FabSwingers.com forum: If you stopped texting/calling how long before someone contacts you

By *itSam OP Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

If you stopped texting or making a first conversation with people, how long would it be before a friend contacted you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on when they wanted me.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

2 weeks or so?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends person to person, some text me regular some leave it weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

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By *amie HantsWoman
36 weeks ago

Atlantis

Some of my friends- about 7 seconds

My baby brother? About 10 years

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By *naswingdressWoman
36 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

We Are Not Amused

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By *alcon77Man
36 weeks ago

under the sun & the moon

A few days.

Less than a week.

It's hard to escape sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

"Some of my friends- about 7 seconds

My baby brother? About 10 years

And he definitely loves you the most

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

We Are Not Amused"

You are though.

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By *ddie1966Man
36 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

I always try to touch base at least once a week, but I I don't hear anything back for 2 weeks, I assume the interest has waned and don't bother again.

Maybe I'm being a bit too harsh ?

You tell me..

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

"A few days.

Less than a week.

It's hard to escape sometimes.

A few days is really good

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By *naswingdressWoman
36 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

We Are Not Amused

You are though. "

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By *alcon77Man
36 weeks ago

under the sun & the moon

"A few days.

Less than a week.

It's hard to escape sometimes.

A few days is really good"

I'm a popular son of gun

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

We Are Not Amused

You are though.

Hilarious how much you love me. Mwahahahaha

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By *naswingdressWoman
36 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Most friends: a couple of hours to a couple of days

My parents: a couple of days

rest of my family: what is this contact you speak of?

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

My friends will ask if I’m still alive if they haven’t heard from me all day

My dad on the other hand

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By *naswingdressWoman
36 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

We Are Not Amused

You are though.

Hilarious how much you love me. Mwahahahaha"

I just want my friends to answer my messages. goddamn it

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By *929Man
36 weeks ago

newcastle

I’m known by friends and family for never initiating contact so probably ages haha

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By *alcon77Man
36 weeks ago

under the sun & the moon

I'd like to go off into the wilderness somewhere for a month or 2.

Everyone would tell me to take my phone though..defeating the object..

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By *agnar73Man
36 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"If you stopped texting or making a first conversation with people, how long would it be before a friend contacted you."

It’s an interesting thing to do. If you replied last, leave it and see when they respond

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

"Some of my friends- about 7 seconds

My baby brother? About 10 years

This. Different relationships, different frequencies.

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By *odgerMooreMan
36 weeks ago

Carlisle

Ages… always have to make the running… stopped now - pointless!

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By *ittleshit-SteveMan
36 weeks ago

Devon

Probably about 2 to 3 weeks, as people I'm close with know I can be absolutely terrible at replying so they normally give me plenty of time to reply before chasing me up.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

We Are Not Amused

You are though.

Hilarious how much you love me. Mwahahahaha

I just want my friends to answer my messages. goddamn it

"
send nudes babe

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
36 weeks ago

Worcester

Probably about half an hour knowing my dickhead friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

A full day

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Hahaha.

I’ll let you know.

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By *ddie1966Man
36 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

I've just deleted myself as a friend.

I never message me anyway.

It's all been one sided I'm afraid.

I had to go.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
36 weeks ago

your head

Would depend on who it was, some would take a few days others months. I love my friends but we aren't attached at the hip, we accept we have lives and aren't always attached to our phones.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
36 weeks ago

Essex

I can be a bit flakey with contact.

But 3 people consistently notice when my activity is actually unusual. And I love them for it. They may get a 2 word answer at the time.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
36 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

Months.

I don’t keep regular contact with anyone. Even my closest friends can be months between contacts.

The first to think something may be amiss would be work colleagues, that would be because I physically wasn’t there.

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By *elix SightedMan
36 weeks ago

Cloud 8

My family - a few months.

My friends - a few weeks.

Work - the next day.

Let’s hope I’m not on leave when my body says “Oh for fucks sake” and keels over.

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By *illybeachboyMan
36 weeks ago

Guernsey

They never would, I'm always the one who makes sn effort to keep in touch.

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By *naswingdressWoman
36 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

We Are Not Amused

You are though.

Hilarious how much you love me. Mwahahahaha

I just want my friends to answer my messages. goddamn it

send nudes babe"

you wouldn't notice if I did

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

We Are Not Amused

You are though.

Hilarious how much you love me. Mwahahahaha

I just want my friends to answer my messages. goddamn it

send nudes babe

you wouldn't notice if I did

True.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

We Are Not Amused

You are though.

Hilarious how much you love me. Mwahahahaha

I just want my friends to answer my messages. goddamn it

send nudes babe

you wouldn't notice if I did

Wait... you send nudes

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By *nnCeeWoman
36 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

One friend, the same day. Has been known to come to my house if I don't reply...

Parents, Monday or a Thursday.

Everyone else, God only knows!

Although, like Felix said, I'm sure someone at work would check on me...

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By *sWyldWoman
36 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Depends on the friend. My bestie would notice pretty quick as we talk all the time. Close friends, probably a few days and they would check in.

My aunt a couple of days.

My circle is actually quite small

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
36 weeks ago

Horsham

Several friends never did call, so they are now ex friends.

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