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By *ussihunter OP   Man
over a year ago

mexborough

i know this topic is a well used one but ive noticed more and more ppl are useing this site as a dating site, and just being very ignorant when your just being polite,why are some ppl so ignorant on here and just delete when your not being nasty or dirty, being polite doesnt hurt anyone , then the quote i dont fancy u when they dont look at your profile or even seen u is another , STOP BEING UP YOUR OWN ARSES AND BE POLITE , i know biggest part on here are not like that to them i aploigize to for this rant thanks for listning lol feel better now ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm using it as a dating site , I'm not up my own arse though because believe me it stinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People don't reply for lots of different reasons, get over it! Personally I wouldn't reply to you because you have 2 cock pics and 2 sentences on your profile.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

How would you know if they have looked at your profile or not? I am always in stealth mode so I never show on the who looked at me list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nout wrong with using this site as a dating website,, where else are people likely to find people who want to date and swing?

If you choose to take offense at someone because they delete your message then its an issue your going to have to deal with. Just accept you aren't for them and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's possible to look at a profile but not appear in the 'looked at me' section. If they don't fancy you, they don't. They will know whether they do or not. People also aren't being impolite by not replying to every message, it's in the fab guidelines that no reply is a polite no. Also, if they want to use this site as a dating site there is nothing wrong with that. This is a community of swingers. It is not, as is commonly thought, a hook up site. People simply use it as such.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm using it as a dating site , I'm not up my own arse though because believe me it stinks "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In addition all your verifications are from single women so are you using as a sex site not a swinging site???!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm using it as a dating site , I'm not up my own arse though because believe me it stinks

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Sorry I must have been made different cos unlike most woman by poo doesn't smell of roses

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

If I could be up my own arse believe me I would. I mean look at it. It's beautiful!

(((high five)))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm using it as a dating site , I'm not up my own arse though because believe me it stinks

Sorry I must have been made different cos unlike most woman by poo doesn't smell of roses "

It's a myth, it's a medical fact that women's poo is more smelly than men's. You have a lower bend in your colon that enables the waste to ferment a little longer before being evacuated thus the poo is smellier.

Hope no ones having lunch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm using it as a dating site , I'm not up my own arse though because believe me it stinks

Sorry I must have been made different cos unlike most woman by poo doesn't smell of roses

It's a myth, it's a medical fact that women's poo is more smelly than men's. You have a lower bend in your colon that enables the waste to ferment a little longer before being evacuated thus the poo is smellier.

Hope no ones having lunch "

well that's my learnt something new for today then

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"i know this topic is a well used one but ive noticed more and more ppl are useing this site as a dating site, and just being very ignorant when your just being polite,why are some ppl so ignorant on here and just delete when your not being nasty or dirty, being polite doesnt hurt anyone , then the quote i dont fancy u when they dont look at your profile or even seen u is another , STOP BEING UP YOUR OWN ARSES AND BE POLITE , i know biggest part on here are not like that to them i aploigize to for this rant thanks for listning lol feel better now ha ha "

Oh dear!

If people want to use it as a dating site and are being honest about it, what is the issue? You don't have to contact them...

How do you know that someone hasn't looked at your profile, lots look in stealth/privacy mode so don't show on your who's looked at me list.

Not everyone replies to messages they are not interested in. No point in getting stressed over it, just except it and you will be much happier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm using it as a dating site , I'm not up my own arse though because believe me it stinks

Sorry I must have been made different cos unlike most woman by poo doesn't smell of roses

It's a myth, it's a medical fact that women's poo is more smelly than men's. You have a lower bend in your colon that enables the waste to ferment a little longer before being evacuated thus the poo is smellier.

Hope no ones having lunch "

Not having lunch but still going to go bleach my brain after having read that, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the subject of politeness, it could be argued that telling people how to use the site and accusing people of being up their own arses is actually pretty rude

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"If I could be up my own arse believe me I would. I mean look at it. It's beautiful!

(((high five)))"

It's a thing of beauty Funky!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I'm using it as a dating site , I'm not up my own arse though because believe me it stinks

Sorry I must have been made different cos unlike most woman by poo doesn't smell of roses

It's a myth, it's a medical fact that women's poo is more smelly than men's. You have a lower bend in your colon that enables the waste to ferment a little longer before being evacuated thus the poo is smellier.

Hope no ones having lunch "

No - it's too early.

*have just put that huge slice of fudge cake I was having for elevensies back in the fridge though!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the subject of politeness, it could be argued that telling people how to use the site and accusing people of being up their own arses is actually pretty rude "

I just realised you got your kilt on , phoarrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm using it as a dating site , I'm not up my own arse though because believe me it stinks

Sorry I must have been made different cos unlike most woman by poo doesn't smell of roses

It's a myth, it's a medical fact that women's poo is more smelly than men's. You have a lower bend in your colon that enables the waste to ferment a little longer before being evacuated thus the poo is smellier.

Hope no ones having lunch

well that's my learnt something new for today then "

So next time someone complains about the smell you can tell them it's not your fault it's just the way you're built.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm using it as a dating site , I'm not up my own arse though because believe me it stinks

Sorry I must have been made different cos unlike most woman by poo doesn't smell of roses

It's a myth, it's a medical fact that women's poo is more smelly than men's. You have a lower bend in your colon that enables the waste to ferment a little longer before being evacuated thus the poo is smellier.

Hope no ones having lunch

No - it's too early.

*have just put that huge slice of fudge cake I was having for elevensies back in the fridge though!

A"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they judge on the cock pics they see. Don't like the look of the cock,don't reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm using it as a dating site , I'm not up my own arse though because believe me it stinks

Sorry I must have been made different cos unlike most woman by poo doesn't smell of roses

It's a myth, it's a medical fact that women's poo is more smelly than men's. You have a lower bend in your colon that enables the waste to ferment a little longer before being evacuated thus the poo is smellier.

Hope no ones having lunch

No - it's too early.

*have just put that huge slice of fudge cake I was having for elevensies back in the fridge though!

A

"

Oops, sorry. Maybe a chocolate brownie would compensate.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"If I could be up my own arse believe me I would. I mean look at it. It's beautiful!

(((high five)))

It's a thing of beauty Funky! "

Bendaroos I can always rely on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the subject of politeness, it could be argued that telling people how to use the site and accusing people of being up their own arses is actually pretty rude

I just realised you got your kilt on , phoarrr "

Ask me nicely and next time you see me I'll show you what's under it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the subject of politeness, it could be argued that telling people how to use the site and accusing people of being up their own arses is actually pretty rude

I just realised you got your kilt on , phoarrr

Ask me nicely and next time you see me I'll show you what's under it "

Now that's an offer I will be very happy to take you up on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know how anyone can possibility be serious when they use fab as a dating site....

Unless your trying to get one half of the couple for yourself.... Ur faced with a massive up hill battle...

It'd like saying I keep going dogging and I hope to find the man/woman of my dreams

For a massive % on here it's all to do with the thrill of the chase , fantisay and I bet there are some that don't really enjoy the sex part that much , and for that reason it's only and will always be a sex site x

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By *ussihunter OP   Man
over a year ago

mexborough

lol looks like iam wrong it is a dating site with looks of the messages, i thought it was a site for ppl to have fun, if ppl weant a datineg site why dont they join one , and not fancying somepone on there cock is bit shallow lol anyway thanks for all the remarks i will take it on board and start being shallow myself pmpl the ppl ive met on the social i went to and met are great so am sure more ppl like that on here , my rant is over lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know how anyone can possibility be serious when they use fab as a dating site....

Unless your trying to get one half of the couple for yourself.... Ur faced with a massive up hill battle...

It'd like saying I keep going dogging and I hope to find the man/woman of my dreams

For a massive % on here it's all to do with the thrill of the chase , fantisay and I bet there are some that don't really enjoy the sex part that much , and for that reason it's only and will always be a sex site x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know how anyone can possibility be serious when they use fab as a dating site....

Unless your trying to get one half of the couple for yourself.... Ur faced with a massive up hill battle...

It'd like saying I keep going dogging and I hope to find the man/woman of my dreams

For a massive % on here it's all to do with the thrill of the chase , fantisay and I bet there are some that don't really enjoy the sex part that much , and for that reason it's only and will always be a sex site x"

I think it's a perfect place to find someone , means I can be me and not have to worry about my past. Only thing I have found is there are some guys that think it's way below them to ever date anyone from here but hey hoo we can't all be the same and I'm enjoying the hunt

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"On the subject of politeness, it could be argued that telling people how to use the site and accusing people of being up their own arses is actually pretty rude

I just realised you got your kilt on , phoarrr

Ask me nicely and next time you see me I'll show you what's under it "

Is that an open offer?

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"It's possible to look at a profile but not appear in the 'looked at me' section. If they don't fancy you, they don't. They will know whether they do or not. People also aren't being impolite by not replying to every message, it's in the fab guidelines that no reply is a polite no. Also, if they want to use this site as a dating site there is nothing wrong with that. This is a community of swingers. It is not, as is commonly thought, a hook up site. People simply use it as such. "

Have to agree!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I'm using it as a dating site , I'm not up my own arse though because believe me it stinks

Sorry I must have been made different cos unlike most woman by poo doesn't smell of roses

It's a myth, it's a medical fact that women's poo is more smelly than men's. You have a lower bend in your colon that enables the waste to ferment a little longer before being evacuated thus the poo is smellier.

Hope no ones having lunch

No - it's too early.

*have just put that huge slice of fudge cake I was having for elevensies back in the fridge though!

A

Oops, sorry. Maybe a chocolate brownie would compensate. "

It's ok.

I found a finger of fudge under some sweetcorn!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I could be up my own arse believe me I would. I mean look at it. It's beautiful!

(((high five)))"
pmsl brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm using it as a dating site , I'm not up my own arse though because believe me it stinks

Sorry I must have been made different cos unlike most woman by poo doesn't smell of roses

It's a myth, it's a medical fact that women's poo is more smelly than men's. You have a lower bend in your colon that enables the waste to ferment a little longer before being evacuated thus the poo is smellier.

Hope no ones having lunch

No - it's too early.

*have just put that huge slice of fudge cake I was having for elevensies back in the fridge though!

A

Oops, sorry. Maybe a chocolate brownie would compensate.

It's ok.

I found a finger of fudge under some sweetcorn!

A"

Omg that's gross

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"If I could be up my own arse believe me I would. I mean look at it. It's beautiful!

(((high five)))

It's a thing of beauty Funky! "

also have to agree with this statement! !

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"If I could be up my own arse believe me I would. I mean look at it. It's beautiful!

(((high five)))pmsl brilliant "

aww come on guys.... Can you and _unky monkey please get in the squeezable derriere thread in Ireland forum. .I need a little perve to brighten my day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that isn't very polite of you is it?

There is no obligation for them to reply mate. If they aren't attracted to you, there isn't anything you can do. Coming on here won't help your cause either.

Chin up, maintain your pride and on to the next one.

P.s. My arse is sexy. I would, just saying.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"lol looks like iam wrong it is a dating site with looks of the messages, i thought it was a site for ppl to have fun, if ppl weant a datineg site why dont they join one , and not fancying somepone on there cock is bit shallow lol anyway thanks for all the remarks i will take it on board and start being shallow myself pmpl the ppl ive met on the social i went to and met are great so am sure more ppl like that on here , my rant is over lol "

Ppl are having fun... A lot are just deciding not to have fun with you!

The whole "it's not a dating site" condescending bit really annoys me because you are basically ppl you are right and they are wrong, and you know better, and using that to dictate to others

I know what site it is.... It is a site that allows ppl to use it in whatever way shape and form the please... And for whatever purpose they like!

And the beauty of the site.... If you don't agree, move onto the next profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People aren't up their own arses just coz they don't reply, they just aren't interested. No reply = not interested, get over it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I could be up my own arse believe me I would. I mean look at it. It's beautiful!

(((high five)))pmsl brilliant

aww come on guys.... Can you and _unky monkey please get in the squeezable derriere thread in Ireland forum. .I need a little perve to brighten my day "
lol am sure we are there already well I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the subject of politeness, it could be argued that telling people how to use the site and accusing people of being up their own arses is actually pretty rude

I just realised you got your kilt on , phoarrr

Ask me nicely and next time you see me I'll show you what's under it

Now that's an offer I will be very happy to take you up on "

Can I stress the term "Ask me nicely"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know how anyone can possibility be serious when they use fab as a dating site....

Unless your trying to get one half of the couple for yourself.... Ur faced with a massive up hill battle...

It'd like saying I keep going dogging and I hope to find the man/woman of my dreams

For a massive % on here it's all to do with the thrill of the chase , fantisay and I bet there are some that don't really enjoy the sex part that much , and for that reason it's only and will always be a sex site x

I think it's a perfect place to find someone , means I can be me and not have to worry about my past. Only thing I have found is there are some guys that think it's way below them to ever date anyone from here but hey hoo we can't all be the same and I'm enjoying the hunt "
......

We hunt in a pack of 2 lol and ( don't hate mr ) couples really are the only ones who truly understand and use the site as it should be and that's for swinging !!!

If not maybe rename ,,, fab. Swingers , doggers and dating site ???? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the subject of politeness, it could be argued that telling people how to use the site and accusing people of being up their own arses is actually pretty rude

I just realised you got your kilt on , phoarrr

Ask me nicely and next time you see me I'll show you what's under it

Now that's an offer I will be very happy to take you up on

Can I stress the term "Ask me nicely""

Ok I will practise my whipping skills then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know how anyone can possibility be serious when they use fab as a dating site....

Unless your trying to get one half of the couple for yourself.... Ur faced with a massive up hill battle...

It'd like saying I keep going dogging and I hope to find the man/woman of my dreams

For a massive % on here it's all to do with the thrill of the chase , fantisay and I bet there are some that don't really enjoy the sex part that much , and for that reason it's only and will always be a sex site x

I think it's a perfect place to find someone , means I can be me and not have to worry about my past. Only thing I have found is there are some guys that think it's way below them to ever date anyone from here but hey hoo we can't all be the same and I'm enjoying the hunt "

I agree

There are many couples that have met as singles on the scene, I can think of 2 or 3 couples on the forums that met on the scene.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Pops in with some FORUM INSURANCE claims forms

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I don't know how anyone can possibility be serious when they use fab as a dating site....

Unless your trying to get one half of the couple for yourself.... Ur faced with a massive up hill battle...

It'd like saying I keep going dogging and I hope to find the man/woman of my dreams

For a massive % on here it's all to do with the thrill of the chase , fantisay and I bet there are some that don't really enjoy the sex part that much , and for that reason it's only and will always be a sex site x

I think it's a perfect place to find someone , means I can be me and not have to worry about my past. Only thing I have found is there are some guys that think it's way below them to ever date anyone from here but hey hoo we can't all be the same and I'm enjoying the hunt

I agree

There are many couples that have met as singles on the scene, I can think of 2 or 3 couples on the forums that met on the scene. "

Shocking behaviour!

A

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Ah the standard mating call of the entitled, rejected man.

It's not impolite not to reply because they aren't interested. It's not being up one's own arse not to fuck you, or anyone who asks just because you think this is a sex site.

It's perfectly possible to not find someone attractive based on their profile or on cock photos. Attraction is based on who you are and how you present yourself as well as what you look like.

You can't know if someone has looked at your profile or not. There's an option to browse without showing up on the list of who has looked.

Other people can use the site however they want to.

What do you mean by "dating"? Do you mean wanting anything more than an almost immediate meet following one or two messages?

It's not dating to want to exchange some messages and get to know someone before meeting, to want a social meet first or to want more than a one off (ie a FB or FWB).

Some blokes think no strings means getting their end away with no effort. They send out a message, the woman agrees to meet without knowing anything about him, they meet and fuck.

I can understand why some want that. I can even understand how they get the wrong idea about the site and think that's how it is, or should be, here. However, sorry, it doesn't usually work like that.

People complaining about how others are rude and ignorant or how others use the site usually have unrealistic expectations and the wrong idea about the nature of the site.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I don't know how anyone can possibility be serious when they use fab as a dating site....

Unless your trying to get one half of the couple for yourself.... Ur faced with a massive up hill battle...

It'd like saying I keep going dogging and I hope to find the man/woman of my dreams

For a massive % on here it's all to do with the thrill of the chase , fantisay and I bet there are some that don't really enjoy the sex part that much , and for that reason it's only and will always be a sex site x

I think it's a perfect place to find someone , means I can be me and not have to worry about my past. Only thing I have found is there are some guys that think it's way below them to ever date anyone from here but hey hoo we can't all be the same and I'm enjoying the hunt ......

We hunt in a pack of 2 lol and ( don't hate mr ) couples really are the only ones who truly understand and use the site as it should be and that's for swinging !!!

If not maybe rename ,,, fab. Swingers , doggers and dating site ???? Xx"

Blimey so I was only a swinger when I was a couple now I've got to join a dating site.... Not many that let you ask for a threesome so looks like I'm fooked

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I don't know how anyone can possibility be serious when they use fab as a dating site....

Unless your trying to get one half of the couple for yourself.... Ur faced with a massive up hill battle...

It'd like saying I keep going dogging and I hope to find the man/woman of my dreams

For a massive % on here it's all to do with the thrill of the chase , fantisay and I bet there are some that don't really enjoy the sex part that much , and for that reason it's only and will always be a sex site x

I think it's a perfect place to find someone , means I can be me and not have to worry about my past. Only thing I have found is there are some guys that think it's way below them to ever date anyone from here but hey hoo we can't all be the same and I'm enjoying the hunt ......

We hunt in a pack of 2 lol and ( don't hate mr ) couples really are the only ones who truly understand and use the site as it should be and that's for swinging !!!

If not maybe rename ,,, fab. Swingers , doggers and dating site ???? Xx"

And yet you're looking for single women. Where would they come from, all these single men and women, for the 3somes, gang bangs and the like that these couples who use the site properly want, if the site were purely used by proper swinging couples?

Why accuse us of not using the site properly when you're actually looking for singles yourself?! We're not "proper swingers" but we'll do if you happen to want us?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"If I could be up my own arse believe me I would. I mean look at it. It's beautiful!

(((high five)))pmsl brilliant

aww come on guys.... Can you and _unky monkey please get in the squeezable derriere thread in Ireland forum. .I need a little perve to brighten my day "

I've just entered my bottom.

It hurt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol looks like iam wrong it is a dating site with looks of the messages, i thought it was a site for ppl to have fun, if ppl weant a datineg site why dont they join one , and not fancying somepone on there cock is bit shallow lol anyway thanks for all the remarks i will take it on board and start being shallow myself pmpl the ppl ive met on the social i went to and met are great so am sure more ppl like that on here , my rant is over lol "

If a cock is going in my mouth I have to find it beautiful. Call me shallow if you want

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"If I could be up my own arse believe me I would. I mean look at it. It's beautiful!

(((high five)))"

It is splendiferous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you're up your own arse if you use this as a dating site or don't reply to someone you're not interested in?? Blimey, how judgemental. I really don't care how people use this site or whether they reply to me or not, it doesn't affect my life or the way I use of this site. It would be nice if people just let others run their profiles how they wish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know how anyone can possibility be serious when they use fab as a dating site....

Unless your trying to get one half of the couple for yourself.... Ur faced with a massive up hill battle...

It'd like saying I keep going dogging and I hope to find the man/woman of my dreams

For a massive % on here it's all to do with the thrill of the chase , fantisay and I bet there are some that don't really enjoy the sex part that much , and for that reason it's only and will always be a sex site x

I think it's a perfect place to find someone , means I can be me and not have to worry about my past. Only thing I have found is there are some guys that think it's way below them to ever date anyone from here but hey hoo we can't all be the same and I'm enjoying the hunt ......

We hunt in a pack of 2 lol and ( don't hate mr ) couples really are the only ones who truly understand and use the site as it should be and that's for swinging !!!

If not maybe rename ,,, fab. Swingers , doggers and dating site ???? Xx"

You really can't say that when you're looking for single women can you. Am I a swinger if I have sex with you as a couple but not if I have sex with a single man? This is very confusing as I've never considered myself a swinger but I've had sex with mf couples. They weren't from a swinger's site though so does that mean it was just 3 somes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know how anyone can possibility be serious when they use fab as a dating site....

Unless your trying to get one half of the couple for yourself.... Ur faced with a massive up hill battle...

It'd like saying I keep going dogging and I hope to find the man/woman of my dreams

For a massive % on here it's all to do with the thrill of the chase , fantisay and I bet there are some that don't really enjoy the sex part that much , and for that reason it's only and will always be a sex site x

I think it's a perfect place to find someone , means I can be me and not have to worry about my past. Only thing I have found is there are some guys that think it's way below them to ever date anyone from here but hey hoo we can't all be the same and I'm enjoying the hunt

I agree

There are many couples that have met as singles on the scene, I can think of 2 or 3 couples on the forums that met on the scene.

Shocking behaviour!

A"

Thanks to you there is one less young attractive bi female on the site. Very poor form in my opinion!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

What a lovely ray of sunshine...I'm using this site as a dating/get my leg over site and will always be as polite as possible however there are only so many times I can respond to "hi" messages without wanting to throw my iPad out the window...it's not ignorant to not reply to messages...

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

My profile states I'm not interested in anyone with no pics or just cock pics so I expect that makes me ignorant and shallow.

I'd delete a message from you, OP, as well.

I don't believe for one second that if I were local and you fancied me, you'd read my profile and decide not to message me because you don't match what I'm looking for.

I see someone messaging a person, who has clearly stated they aren't interested in receiving a message from them, as rude.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I don't know how anyone can possibility be serious when they use fab as a dating site....

Unless your trying to get one half of the couple for yourself.... Ur faced with a massive up hill battle...

It'd like saying I keep going dogging and I hope to find the man/woman of my dreams

For a massive % on here it's all to do with the thrill of the chase , fantisay and I bet there are some that don't really enjoy the sex part that much , and for that reason it's only and will always be a sex site x

I think it's a perfect place to find someone , means I can be me and not have to worry about my past. Only thing I have found is there are some guys that think it's way below them to ever date anyone from here but hey hoo we can't all be the same and I'm enjoying the hunt "

Me too, having recently decided to look for a someone. I'm still meeting my friends and going to clubs but just being upfront (ooo er missus) about what I want.

OP, everyone is up their own arses at sometime or another. Find the right trigger and you'll see. Plus sometimes you just need to get it extra clean and shiny.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"On the subject of politeness, it could be argued that telling people how to use the site and accusing people of being up their own arses is actually pretty rude

I just realised you got your kilt on , phoarrr

Ask me nicely and next time you see me I'll show you what's under it

Now that's an offer I will be very happy to take you up on

Can I stress the term "Ask me nicely""

How much nicer can I get? I'll cover my teeth.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"If I could be up my own arse believe me I would. I mean look at it. It's beautiful!

(((high five)))"

Well you know I would!

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By *ussihunter OP   Man
over a year ago

mexborough

well all iam saying if u want a dating site then join one , and yep i understand some ppl or shallow and just go by pics i surply face pics if needed just dont choose to show on profile ,but i can assure u i dont judge ppl on pics and defo read profiles no matter how miles to long some ppls or when you read on your phone takes 20 mins lol just saying how some or here..........

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"If I could be up my own arse believe me I would. I mean look at it. It's beautiful!

(((high five)))

Well you know I would! "

What would you use? Make him wince.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well all iam saying if u want a dating site then join one , and yep i understand some ppl or shallow and just go by pics i surply face pics if needed just dont choose to show on profile ,but i can assure u i dont judge ppl on pics and defo read profiles no matter how miles to long some ppls or when you read on your phone takes 20 mins lol just saying how some or here.......... "

Dating sites are a waste of time, they're full of blokes looking for sex!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well all iam saying if u want a dating site then join one , and yep i understand some ppl or shallow and just go by pics i surply face pics if needed just dont choose to show on profile ,but i can assure u i dont judge ppl on pics and defo read profiles no matter how miles to long some ppls or when you read on your phone takes 20 mins lol just saying how some or here.......... "

I been on lots of so called dating sites and guess what ? They are full of lying cheating guys who don't want to date just want to fuck. So here I am and here I'm staying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the subject of politeness, it could be argued that telling people how to use the site and accusing people of being up their own arses is actually pretty rude

I just realised you got your kilt on , phoarrr

Ask me nicely and next time you see me I'll show you what's under it

Now that's an offer I will be very happy to take you up on

Can I stress the term "Ask me nicely"

How much nicer can I get? I'll cover my teeth. "

Don't you start as well, what with you Bendaroos and Moody I'm beginning to feel like a piece of meat here purely for your sexual gratification!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the subject of politeness, it could be argued that telling people how to use the site and accusing people of being up their own arses is actually pretty rude

I just realised you got your kilt on , phoarrr

Ask me nicely and next time you see me I'll show you what's under it

Now that's an offer I will be very happy to take you up on

Can I stress the term "Ask me nicely"

How much nicer can I get? I'll cover my teeth.

Don't you start as well, what with you Bendaroos and Moody I'm beginning to feel like a piece of meat here purely for your sexual gratification! "

Yay it's working

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"On the subject of politeness, it could be argued that telling people how to use the site and accusing people of being up their own arses is actually pretty rude

I just realised you got your kilt on , phoarrr

Ask me nicely and next time you see me I'll show you what's under it

Now that's an offer I will be very happy to take you up on

Can I stress the term "Ask me nicely"

How much nicer can I get? I'll cover my teeth.

Don't you start as well, what with you Bendaroos and Moody I'm beginning to feel like a piece of meat here purely for your sexual gratification! "

So would you prefer the four of us together or as three separate encounters?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"well all iam saying if u want a dating site then join one , and yep i understand some ppl or shallow and just go by pics i surply face pics if needed just dont choose to show on profile ,but i can assure u i dont judge ppl on pics and defo read profiles no matter how miles to long some ppls or when you read on your phone takes 20 mins lol just saying how some or here.......... "

Why join a dating site though, those looking to date on here are not causing any harm unless they are bunny boilers or stalkers etc...I have come across far less weirdos on here than I have on well known dating sites and half the men are on here anyway....I have had far more dates on here than on dating sites so why would I want to fix something that isn't broke...I can be myself on here and I'm completely up front and honest with what I want and it's clear on my profile as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i know this topic is a well used one but ive noticed more and more ppl are useing this site as a dating site, and just being very ignorant when your just being polite,why are some ppl so ignorant on here and just delete when your not being nasty or dirty, being polite doesnt hurt anyone , then the quote i dont fancy u when they dont look at your profile or even seen u is another , STOP BEING UP YOUR OWN ARSES AND BE POLITE , i know biggest part on here are not like that to them i aploigize to for this rant thanks for listning lol feel better now ha ha "

Maybe just maybe your polite is taken as rude/aggressive/unplesent to others. People rarely see their own faults after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm using it as a dating site , I'm not up my own arse though because believe me it stinks

Sorry I must have been made different cos unlike most woman by poo doesn't smell of roses "

Welcome back - even if your poo does stink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well all iam saying if u want a dating site then join one , and yep i understand some ppl or shallow and just go by pics i surply face pics if needed just dont choose to show on profile ,but i can assure u i dont judge ppl on pics and defo read profiles no matter how miles to long some ppls or when you read on your phone takes 20 mins lol just saying how some or here.......... "

What if you want to date a swinger? Which site would you find like minded people to date? Oh yeh fab swingers!

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