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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can somebody please tell me what the purpose of the hot list is and what people use theirs for!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use mine to put party guests in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular perv material

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regular perv material "

And that

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By *onny BonesMan
over a year ago

a block away from heaven


"Regular perv material "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one on mine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Regular perv material "

isnt that the same for friends list though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use mine for guys I like the look of and may message in the future

I keep an eye on their status's because if it turns out they're miserable or less than discreet about people they have met then I take them off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use it for people we like the look of and might want to contact when we're having a party or club night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use mine for guys I like the look of and may message in the future

I keep an eye on their status's because if it turns out they're miserable or less than discreet about people they have met then I take them off "
This is what we use it for too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always forget about this feature so mine doesn't really serve a propose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hot list is for people i am ' stalking ' that i am not friends with... Party organisers, club owners and the odd ex that i want to keep updated with their movement so i know when the next event is going to be held...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody in ours, never really seen the point of it, if you like someone add them as a friend and message them, if you don't then don't

Although I've just thought if your a single man and the couple don't want men you can't so maybe it is for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regular perv material "

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By *estlands4Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth

As a chat room cammer I use mine to see if any of my regular perv material are on line

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Regular perv material "

This.

Plus those posting dodgy (borrowed from t'internet ones) pics, those we want to perhaps keep an eye on to see if they last more than a week or two after they've messaged us (we rarely open messages in any hurry and it's common that they're UNLOS after a day or two!), those that may one day end up on the friends list (we don't add til we've met) - and other reasons.

A pure 'hotlist' it most definitely is not!

A

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I use it like a hostess trolley. Keeps the ones I put in there warm whilst I eat the previous course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use mine to put party guests in "

Clever idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nobody in ours, never really seen the point of it, if you like someone add them as a friend and message them, if you don't then don't

Although I've just thought if your a single man and the couple don't want men you can't so maybe it is for them"

I find that the trouble with messaging everyone is that they all want to meet up,we don't play often and we have friends already so id rather keep them in the hotlist instead of wasting their time befriending them and not meeting them until months down the line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use our hotlist for people we would eventually like to play with. It's more anonymous than friends i.e. they don't get notified that we fancy them This is good for us at the moment because we're not yet swinging.. so we're just building up a hotlist and when we do finally crack into action it'll be the first place we go to

It's also a good place to store names of lovely sexy people who live a little further afield... just in case we head their way at some point

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So people use it like a virtual shopping list!!!

to perv on and guest lists!!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Can somebody please tell me what the purpose of the hot list is and what people use theirs for!!!

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You can use the hotlist for whatever purpose you like....

We use ours for a few reasons..

Add those that we are interested in but not ready to contact yet.

Add those that we like perving but live too far away.

Lastly use it to keep an eye on the drama queens who's status updates etc make us laugh.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I tend to use mine for people I get in touch with the most to see if there online and their status update, I also use it as an antihotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use mine for potentials, new people too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im also on my own hotlist

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im also on my own hotlist "

Why??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots on ours that we'd like to meet with eventually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im also on my own hotlist

Why?? "

So he's knows he's actually on someone's hotlist maybe ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im also on my own hotlist

Why??

So he's knows he's actually on someone's hotlist maybe ?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use mine to add profiles I think are hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use it to add people that I don't have time to message right that second, so I can go back give their profile another proper read.

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By *oxy lady 1Couple
over a year ago

oxford

I use ours to keep an eye on couples,/ women we may wish to contact another time, and to see what verifications they get, or peeps we are not sure Of , sometimes their blogs make us laugh lol !! XxxxxX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im also on my own hotlist

Why?? "

Its supposed to be a joke

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im also on my own hotlist

Why??

Its supposed to be a joke "

oops sorry!! i was thinking how you could be!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use mine for a few different reasons, but essentially it serves as a wish list.

I've put some people on there that I may be unable to contact at the moment because I may be just outside their current age range, or they're not looking for single guys at present etc - I have seen that some users vary their criteria from time to time. Some do, some don't.

Some others are on there that I'm definitely keen on, but live that bit further away and at present its not possible to meet due to the distances involved. I'm not suggesting that they'll move closer, but in the future I may be in a better position to travel to them or even book a hotel nearer to them - just can't right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regular perv material "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Favourite forumites I chat to regularly but aren't on my friends list. It's a very focused list at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can somebody please tell me what the purpose of the hot list is and what people use theirs for!!!

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I though most used it as a stalking list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hotlist is for horny members I put on to pin down one after one after one and so on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops wrong forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hotlist is just that... Hot! For me to browse at my leisure & contact when the need arises

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the hotlist? No.. the hotlust, more like my secret "she's lovely..mmmm" is there.

Mind you, it's not totally secret, think occasionally a couple of the members might suspected they might be on it hehe x

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

There are many uses OP.

Some use it as a 'todo' list, some to keep an eye on enemies, some too shy to message but fap at pics.

Personally I use it a murder list.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think i will start using it x i do like perving!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are many uses OP.

Some use it as a 'todo' list, some to keep an eye on enemies, some too shy to message but fap at pics.

Personally I use it a murder list. "

ha this made me chuckle!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can somebody please tell me what the purpose of the hot list is and what people use theirs for!!!

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I use it for people who I haven't spoken to extensively but would like to know better, so it's easier to find them without clogging up my inbox...plus you see updates from them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it would be a nice extra feature to the hotlist if, when you added someone you were given the option of whether or not you wanted the user to be notified that you were adding them to your hotlist - kind of an indicator that you liked them.

I get that this is probably what 'winks' were intended for, but so many people seem to have different ideas of what winks are for.

Also, winks are only possible if messaging is possible, whereas a notification of being added to a hotlist would be a system message.

It's just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good idea as most add me and obviously I don't know unless they say so would be nice to know otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recently removed most of mine and just left a few local Women, Friends and couple of if only

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