FabSwingers.com forum: Sexual Approachability

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

In the real world, how easy do you find it, to go from the stage of being strangers with someone you've just met, to becoming sexual partners? Are you the sort of person who finds it easy to simply drift through life making that sort of engagement with those around you, or do you have to work long and hard for each person you share your bed with?

By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm not sure I can put a timescale on it. For me I guess it's all about chemistry. If there's chemistry then I have no problems getting from A to Bed!

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet men in the real world anymore so not sure how I would deal with this which is very interesting.

Before I became a mom, infact from 18 to 35, I used to find it extremely easy, too easy to be honest but I think that was more to do with receiving lots of male attention which gave me confidence.

I think now, if I were to meet a guy in the real world who I thought there was a possibility of having a relationship with, I would wait for him to initiate a physical relationship.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I don't feel an instant sexual attraction with a man it won't go any further than just being friends

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I don't feel an instant sexual attraction with a man it won't go any further than just being friends "

So by contrast, what would be the complete opposite, as in, you immediately know upon meeting them that you never want to have sex with them?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I don't feel an instant sexual attraction with a man it won't go any further than just being friends

So by contrast, what would be the complete opposite, as in, you immediately know upon meeting them that you never want to have sex with them?"

Actually, that could make for an interesting thread.