FabSwingers.com forum: Why are men never satisfied?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why is it men can have everything they want at home yet still fuck about with tramps.

Someone please enlighten me?

Sweet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is the woman a tramp??

Always bugs me. The guy is in the wrong for cheating yet it's the women who get slated!

Not everyone knows he's cheating!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had someone's other half been playing away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its human nature funny old thing.

men are like stallions, even if hes got a fit wife there will always be someone fitter or just different. People don't always do what they are supposed to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

He's also a tramp they both are!

I'm just confused as to why they are never happy with what they have?

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

Double edged sword? Maybe?

If your satisfied... Do you stop pushing to be better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally think alot of men are just Dogs that will stick their dick in anything willing as long as they get to dump their muck etc ! Of course not all men are like this me included!

Thats why you get guys who claim they are straight in here meeting TV`s and guys etc too, cos like I said some will fuck anything,male,female,animal,vegetable.

Sad but true!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"He's also a tramp they both are!

I'm just confused as to why they are never happy with what they have? "

This question would be better asked to the person involved.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

He is getting his name tarnished here with no right of reply, rightly or wrongly.

This sort of thing is probably best kept between yourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they choose not to be happy with what they've got. It's that simple, quite often. There's no excuse for cheating on a partner. Doing so Is a conscious decision.

And as much as it fucking sucks when it happens to you, and having been there i do know how much, it's him you should be directing your anger toward. He is the one who owed you the dignity, respect, and commitment to not cheat. He's the tramp.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it men can have everything they want at home yet still fuck about with tramps.

Someone please enlighten me?

Sweet x"
...... Maybe worded on a different way? X

As with many of the threads over the forum !!!! This is a site for people to chat , meet and have sex ......

Not a dating site!!!!!!!!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it men can have everything they want at home yet still fuck about with tramps.

Someone please enlighten me?

Sweet x ...... Maybe worded on a different way? X

As with many of the threads over the forum !!!! This is a site for people to chat , meet and have sex ......

Not a dating site!!!!!!!!'

In your opinion it's not but to me it's the best dating site ever.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The issue isn't strong and I but I do have an interest as to why this happens.

Hoping that a group of sex mad swingers like ourselves would have the answer.

Thanks anyway x

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Sometimes people think the grass is greener when really its just more grass

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

Personally think it's the nature of men...

Satisfaction breeds complacency.

And we're designed to constantly improve our world.

Unfortunately we also create a lot of collateral damage in the process.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it men can have everything they want at home yet still fuck about with tramps.

Someone please enlighten me?

Sweet x"

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By *exyLancs2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

It's primarily due to Mother nature. Robert Winston did an amusing experiment on TV with hidden cameras and then said that the role of the male of the species is to spread their genes as far and wide as possible. Females, however, have to be more selective since they carry the offspring. We are, after all, animals albeit socially evolved ones.

Just look at the ratio of single guy profile to single female profiles - that, for the most part, tells its own story and is illustrative of the point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it men can have everything they want at home yet still fuck about with tramps.

Someone please enlighten me?

Sweet x"

Just because the woman thinks that he has everything he wants does not make it so. Many partners both men and women think that just because in their mind that's the way things should be does not make it so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because that's what we are told

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Let's not forget about the women who have everything at home and still choose to play away. It's not just a male trait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he doesn't have the perfect partner at home. Maybe he's telling the tramp a pack of lies. Maybe he's just an insatiable man who can't control his urges. Who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it men can have everything they want at home yet still fuck about with tramps.

Someone please enlighten me?

Sweet x"

Sorry to burst your bubble but its not exclusive to males!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He's also a tramp they both are!

I'm just confused as to why they are never happy with what they have? "

Hang on if the woman involved has no idea he is attached, how does that make her a tramp?

Really bugs me that it's always the women that get the abuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He's also a tramp they both are!

I'm just confused as to why they are never happy with what they have?

Hang on if the woman involved has no idea he is attached, how does that make her a tramp?

Really bugs me that it's always the women that get the abuse

I thought both parties was getting abuse here!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Maybe they haven't got everything at home, maybe they haven't got an approachable partner they can discuss any issues with, maybe the sex is crap. Or they could just be wanting variety.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally think it's the nature of men...

Satisfaction breeds complacency.

And we're designed to constantly improve our world.

Unfortunately we also create a lot of collateral damage in the process. "
....mr......

Put beautifully my good man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i for 1 am very satisfied my wife can be a total slut shes a great mother and my dearest friend ih and she lives me fucking other women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes people think the grass is greener when really its just more grass "
And the same colour.

Her

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"He's also a tramp they both are!

I'm just confused as to why they are never happy with what they have? "

Sometimes they are, it's down to compatability I'd say.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Why is it men can have everything they want at home yet still fuck about with tramps.

Someone please enlighten me?

Sweet x"

Who says they have everything they want?

Hold on to your hat, but women also stray: shocker I know!

If your partner doesn't respect your feelings, it's the "tramps" fault?!!

Ok...if you say so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So its ok for the women to cheat but not the man lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does anyone do anything? There will be some motivation. It isn't necessarily obvious to anyone other than those involved. It is impossible to generalise in these things. If you want to know about a particular situation you will need to ask those involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really bugs me when a man gets treated worse than a woman when cheating, it remains and always will amount to the same thing.

Her

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"He is getting his name tarnished here with no right of reply, rightly or wrongly.

This sort of thing is probably best kept between yourselves. "

I have to admit I agree, loyalty is an extremely important facet of a relationship in my _iew, I would never discuss any man of mine in public.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

men allways want what they havent got its a thrill u could have everything u wanted and still not be happy so.they search for something eles just life hunny x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He is getting his name tarnished here with no right of reply, rightly or wrongly.

This sort of thing is probably best kept between yourselves.

I have to admit I agree, loyalty is an extremely important facet of a relationship in my _iew, I would never discuss any man of mine in public.

She already said that the issue wasn't between her partner and herself, but that she has an interest...

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

Not all men are the same , in my experience women can be just as bad !

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"He is getting his name tarnished here with no right of reply, rightly or wrongly.

This sort of thing is probably best kept between yourselves.

I have to admit I agree, loyalty is an extremely important facet of a relationship in my _iew, I would never discuss any man of mine in public.

She already said that the issue wasn't between her partner and herself, but that she has an interest..."

Ah, missed the fact that the word strong was a name there....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He is getting his name tarnished here with no right of reply, rightly or wrongly.

This sort of thing is probably best kept between yourselves.

I have to admit I agree, loyalty is an extremely important facet of a relationship in my _iew, I would never discuss any man of mine in public.

She already said that the issue wasn't between her partner and herself, but that she has an interest...

Ah, missed the fact that the word strong was a name there...."

I must admit I read it 3 times trying to make the sentence make sense!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every couple I've met the man asks to meet me in secret, think its just the thrill of cheating. I dont, and have stopped meeting couples ATM for that reason!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It baffles me as to why so many are opinionated and judgemental as to other peoples business/ reasons for being on here seeing as this is a swinging site!?

Would like to add there is alot of Women on here that are attached and playing away also, yet generally it's always the men that get slated for doing this!? - not that I agree with either gender being questioned/judged.

Everyone has a choice of who they acquaint with so if they're not for you just move on and find someone that does without judging the other who isn't.... Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Every couple I've met the man asks to meet me in secret, think its just the thrill of cheating. I dont, and have stopped meeting couples ATM for that reason!"
...... Wow you must be some catch !!!! Or attracting the wrong type of couple for yourself xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you will find in this day and that women are just as bad.

This crap that its only men who are cheats, pigs etc. Gets my goat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it men can have everything they want at home yet still fuck about with tramps.

Someone please enlighten me?

Sweet x"

Why is it women always tar all men with the same brush because of the odd one who breaks the rules? Women cheat to!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have anyone seen cheaters the program with joe gregor?, most are actually women cheating as they cant get enough of sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Every couple I've met the man asks to meet me in secret, think its just the thrill of cheating. I dont, and have stopped meeting couples ATM for that reason!...... Wow you must be some catch !!!! Or attracting the wrong type of couple for yourself xx"

Nope...well maybe

lol (joking) just men like the thrill is my conclusion. Two in particular had gorgeous wives, one 15 years my junior, who allowed them to sleep with other women!! I don't get it, why jepodise a relationship where you can have your cake and eat it??

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"I personally think alot of men are just Dogs that will stick their dick in anything willing as long as they get to dump their muck etc ! Of course not all men are like this me included!

Thats why you get guys who claim they are straight in here meeting TV`s and guys etc too, cos like I said some will fuck anything,male,female,animal,vegetable.

Sad but true!

Alas this is often true.

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

if anyone finds the answer then tell me ,few months ago i was talking to a guy on a dating site he was looking for a casual

relationship but he was married he was getting sex but only ever 6 - 8 weeks ,and i know to my cost its not always men that arent getting any sex that cheat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it men can have everything they want at home yet still fuck about with tramps.

Someone please enlighten me?

Sweet x"

Why don't you ask him?

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

"I personally think alot of men are just Dogs that will stick their dick in anything willing as long as they get to dump their muck etc ! Of course not all men are like this me included!

Thats why you get guys who claim they are straight in here meeting TV`s and guys etc too, cos like I said some will fuck anything,male,female,animal,vegetable.

Sad but true!

Alas this is often true."

I for one am glad that some people fuck anything that moves. As long as it's me that's moving!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my hubby said that men usualy tell you they aren't getting any sex at home so you feel sorry for them, any excuse they just say anything to get what they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's primarily due to Mother nature. Robert Winston did an amusing experiment on TV with hidden cameras and then said that the role of the male of the species is to spread their genes as far and wide as possible. Females, however, have to be more selective since they carry the offspring. We are, after all, animals albeit socially evolved ones.

Just look at the ratio of single guy profile to single female profiles - that, for the most part, tells its own story and is illustrative of the point."

Great point. I was going to say this but too much to type on my shit phone lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not the gender, its the individual.

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

Nope...well maybe

So why are you on the site? Serious question .

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I would love the so called tramps to reply on this thread, or is that just me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would love the so called tramps to reply on this thread, or is that just me?"

Not just you

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

"I would love the so called tramps to reply on this thread, or is that just me?

Not just you "
ok so what do you call someone that is persude by a married man ,1 that has even met the wife several times ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its to do with some primordial gene that men have. Something deep rooted in the male dna that means they have the urge to spread their seed and have more than one woman.

Just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So are we saying that men fuck tramps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would love the so called tramps to reply on this thread, or is that just me?

Not just you ok so what do you call someone that is persude by a married man ,1 that has even met the wife several times ???

Selfish and a tramp.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its not the gender, its the individual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it men can have everything they want at home yet still fuck about with tramps.

Someone please enlighten me?

Sweet x"

The answer forms part of the question. They do not get everything they want at home.

Sexual restrictions and control are imposed on most people by society or their partners expectations. It doesn't mean it's what an individual really wants. For most people there is no compromise scenario, one either ends the relationship or takes the 'easier' option and cheats in order to be free to satisfy all their sexual wants and needs.

That's why swinging is wonderful. Secure, liberated couples in theory shouldn't have the negative aspects of restricting their partners sex lives.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I suppose some get fed up with steak every night and just fancy a nice juicy burger occasionally

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"I would love the so called tramps to reply on this thread, or is that just me?

Not just you ok so what do you call someone that is persude by a married man ,1 that has even met the wife several times ???

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A woman persued by a married man. Seriously your anti man rants wear thin.

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings

"Why is it men can have everything they want at home yet still fuck about with tramps.

Someone please enlighten me?

Sweet x"

The grass always looks greener on the other side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it men can have everything they want at home yet still fuck about with tramps.

Someone please enlighten me?

Sweet x"

Why is the woman a tramp ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its human nature funny old thing.

men are like stallions, even if hes got a fit wife there will always be someone fitter or just different. People don't always do what they are supposed to."

Or fitter and differant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would love the so called tramps to reply on this thread, or is that just me?

Not just you ok so what do you call someone that is persude by a married man ,1 that has even met the wife several times ???

A woman persued by a married man. Seriously your anti man rants wear thin.

I love you Femme x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"men allways want what they havent got its a thrill u could have everything u wanted and still not be happy so.they search for something eles just life hunny x"

like women and shoes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it men can have everything they want at home yet still fuck about with tramps.

Someone please enlighten me?

Sweet x

True, a lot of us put up with bad or no sex at home to keep a family together. Eventually something has to give.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"I would love the so called tramps to reply on this thread, or is that just me?"

I fuck a couple of married men now and again...one of them, I know the wife fairly well to chat to when we meet in the street...I neither know nor care particularly why they choose to stray (variety is my guess), however, I'm a "safe" shag - I'm not a bunny boiler and don't want a relationship so it's never going to be a problem for him or me. I know I'd be considered the one in the wrong were the wives to find out, but that's life (and also why I'm extremely discreet about it locally)

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

tramps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One persons everything can be another persons nothing

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Its human nature funny old thing.

men are like stallions, even if hes got a fit wife there will always be someone fitter or just different. People don't always do what they are supposed to."

There are plenty of men who are not at all like this.

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

"Why is it men can have everything they want at home yet still fuck about with tramps.

Someone please enlighten me?

Sweet x

The grass always looks greener on the other side

due to all the bull shit over there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it men can have everything they want at home yet still fuck about with tramps.

Someone please enlighten me?

Sweet x

Why is the woman a tramp ?"

Indeed. Surely the married man is the tramp. Women don't force married guys to fuck them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it men can have everything they want at home yet still fuck about with tramps.

Someone please enlighten me?

Sweet x

Looking at your profile id say he gets everything he wants. But perhaps its time to to up the ante and do full swap? Whats good for the goose and all that. Id keep these type of discussions private tho or you will both lose credibility on here. Good luck. "
The deed is done by all accounts so credibility has been lost Swinging for us is as much about honesty between ourselves than anything else.The op seems to have no trust in her other half so like the Dragons say ,for that reason were out.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Why is it men can have everything they want at home yet still fuck about with tramps.

Someone please enlighten me?

Sweet x

Why is the woman a tramp ?

Indeed. Surely the married man is the tramp. Women don't force married guys to fuck them. "
I don't think either is, in all honesty.

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

"I would love the so called tramps to reply on this thread, or is that just me?

Not just you ok so what do you call someone that is persude by a married man ,1 that has even met the wife several times ???

A woman persued by a married man. Seriously your anti man rants wear thin.

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im not having an anti man rant was just talking about women that knowingly go off with married men and the bit about all cheaters do it cos they not get sex at home is bollocks too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally think alot of men are just Dogs that will stick their dick in anything willing as long as they get to dump their muck etc ! Of course not all men are like this me included!

Thats why you get guys who claim they are straight in here meeting TV`s and guys etc too, cos like I said some will fuck anything,male,female,animal,vegetable.

Sad but true!

Ooh get you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally think alot of men are just Dogs that will stick their dick in anything willing as long as they get to dump their muck etc ! Of course not all men are like this me included!

Thats why you get guys who claim they are straight in here meeting TV`s and guys etc too, cos like I said some will fuck anything,male,female,animal,vegetable.

Sad but true!

Ooh get you"

Yet for every dog there's a bitch.

So many people may not be satisfied in one aspect of their lives because the rest of their lives aren't satisfying.

Often people try to fill voids in not so clever ways.

For some, it's all or nothing.

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

i read a quote the other day that said

dont fix yourself by breaking others

its so true

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By *ust andyCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Defo not just you

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"So its ok for the women to cheat but not the man lol

Ofcourse its ok for the woman to cheat, its her (what's the word)... Prerogative!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These things are never black and white...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"tramps

Hot tramps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"These things are never black and white..."

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"I would love the so called tramps to reply on this thread, or is that just me?

Not just you ok so what do you call someone that is persude by a married man ,1 that has even met the wife several times ???

A woman persued by a married man. Seriously your anti man rants wear thin.

im not having an anti man rant was just talking about women that knowingly go off with married men and the bit about all cheaters do it cos they not get sex at home is bollocks too "
Any chance you get to castigate the male of the species you do it, do you actually like men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"These things are never black and white..."

Vary rarely though it never fails to surprise me how many jump in when only hearing one side of a tale.

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

It's like driving the same car all the time,there is nothing wrong with it you just want a change now and again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm satisfied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes porn just isnt enough,some men have to go out and actualy touch someone new lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to smile. Its a swingers site where people swop partners and god forbid a guy fucks someone else! Wonders never cease.

Oh and isn't this "airing dirty linen in public" I thought that was against forum rules?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Relationships arent easy and the level of closeness comes and goes. I think it is often unrealistic to expect just one other to completely satisfy another all of the time, in all ways. People have their flaws and often do things when under stress that they perhaps would not do otherwise, perhaps they're in a place in their coupling that is not so fulfilling for them somehow, and sex is an easy get out, without pressure. Good close communication can solve many things but can be hard if someones not coping wel. It seems so wrong if someone cheats and it is if it is betrayal of trust. I especially hate the behaviour of those who escape a relationship by having an affair and dumping their partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've satisfied quite a few men in my time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why tar all men with the same brush. Not all men are bastards. My tuppence worth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are here, to show different people our skills

Her

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

"So its ok for the women to cheat but not the man lol

no one said that anywhere on this thread, not sure where you got that from.

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

"Maybe they haven't got everything at home, maybe they haven't got an approachable partner they can discuss any issues with, maybe the sex is crap. Or they could just be wanting variety.

still doesnt make it ok to go cheat on someone you profess to love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He's also a tramp they both are!

I'm just confused as to why they are never happy with what they have?

Sometimes they are, it's down to compatability I'd say."

They probably are happy with what they have. It's lovely to live with some one have a companion and some one to have children with.

But it's also lovey to have different sexual experiences.

I'd have thought swingers would know this cos that's the whole point of swinging.

The reason a lot of men cheat is cos most women don't want to share.

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By *uggarbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

You can not make some one stray or steal someone away. They make that choice. I don't see how she can be called a tramp. You are swingers soft swap or not. I think any couple who play have to have a very solid and strong and trusting relationship to be able to be on a site like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If more partners were open minded to swinging and partner swap there would be no need to cheat would there. If some can do it why not everyone,it's just sex after all,isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If more partners were open minded to swinging and partner swap there would be no need to cheat would there. If some can do it why not everyone,it's just sex after all,isn't it? "

I think for a lot of people this would be true, verity is the spice and all that.

Unfortunately some people are just dicks and will lie anyway. This goes for women as well as men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If more partners were open minded to swinging and partner swap there would be no need to cheat would there. If some can do it why not everyone,it's just sex after all,isn't it? "

Not sure if that's a jokey comment or serious.

It's not just sex, it's emotions etc. Some people would never want to swing or do anything similar.

If my circumstances changed, I wouldn't swing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To some the forbidden fruit tastes the sweetest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is the man getting everything he wants or is the female only giving as much as she is prepared to give. To her it may be everything to him it may not be enough. Theres a distinct difference.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

Also possession...

The world is all about what we own and the desire to own better things is all consuming.

The majority of people will not allow use of their possessions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it men can have everything they want at home yet still fuck about with tramps.

Someone please enlighten me?

Sweet x"

They obviously haven't got everything they want at home or they wouldn't go elsewhere. Man or Woman nobody has an affair in a happy relationship.

It really is that simple!

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

It really is that simple... Till it's not that simple.

Try and define a "happy" relationship.

I'm guessing you will apply what makes you happy.

But humans are complex and capricious, trying to find a one-size-fits-all is folly.

You will never truly know what is happening inside another persons head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it men can have everything they want at home yet still fuck about with tramps.

Someone please enlighten me?

Sweet x

They obviously haven't got everything they want at home or they wouldn't go elsewhere. Man or Woman nobody has an affair in a happy relationship.

It really is that simple!"

I would assume so but does that mean if someone is in a happy relationship then they just can't decide to have an affair too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It really is that simple... Till it's not that simple.

Try and define a "happy" relationship.

I'm guessing you will apply what makes you happy.

But humans are complex and capricious, trying to find a one-size-fits-all is folly.

You will never truly know what is happening inside another persons head."

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

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"I would love the so called tramps to reply on this thread, or is that just me?

Not just you ok so what do you call someone that is persude by a married man ,1 that has even met the wife several times ???

A woman persued by a married man. Seriously your anti man rants wear thin.

im not having an anti man rant was just talking about women that knowingly go off with married men and the bit about all cheaters do it cos they not get sex at home is bollocks too Any chance you get to castigate the male of the species you do it, do you actually like men?"
yes femme i do

i just not like cheaters and anyone saying that folk cheat cos they arent getting enough at home is rubbish i was a swinger for 14 years did it all soft swap full swap same room sep room going to clubs anal sex porn,cos me being little faithful me thought men that get what they want not have affairs ,but hey they say you live and learn ,and yes i really am that stupid i did all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op I understand why you call her a tramp etc its how most woman would feel when she has caught her partner cheating I feel your pain and to me call her what u like, but also never forget it's really your guy that's the cheat and the real problem and its really up to you if you want to stay etc . as chances are he will do it again sooner or later

You make the choice, you could kick him out or put up with it or embrace it as you are swingers having sex with strangers is what you do as a couple he obviously wants to do it on his own too

I think some people actually have to be able to have the choice of many I think you might find accepting him and his separate swinging better if you didn't fear it and accepted it , but I know many can't do that, I'm a just need one partner but do understand others needing various others partners so would find it easy to be in your set up

I hope you are ok btw

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