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By *irtyGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

At the age of 41 is a fucking terrible idea!!

For reasons best left unknown, I've had to move back into my parents house while I have some work done at my flat.

They're going on holiday on Tuesday... I just have to make it till then.

Last night, after nagging me about smoking, boyfriend stuff, washing, car stuff and then half a moan about my weight, my Dad went to bed at 9pm. My Mum spent the next two hours muttering about, 'every night it's the same, boring old fart goes to bed so early' (I now understand why he goes to bed at 9pm).

So I'm trying to get into Fabs and the internet comes up with 'parental controls' so it's blocked. An hour later I manage to log in to Talk Talk after much debate about the password, find the bit to turn it off and my Dad walks past the kitchen door in the buff.

My irony meter broke at that point and I gave up and went to bed. How the fuck am I going to make it to Tuesday?

Tips, advice, empathy/sympathy welcome...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the same experience after a break up.lasted 2 weeks at my mums,she even locked me out when i went for a pint and got back at twelve.love her to bits but couldnt stay.so u have my sympathy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way on earth could I ever move back in with my Mother.

I suggest going out somewhere everynight untill 11pm when they're both in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No advise.

Just posting to ask if it's wrong to laugh ?

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich

I feel your pain. We had to move in with my in laws for 4 weeks while our new house was finishing being built. I drank lots of wine to get through that month.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"No advise.

Just posting to ask if it's wrong to laugh ?"

I did too.

To the OP...ear plugs . they do the trick.

Our my grown up kids would probably dread having to move back in with us if they had to too.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Feign a sudden highly contagious illness and lock yourself in your room with five days worth of snacks, water and a bucket.

Wave them goodbye from the window on Tuesday and then relax!

A

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By *irtyGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Totally acceptable to laugh.

I have to get up at 4am to take them to the airport.

And she's just text me to ask if I want fish for dinner tomorrow night... I've not had my fucking breakfast today yet...

I have to laugh... I do... one day I'm going to see the funny side of this whole disaster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The moment your mum got into bed your dad said "well done luv, she won't be home for long if we keep this up, think I will wander about starkers to see if we can make her stay out all weekend"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand your pain, as I had to move back in with my Mum for a year when I walked out on my marriage. Having lost her though - I'd love that nagging again & the feeling of exasperation I used to feel sometimes when living there.

Least it's only until Tuesday then you get some time to yourself And just think how great it'll feel when you move back to your own place!

Your post did make me smile. Parents you gotta love 'em!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im an orphan

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By *irtyGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"The moment your mum got into bed your dad said "well done luv, she won't be home for long if we keep this up, think I will wander about starkers to see if we can make her stay out all weekend" "

My Mum is loving having me there, my Dad probably not so much. I've lived alone for the last 12 years, I've no doubt I'm a nightmare to live with and I am grateful to be taken in (like they had a choice) but seriously... last night I felt like I was 15 again.

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By *irtyGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"im an orphan "

I'll lend you mine. *hugs*

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"The moment your mum got into bed your dad said "well done luv, she won't be home for long if we keep this up, think I will wander about starkers to see if we can make her stay out all weekend" "

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"The moment your mum got into bed your dad said "well done luv, she won't be home for long if we keep this up, think I will wander about starkers to see if we can make her stay out all weekend"

My Mum is loving having me there, my Dad probably not so much. I've lived alone for the last 12 years, I've no doubt I'm a nightmare to live with and I am grateful to be taken in (like they had a choice) but seriously... last night I felt like I was 15 again. "

Someone I used to chat to in a chat room had to move back in with her parents for a while and every night at 9.30 she had to log off when her parents went to bed....be grateful yours are letting you stay up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The moment your mum got into bed your dad said "well done luv, she won't be home for long if we keep this up, think I will wander about starkers to see if we can make her stay out all weekend"

My Mum is loving having me there, my Dad probably not so much. I've lived alone for the last 12 years, I've no doubt I'm a nightmare to live with and I am grateful to be taken in (like they had a choice) but seriously... last night I felt like I was 15 again. "

We sometimes spend the night at my parents and my mum will really fuss over me. I'll have my own chair and mum will wait on me hand and foot. Mrs P throws me some awful looks because I just sit there and lap it all up.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

LOL poor DG.

A long time ago I had to do this for a few months. I ended up barricading myself in my bedroom with my dog playing video games. Bit of a farking carnt really when I think back but it was better than falling out with them over fucking Coronation Street.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No advise.

Just posting to ask if it's wrong to laugh ?

I did too.

To the OP...ear plugs . they do the trick.

Our my grown up kids would probably dread having to move back in with us if they had to too. "

terribly sorry i had a giggle too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum and her partner are visiting and its a nightmare,, i shall breathe again when they return back to theirs.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"

We sometimes spend the night at my parents and my mum will really fuss over me. I'll have my own chair and mum will wait on me hand and foot. Mrs P throws me some awful looks because I just sit there and lap it all up. "

Ah this sounds like my MIL when we stay over...it must be an age thing as she seems to think men can't do anything for themselves and also need telling what to do as well as fussed over

When she visits us she actually sent him to bed at 10 o'clock...I was stood behind her pointing at him and silent laughing and she did that spooky mother thing of not turning round but knows what you are doing and said to me " and that means you too"

She was serious too, we had to go to bed and sneak back up when she was snoring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The moment your mum got into bed your dad said "well done luv, she won't be home for long if we keep this up, think I will wander about starkers to see if we can make her stay out all weekend"

My Mum is loving having me there, my Dad probably not so much. I've lived alone for the last 12 years, I've no doubt I'm a nightmare to live with and I am grateful to be taken in (like they had a choice) but seriously... last night I felt like I was 15 again.

Someone I used to chat to in a chat room had to move back in with her parents for a while and every night at 9.30 she had to log off when her parents went to bed....be grateful yours are letting you stay up "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

We sometimes spend the night at my parents and my mum will really fuss over me. I'll have my own chair and mum will wait on me hand and foot. Mrs P throws me some awful looks because I just sit there and lap it all up.

Ah this sounds like my MIL when we stay over...it must be an age thing as she seems to think men can't do anything for themselves and also need telling what to do as well as fussed over

When she visits us she actually sent him to bed at 10 o'clock...I was stood behind her pointing at him and silent laughing and she did that spooky mother thing of not turning round but knows what you are doing and said to me " and that means you too"

She was serious too, we had to go to bed and sneak back up when she was snoring "

Brilliant

Mrs P thinks my mum is sort of saying to her treat him right because if you don't he can come home and get spoiled rotten.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

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Brilliant

Mrs P thinks my mum is sort of saying to her treat him right because if you don't he can come home and get spoiled rotten. "

I think Mrs P is right.

Sometimes I threaten him that I will send him back , as much as he loves his mum he does whatever I want after that

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I moved in with my OH & his mom to save me £400 a month rent. I managed about 2 months & moved back to my old flat before I said or did something I regretted

Mrs Dolph

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Brilliant

Mrs P thinks my mum is sort of saying to her treat him right because if you don't he can come home and get spoiled rotten.

I think Mrs P is right.

Sometimes I threaten him that I will send him back , as much as he loves his mum he does whatever I want after that "

I'm the same, as much as she spoils me I'd go bonkers if I ever had to move back.

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By *irtyGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

It's only been a day and already they're driving me bonkers. I know I'm lucky to still have my parents and stuff but fuck I need to find a grain of patience from somewhere.

She told me this morning that we're going out for lunch with the woman she met in hospital. Now it's nice that she's met a new friend but why the fuck she thinks I'd want to tag along I've no idea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm much appreciating my mum after reading all these comments. I would quite happily move in with her. She's just like me; you get on with your life,I get on with mine. We would sit outside drinking tea in the evening listening to the blackbird,or walk around the garden looking at her flowers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be grateful they are putting you up. Where would you go if they didn't x and if your mum bored of a night when your dad gone bed then you could get her to join fabs lol x

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By *irtyGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Be grateful they are putting you up. Where would you go if they didn't x and if your mum bored of a night when your dad gone bed then you could get her to join fabs lol x"

Yup... I'm grateful (I think I mentioned that up there somewhere) and I wouldn't really be short of somewhere to go... it's just easier to go to them. Much better to impose on your family than friends... although I'll be doing a lot of that this weekend.

I'm going to ignore the latter part of your comment if it's all the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol ok i was only messing x hope you last till Tuesday lol x

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Oh DG I feel your pain, I'd never want to live with my parents again but they are pretty cool to live with for a while but not long...lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's times like this the forum really needs a :rotflmao: emo and :hug: emo

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I went into Homeless Families rather than move in with parents when I split up with my ex.

I would have probably killed my dad otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The moment your mum got into bed your dad said "well done luv, she won't be home for long if we keep this up, think I will wander about starkers to see if we can make her stay out all weekend" "

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

.....that is all. No advise here.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Dig two holes in the garden. They may get the hint.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dig two holes in the garden. They may get the hint. "

That is sooo bad but im

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I'm really close to my mum and we do lots together but I wouldn't survive a night with her. Same with my sister but we can tolerate being under the same roof for a week once every two years.

My son, the same, were both still in therapy after his extended visit last year.

I love my family just couldn't live with any of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sister and her boyfriend have ad to move in with me for there own personal reasons i just wish they would keep there sex life personal

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By *irtyGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Dig two holes in the garden. They may get the hint. "

Beside the dog and my rabbit?

I'm currently trying to convince my Dad to install a hot tub. He's not falling for it. I keep telling him that I'd rather it was done right and he should do it before he pops his clogs.

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By *irtyGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

*counts down the days*

*looks down the back of the sofa for some patience*

I love them. I do. But who's fucking idea was this?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the age of 41 is a fucking terrible idea!!

For reasons best left unknown, I've had to move back into my parents house while I have some work done at my flat.

They're going on holiday on Tuesday... I just have to make it till then.

Last night, after nagging me about smoking, boyfriend stuff, washing, car stuff and then half a moan about my weight, my Dad went to bed at 9pm. My Mum spent the next two hours muttering about, 'every night it's the same, boring old fart goes to bed so early' (I now understand why he goes to bed at 9pm).

So I'm trying to get into Fabs and the internet comes up with 'parental controls' so it's blocked. An hour later I manage to log in to Talk Talk after much debate about the password, find the bit to turn it off and my Dad walks past the kitchen door in the buff.

My irony meter broke at that point and I gave up and went to bed. How the fuck am I going to make it to Tuesday?

Tips, advice, empathy/sympathy welcome... "

This has really made me laugh! Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive got the opposite from sunday ....got a week of my parents staying with me ....so a week of to go shopping with mum every day for 2/3 hrs around asda ...my tv been taken over by bargain hunt ...flog it and every single program like that ....kitchen sides been cluttered and them moaning about each other ....Roll on 7th september when they go home ...and they aint here yet .....love them both but seriously couldnt live with them again !!!

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By *irtyGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Like a sulky teenager I'm going round to a pals. Three times I've been asked how my day was. Within the space of 20 minutes. Never mind Alzheimer's... I'm frigging demented!!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Like a sulky teenager I'm going round to a pals. Three times I've been asked how my day was. Within the space of 20 minutes. Never mind Alzheimer's... I'm frigging demented!! "

Just come up against my folks parental controls (due to the grandkids) - thank god if I sit at the opposite end of the sofa to them I get enough 3G to log on!

My mums eyesight isn't good enough to see what I'm logged into on my phone and if my dad spotted anything the chances are with his Altzheimers he'd have forgotten about it come morning.

Won't ever be moving back in but they do make amazing baby/dog sitters - if a little too far from home to make for more regular use!

A

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I'm spending 5 days with the folks in Denmark my dad said he is so glad I'm coming along as finally he has someone that he can talk to in English....my mum has a habit of speaking to him in Danish.....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had to move back into my mother's shortly before my 30th birthday with my two daughters in tow.

Totally sympathise. I still get reminded to be grateful even now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DG, I've got a spare room out here if you need to escape. Lol

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

The thought of it makes me come out in a cold sweat.

The last time I had big work done I rented somewhere for a month.

DG, your OP made me laugh so thank you.

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By *uttyjonnMan
over a year ago

SEA

men in Edinburgh who can accommodate - this could be your lucky week

Suppose Cheshire is too far

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

you could of course console yourself with how much the outlaws have saved you

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By *omMLMan
over a year ago

The Centre of the Universe

You have my sympathy I was in the same situation a few years ago. I was grateful to them but wanted to kill them both within 48 hours. My dad died a couple of years ago and I wish he was still here to be so bloody awkward.

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By *irtyGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"you could of course console yourself with how much the outlaws have saved you "

Alas no saving has been made. I'm not even going to think about the costs. I may work up to making you all laugh further when I can see the funny side. At £2300 so far... it's not funny yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The moment your mum got into bed your dad said "well done luv, she won't be home for long if we keep this up, think I will wander about starkers to see if we can make her stay out all weekend" "

Lol

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By *ionicfingerMan
over a year ago

...

Get stuck in a juice book to take your mind off reality!

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

im struggling here now ...you moved back in with your parents and it hasnt saved you a dime ..move out then

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"LOL poor DG.

A long time ago I had to do this for a few months. I ended up barricading myself in my bedroom with my dog playing video games. Bit of a farking carnt really when I think back but it was better than falling out with them over fucking Coronation Street."

You're dog plays video games?!

Sod Pudsey, get your dog on Britain's Got Talent on super Mario cart!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"LOL poor DG.

A long time ago I had to do this for a few months. I ended up barricading myself in my bedroom with my dog playing video games. Bit of a farking carnt really when I think back but it was better than falling out with them over fucking Coronation Street.

You're dog plays video games?!

Sod Pudsey, get your dog on Britain's Got Talent on super Mario cart! "

I was more concerned about the picture in my head of him (not the dog) fucking Coronation Street.

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By *owboy BebopMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Is it wrong that this thread has made me laugh out loud !!! ..... Been there !!

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By *irtyGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Glad to have made you all laugh!

The latest update (in case you're interested) is that the necessary work was carried out in my flat yesterday.

I survived the weekend (mainly cause I stayed with my brother) and took my folks to the airport at 4am this morning.

They locked me in the garden last night. I went out for a smoke and my best mate called while I was out there. So I had another. By the time I went back down the garden the lights were off and they'd locked the back door. It was 9.15pm!

Now I have two weeks to find someone to fit me a wooden floor and sort my flat out so that it's habitable cause I'm not sure I can cope with any more co-habiting.

The lecture on what does/doesn't go in the recycling (cause clearly I'm a dunce) was almost too much to cope with so I asked what I should do with the little plastic applicators for my tampons. That shut him up pretty sharpish!

When I can bring myself to see the funny side, I'll tell you why I had to move out. It's not funny yet but I have assurances it will be someday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my mum is really cool, lends me her clothes, make up, movies pretty much whatever I want. but I do wait on her hand and foot when I am there. its my younger sister I could throttle, also she lives with my grandparents and they drive my nuts, very old fashioned so not much like me at all

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


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I survived the weekend (mainly cause I stayed with my brother) and took my folks to the airport at 4am this morning.

They locked me in the garden last night. I went out for a smoke and my best mate called while I was out there. So I had another. By the time I went back down the garden the lights were off and they'd locked the back door. It was 9.15pm!

"

Is changing the locks whilst they are away an option?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Glad to have made you all laugh!

The latest update (in case you're interested) is that the necessary work was carried out in my flat yesterday.

I survived the weekend (mainly cause I stayed with my brother) and took my folks to the airport at 4am this morning.

They locked me in the garden last night. I went out for a smoke and my best mate called while I was out there. So I had another. By the time I went back down the garden the lights were off and they'd locked the back door. It was 9.15pm!

Now I have two weeks to find someone to fit me a wooden floor and sort my flat out so that it's habitable cause I'm not sure I can cope with any more co-habiting.

The lecture on what does/doesn't go in the recycling (cause clearly I'm a dunce) was almost too much to cope with so I asked what I should do with the little plastic applicators for my tampons. That shut him up pretty sharpish!

When I can bring myself to see the funny side, I'll tell you why I had to move out. It's not funny yet but I have assurances it will be someday. "

I really do feel for you xx

Last year decided to invite my mum to come on holiday with us for a week (we were staying for 2)

The idea was she would baby sit in the evening so we could have some time out as just us.

First day the youngest nearly drowned after she fell asleep 5 mins after we left her to grab some food from next door.

She decided that she didn't want to go back on her own so it cost us more to move the flight.

By the end of our very much needed holiday i was ready to commit murder and needed another to get over it

Also we never got ANY time on our own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's good to hear you've survived without losing your mind or your sense of humour yet. Good luck finding a fit floor fitter to fit your fookin floor

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