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By *essysteve OP   Couple
over a year ago

ALICANTE AREA SPAIN

We get inundated with messages from single straight (according to their profile) guys who then tell us that they really are bi. They tell us that the majority of straight couples would not entertain a bi guy so they put straight on their profiles. What is the problem with admitting that you are bi on this type of site ........ we often wonder if they have anything else to hide ......

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

there is nothing stopping men from being honest about their sexuality....

well except the people who will not meet bi guys

so to maximise their chances, some prefer to lie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get inundated with messages from single straight (according to their profile) guys who then tell us that they really are bi. They tell us that the majority of straight couples would not entertain a bi guy so they put straight on their profiles. What is the problem with admitting that you are bi on this type of site ........ we often wonder if they have anything else to hide ...... "

Because bi guys are generally treated like lepers on here.

I am a straight playing bi guy, but I have the male halves of couples say no to a meet in case I tried to bum them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi n proud here.

I know the boundaries, and i a guy says no, then no it is, just means more time to spend on the woman lol.

If couples dont want to meet a bi guy, then fine , there not the couple i wanna be meeting.

Leper, me???? Possibly but im comfterble with my sexuality!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The whole thing of labelling is a pain in the arse. I decided there's too much fun to be had in bi mmf situations to maintain a straight status so I'm now labelling myself bi-curious simply because I don't have enough bi experience to know whether I'm Bisexual. I have no interest at the moment in 1 to 1 MM sex just bi threesomes or bi group fun, but I think it is a more representative label for me than straight.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm just me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get straight guys messaging or winking at us all the time and then say that they're really bi. We tell them to change their profiles and get back to us... none ever do .....purely and simply a ploy to get to play with Hinge!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's one of the great oft-discussed things about this site. It will never change as there are so many couples/women who won't meet bi guys for a myriad of reasons. And the magic Preferences defence always kicks in.

My advice to any couples/women on here who don't want to meet Bi-guys is this......Create a guys profile on Fabguys and when you get a message from a suspect profile search through the local profiles on there. You'd be amazed the amount of Straight guys on here who are Bi on there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get straight guys messaging or winking at us all the time and then say that they're really bi. We tell them to change their profiles and get back to us... none ever do .....purely and simply a ploy to get to play with Hinge!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's one of the great oft-discussed things about this site. It will never change as there are so many couples/women who won't meet bi guys for a myriad of reasons. And the magic Preferences defence always kicks in.

My advice to any couples/women on here who don't want to meet Bi-guys is this......Create a guys profile on Fabguys and when you get a message from a suspect profile search through the local profiles on there. You'd be amazed the amount of Straight guys on here who are Bi on there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just me. "

No im me your you xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a person can't be honest about their sexual orientation, what else are they not honest about?

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By *essysteve OP   Couple
over a year ago

ALICANTE AREA SPAIN

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By *essysteve OP   Couple
over a year ago

ALICANTE AREA SPAIN


"We get straight guys messaging or winking at us all the time and then say that they're really bi. We tell them to change their profiles and get back to us... none ever do .....purely and simply a ploy to get to play with Hinge!!"

Our sentiments exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get straight guys messaging or winking at us all the time and then say that they're really bi. We tell them to change their profiles and get back to us... none ever do .....purely and simply a ploy to get to play with Hinge!!

Our sentiments exactly "

Maybe there not bi but willing to give it ago because you ladies are that pritty

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm bi but often play straight too. I'm not ashamed of being bi but I would be ashamed of misleading people just for a shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all I get messaging me are "straight" guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"all I get messaging me are "straight" guys"

All I get messaging me are munters!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm Bi and happy to state that on my profile. Play with couples or singles of either gender, I like the best of both worlds!! We all have personal preferences and I respect those that don't wish to meet a bi guy (their loss imo). It's a free world out there folks, let's enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a person can't be honest about their sexual orientation, what else are they not honest about?

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Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im not bi but bi coriouse always maimtaind that

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