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Ever feel guilty?

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By *each_Pitt OP   Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I have a particular encounter that ways heavy on my mind.

I know it's been and done but I can't help dwelling on it. Think I would go there again too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah i never feel Guilty.

Unless they find the Bodies

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can't make you feel that bad if you'd do it again...

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Guilt is a wasted emotion. Whatever it is has been done and can't be changed. There's little point feeling bad about it. Chalk it down to experience and move on.

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By *each_Pitt OP   Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"It can't make you feel that bad if you'd do it again..."

I do feel bad and then I try and toughen up and think nobody cares about me so why should I care about any of them. I'm afraid I'll be caught in one of them moments or the fact I REALLY didn't feel bad at the time.

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By *each_Pitt OP   Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Guilt is a wasted emotion. Whatever it is has been done and can't be changed. There's little point feeling bad about it. Chalk it down to experience and move on. "

Need to take this advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guilt is a wasted emotion. Whatever it is has been done and can't be changed. There's little point feeling bad about it. Chalk it down to experience and move on. "

^^ This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't dwell on it

If you feel this bad about it now, you'll probably feel the same, if not more after your second encounter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It can't make you feel that bad if you'd do it again..."

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


" and think nobody cares about me so why should I care about any of them. "

you need to work that through....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[uote]Guilt is a wasted emotion. Whatever it is has been done and can't be changed. There's little point feeling bad about it. Chalk it down to experience and move on. I echo that.[/quote

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It can't make you feel that bad if you'd do it again...

I do feel bad and then I try and toughen up and think nobody cares about me so why should I care about any of them. I'm afraid I'll be caught in one of them moments or the fact I REALLY didn't feel bad at the time."

I know the feeling that nobody cares about us or what we do. I have had guilt feelings myself but not much to be done really. If you enjoyed yourself, then do it again. good luck x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I have a particular encounter that ways heavy on my mind.

I know it's been and done but I can't help dwelling on it. Think I would go there again too. "

Is someone being hurt or damaged in any way by it? If so recognise the guilt as a sign not to do it again. If not why the guilt?

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By *each_Pitt OP   Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I have a particular encounter that ways heavy on my mind.

I know it's been and done but I can't help dwelling on it. Think I would go there again too.

Is someone being hurt or damaged in any way by it? If so recognise the guilt as a sign not to do it again. If not why the guilt?"

This

Going to take this on board. Thankyou.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Is someone being hurt or damaged in any way by it? If so recognise the guilt as a sign not to do it again. If not why the guilt?"

Good answer. I don't do things that would make me feel guilty, so I virtually never feel it. You need to find your own integrity and act according to it I think.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think we've all got regrets, but generally it's not worth dwelling on. Just go out and buy some waterbombs instead

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

No can't say I've ever had guilty feelings after an encounter.

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