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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Get rid of your dog, or whatever much loved pet you have in order to further a relationship with someone who does not like your pet?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Probably not.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Nope.

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

no,i have had this problem and im afraid the dog won out,he is a problem dog and I couldn't rehome him if I wanted to

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just so you know my answer is not a chance in hell would i rehome my dogs for any man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having lost out to a dog, i'm not sure i should be posting here.

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By *B4everCouple
over a year ago

Erdington

Not a chance. Wouldn't even consider or entertain the idea

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By *omMLMan
over a year ago

The Centre of the Universe

No, if they loved you they would accept your pet is a major part if your life. If not you should tell them to jog on.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Not a snowball in hells chance

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Not a chance in Hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's always piriton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get rid of your dog, or whatever much loved pet you have in order to further a relationship with someone who does not like your pet?"

One word............NO

i dont have a pet at this time but if i did....no way would i get rid of for the sake of someone else.

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

No way dogs are for life not just when it suits anyone, find someone who does like dogs simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pets are like mini-people, it'd be like giving your baby away after it had gotten to know you.

I have a friend who was stupid enough to give their dog away because they wanted to get a cat instead. Two weeks later, the dog was hit by a car and killed. They regretted that alot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *B4everCouple
over a year ago

Erdington

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get rid of your dog, or whatever much loved pet you have in order to further a relationship with someone who does not like your pet?"

no never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, pets are part of my family and they come first over any man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but would keep the meets casual lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

I am ok i don't have any pets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If my cat doesn't like my "friends" they're out the door anyway!

That animal knows a bad un when she smells one, and she's not been wrong yet..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not a chance- anyway, the cats the boss, i'm just the staff

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

No chance.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Just that they don't like the dog? Then no, if there are more deep rooted problems that were added to the mix then that may be different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hell no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. they would be out the door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get rid of your dog, or whatever much loved pet you have in order to further a relationship with someone who does not like your pet?"

If the dog got nasty and attacked I might it depends on the provocation if any.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just that they don't like the dog? Then no, if there are more deep rooted problems that were added to the mix then that may be different."

my brother has been seeing a woman for a while now, its getting difficult for them as she wont go to his house as she don't like dogs so refuses to go, but its hard for him to go to hers as he cant leave the dog, she wants him to stay over night etc and moans when he leaves to go back to the dog, she has suggested he got rid of the dog but he wont, and she finds it really odd he would put the dog before their relationship, he's been round today for a moan, he says he cant see the relationship going anywhere because of this, i feel bad for him but i have to be honest i wouldn't leave my dogs alone while i stayed at a partners house or rehome them either, he said everyone keeps telling him to just get rid of dog like its a normal thing to do but i don't think getting rid of a pet when it don't fit into your lifestyle anymore is normal

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Just that they don't like the dog? Then no, if there are more deep rooted problems that were added to the mix then that may be different.

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Well that I can totally understand, I was thinking more along the lines of not liking strangers, biting etc...

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By *ewexperience83Couple
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

No I wouldn't I love my dog to bits her names Margo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just that they don't like the dog? Then no, if there are more deep rooted problems that were added to the mix then that may be different.

Well that I can totally understand, I was thinking more along the lines of not liking strangers, biting etc...

Can just see it now, hundreds of profile rewrites by women.

I dont bite (and the twee bit, unless you ask me to) but my dog might. (Grrrrr)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just that they don't like the dog? Then no, if there are more deep rooted problems that were added to the mix then that may be different.

He has to dump the woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope love me love my animals i'm afraid. Hubby has to take antihistamine because he's allergic xxx Now that's love for you

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

Defo YES ,

Come on every thread has to have someone to say the opposite no matter what the case subject may be ........

And I might even get snotty over it after a few messages saying I'm totally wrong ......

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

No fupping way

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

what if it was a snake? I would struggle to live in a house with a snake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way. She is my mate for life. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No way. She is my mate for life. X"

Has she got kids?

if so, get your bro to tell her he'll loose the dog if she ditches the rug rats- see what her reaction is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way!!

Why would you want to be someone who's idea of a relationship is give up the pet you love?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no.

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By *heOwlMan
over a year ago

Altrincham

Don't have any pets at the moment, but if I did, then there is no way I would even consider getting rid of them for some relationship. Rather the oposite, if anyone asked me to do so they would find the relationship coming to a swift end, cause to even ask indicates that they really don't know or want to now me at all.

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

no way my pals are my life now i.d rather

stay single than give them up no man on this earth is worth the loss of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i could teach my dog to iron my shirts i wouldnt need a woman

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No they would be gone.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get rid of your dog, or whatever much loved pet you have in order to further a relationship with someone who does not like your pet?"

Can't believe that's been said!!! Xxx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Love me love my cats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I wouldn't give it a second thought, I've heard so much about a pet for life but realistically it's probably 10 - 15 yr if that. Your potential partner could be your soul mate and last actually 80-90 yr and actually the rest of your life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I wouldn't give it a second thought, I've heard so much about a pet for life but realistically it's probably 10 - 15 yr if that. Your potential partner could be your soul mate and last actually 80-90 yr and actually the rest of your life."

Your potential partner could be your soul mate.. or it could only last a few months and you've thrown away unconditional love?

Some parrots and tortoises can live for 50+ years.. a lot longer than the majority of relationships..

I'll stick with the pets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what your saying, I've been divorced twice but both lasted 15yr. I guess I'm a romantic and would always take a chance on true love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get rid of your dog, or whatever much loved pet you have in order to further a relationship with someone who does not like your pet?"

not a fucking chance,,no way,,strange question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

No fucking way. My snake stays!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and I don't even have a dog!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way, never.

Love me, love my dogs,if you don't

Bye bye

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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire/Midlands

"Just that they don't like the dog? Then no, if there are more deep rooted problems that were added to the mix then that may be different.

In that situation - no. He needs to man up and tell her that they'll either continue with the relationship with the dog, or not. After all, they started going out in the beginning with her knowing he had a dog? Unless the dog is aggressive towards her, that maybe a different story, but if he gets rid of the dog and then the relationship ends, then he'll regret it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recently divorced in December and moved back to Glasgow and had to leave the dog, I was utterly devastated and think more about him than the ex wife

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By *hrissie1961Woman
over a year ago

dumfries and galloway

A dog is for life.

I never understand people who can just discard a pet on a whim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. they would be out the door "

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Nope, wouldn't give up a pet for a new relationship....... but there have been days where I would happily re-home my husband for a kitten, a ginger 1 would be nice

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Not at all, I would just hide them.

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By *rincealbertxMan
over a year ago

Germany

Nope! My beautiful pug is the only reason someone may like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance he is my little mate

no way I would get rid of him for anyone else!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my dog is family,its like asking to get rid of a child ffs

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

No chance. Not in a million years. Love me? Love everything that goes with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance, I wouldn't change anything I had or did before I met them, they knew about it before the relation developed, like it or piss off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No chance. Not in a million years. Love me? Love everything that goes with me.

I thought you were about to go all Cat Stevens on us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Under the circumstances for the OP's brother, then no. If, however, my partner or child developed a severe allergy that would be a different story entirely.

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

No way on earth would we part with our Springer "Rosie", we love her to bits and neither man nor beast would seperate us, EVER

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By *B4everCouple
over a year ago

Erdington

"No chance. Not in a million years. Love me? Love everything that goes with me.

I thought you were about to go all Cat Stevens on us. "

I love my dog, as much as I love you.

But You may fade, my dog will always come through.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No chance. Not in a million years. Love me? Love everything that goes with me.

I thought you were about to go all Cat Stevens on us.

I love my dog, as much as I love you.

But You may fade, my dog will always come through.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Somebody who truly thought you were "the one", would not expect you to do this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A humans feelings is more important I find it incredible people would put a partners feelings second to an animal. If someone really loved someone who had issues with a pet they wouldn't put them under that strain they would make the decision first and re-home the pet in a happy environment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A dog/cat isn't there all 'your' life but he/she is there all of his/her life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A humans feelings is more important I find it incredible people would put a partners feelings second to an animal. If someone really loved someone who had issues with a pet they wouldn't put them under that strain they would make the decision first and re-home the pet in a happy environment. "

i can only speak for me personally but a relationship where i had to rehome my dogs for a partner would never work, i would resent them and end up leaving them so it would make more sense for me to end the relationship and keep my dogs

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By *hris148Man
over a year ago

Absolutely not!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose this shows your not entirely in love with the new person in your life.

To me if i found my idesl match a dog cat budgie or goldfish wouldnt come between us and if a person i was about to consider spending my life with had issues deciding between me and a pet then the answer lies therein.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I don't have my dog any more but I can't even begin to imagine parting with him to make way for a bloke. It just wouldn't happen.

There would be no strain because I'd guess I'd know pretty quickly into a relationship if there was a problem. My dog would come first without question. It's not incredible, it's just how it is.

Have you ever had a dog? /curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possibly but what would be next to be dumped? I dont think its all about the pet its deeper and is about expecting someone to change their life to fit round someone else. I adore my dog and no, wouldnt give her up for a potential relationship however, I am sensible about it to the point where I do regard her as a dog, not a mini person...she is an animal that I have chosen to love and be responsible for and is now a big part of my daily life. To expect someone to give that up simply because you dont like dogs is a tad selfish in my book. I think if the g/f had any thought for him then she would make an effort to get to know the dog and build up a relationship with it...many who 'dont like dogs/cats etc' say this without ever knowing what it is to own one.

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over a year ago

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

No.

I think it is callous for anyone to suggest it just because they don't like them, maybe they should have thought about that at the beginning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree, how can they claim to love you if they asked you to do that?? Surely they would already know the answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose like any and every question raised in the forums the right answer lies with the OP.

Whatever you decide to do its right for you. You will get some very strong opinions but these opinions are only relevant to the individual making them.

If your pet is so important then obviously its no to the new person another person will come along as will another pet. Just dont confuse the 2 or the police will take an interest lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a prayer! Dogs are nicer than 75% of the people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my guinea pig

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would certainly back those saying no here!

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Get rid of your dog, or whatever much loved pet you have in order to further a relationship with someone who does not like your pet?"

keep the dog ... sell the wife,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no not a chance!! my dog was my hairy child...... and came before anything and anyone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no not a chance!! my dog was my hairy child...... and came before anything and anyone x

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