinks french kissing is too slutty for her , to consider what its like to squash 3 cocks in her mouth at once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what do u do if ur boyfreind is no good at sex and u've tried to teach him but nothing works

1. Never say someone is no good at sex. It may be YOU that's crap not them. Imagine him really getting it on with someone else. He'd be fantastic because he WANTS to do it.

2. If you've been together for a year and still can't make the earth move, you are NOT sexually compatible OR there is something underlying that prevents exploration and success. Either way bale out ... unless you value him above sex.

3. It's highly probable that the attraction is for other reasons and not sexual - emotional / financial.

Decision time for you ......

psssssssst.. The world NEVER stops turning - no matter who gets a good fuck or who doesn't.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

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"looking at your verifications you seem well into the swinging sceene , and one must assume you get a lot of sexuall gratification from that

as far as relationship with bf is concerned why cant you consider that as being one that is loving and happy , and that you have a soulmate in life , and be content with that

there are many types of relationship of this type of ilke that work very well

most people are the way they are and it can be impossible to change them

it is a bit like showing the pope a few boxing films , and expecting him to go into training to fight mike tyson

or perhaps suggesting to a vicars wife , who thinks french kissing is too slutty for her , to consider what its like to squash 3 cocks in her mouth at once "

I don’t think those comparisons really stand in this case… the bf is allegedly a swinger (so I take that to mean enjoys recreational sex)…. It just seems more like he doesn’t enjoy trying to enjoy recreational sex with the OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Extremely confusing, to be honest, and I'm a great believer in there being 2 sides to a story!!

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

"Extremely confusing, to be honest, and I'm a great believer in there being 2 sides to a story!!

Make that 3 sides; hers, his and the truth which will always be somewhere in the middle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe if your bf read your profile and saw how great your fb was... he may be slightly intimidated and that may not help the situation.

if he is on here, would love to read his profile and the verifications he may have from others. they may say he is a fantastic fuck and then you will have a clue.

think you are being disengenuous to him if I am honest.

whatever happens, good luck to all concerned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems a lack of compatibility to me, move on, let him go his way and you go yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a big believer that it takes two people to have bad sex.

if you're not compatible,you're not going to enjoy it.

hearing a lot about how you've tried showing him what you like, but what about what he likes? perhaps if you're not meeting his needs, he won't be incentivised to fulfil yours.

also, if its constantly an issue in the bedroom, he could possibly be so tired of talking about it, he doesn't want to do it.

would suggest you chill out a while and just enjoy wht you do have and see if he gradually comes around, if not, ask yourself if it's enough?

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