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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So when a woman or a couple delete messages obviously it's because they aren't interested.

But I delete a message and I'm arrogant, stuck up, up my own arse and love myself too much (according the person whose message was deleted)

Yes, I blocked and moved on but I found it funny and some-what hypocritical

That is all

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

The rude responses and sense of entitlement is wide spread.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Double standards abound, and rudeness is more common than manners on here sadly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So when a woman or a couple delete messages obviously it's because they aren't interested.

But I delete a message and I'm arrogant, stuck up, up my own arse and love myself too much (according the person whose message was deleted)

Yes, I blocked and moved on but I found it funny and some-what hypocritical

That is all "

Singles males are bottom of the swinging pile - how DARE we have preferences?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is good for the goose, is good for the gander young man

Her

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By *himaeraWoman
over a year ago

near derby.

I must have been lucky so far, haven't had any abuse...yet!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The rude responses and sense of entitlement is wide spread.

"

True. Going by experience it seems to more of the men that post the rude responses. Maybe I was naive to think it wouldn't be the case for some women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I log on to a lot of messages then I read them all, save the ones I'm interested in to reply to later then mass delete my inbox (I do like a nice tidy inbox!!) I have had 2 abusive messages from people calling me all sorts of things for deleting it not knowing that I was actually interested, up until that point!! I quite like it, some show their true colours and do the deciding whether or not to meet for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems as though there is a rule for one and a rule for the other so we will just assume you must be "the other" lol

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"So when a woman or a couple delete messages obviously it's because they aren't interested.

But I delete a message and I'm arrogant, stuck up, up my own arse and love myself too much (according the person whose message was deleted)

"

Haha, sounds like you missed out on a total peach there!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So when a woman or a couple delete messages obviously it's because they aren't interested.

But I delete a message and I'm arrogant, stuck up, up my own arse and love myself too much (according the person whose message was deleted)

Yes, I blocked and moved on but I found it funny and some-what hypocritical

That is all

Singles males are bottom of the swinging pile - how DARE we have preferences? "

I know right. What wankers we are

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Why hypocritical?

You're as entitled to delete and not reply as any couple , single fem or TV/TS!

Arseholes aren't defined by gender or couple/single status.

A

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

I always delete mine.... I have a spotless in and out box oooooer

Oh and no abuse as yet but as I cant be arsed to bite back, I would delete those too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete my messages cos I can and it's not personal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I log on to a lot of messages then I read them all, save the ones I'm interested in to reply to later then mass delete my inbox (I do like a nice tidy inbox!!) I have had 2 abusive messages from people calling me all sorts of things for deleting it not knowing that I was actually interested, up until that point!! I quite like it, some show their true colours and do the deciding whether or not to meet for me."

This.

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT


"The rude responses and sense of entitlement is wide spread.

True. Going by experience it seems to more of the men that post the rude responses. Maybe I was naive to think it wouldn't be the case for some women "

Surely that's just a numbers thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are these messages people talk about. I thought them to be a fab myth.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've not deleted your messages

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If ever you get an offensive message, just let it confirm that you made the right decision not to meet them. And report and block of course.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"So when a woman or a couple delete messages obviously it's because they aren't interested.

But I delete a message and I'm arrogant, stuck up, up my own arse and love myself too much (according the person whose message was deleted)

Yes, I blocked and moved on but I found it funny and some-what hypocritical

That is all "

Lol. Single men just can't do anything right in some people's eyes.

Only a very tiny minority of single guys have been abusive to us and the amount of criticism and insult they take is disproportionate.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

many many can give it out... not the same amount can take it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"many many can give it out... not the same amount can take it"

I find this I'd also true in reverse of Jaffa cakes

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

*is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldnt stress over it ...I have no idea if any mail i send is deleted as i wouldnt think to look....you dont look like it will impact much

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"So when a woman or a couple delete messages obviously it's because they aren't interested.

But I delete a message and I'm arrogant, stuck up, up my own arse and love myself too much (according the person whose message was deleted)

Yes, I blocked and moved on but I found it funny and some-what hypocritical

That is all "

The ones who send nasty messages and then block so you can't reply are the most childish. Just thank your lucky stars you had a narrow escape meeting those type of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you not know that because your a single guy on a swingers site you loose you right to be picky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must have been lucky so far, haven't had any abuse...yet! "

Can I abuse you? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish you had to tick a little box when signing up for fab that says "I agree to not be an abusive, ungracious, arse if someone says no thanks" I always try to answer with a polite thanks for the message but not for me unless they do or say something that my profile says I don't like, then they get a delete. I often get messages saying I bet your a dog anyway or you sound like a slag or messages saying why not? Iv got a big cock!

Yesterday was the worst day so far for it, must of been too much time on their hands because of the bank holiday.x

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

*deletes*

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