FabSwingers.com forum: totally shocked

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have just been totally shocked and amazed by some people on here in relation to verifications. I posted a new veri on my profile which meant I was showing 4, the messages I then got from 6 people were really derogatory and nasty.

I just can't understand why.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

because some people love to stick their nose into other people's business.....

it is the same outside of swinging, this world is no different.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have just been totally shocked and amazed by some people on here in relation to verifications. I posted a new veri on my profile which meant I was showing 4, the messages I then got from 6 people were really derogatory and nasty.

I just can't understand why. "

I've since hidden them

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Just ignore, people will always have their own opinions of others...as long as YOU are having fun don't give a fuck what others think, especially strangers on the internet...

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I just can't understand why.

I've since hidden them "

more fool you... be true to yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just can't understand why.

I've since hidden them "

I didn't realise that swinging sites had an appropriate 'quota' for meets. people are ridiculous sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report the people and block them, they're idiots.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

As for hiding verifications that's your choice but to hide them on back of a few nasty messages...stick 2 fingers up at them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blooming heck I'm not ever going to show my hidden ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only hide the nice ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just can't understand why. "

Nor can I bro!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're Just bitter, jealous and insecure haters.

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

Dont hde yur veri;s becaus eof other peoples narrow mindedness. Show your veri's and be proud hun xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Obviously people like me who show a few more than four make them so apoplectic with rage they're speechless

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By *ordweaver2018Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

Similar things have happened before -

Either you don't get meets because you don't have enough veris or you don't get them as you have too many! Lol

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm glad I've not got enough to make me look like a tart if 4 is the cut off....

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"I'm glad I've not got enough to make me look like a tart if 4 is the cut off....

Shift over on the tart settee Tina, my fat arse needs to get comfy on there is 4 meets is shocking...

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"I'm glad I've not got enough to make me look like a tart if 4 is the cut off....

Shift over on the tart settee Tina, my fat arse needs to get comfy on there is 4 meets is shocking..."

Do you have sweets?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"I'm glad I've not got enough to make me look like a tart if 4 is the cut off....

Shift over on the tart settee Tina, my fat arse needs to get comfy on there is 4 meets is shocking...

Do you have sweets?

and solero, so shove up

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I just can't understand why. "

Let me guess...

They were from people you've turned down or from people outside of your stated preferences.

The other option is they're people your meet has turned down who have the hump because you got what they wanted.

Or they are just foul examples of our species with some kinds of issues.

Whichever it is, they aren't worth bothering with.

Show the veris you want to. Block and ignore the haters. They are the ones with the problem, not you.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Obviously people like me who show a few more than four make them so apoplectic with rage they're speechless

Or you haven't fucked someone that turned them down

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By *uzzybeWoman
over a year ago

Darlington

Must be the day for haters and rudeness....ive had busy bodies and interferers all day.

They all received some choice responses

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Look on the bright side

At least you now know you never want to meet then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really wouldn't worry

. I had a horror the other night, you just have to laugh as some people's twisted ideas of getting attention and a reaction from others. Just always thank them for their take on your profile!!!

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By *iberatedPairCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk

Let me guess. This person or people. Had no veris. Not photo verified but probably members for at least six months ?

Been on fab for several years. Both have had deprecate accounts too. Well T still does.

This individuals make me think that a small fee to join might be a good way to sort the wheat from the chaff.

However I understand its always been a free site. Well except for silver or hold membership. Thoughts ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As for hiding verifications that's your choice but to hide them on back of a few nasty messages...stick 2 fingers up at them...

Or even the 1 finger..!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell them to pickle off and do what you like with your profile. The block button is a amazing tool on fab

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By *omMLMan
over a year ago

The Centre of the Universe

You should show your veri's don't be bullied by these people. Report and block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just ignore, people will always have their own opinions of others...as long as YOU are having fun don't give a fuck what others think, especially strangers on the internet...

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Strangers, out of the blue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

look at it as saving you from meeting any of those 6 muppets- block em, forget em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just can't understand why. "

Because you didnt shag them first

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just can't understand why. "

Thats odd I have 8 visible and well over 30 and don't get them from guys at all.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If its offensive then report, as you are doing everyone a favour by helping to rid vermin from here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You absolute slapper, 4 veris! What a whore, you should be ashamed of yourself.........Fuck em, it's a swingers site FFS, do what you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just can't understand why. "

It can't be the number as I see it 905 of the site or more female wise have at least double that if it was every Betty, Mary and Nancy would be complaining. What do you say to them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just can't understand why. "

very sad boring nasty individuals. You do what you like and ignore the trolls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we only ever show 2 or 3 - leave them wondering if theyre that into looking at them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just can't understand why.

I've since hidden them "

pls dont let them bully you x

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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire/Midlands

I just can't understand why.

Let me guess...

They were from people you've turned down or from people outside of your stated preferences.

The other option is they're people your meet has turned down who have the hump because you got what they wanted.

Or they are just foul examples of our species with some kinds of issues.

Whichever it is, they aren't worth bothering with.

Show the veris you want to. Block and ignore the haters. They are the ones with the problem, not you."

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