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"Ok I know distance can be an issue but in a country as small as ours (when you think about it, it is quite small!) Why do people not put more effort into meeting others? I mean if I had a connection with someone and would love to meet them, why does a small plane/train put others off? Just interested as to why as it wouldn't put me off xx" if I had the time it wouldn't put me off but I havent | |||
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"Cost, time, work, family commitments all cause difficulties. " All of those things.....I live in the real world.....with a real life and a real family. | |||
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"I think it is largely time and money. It's not that cheap to get around this small island unless you book well in advance. I have travelled to meet people but I also travel and arrange meets around the country. However, I would never encourage a man to come to London specifically to meet me as I cannot and will not promise more than a social meet. " Yes I think thats the thing. We will never play on a first meet and wouldn't travel a long distance for a social or expect anyone to travel to us. So an hour tops for us. | |||
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"It's a small island but one thing that staggered me the first time I came here was how long it took to cover small distances. That said, however, I have travelled hundreds of miles to meet people and had people travel hundreds of miles to meet me, but it was for more than just a shag." | |||
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"Sorry it was just something I wondered about, as I would quite happily travel to someone I was really interested in meeting, be it by train or plane and costs aren't that big, or maybe just me x" I have traveled and met people who have traveled a long way to meet - but I prefer repeat play opportunities, and distance really gets in the way of that. Its also a wariness, what if you travel a long distance and someone is not what they promised... even the most rigorous checks can be let down face to face for many reasons. | |||
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"It's a small island but one thing that staggered me the first time I came here was how long it took to cover small distances. That said, however, I have travelled hundreds of miles to meet people and had people travel hundreds of miles to meet me, but it was for more than just a shag." I always try and get a group of people together or meet more than one person I have been chatting to from the forum when I go on my travels. Plus I always have things I would like to see or do in an area. So, no sex on my Derbyshire trip but a great time meeting people and me having a little holiday. | |||
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"Sorry it was just something I wondered about, as I would quite happily travel to someone I was really interested in meeting, be it by train or plane and costs aren't that big, or maybe just me x I have traveled and met people who have traveled a long way to meet - but I prefer repeat play opportunities, and distance really gets in the way of that. Its also a wariness, what if you travel a long distance and someone is not what they promised... even the most rigorous checks can be let down face to face for many reasons." I know all of that, but besiding it all and you know you will get on sexual wise as well as social why don't people make the effort? I really don't get it, I've travelled for socials etc, and they are not a problem for me x | |||
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"Sorry it was just something I wondered about, as I would quite happily travel to someone I was really interested in meeting, be it by train or plane and costs aren't that big, or maybe just me x I have traveled and met people who have traveled a long way to meet - but I prefer repeat play opportunities, and distance really gets in the way of that. Its also a wariness, what if you travel a long distance and someone is not what they promised... even the most rigorous checks can be let down face to face for many reasons. I know all of that, but besiding it all and you know you will get on sexual wise as well as social why don't people make the effort? I really don't get it, I've travelled for socials etc, and they are not a problem for me x" maybe not everyone has the same budget as you to be getting trains tting trains and planes same as you | |||
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"Sorry it was just something I wondered about, as I would quite happily travel to someone I was really interested in meeting, be it by train or plane and costs aren't that big, or maybe just me x I have traveled and met people who have traveled a long way to meet - but I prefer repeat play opportunities, and distance really gets in the way of that. Its also a wariness, what if you travel a long distance and someone is not what they promised... even the most rigorous checks can be let down face to face for many reasons. I know all of that, but besiding it all and you know you will get on sexual wise as well as social why don't people make the effort? I really don't get it, I've travelled for socials etc, and they are not a problem for me x" How can you ever know you'll get on with someone socially and sexually before you meet? You can think it likely but there's only one way to be sure. | |||
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"Ok I know distance can be an issue but in a country as small as ours (when you think about it, it is quite small!) Why do people not put more effort into meeting others? I mean if I had a connection with someone and would love to meet them, why does a small plane/train put others off? Just interested as to why as it wouldn't put me off xx" . I totally agree if there is a connection what's the problem | |||
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"Sorry it was just something I wondered about, as I would quite happily travel to someone I was really interested in meeting, be it by train or plane and costs aren't that big, or maybe just me x I have traveled and met people who have traveled a long way to meet - but I prefer repeat play opportunities, and distance really gets in the way of that. Its also a wariness, what if you travel a long distance and someone is not what they promised... even the most rigorous checks can be let down face to face for many reasons. I know all of that, but besiding it all and you know you will get on sexual wise as well as social why don't people make the effort? I really don't get it, I've travelled for socials etc, and they are not a problem for me x How can you ever know you'll get on with someone socially and sexually before you meet? You can think it likely but there's only one way to be sure." I am always right about that......still doesn't change that I don't have much time.....thats why I'm always right about that | |||
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"Maybe. It's just a ball ache. " The idea is to get rid of that particular ache. | |||
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"Well I've never come across anyone. I'm prepared to travel to the other side of the country for sex. " My kinda gal | |||
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"Ok I know distance can be an issue but in a country as small as ours (when you think about it, it is quite small!) Why do people not put more effort into meeting others? I mean if I had a connection with someone and would love to meet them, why does a small plane/train put others off? Just interested as to why as it wouldn't put me off xx" I ve met people from all over the country, i even traveled to Texas to meet a girl, but i find alot on here now are just talkers | |||
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"Ok I know distance can be an issue but in a country as small as ours (when you think about it, it is quite small!) Why do people not put more effort into meeting others? I mean if I had a connection with someone and would love to meet them, why does a small plane/train put others off? Just interested as to why as it wouldn't put me off xx" There is also the fact that when you live as far away from the rest of the U.K. as we do that you get used to travelling. For people with thousands of people to meet on their doorstep the idea may never cross their minds to travel long distance. | |||
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"Ok I know distance can be an issue but in a country as small as ours (when you think about it, it is quite small!) Why do people not put more effort into meeting others? I mean if I had a connection with someone and would love to meet them, why does a small plane/train put others off? Just interested as to why as it wouldn't put me off xx" Longest i have gone so far is a 4 hour drive to the south coast to meet someone for sex, spent 4 hours with them and then a 4 hour drive back home, was well worth it in the end though. I'd probably travel upto Aberdeen sometime if i was invited | |||
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"Maybe. It's just a ball ache. The idea is to get rid of that particular ache. " I'd have to really really like someone. I've got friends I can't be arsed to visit, let alone someone from the interweb. | |||
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"Ok I know distance can be an issue but in a country as small as ours (when you think about it, it is quite small!) Why do people not put more effort into meeting others? I mean if I had a connection with someone and would love to meet them, why does a small plane/train put others off? Just interested as to why as it wouldn't put me off xx There is also the fact that when you live as far away from the rest of the U.K. as we do that you get used to travelling. For people with thousands of people to meet on their doorstep the idea may never cross their minds to travel long distance." Believe me...I wish I could...it would make my fantasy life a lot easier | |||
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"We'd travel further for someone we'd met at a social tgan for someone we'd never met. And we could/would probably find an excuse to combine a trip further a field with a meet. But travelling much further than London or a local club for a random meet is unlikely to ever happen because the time and cost wouldn't justify it" Sometimes I wish I could edit posts. Last paragraph should start "But generally travelling much fufurther" | |||
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"Ok I know distance can be an issue but in a country as small as ours (when you think about it, it is quite small!) Why do people not put more effort into meeting others? I mean if I had a connection with someone and would love to meet them, why does a small plane/train put others off? Just interested as to why as it wouldn't put me off xx" Its a bit ironic when your profile currently says "can't travel" In reality though a lot will and do. | |||
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"Ok I know distance can be an issue but in a country as small as ours (when you think about it, it is quite small!) Why do people not put more effort into meeting others? I mean if I had a connection with someone and would love to meet them, why does a small plane/train put others off? Just interested as to why as it wouldn't put me off xx" It's sex! Personally I'd rather spend time/money on holidays. I have a partner and enough local playmates to satisfy my needs, why on earth would I fly to Scotland for a shag?!! | |||
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"Well I've never come across anyone I'm prepared to travel to the other side of the country for, its only sex " Exactly! | |||
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"i prefer it if men are local to me.i dont like them to travel too far,as a first meet is only ever a social.but the amount of blokes who say the distance isnt a problem is mad." Especially when they expect to come down for a play without knowing what you look like and not having shown themselves either as I had this week from someone from nearly 2 hrs away | |||
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"I only meet locally, around 30 mins radius of where I live as I see no point in travelling miles and I just don't have the time. I also always meet socially first and don't always play on a first meet so wouldn't expect someone to travel miles for this although I have had people in 3-400 miles away suggest they come down and meet in a hotel. I wouldn't ever entertain the idea as its not guaranteed to end in play if there's no connection and I'm not comfortable." This. | |||
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"Ok I know distance can be an issue but in a country as small as ours (when you think about it, it is quite small!) Why do people not put more effort into meeting others? I mean if I had a connection with someone and would love to meet them, why does a small plane/train put others off? Just interested as to why as it wouldn't put me off xx" I have had a woman travel from fife to spend the weekend with, via a different site. Trouble was although we previously stated it was just a sex weekend, turned out she thought as she had travelled so far, there must be more than just sex. Can be tricky. | |||
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"I only meet locally, around 30 mins radius of where I live as I see no point in travelling miles and I just don't have the time. I also always meet socially first and don't always play on a first meet so wouldn't expect someone to travel miles for this although I have had people in 3-400 miles away suggest they come down and meet in a hotel. I wouldn't ever entertain the idea as its not guaranteed to end in play if there's no connection and I'm not comfortable." Me too. Glad im not the only one who does this | |||
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"Ok I know distance can be an issue but in a country as small as ours (when you think about it, it is quite small!) Why do people not put more effort into meeting others? I mean if I had a connection with someone and would love to meet them, why does a small plane/train put others off? Just interested as to why as it wouldn't put me off xx" Well I see you go to jaydees here in Cambs! So you practise what you preach x Funnily enough I used to have a fwb in bridge of don which you will know! That Sid she was beautiful and we had the best sex ever! X | |||
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