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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do ppl post a meet on hear yet never reply to any mail sent.... are they just after a little attention? ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's possible (and this is only a suggestion, don't quote me on this) that you're not what they're looking for

Seriously, though, they probably get flooded with messages and may not have time to reply to them all, even if it's to say 'no thanks,

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

How do you know they never reply to any mail?

Or is what you are asking why they don't reply to you?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

They are still able to check profiles to see if they want to respond. Posting a meet can result in being inundated so they may not have gotten around to saying no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They could be pondering their opinions and will decide once they reach their deadline

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Maybe they are waiting for 52 requests, then they can assign each person a playing card, then they play a game of cards and the lucky 'meetee' is the one allocated to the winning card!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on what your messages are like?

"Hi how are you" won't get much attention.

But even the best possible message you can send, tailored to their profile is no guarantee if they're not interested in you.

There is no obligation for then to reply back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends on what your messages are like?

"Hi how are you" won't get much attention.

But even the best possible message you can send, tailored to their profile is no guarantee if they're not interested in you.

There is no obligation for then to reply back "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No reply = No thanks and maybe its those Why not me posts that are seeking attention

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By *how m3 the ropesMan
over a year ago

llanelli

Mail gets lost.... Or simply your not there cup of t.... I stopped stressing bout it now.... If people want you they letyou know otherwise just move on.... It's all meant to be fun not stressful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, just guessing, but maybe your profile does not lead them to believe they would like to meet you? That is not intended to be personal. It is just that everyone has their own personal preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd take the (clinical I know!) job interview approach:

"If you don't hear back from us then please assume your application wasn't successful in this instance"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd take the (clinical I know!) job interview approach:

"If you don't hear back from us then please assume your application wasn't successful in this instance"

"

That's a good approach!

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Why do ppl post a meet on hear yet never reply to any mail sent.... are they just after a little attention? ?? "
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oh dear he we go again

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Possibly they are harvesting body parts and you don't have the bit they after and may have had a lucky escape

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Maybe you are not what they are looking for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you'd post a thread about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's not that they don't reply as I can accept that is a no thanks... but as was said it might be the vast number of messages they receive on hear as there dose seem to be 6783 men per one woman so guess she can be picky if she wishes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Online everyone is very cautious, can understand this, women need to feel safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try not to take it personal

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Some users take a long time in coffee shops progressing beyond the social meet first stage, when free refills are available or theyre trying to get their frequent slurpers card upgraded to the free syrup and loyalty bonus free extra coffee shot level by grabbing all the coffee they can. You may have been the backup plan B or C, er even Z. But until theyre caffeine and cock buzzed you wont be hearing. The cafe free wifi wont let them reply to internet 'filth' and its pretty bad form tapping on a phone for the next cock in line when youve not even managed to get this one through the door. And he says he's packing an extra 1/8th of an inch to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not that they don't reply as I can accept that is a no thanks... but as was said it might be the vast number of messages they receive on hear as there dose seem to be 6783 men per one woman so guess she can be picky if she wishes... "

You're contradicting yourself now in comparison to your first message?

Your first message statement that women don't reply to meet request because they just want attention.

Now you're saying that they can be picky?

It's hard to understand what point you're trying to make?

No malice intended at all, just curiosity

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By *upidsCouple2014Couple
over a year ago

DUDLEY

We have found that arranging meets can be harder than it seems. I work away all week and my partner also has a full time stressful job. Like most people we also have family/social commitments, so when arranging to meet people its more about finding a mutual time that suits both couples, than just randomly meeting up with couples( though that idea does appeal). We don't want to rush into a situation without chatting first as this could lead to misunderstandings and potential disappointment.

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