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By *harpDressed Man OP   Man
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

...than "I used to fancy you"?

Arrrgggghhhhhhhh!!!!!!

I was out for a drink with a lady who's really only an acquaintance, but is back in the country for a couple of weeks. We ended up talking almost non-stop for four hours, during which the above phrase was uttered.

...And this has happened a couple of times previously with other women.

So come on, fellow FAB-ers, make me feel better with similar stories!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"...than "I used to fancy you"?

Arrrgggghhhhhhhh!!!!!!

I was out for a drink with a lady who's really only an acquaintance, but is back in the country for a couple of weeks. We ended up talking almost non-stop for four hours, during which the above phrase was uttered.

...And this has happened a couple of times previously with other women.

So come on, fellow FAB-ers, make me feel better with similar stories!"

no one has ever said they used to fancy me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

phrase i hate the most "at the end of the day"

FUCK OFF

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By *harpDressed Man OP   Man
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"

no one has ever said they used to fancy me "

Believe me, you're not missing out, it's an awful backhanded rejection experience.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"

no one has ever said they used to fancy me

Believe me, you're not missing out, it's an awful backhanded rejection experience."

ok maybe i dont want it - i have enough forehand rejection experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

no one has ever said they used to fancy me

Believe me, you're not missing out, it's an awful backhanded rejection experience."

not always!!! guy said it to me when i went back to my folks recently...no chance!!!! not what i wanted to hear

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

'Didnt you used to be good looking?'

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"bet you were hot when you were younger"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you're so fucking hot, i'd fuck you if you were ten years younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the hunks at work singing my praises to someone...I was a good sort, always looked good, always smelt nice, would do anything for me as I was always polite to him and his team, the he ruined it all with...she would be stunning if she were slim!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

said to me by someone " what startsign are you? aries, so you are a strong person so I can say this to you...you are very pretty and have gorgeous eyes...but you absolutely HAVE to lose A LOT of weight..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a guy who I said "no" to..."what? You should count yourself lucky, I don't usually go for fat girls".

Gee my loss I guess!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All my life ive kinda yo yo dieted, every time you see me i'll be a different size lol met this guy when id lost a lot of weight, i think i was about a size 10 and we got on really well, didnt see him for ages then about a year later i bumped into him in a club, id put some weight on since i last saw him id gone upto about a size 16 and he looked at me and said...fuck me i used to fancy the arse off you i wouldnt touch you now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From a guy who I said "no" to..."what? You should count yourself lucky, I don't usually go for fat girls".

Gee my loss I guess!! "

well of course...we are all desperate and will shag anyone who lowers their standards to shag us fat girls...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From a guy who I said "no" to..."what? You should count yourself lucky, I don't usually go for fat girls".

Gee my loss I guess!!

well of course...we are all desperate and will shag anyone who lowers their standards to shag us fat girls...lol"

i know!!!

shame on you for turning him down lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That phrase is better than "I have never fancied you."

No?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From a guy who I said "no" to..."what? You should count yourself lucky, I don't usually go for fat girls".

Gee my loss I guess!!

well of course...we are all desperate and will shag anyone who lowers their standards to shag us fat girls...lol

i know!!!

shame on you for turning him down lol"

I know... how ungrateful of me. He drove a flash green Jag, all the girls fancied him but he did absolutely nothing for me. He couldn't understand why I wasn't fawning over him like the other daft mares.

His ego was bruised...I really have to work on being more tactful!!

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By *harpDressed Man OP   Man
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"That phrase is better than "I have never fancied you."

No? "

Sort of, but nobody has said that to me, they keep that to themselves. Whereas they're happy to share with me what might have been, along with the implication that they don't anymore....ggrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was a girl I used to fancy years ago when I were a lad, she was blonde, blue-eyed, and absolutely stunning and I thought she was well out of my league. We all belonged to the same group of friends so I knew her well but somehow never plucked up the courage to make that final leap.

I met her in a bar a few years ago and we got talking. She told me that she always thought I was hot and why didn't I ever ask her out. You could have knocked me down with a feather, I was gutted. I told her that I thought she always fancied my mate to which she crewed up her face and said, "God no! It was YOU I wanted!" .. but she thought I didn't fancy her.

All I have to say about that now is:

FUCKITY FUCKITY FUCK FUCK!!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I have been on the end of the "I use to fancy you" line....... and it is depressing because i was really shy back in the day (no laughing at the back) so there is no way I would have done anything about it......

I can think of a more depressing line though... "I use to fancy you.... before you opened your mouth!... you can imagine how I felt after that!!!! lusted over from afar....

cool... well back to being a window store dummy then!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about 'God I fancy you but because of circumstances can't do anything about it' now that's a killer !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lets just be friends"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was snuggling with an ex boyfriend and he had his hand on my bum and said "How can you have a great bum like that when you're body is like that?".....

Lets just say he was swiftly pushed into the ex pile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it's not you it's me"

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

"I used to fancy you."

....cut me to the quick when the wife said that to me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the doctor said Well Mr soapy im afraid ya have stopped growing

Worst 11th birthday ever xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was a girl I used to fancy years ago when I were a lad, she was blonde, blue-eyed, and absolutely stunning and I thought she was well out of my league. We all belonged to the same group of friends so I knew her well but somehow never plucked up the courage to make that final leap.

I met her in a bar a few years ago and we got talking. She told me that she always thought I was hot and why didn't I ever ask her out. You could have knocked me down with a feather, I was gutted. I told her that I thought she always fancied my mate to which she crewed up her face and said, "God no! It was YOU I wanted!" .. but she thought I didn't fancy her.

All I have to say about that now is:

FUCKITY FUCKITY FUCK FUCK!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""lets just be friends""

Yep, hurts when you still want to be with them.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Sorry but you haven't got the job - heard it so many times during 2 years of unemployment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Her: "Is it in yet?"

Me: "Um.. I've already finished!"

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By *et_me_take_controlMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Is that fishy smell you?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"...than "I used to fancy you"?

Arrrgggghhhhhhhh!!!!!!"

It could have been worse....

"god knows why... I used to fancy you"

"and to think... I used to fancy you"

"I must have been so desperate back then... I used to fancy you"

"In the old days I always seemed to go for the munters... I used to fancy you"

"...there's no way on earth I'd do that! There's about as much chance as me saying... I used to fancy you"

"My grandad says hello and asked me to pass on a message... I used to fancy you"

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"no..we dont have those shoes in your size"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""no..we dont have those shoes in your size" "

Aw I've missed you and your shoes xxx

Oh and the red 5" stiletto's that arrived today are sooooooo fab can't wait for the weekend to try them out xxx

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


""no..we dont have those shoes in your size"

Aw I've missed you and your shoes xxx

Oh and the red 5" stiletto's that arrived today are sooooooo fab can't wait for the weekend to try them out xxx"
Hello sexy lady......good to hear bout the shoes

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By *harpDressed Man OP   Man
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"It could have been worse....

"god knows why... I used to fancy you"

"and to think... I used to fancy you"

"I must have been so desperate back then... I used to fancy you"

"

Thanks for the support. I feel better now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i used to fancy you, erm think it was when i was sitting on your knee at the chams xmas party in the jacquzzi lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about 'God I fancy you but because of circumstances can't do anything about it' now that's a killer !!!!!

"

"I wanted to fuck you, but we've become too good friends now"

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

in chat just last night,

Wow for 38 you got an amazing body!

now i feel old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah ive had the 'you look good for your age' remark...what a backhanded compliment!!!

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish

To the OP, was this said to you face to face or through the site/forum, if the latter are you sure it's nothing to do with your location?

"Wilts"...... might just put them off

LOL

Sorry... couldn't resist!

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By *harpDressed Man OP   Man
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"i used to fancy you, erm think it was when i was sitting on your knee at the chams xmas party in the jacquzzi lol "

Didn't realise you were the shy type!

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By *harpDressed Man OP   Man
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"To the OP, was this said to you face to face or through the site/forum, if the latter are you sure it's nothing to do with your location?

"Wilts"...... might just put them off

LOL"

Face to face you cheeky person. And she's vanilla (well, she's rum n raisin, but that's another story).

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"we have run out of fruit pastille lollies...sorry" grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""it's not you it's me" "

even worse wen its by txt msg lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i used to fancy you, erm think it was when i was sitting on your knee at the chams xmas party in the jacquzzi lol

Didn't realise you were the shy type!"

of course am shy didnt you realise

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