FabSwingers.com forum: What does success look like to you?

By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

The house? The car? The job? Or something else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting _emmefatale would be a huge success

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It looks like someone who is content.

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Meeting _emmefatale would be a huge success

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A _emmefatale would be better.

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"It looks like someone who is content."
Smiley people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meeting _emmefatale would be a huge success

With you there mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happiness.

crystal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Success is a person who sees the best in others...live and let live

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meeting _emmefatale would be a huge success

A _emmefatale would be better.

Is there a difference?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"It looks like someone who is content.Smiley people?"

Possibly. Do you mean financial success? I think of success as achieving a lifestyle that makes you content and that often isn't something you can see immediately I suppose.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Material possessions may be the sign of financial success but for me, success is being happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It will NEVER be owning 10 Ferrari's or having a fucking Penthouse next to Buckingham Palace...

Success to me is defined as NOT being a sad, shitty excuse for a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look like?

Someone with the kind of nonchalance that smacks of them being impervious to the system.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Laughter

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A sexy smile nice teeth and someone who is in control of his/her own destination and is happy with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A happy smile.

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By *omMLMan
over a year ago

The Centre of the Universe

"It looks like someone who is content."

Yep that does it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sort of like a diaphanous pink marshmallow with a rainbow running through it.

but then I am on pain meds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Contentment.

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The definition of Succeeds :

A toothless Budgie

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"sort of like a diaphanous pink marshmallow with a rainbow running through it.

but then I am on pain meds."
Sounds good to me!

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

to be loved

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By *ust MonicaWoman
over a year ago

CAMBRIDGESHIRE

"Success is a person who sees the best in others...live and let live "

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By *uppy ConquerorMan
over a year ago

dundee

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hI41AN5-45U

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

I'd like to meet a man with 10 Ferrari's and a penthouse near buck house and a very serious heart condition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll disagree completely but I know it's not shared. Fancy car nice house amazing teeth. That's success to me and it's something I strive to. I may be never happy but that's my success bar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing my kids grow and be content with life

And being there in my last moments thinking "I did ok

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By *ust MonicaWoman
over a year ago

CAMBRIDGESHIRE

"to be loved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm never going to be rich, but i have a job i love, enough money in the bank, a home and three healthy children, i think I've been successful

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

I like Napoleon Hill's definition "The progressive realisation of a worthy ideal or goal"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i could meet and bend femme (wishes) -

or the inner peace that shows on someones face when they are happy with life and themselves - dont think i have ever truly had that

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

There is an article about sucess. Basically it states if you have touched someone in a way that has enriched thier life, you have succeeded.

It is not always about cars, money or items.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Success is a person who sees the best in others...live and let live

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...... When I'm having a conversation with my sons late at night and that look they give me , of being proud of there dad !!!! Over4 months without a drink xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seeing my kids grow and be content with life

And being there in my last moments thinking "I did ok

You've nailed it!!

That's beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely success is when you achieve what you set out to do

that could be anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Success is a person who sees the best in others...live and let live

...... When I'm having a conversation with my sons late at night and that look they give me , of being proud of there dad !!!! Over4 months without a drink xx

one day at a time - keep going

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Success is a person who sees the best in others...live and let live

...... When I'm having a conversation with my sons late at night and that look they give me , of being proud of there dad !!!! Over4 months without a drink xx

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Good for you, well done.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Success in my eyes is the day I have children and have settled now...however my biggest success is still being alive...the amount of shit that has come my way I really should be dead...but I'm not....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Success is a person who sees the best in others...live and let live "

ha not on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Success in my eyes is the day I have children and have settled now...however my biggest success is still being alive...the amount of shit that has come my way I really should be dead...but I'm not....

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lay on the couch and let all out ,I'll sit here and stroke my beard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Success is a person who sees the best in others...live and let live

...... When I'm having a conversation with my sons late at night and that look they give me , of being proud of there dad !!!! Over4 months without a drink xx

one day at a time - keep going"
........ Thanx xx

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Success is a person who sees the best in others...live and let live

...... When I'm having a conversation with my sons late at night and that look they give me , of being proud of there dad !!!! Over4 months without a drink xx

Good for you, well done."
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...... Thanx again xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Success, for me, is seeing a lot of good things happening around you and knowing that you were an integral part of making that all happen

If you see a lot of good things happening around you and yet you feel they would've just as easily happened without you being there... that's not success.

I've been there and done the second scenario... pushed the eject button... and now I'm trying to see if I can get to the first scenario.

Success is something you have to own... a pride that comes from within.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy life for me and my family

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Large pasture visible from my kitchen with several four legged ornaments in it!

Happiness is a bit different, but would hopefully include the former......

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By *xpresMan
over a year ago

Elland

Austin Martin Vanquish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what it doesn't look like and That's Louis Van Gaal

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Contentment with life,happy with who and what you are, and someone who realises just how rich they are without the worry of whats in the bank ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

success can turn sour though and im betting many wish they hadnt had it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could never equate success with materialism or popularity.

Success is the contentment of liking who you are, the knowledge that you generally touch people's lives in a positive way and the belief that as you breathe your last you can reflect that ot was a fun and challenging but most importantly rewarding abd entertaining journey.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Setting yourself goals; be they to raise your kids well, to get qualified in something or to travel the world, and then achieving them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To feel I've fulfilled my purpose.

To live my final years to the full,

to love others and especially those close to me, with all my heart.

To laugh frequently and help others to laugh too,

To learn continually and help others to learn too

To leave a legacy, even if that is simply that my son, and any other children I may have, have the conditions created and the love needed, to enable them to have the best chance of fulfilling their purpose too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching the body of my enemy float by in the river.

Sun Tzu

To crush your enemies, see them driven before you and to hear the lamentation of their women.

Conan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Success for me is seeing my children have grown into people I am proud of. Who fit comfortably into society and have the confidence to speak up when they should and the wisdom to realise when to keep their thoughts to themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aww! *hug!*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It will NEVER be owning 10 Ferrari's or having a fucking Penthouse next to Buckingham Palace...

Success to me is defined as NOT being a sad, shitty excuse for a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Success for me is to shag loads of women, to reach my yearly fuck quotas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Success for me is to shag loads of women, to reach my yearly fuck quotas

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"It looks like someone who is content."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something completely different to cars, homes and careers. Life experience to the fullest it could possibly be would matter more.

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By *UFC9Man
over a year ago

Whitley Bay & Tamworth

As Coco Chanel once said "Less is more!"

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By *ack Genuine BullMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

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By *ack Genuine BullMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

SUCCESS IS.................

"repated failures without loss of enthusism"

Winston Churchill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not noticing the price on the Menu.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Driving my X5 and not bothering about the price of Petrol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quit my job 4 months ago'ish, it's the most liberating thing I've ever fucking done but simultaneously scary too.

Thing is when most people give up their jobs, they BLINDLY go and follow their dreams simply because someone said to them go on "Follow your dreams".

Whilst that is totally cool and everybody absolutely SHOULD in fact follow their dreams, it does however PAY to step back and consider whether or not your dreams are fucking stupid or not.

Most people fall off the proverbial bandwagon not because they had dreams, but because the dream/success model they started with was fucking stupid/unrealistic in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“Be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never, ever have enough”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although I've had success financially through my business

Success to me means being happy with who you are and not what you would like to be

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