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"But the other 50% that have donated have raised over £2,000,000 which is an outstanding achievement ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"But the other 50% that have donated have raised over £2,000,000 which is an outstanding achievement ![]() It's keeping it up that's the hard work. It is positive that so much has been donated. I just find the 'hey look at me' posts of those who don't donate which are all over social media leave a very nasty taste in my mouth. These are the same kind of people who think clicking 'like' on any post asking for support for good causes makes them genuinely empathetic. It means they don't ACTUALLY have to do anything as long as they are SEEN to be doing it. There are plenty of people who do charitable work or who donate regularly and who don't make a big production about it - and they are the ones who make a difference every single day. | |||
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"I've not and won't because I think it has gone from being a good cause to being fashionable. I'd much rather do good by stealth, rather than publically blazing it over facebook for everyone to see. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"i have, and donated. wife has, and donated. and our dog has, but we donated on her behalf as she has no pocket money" ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I've been nominated but have no intention to throw good clean water over myself. It's not a charity I support as this unfortunate disease has no cure whereas other life threatening diseases do have cures and I'd prefer to use my money on an illness that actually can be cured and will give a person a chance to live longer such as cancer or similar. It's unfortunate for those who have it but no amount of money in the world is gonna take it away from a person suffering with it. " What about money to help research to find a cure. It's entirely your choice what charities to give to but your reason for not donating to this one seem a bit daft. | |||
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"ironic i know, but has anyone done it and donated to water aid ?? " Strangely enough there was a bit of a debate about this on fb the other day. About how some people thought it was obscene when so many suffer from lack of clean water. | |||
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"I've been nominated but have no intention to throw good clean water over myself. It's not a charity I support as this unfortunate disease has no cure whereas other life threatening diseases do have cures and I'd prefer to use my money on an illness that actually can be cured and will give a person a chance to live longer such as cancer or similar. It's unfortunate for those who have it but no amount of money in the world is gonna take it away from a person suffering with it. What about money to help research to find a cure. It's entirely your choice what charities to give to but your reason for not donating to this one seem a bit daft. " Like you said, my choice...where my money goes is also my choice. The amount of people with motor neurones is only a fraction to other diseases. I feel the bigger threat gets my attention. | |||
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"ironic i know, but has anyone done it and donated to water aid ?? " If you watch Matt Damons video he explains about the challenge and the waste of water argument. He is a founder of a charity that supplies clean water to people who have none. He still does the challenge which sort of poo poos the wasting water argument that some people are trying to put forward. | |||
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"ironic i know, but has anyone done it and donated to water aid ?? " And I do monthly yes | |||
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"I've been nominated but have no intention to throw good clean water over myself. It's not a charity I support as this unfortunate disease has no cure whereas other life threatening diseases do have cures and I'd prefer to use my money on an illness that actually can be cured and will give a person a chance to live longer such as cancer or similar. It's unfortunate for those who have it but no amount of money in the world is gonna take it away from a person suffering with it. " Have you considered that the reason there is no cure is because they lack funds to research a cure Not so long ago people were dying of many diseases that can now be treated and cured because people have been funded to research and find cures ![]() | |||
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"ironic i know, but has anyone done it and donated to water aid ?? If you watch Matt Damons video he explains about the challenge and the waste of water argument. He is a founder of a charity that supplies clean water to people who have none. He still does the challenge which sort of poo poos the wasting water argument that some people are trying to put forward. " Perhaps one celebrity does. I just repeated what other people were putting forward as an argument. | |||
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"ironic i know, but has anyone done it and donated to water aid ?? If you watch Matt Damons video he explains about the challenge and the waste of water argument. He is a founder of a charity that supplies clean water to people who have none. He still does the challenge which sort of poo poos the wasting water argument that some people are trying to put forward. Perhaps one celebrity does. I just repeated what other people were putting forward as an argument. " And again hopefully by people raising the issue of people not having clean water will raise awareness and funds for those charities. Which is basically what Matt Damon said and demonstrated in his video. He did the challenge to a backdrop of a poster promoting his water charity. | |||
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"An odd way to promote it in my opinion. " Which he fully explains in his video. | |||
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"ALS in the states received funding of $27m dollars last year so they're far from struggling. The Ice Bucket challenge wasn't started by ALS or MND for that matter and isn't run or coordinated by them. It was one challenge in the states for a guy called Pete Frates and just kept growing and growing from there. The challenge supposedly originated in New Zealand where people donated to whichever charity they want so this isn't 'for' MND. I donated to MDN and Macmillan as they both do amazing work and the fact that money to find cures for both these diseases has to come from the public is nothing short of a disgrace!" Where else would it come from? Government funding ultimately comes from our taxes doesn't it? | |||
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"ironic i know, but has anyone done it and donated to water aid ?? Strangely enough there was a bit of a debate about this on fb the other day. About how some people thought it was obscene when so many suffer from lack of clean water. " We have Full sympathy for anyone with any illness/ disease - MND although incurable, is managable to help create a better quality of life.... unfortunately people with no clean ice cold water dont have any choice. There are other ways to raise money for any charity without rubbing it in the face of others who are suffering and although its gone global and great fun for those doing it. Just imagine being thirsty, dying of thirst and then watching people throw water over thier heads for fun........ Raising money for any worthy charity is worth it and by whatever means possible, if it saves one life .... its worth it. But throwing ice cold water away? Hope all those who participate do it for the right reasons and donate...... instead of 15 minutes of fame on You Tube or Facebook. We will donate without wasting water | |||
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"ironic i know, but has anyone done it and donated to water aid ?? Strangely enough there was a bit of a debate about this on fb the other day. About how some people thought it was obscene when so many suffer from lack of clean water. We have Full sympathy for anyone with any illness/ disease - MND although incurable, is managable to help create a better quality of life.... unfortunately people with no clean ice cold water dont have any choice. There are other ways to raise money for any charity without rubbing it in the face of others who are suffering and although its gone global and great fun for those doing it. Just imagine being thirsty, dying of thirst and then watching people throw water over thier heads for fun........ Raising money for any worthy charity is worth it and by whatever means possible, if it saves one life .... its worth it. But throwing ice cold water away? Hope all those who participate do it for the right reasons and donate...... instead of 15 minutes of fame on You Tube or Facebook. We will donate without wasting water" Just out of interest how many buckets of water does it take to fill a hot tub ? | |||
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"ironic i know, but has anyone done it and donated to water aid ?? Strangely enough there was a bit of a debate about this on fb the other day. About how some people thought it was obscene when so many suffer from lack of clean water. We have Full sympathy for anyone with any illness/ disease - MND although incurable, is managable to help create a better quality of life.... unfortunately people with no clean ice cold water dont have any choice. There are other ways to raise money for any charity without rubbing it in the face of others who are suffering and although its gone global and great fun for those doing it. Just imagine being thirsty, dying of thirst and then watching people throw water over thier heads for fun........ Raising money for any worthy charity is worth it and by whatever means possible, if it saves one life .... its worth it. But throwing ice cold water away? Hope all those who participate do it for the right reasons and donate...... instead of 15 minutes of fame on You Tube or Facebook. We will donate without wasting water Just out of interest how many buckets of water does it take to fill a hot tub ?" Boom!!!! ![]() | |||
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"ironic i know, but has anyone done it and donated to water aid ?? Strangely enough there was a bit of a debate about this on fb the other day. About how some people thought it was obscene when so many suffer from lack of clean water. We have Full sympathy for anyone with any illness/ disease - MND although incurable, is managable to help create a better quality of life.... unfortunately people with no clean ice cold water dont have any choice. There are other ways to raise money for any charity without rubbing it in the face of others who are suffering and although its gone global and great fun for those doing it. Just imagine being thirsty, dying of thirst and then watching people throw water over thier heads for fun........ Raising money for any worthy charity is worth it and by whatever means possible, if it saves one life .... its worth it. But throwing ice cold water away? Hope all those who participate do it for the right reasons and donate...... instead of 15 minutes of fame on You Tube or Facebook. We will donate without wasting water Just out of interest how many buckets of water does it take to fill a hot tub ?" dont know - we dont have a hot tub ...... our photo's are in a hotel swimming pool | |||
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"ironic i know, but has anyone done it and donated to water aid ?? Strangely enough there was a bit of a debate about this on fb the other day. About how some people thought it was obscene when so many suffer from lack of clean water. We have Full sympathy for anyone with any illness/ disease - MND although incurable, is managable to help create a better quality of life.... unfortunately people with no clean ice cold water dont have any choice. There are other ways to raise money for any charity without rubbing it in the face of others who are suffering and although its gone global and great fun for those doing it. Just imagine being thirsty, dying of thirst and then watching people throw water over thier heads for fun........ Raising money for any worthy charity is worth it and by whatever means possible, if it saves one life .... its worth it. But throwing ice cold water away? Hope all those who participate do it for the right reasons and donate...... instead of 15 minutes of fame on You Tube or Facebook. We will donate without wasting water Just out of interest how many buckets of water does it take to fill a hot tub ? dont know - we dont have a hot tub ...... our photo's are in a hotel swimming pool" A rather decadent way of using water when people don't even have enough to drink , don't you think ? | |||
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"ironic i know, but has anyone done it and donated to water aid ?? Strangely enough there was a bit of a debate about this on fb the other day. About how some people thought it was obscene when so many suffer from lack of clean water. We have Full sympathy for anyone with any illness/ disease - MND although incurable, is managable to help create a better quality of life.... unfortunately people with no clean ice cold water dont have any choice. There are other ways to raise money for any charity without rubbing it in the face of others who are suffering and although its gone global and great fun for those doing it. Just imagine being thirsty, dying of thirst and then watching people throw water over thier heads for fun........ Raising money for any worthy charity is worth it and by whatever means possible, if it saves one life .... its worth it. But throwing ice cold water away? Hope all those who participate do it for the right reasons and donate...... instead of 15 minutes of fame on You Tube or Facebook. We will donate without wasting water Just out of interest how many buckets of water does it take to fill a hot tub ? dont know - we dont have a hot tub ...... our photo's are in a hotel swimming pool" There is definately a picture of someone in a jacuzzi bath ![]() | |||
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"Meh, can't I just donate without throwing some water over my head? I'm lazy and boring (yep, check me out ladies). Besides, ice is for my drink. " Yes you can | |||
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"Meh, can't I just donate without throwing some water over my head? I'm lazy and boring (yep, check me out ladies). Besides, ice is for my drink. " You can do whatever you choose Libs. Participating isn't compulsory nor is donating. | |||
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"ironic i know, but has anyone done it and donated to water aid ?? Strangely enough there was a bit of a debate about this on fb the other day. About how some people thought it was obscene when so many suffer from lack of clean water. We have Full sympathy for anyone with any illness/ disease - MND although incurable, is managable to help create a better quality of life.... unfortunately people with no clean ice cold water dont have any choice. There are other ways to raise money for any charity without rubbing it in the face of others who are suffering and although its gone global and great fun for those doing it. Just imagine being thirsty, dying of thirst and then watching people throw water over thier heads for fun........ Raising money for any worthy charity is worth it and by whatever means possible, if it saves one life .... its worth it. But throwing ice cold water away? Hope all those who participate do it for the right reasons and donate...... instead of 15 minutes of fame on You Tube or Facebook. We will donate without wasting water Just out of interest how many buckets of water does it take to fill a hot tub ? dont know - we dont have a hot tub ...... our photo's are in a hotel swimming pool There is definately a picture of someone in a jacuzzi bath ![]() Yep - a picture of BOTH of us - The "jaccuzi" is not a bath, its a bubble pool (its air blown though tubes into water), adjoined to the main swimming pool. The water is recirculated - not wasted | |||
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"You can do whatever you choose Libs. Participating isn't compulsory nor is donating. " If I do it can I nominate the queen? | |||
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"ironic i know, but has anyone done it and donated to water aid ?? Strangely enough there was a bit of a debate about this on fb the other day. About how some people thought it was obscene when so many suffer from lack of clean water. We have Full sympathy for anyone with any illness/ disease - MND although incurable, is managable to help create a better quality of life.... unfortunately people with no clean ice cold water dont have any choice. There are other ways to raise money for any charity without rubbing it in the face of others who are suffering and although its gone global and great fun for those doing it. Just imagine being thirsty, dying of thirst and then watching people throw water over thier heads for fun........ Raising money for any worthy charity is worth it and by whatever means possible, if it saves one life .... its worth it. But throwing ice cold water away? Hope all those who participate do it for the right reasons and donate...... instead of 15 minutes of fame on You Tube or Facebook. We will donate without wasting water Just out of interest how many buckets of water does it take to fill a hot tub ? dont know - we dont have a hot tub ...... our photo's are in a hotel swimming pool There is definately a picture of someone in a jacuzzi bath ![]() Can you not see the irony of moaning about wasting one bucket of water because there are people without a drop yet there are pics of you frolicking in gallons of water for fun? | |||
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"You can do whatever you choose Libs. Participating isn't compulsory nor is donating. If I do it can I nominate the queen?" I'm not doing it ![]() | |||
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"You can do whatever you choose Libs. Participating isn't compulsory nor is donating. If I do it can I nominate the queen?" Nominate Prince Philip. Imagine the profanity. | |||
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"Im glad I did it Im glad I donated Im glad its raised awareness Im glad the money can be used to research cures or slow down the progression of this devastating disease Im glad that everyone is talking about it I refuse to allow the people who put a downer on it take that gladness away One thing is certain though,just as some non religious people suddenly begin to pray when they are in a life threatening situation,anyone diagnosed with MND will be wishing for unlimited funds to try and get a cure before it kills them " So you are glad that many animals including our closest animal relatives are being pointlessly tortured to find a cure and that 50% of all the donations go to staff wages? T | |||
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"For those of you worried about animal experiments the ALS/MND charities have a compassionate care charity page you can donate to. All this money just goes towards care for those with this illness. Nothing goes towards research. I will PM a link to anyone who wants it. " Surprising how many people don't know this. Pm me anyway ![]() | |||
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"Im glad I did it Im glad I donated Im glad its raised awareness Im glad the money can be used to research cures or slow down the progression of this devastating disease Im glad that everyone is talking about it I refuse to allow the people who put a downer on it take that gladness away One thing is certain though,just as some non religious people suddenly begin to pray when they are in a life threatening situation,anyone diagnosed with MND will be wishing for unlimited funds to try and get a cure before it kills them " ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"For those of you worried about animal experiments the ALS/MND charities have a compassionate care charity page you can donate to. All this money just goes towards care for those with this illness. Nothing goes towards research. I will PM a link to anyone who wants it. " Now that is more like it ![]() ![]() | |||
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"You can do whatever you choose Libs. Participating isn't compulsory nor is donating. If I do it can I nominate the queen?" I'm nominating Elvis | |||
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"Im glad I did it Im glad I donated Im glad its raised awareness Im glad the money can be used to research cures or slow down the progression of this devastating disease Im glad that everyone is talking about it I refuse to allow the people who put a downer on it take that gladness away One thing is certain though,just as some non religious people suddenly begin to pray when they are in a life threatening situation,anyone diagnosed with MND will be wishing for unlimited funds to try and get a cure before it kills them So you are glad that many animals including our closest animal relatives are being pointlessly tortured to find a cure and that 50% of all the donations go to staff wages? T" It's not about being glad about it. It's a sad fact that most of our major medical breakthroughs over the years have been discovered this way. And frankly, I personally find the idea of watching my friend watch his Father wither away to a helpless shell, and his Mother loosing the only love of her life, and his nephew not getting a chance to know the Grandfather he wanted to be, a much bigger and more heartbreaking tragedy. I would never hurt an animal intentionally but until there are other, more viable ways to come up with these treatments then I believe it's a necessary evil. Not for cosmetic testing but for treatments that could one day stop any awful life threatening debilitating disease in it's tracks. Of course everyone is entitled to their opinion, but while you're laying into people about their choice to do what they can, when they can because they choose too, think about how far you'd be willing to go and what you'd be willing to do for a someone you love, be it friend, lover, family or child. As for your arguement that ALS use money raised by funding for salaries, so does every charity. The retail shops are the worst for it. Generally the charity itself will only see 10 to 20 pence of every £1 spent in one due to salaries and overheads. Which is much more than the 50% you're complaining about in this instance. Would you stand in these shops and tell manager, who's paid a salary, that they're a disgrace for accepting that wage? Or accept that that is their way of doing their bit to help?? I'm absolutely glad I done it. I'm absolutely glad I donated. And I will do again. | |||
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"Im glad I did it Im glad I donated Im glad its raised awareness Im glad the money can be used to research cures or slow down the progression of this devastating disease Im glad that everyone is talking about it I refuse to allow the people who put a downer on it take that gladness away One thing is certain though,just as some non religious people suddenly begin to pray when they are in a life threatening situation,anyone diagnosed with MND will be wishing for unlimited funds to try and get a cure before it kills them So you are glad that many animals including our closest animal relatives are being pointlessly tortured to find a cure and that 50% of all the donations go to staff wages? T" 50% of a shit load of donations is better than 50% of nothing through. | |||
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