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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Constantly have stroppy "men" mailing and mailing because i wont meet/reply.

They also start slagging you and trying to put you down.

Does anyone else get messages like this?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yes they do, try blocking all guys and doing the searching for guys who take your fancy

it may help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report them, block them. Set your filters to block men and search for them yourself.

It's not just men that get stroppy at being turned down I might add.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Most of them get the hint but lately they just wont back off.

Ive only experienced it with guys but im sure some girls are the same

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings


"Constantly have stroppy "men" mailing and mailing because i wont meet/reply.

They also start slagging you and trying to put you down.

Does anyone else get messages like this? "

Why do men do that it spoils it for the majority

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Most of them get the hint but lately they just wont back off.

Ive only experienced it with guys but im sure some girls are the same "

the block button and filters will help minimise it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's good advice you have . I'm always being told no and that's from the mrs but I don't get stroppy lol no need for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get stroppy at all and I am professional at getting knock back don't block me as I still like looking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I also put a bit about not replying in my profile, but ovbiously their too desperate to read it!

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings


"I don't get stroppy at all and I am professional at getting knock back don't block me as I still like looking "

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By *sThunderThighsWoman
over a year ago

Toy Land


"I also put a bit about not replying in my profile, but ovbiously their too desperate to read it!"

They have to first read your profile !!!!! Then they have to take in the bits they don't like !!! Most don't do the first ! And half that do read only see the bits they want to !!! ... Block the nutters and enjoy the few that tick your boxes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Constantly have stroppy "men" mailing and mailing because i wont meet/reply.

They also start slagging you and trying to put you down.

Does anyone else get messages like this? "

Well welcome to Fab. One week later and you're already pissed off with single guys! That's some going

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know lol, he was a cheeky sod though!

Thanks for the advice though

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Wasn t Me

unless you work for Sony then it probably was, in my defence their customer service is shocking, 2 week's and you still haven t fixed it!!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Some seem to think being nasty will get you to change their mind. I've yet to meet anyone who finds being abused makes them more positive towards me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't let them stop you trying tho Tina

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Either block them when they message, if you aren't interested, or after replying to say no thanks, or if they send further messages after a no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont have a clue what I do but I just dont get this, maybe its because I do answer my messages and say no thankyou many times a day.i find the men are not stroppy on here, lots are polite and move on.

Its unfortunate that some men behave like this when ignored(a way of saying not interested) or rejected.Its playground stuff just block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There have been occasions were I do not get a reply I somtimes think maybe they are getting swamped with mail I usually just wait then mail again.

If read and no reply comes of it I just don't mail again simple as I've never been nasty to anybody on here yet but I do hear of guys acting like punkass fools a lot tho.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


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Why do men do that it spoils it for the majority "

they dont!!!!

I don't answer for them..... and they dont answer for me!!!... if people are prepared to judge me based on a stereotype... they aren't a person I want to know anyway!

I hate that phrase because its one of those soundbites that sounds good.. but is it pish!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well some don't like not getting there own way here and turn nasty . So maybe they are doing you a favor as would you wish to meet selfish stroppy people. So just move on don't mail them back they will get the message. If really nasty report to fab let them see the letters they send so can sort it for you. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worse than kids lol

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get Ladies doing that to me all the time Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Why do men do that it spoils it for the majority

they dont!!!!

I don't answer for them..... and they dont answer for me!!!... if people are prepared to judge me based on a stereotype... they aren't a person I want to know anyway!

I hate that phrase because its one of those soundbites that sounds good.. but is it pish!!"

This

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


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Why do men do that it spoils it for the majority

they dont!!!!

I don't answer for them..... and they dont answer for me!!!... if people are prepared to judge me based on a stereotype... they aren't a person I want to know anyway!

I hate that phrase because its one of those soundbites that sounds good.. but is it pish!!"

I quite agree. If someone has filtered out any messages from single guys that's fine I just move on and don't blame their decision on anyone, or even question it.

I know full well ladies get a lot of unsolicited and sometimes quite nasty messages and therefore totally understand why they prefer to search for what they want.

Pleading and moaning about it isn't going to help at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

men huh!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Constantly have stroppy "men" mailing and mailing because i wont meet/reply.

They also start slagging you and trying to put you down.

Does anyone else get messages like this? "

Yeah. I just report and block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100%..been there and done that..even from single guys Miles away from where we are!!! So now dont do even "Chat" with single guys..Its a shame that the stupid few get the rest a bad name!!!! There are dozens of posts each month about the same thing......

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I get this a lot as well so it's not just a woman thing.

I don't want to block men as I talk to male forum users as much as female or couples.

The only solution I have found is to track them to their houses, kill them, remove their skin and make lamp shades out of it. I wish there were a simpler way. *sigh*

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By *luezuluMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

LOOK I've told you time and time again, I aint bloody stroppy OK

Got it, I aint telling you again, I'm sick of hearing you saying I'm stroppy, I'm not

Never have been never will be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Constantly have stroppy "men" mailing and mailing because i wont meet/reply.

They also start slagging you and trying to put you down.

Does anyone else get messages like this? "

Naughty can't believe you didn't mail me back though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Constantly have stroppy "men" mailing and mailing because i wont meet/reply.

They also start slagging you and trying to put you down.

Does anyone else get messages like this? "

If its a problem block them all (single males) Then mail the ones you like the look of as they can then mail you back it would save all the agro.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"I also put a bit about not replying in my profile, but ovbiously their too desperate to read it!

They have to first read your profile !!!!! Then they have to take in the bits they don't like !!! Most don't do the first ! And half that do read only see the bits they want to !!! ... Block the nutters and enjoy the few that tick your boxes "
Sums it up very nicely. Also, take a break from looking in your inbox, as that can be a pain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often get men behaving like a stroppy teenager if i dare to say "no thanks" to them. I am always polite but they seem to not know how to behave, i get called a time waster too buty i dont see why we should meet with people that dont fit what we look for in a meet, seems a waste of time ..... i block them lol

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Am I the I the only one who doesn't get wound up about this sort of stuff? It's just words on a screen that you can easily delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, so much so, I changed my username and now have a bit in my profile about that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't wind me up i just block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do that, what I do, I can sus within 3 emails if they are genuine or not, then just move on to the next profile, easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a stroppy message from a guy. If I say no I almost always get a 'thanks for the reply' kind of message.

Did have a couple message recently asking if I'd had the snip though. When I asked why it mattered, she replied that she didn't want to get pregnant!

When I said I only play safe they sent me a not for us and blocked me before I could block them!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the I the only one who doesn't get wound up about this sort of stuff? It's just words on a screen that you can easily delete "

Delete... smile....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men deal with stroppy women also

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