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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

... but here goes - what is love ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

acceptance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love is blind.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

According to Ronan....its a roller coaster!

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

I don't know but if you find it can I have some please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lending a hand when there's no toilet paper to hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Giving Her your last Rolo

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love is more about action, we feel deep affection for someone but as we are human and fallible and the only constant is change, how we act toward someone we supposedly love is the key.

For instance: Someone we love does something that annoys us, a lover will listen and hopefully compromise.

Love is a complex of mixed emotions though ultimately love is blind which is why it hurts so much yet can be the most euphoric experience all in ten seconds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"According to Ronan....its a roller coaster! "

Don't quote me on this but I think it was life?

But I think it is a roller coaster, if it's all plain sailing then that would just be boring right?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

It's a song by haddaway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going for a poo at their house rather than waiting til you get home! If that isn't love then I don't know what is!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bringing me my favourite takeout when I've had a long stressful day

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By *njamesMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Didn't Haddaway ask the same question? I wonder if he ever got an answer....

I guess it's accepting someone unconditionally and wanting to be with them through the good and the bad.

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By *njamesMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"bringing me my favourite takeout when I've had a long stressful day "

Is that a request?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love is patient and forgiving,

It comes from deep within.

Love is tough and truthful,

Refuses to fade and won't give in.

Love is unconditional, open to all

a whole hearted commitment,

To be there when others fall

Love can sometimes be romantic

Aimed at a special few

Love can be extremely erotic

and deeply passionate too

Love is the energy

that makes our life worthwhile,

Love of self keeps us going

through each and every trial

Love is a precious gift, freely given to everyone.

It's what binds people together,

and reminding us that we are one.

Too often I find that I forget,

That it's there for me too.

And today and everday from now

I pray it's there for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love is not a thing, it is a verb. Says John Mayer and Raymond agrees.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love is when you get no points in a tennis game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bringing me my favourite takeout when I've had a long stressful day "

Chinese or Indian...just let me know...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The indescribable feeling when I think of my two children.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love is a drug that I'm thinking of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The indescribable feeling when I think of my two children."

Always x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Its unconditional, its warmth and contentment with another person. It should also be very simple.

"The aim if love is to love, nothing else, nothing less"

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

How about when someone sees the funny side when you Dutch Oven them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about when someone sees the funny side when you Dutch Oven them? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The indescribable feeling when I think of my two children."

lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its unconditional, its warmth and contentment with another person. It should also be very simple.

"The aim if love is to love, nothing else, nothing less""

yep I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bringing me my favourite takeout when I've had a long stressful day

Is that a request? "

no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love is patient and forgiving,

It comes from deep within.

Love is tough and truthful,

Refuses to fade and won't give in.

Love is unconditional, open to all

a whole hearted commitment,

To be there when others fall

Love can sometimes be romantic

Aimed at a special few

Love can be extremely erotic

and deeply passionate too

Love is the energy

that makes our life worthwhile,

Love of self keeps us going

through each and every trial

Love is a precious gift, freely given to everyone.

It's what binds people together,

and reminding us that we are one.

Too often I find that I forget,

That it's there for me too.

And today and everday from now

I pray it's there for you.

That is LOVEly

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bringing me my favourite takeout when I've had a long stressful day

Chinese or Indian...just let me know..."

Indian of course Lamb Balti, Boiled Rice and Peshwari naan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bringing me my favourite takeout when I've had a long stressful day

Chinese or Indian...just let me know...

Indian of course Lamb Balti, Boiled Rice and Peshwari naan "

Ordered....now to deliver...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love is patient and forgiving,

It comes from deep within.

Love is tough and truthful,

Refuses to fade and won't give in.

Love is unconditional, open to all

a whole hearted commitment,

To be there when others fall

Love can sometimes be romantic

Aimed at a special few

Love can be extremely erotic

and deeply passionate too

Love is the energy

that makes our life worthwhile,

Love of self keeps us going

through each and every trial

Love is a precious gift, freely given to everyone.

It's what binds people together,

and reminding us that we are one.

Too often I find that I forget,

That it's there for me too.

And today and everday from now

I pray it's there for you.

That is LOVEly

"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about when someone sees the funny side when you Dutch Oven them? "

Love is them dragging your head under too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a chemical reaction.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Love is not a thing, it is a verb. Says John Mayer and Raymond agrees. "

Damn you beat me to it - I was gonna quote that, great lyric!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Love is more about action, we feel deep affection for someone but as we are human and fallible and the only constant is change, how we act toward someone we supposedly love is the key.

For instance: Someone we love does something that annoys us, a lover will listen and hopefully compromise.

Love is a complex of mixed emotions though ultimately love is blind which is why it hurts so much yet can be the most euphoric experience all in ten seconds

"

Yup, and that's why I was going to quote John Mayers song title!! People may flatter with words, but their actions reveal the truth.

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By *rincealbertxMan
over a year ago

Germany

What's love...got to do, got to do with it? What's love but a second hand emotion?

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By *njamesMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"Love is more about action, we feel deep affection for someone but as we are human and fallible and the only constant is change, how we act toward someone we supposedly love is the key.

For instance: Someone we love does something that annoys us, a lover will listen and hopefully compromise.

Love is a complex of mixed emotions though ultimately love is blind which is why it hurts so much yet can be the most euphoric experience all in ten seconds

Yup, and that's why I was going to quote John Mayers song title!! People may flatter with words, but their actions reveal the truth."

So very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love is more about action, we feel deep affection for someone but as we are human and fallible and the only constant is change, how we act toward someone we supposedly love is the key.

For instance: Someone we love does something that annoys us, a lover will listen and hopefully compromise.

Love is a complex of mixed emotions though ultimately love is blind which is why it hurts so much yet can be the most euphoric experience all in ten seconds

Yup, and that's why I was going to quote John Mayers song title!! People may flatter with words, but their actions reveal the truth."

just found this lesson out... I've just recently split from someone who knew exactly the right words to say and told me everyday he loved me...Saying the words was not enough; on more then one occasion i was shown just how little he really thought of me by his actions.. I honestly believe he did love me in his own way but not in love... There's a big difference between loving someone and being in love with someone

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Love is more about action, we feel deep affection for someone but as we are human and fallible and the only constant is change, how we act toward someone we supposedly love is the key.

For instance: Someone we love does something that annoys us, a lover will listen and hopefully compromise.

Love is a complex of mixed emotions though ultimately love is blind which is why it hurts so much yet can be the most euphoric experience all in ten seconds

Yup, and that's why I was going to quote John Mayers song title!! People may flatter with words, but their actions reveal the truth.

just found this lesson out... I've just recently split from someone who knew exactly the right words to say and told me everyday he loved me...Saying the words was not enough; on more then one occasion i was shown just how little he really thought of me by his actions.. I honestly believe he did love me in his own way but not in love... There's a big difference between loving someone and being in love with someone "

Yup, I wasted a bunch of years being loyal to someone who talked the talk but did not really walk the walk.

I know better now.

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract


"Love is more about action, we feel deep affection for someone but as we are human and fallible and the only constant is change, how we act toward someone we supposedly love is the key.

For instance: Someone we love does something that annoys us, a lover will listen and hopefully compromise.

Love is a complex of mixed emotions though ultimately love is blind which is why it hurts so much yet can be the most euphoric experience all in ten seconds

Yup, and that's why I was going to quote John Mayers song title!! People may flatter with words, but their actions reveal the truth.

just found this lesson out... I've just recently split from someone who knew exactly the right words to say and told me everyday he loved me...Saying the words was not enough; on more then one occasion i was shown just how little he really thought of me by his actions.. I honestly believe he did love me in his own way but not in love... There's a big difference between loving someone and being in love with someone "
sorry to hear that but after going through something similar i dont know what love is any more not when someone can destroy you by a single action or a few words so i not believe in love now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love is patient and forgiving,

It comes from deep within.

Love is tough and truthful,

Refuses to fade and won't give in.

Love is unconditional, open to all

a whole hearted commitment,

To be there when others fall

Love can sometimes be romantic

Aimed at a special few

Love can be extremely erotic

and deeply passionate too

Love is the energy

that makes our life worthwhile,

Love of self keeps us going

through each and every trial

Love is a precious gift, freely given to everyone.

It's what binds people together,

and reminding us that we are one.

Too often I find that I forget,

That it's there for me too.

And today and everday from now

I pray it's there for you.

"

Ahhhh soppy git

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Ahhhh soppy git "

Yep I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love is more about action, we feel deep affection for someone but as we are human and fallible and the only constant is change, how we act toward someone we supposedly love is the key.

For instance: Someone we love does something that annoys us, a lover will listen and hopefully compromise.

Love is a complex of mixed emotions though ultimately love is blind which is why it hurts so much yet can be the most euphoric experience all in ten seconds

Yup, and that's why I was going to quote John Mayers song title!! People may flatter with words, but their actions reveal the truth.

just found this lesson out... I've just recently split from someone who knew exactly the right words to say and told me everyday he loved me...Saying the words was not enough; on more then one occasion i was shown just how little he really thought of me by his actions.. I honestly believe he did love me in his own way but not in love... There's a big difference between loving someone and being in love with someone sorry to hear that but after going through something similar i dont know what love is any more not when someone can destroy you by a single action or a few words so i not believe in love now "

that's their problem not yours.. I didn't know i could love someone so much until my last relationship.. Just because he didn't feel the same does not mean that love doesn't exist... It may have been one sided on both our accounts but it doesn't mean you should give up believing... If you can love the wrong person so much, just imagine how much you could love the right person when they come around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not caring if they leave the seat up or the top off the toothpaste. Happy to wake up with them every day,no matter what they do to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not caring if they leave the seat up or the top off the toothpaste. Happy to wake up with them every day,no matter what they do to you "

that's tolerance.. Did that for over 14 years of my marriage

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


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that's their problem not yours.. I didn't know i could love someone so much until my last relationship.. Just because he didn't feel the same does not mean that love doesn't exist... It may have been one sided on both our accounts but it doesn't mean you should give up believing... If you can love the wrong person so much, just imagine how much you could love the right person when they come around "

Yup. What didn't kill me did in some ways make me stronger, and hopefully wiser. More cautious maybe, but hopefully no less courageous. I guess being a yeehaw helps, I am a risk taker by nature.

One thing I have realised is that loving is as important as being loved. Love really is the most precious commodity on earth in my opinion, it must never be wasted.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

There are so many kinds of love.

The deep, unconditional acceptance of the whole person knowing it is safe to challenge them and for them to challenge you. Their actions and behaviours. Their honesty not being wrapped up in malice. Seeing their beauty and them seeing yours. Being silent together and feeling you have had more communication than if you had been speaking all night. Speaking all night and not being bored with any of the conversation. It's when you can tell them to shut up because they are talking nonsense. Looking at them and feeling your body and soul drawn to them. Seeing something and knowing they would want to see it too. Making love not just sex. Enjoying the feel of their body and wanting it again.

That's the sexual, romantic in-love for me.

A lot of that without the body bits and a few other things is the love I feel for the kids, the family I love and my friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me...no more. WHAT IS LOVE

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"There are so many kinds of love.

The deep, unconditional acceptance of the whole person knowing it is safe to challenge them and for them to challenge you. Their actions and behaviours. Their honesty not being wrapped up in malice. Seeing their beauty and them seeing yours. Being silent together and feeling you have had more communication than if you had been speaking all night. Speaking all night and not being bored with any of the conversation. It's when you can tell them to shut up because they are talking nonsense. Looking at them and feeling your body and soul drawn to them. Seeing something and knowing they would want to see it too. Making love not just sex. Enjoying the feel of their body and wanting it again.

That's the sexual, romantic in-love for me.

A lot of that without the body bits and a few other things is the love I feel for the kids, the family I love and my friends.

"

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are so many kinds of love.

The deep, unconditional acceptance of the whole person knowing it is safe to challenge them and for them to challenge you. Their actions and behaviours. Their honesty not being wrapped up in malice. Seeing their beauty and them seeing yours. Being silent together and feeling you have had more communication than if you had been speaking all night. Speaking all night and not being bored with any of the conversation. It's when you can tell them to shut up because they are talking nonsense. Looking at them and feeling your body and soul drawn to them. Seeing something and knowing they would want to see it too. Making love not just sex. Enjoying the feel of their body and wanting it again.

That's the sexual, romantic in-love for me.

A lot of that without the body bits and a few other things is the love I feel for the kids, the family I love and my friends.

"

Love that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it exist?

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

It's like a box of chocolates...

Ooops, sorry - that's life... never mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it exist?

"

As a felt experience what I call love I know exists. I feel it every day, frequently throughout the day

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"... but here goes - what is love ?"

Love is not love which alters when it alteration finds... W. Shakespeare

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"... but here goes - what is love ?"

It has also been suggested by some scientists that, in humans, love is an evolutionary impulse .... It binds people together, often for long enough to produce offspring. If love fails after that, our genes have still been passed on and the furtherance of the species is assured.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... but here goes - what is love ?

It has also been suggested by some scientists that, in humans, love is an evolutionary impulse .... It binds people together, often for long enough to produce offspring. If love fails after that, our genes have still been passed on and the furtherance of the species is assured."

I like the Shakespeare quote but don't concur with that notion of love at all

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"Going for a poo at their house rather than waiting til you get home! If that isn't love then I don't know what is!!! "

I have a friend who loves me and I love him. He is like family. However, he is OCD and can't poo at someone else's house. So he goes home to poo and then comes back!

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"... but here goes - what is love ?

It has also been suggested by some scientists that, in humans, love is an evolutionary impulse .... It binds people together, often for long enough to produce offspring. If love fails after that, our genes have still been passed on and the furtherance of the species is assured.

I like the Shakespeare quote but don't concur with that notion of love at all "

Given that love is such a complex emotion, I kind of concur with both.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

After a couple of long term relationships ended where I truly was in love, the feeling of absolute emptiness and despair took me a heck of a long time to recover from. So is it really better to have loved and lost, than to never to have loved at all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After a couple of long term relationships ended where I truly was in love, the feeling of absolute emptiness and despair took me a heck of a long time to recover from. So is it really better to have loved and lost, than to never to have loved at all? "

Yes I feel more alive when I'm in love than any other time. The pain of a love lost lets me know I'm alive too. However I recover quickly emotionally but feel deeply. I don't think I've ever felt absolute emptiness and despair though, or if I have it has been fleeting while I balled my eyes out and bashed a few pillows to a pulp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... but here goes - what is love ?

It has also been suggested by some scientists that, in humans, love is an evolutionary impulse .... It binds people together, often for long enough to produce offspring. If love fails after that, our genes have still been passed on and the furtherance of the species is assured.

I like the Shakespeare quote but don't concur with that notion of love at all

Given that love is such a complex emotion, I kind of concur with both."

lol who knows really...the only things I trust are my feelings, the way I make sense of them is always up for challenge

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Yeah, I suppose it's the "no pain, no gain" scenario but in reverse

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

*sticks on a well known Bob Marley song

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, I suppose it's the "no pain, no gain" scenario but in reverse "

Say more...not sure I understand

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

LOVE .... Is a many splendid ting!!!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Does it exist?

"

Yes and it's better than chocolate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is

Baby don't hurt me.... Don't hurt me anymore

Flip I've now got that song going round in my head

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Yes thanks! You've just given me an ear worm!

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By *3rial Thr1LL3rMan
over a year ago

aberdeenshire

We are young, heartache to heartache we stand, no promises no demands.....love is a battlefield

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