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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

So I went on a date yesterday with a guy that I got on really well with...I'd like to see him again but I tend to fuck things up lol....can I have some tips please so I don't end up with egg on my face...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I'd wait and see if he contacts you, if he does go with the flow

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"So I went on a date yesterday with a guy that I got on really well with...I'd like to see him again but I tend to fuck things up lol....can I have some tips please so I don't end up with egg on my face... "

If you go out for dinner for the second date - don't drink too much and fall asleep in your omelette!

A

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I'd wait and see if he contacts you, if he does go with the flow

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I am.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I went on a date yesterday with a guy that I got on really well with...I'd like to see him again but I tend to fuck things up lol....can I have some tips please so I don't end up with egg on my face... "
just be yourself and you'll be right if hes into you hell prefer you no point bein fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you didn't fuck up the first date, Id suggest doing more the same, with a side order of first or second base!

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Third dates the charm

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Seriously, be yourself. You're fab (no pun intended) and in the company of the right person, you'll shine like a star.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Dating and relationships are not my area of expertise.

I wish they were because I'm stuck in the middle of a marital row at the moment and I'm tempted to knock their heads together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to look up his mums number from the phonebook and have nice conversation - always good to get in with his mum because she'll nag him to like you.

After that you probably need to ask him how many kids he wants because that's essential information you need to know before it goes any further.

You'll probably need to scare off any other women too so try and hang around outside his house/place of work and observe - if any goes near him just run screaming at them and that should be enough to assert your authority.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"So I went on a date yesterday with a guy that I got on really well with...I'd like to see him again but I tend to fuck things up lol....can I have some tips please so I don't end up with egg on my face... "

If you believe you will fuck up then you probably will...positive thinking and no eggs

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

It's a vanilla date and I'm just worried I'm so entrenched in this lifestyle I fear that I can't be myself...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask him what he's looking for

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"It's a vanilla date and I'm just worried I'm so entrenched in this lifestyle I fear that I can't be myself... "
has he contacted you? Does he know your on here?

Try not to over think it and if you go out again just aim to have a laugh and find out stuff about each other

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's a vanilla date and I'm just worried I'm so entrenched in this lifestyle I fear that I can't be myself... "

NO! Never fear being yourself, why would you not want to be yourself, can you be another person for ever if it came down to it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I went on a date yesterday with a guy that I got on really well with...I'd like to see him again but I tend to fuck things up lol....can I have some tips please so I don't end up with egg on my face...

If you believe you will fuck up then you probably will...positive thinking and no eggs "

I'll second this one

Let it flow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a vanilla date and I'm just worried I'm so entrenched in this lifestyle I fear that I can't be myself... "

I'm exactly the same. I've messed up a lot of vanilla dates (usually after the second date) because when the topic goes to sex I'm far too honest. I vote keeping sex chats at bay for a while.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Its along while since I first dated someone but jay and I took a year to get to know each other before we became an item. I think you need to build the foundations first

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Invite him to your party so we can either all tell him how awesome you are and big you up, or all tell him this is the annual gathering of some of your past partners and so big you up to him

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Ask him what he's looking for "

Fuck no

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"It's a vanilla date and I'm just worried I'm so entrenched in this lifestyle I fear that I can't be myself... has he contacted you? Does he know your on here?

Try not to over think it and if you go out again just aim to have a laugh and find out stuff about each other

"

He said he wanted to see me again so I've left it there, he hasn't contacted me today..no he does not know I'm on here I think he would freak and run a mile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a vanilla date and I'm just worried I'm so entrenched in this lifestyle I fear that I can't be myself... "

Have you thought that its all part of who you are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its along while since I first dated someone but jay and I took a year to get to know each other before we became an item. I think you need to build the foundations first

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Glad you didn't rush things lol a year

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"It's a vanilla date and I'm just worried I'm so entrenched in this lifestyle I fear that I can't be myself... has he contacted you? Does he know your on here?

Try not to over think it and if you go out again just aim to have a laugh and find out stuff about each other

He said he wanted to see me again so I've left it there, he hasn't contacted me today..no he does not know I'm on here I think he would freak and run a mile x "

well if you want to be honest with him you need to say your on here and let him make the decision before it goes any further

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"It's a vanilla date and I'm just worried I'm so entrenched in this lifestyle I fear that I can't be myself...

Have you thought that its all part of who you are?

"

It is part of me I've met some awesome people and made some great friends etc...it's a lot to just give up and I'm not looking to the future as it was just a first date...it just got me thinking

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"It's a vanilla date and I'm just worried I'm so entrenched in this lifestyle I fear that I can't be myself... has he contacted you? Does he know your on here?

Try not to over think it and if you go out again just aim to have a laugh and find out stuff about each other

He said he wanted to see me again so I've left it there, he hasn't contacted me today..no he does not know I'm on here I think he would freak and run a mile x well if you want to be honest with him you need to say your on here and let him make the decision before it goes any further

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I will see if I get a second date and go from there...

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

You have had my advice, not gonna postvit on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask him what he's looking for

Fuck no "

That's good you're learning lol

If it's going to work out long term he has to fall for the real you. Show him the real you and it will either cause him to fall head over heels or not. Make him feel special and be yourself.

Don't scare him too early

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Its along while since I first dated someone but jay and I took a year to get to know each other before we became an item. I think you need to build the foundations first

Glad you didn't rush things lol a year "

lol I know but it works for us. I'd met married and had a baby within 14 months with my ex husband

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a vanilla date and I'm just worried I'm so entrenched in this lifestyle I fear that I can't be myself...

Have you thought that its all part of who you are?

It is part of me I've met some awesome people and made some great friends etc...it's a lot to just give up and I'm not looking to the future as it was just a first date...it just got me thinking "

The right person for you wont ask you to become a subset of a whole, but will embrace you for who you are and change will happen organically as you grow together.

Denying who you are is one of the fastest ways to misery and unhappiness.

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"You have had my advice, not gonna postvit on here."

I know and I thank you for that xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's a vanilla date and I'm just worried I'm so entrenched in this lifestyle I fear that I can't be myself...

Have you thought that its all part of who you are?

It is part of me I've met some awesome people and made some great friends etc...it's a lot to just give up and I'm not looking to the future as it was just a first date...it just got me thinking

The right person for you wont ask you to become a subset of a whole, but will embrace you for who you are and change will happen organically as you grow together.

Denying who you are is one of the fastest ways to misery and unhappiness. "

This very true and good advice.

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"It's a vanilla date and I'm just worried I'm so entrenched in this lifestyle I fear that I can't be myself...

Have you thought that its all part of who you are?

It is part of me I've met some awesome people and made some great friends etc...it's a lot to just give up and I'm not looking to the future as it was just a first date...it just got me thinking

The right person for you wont ask you to become a subset of a whole, but will embrace you for who you are and change will happen organically as you grow together.

Denying who you are is one of the fastest ways to misery and unhappiness.

This very true and good advice."

Professor knows me quite well and it is really good advice, all of it is great advice and that's why I love you guys

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

don't say you have noticed nice 'wedding invites' in the sale... that ends on Bank Holiday Monday

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It'll never last.....

Cut your losses now, mess me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its along while since I first dated someone but jay and I took a year to get to know each other before we became an item. I think you need to build the foundations first

Glad you didn't rush things lol a year lol I know but it works for us. I'd met married and had a baby within 14 months with my ex husband

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We did something that stupid lol

Can't give advice on dates as it's been 30 years since my last one so things may off changed a little but enjoy and be yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have said I had a great time if you fancy meeting up again then send me a text and we can sort something out,then I would leave the ball in his court

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice is just chill and go with the flow. Good luck Gorgeous

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I would have said I had a great time if you fancy meeting up again then send me a text and we can sort something out,then I would leave the ball in his court"
fuck me, you've been talking some sense over the last couple of days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would have said I had a great time if you fancy meeting up again then send me a text and we can sort something out,then I would leave the ball in his courtfuck me, you've been talking some sense over the last couple of days "

I must have had a bang on the head!

Normal service will resume once the swelling has gone down

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"So I went on a date yesterday with a guy that I got on really well with...I'd like to see him again but I tend to fuck things up lol....can I have some tips please so I don't end up with egg on my face... "

Cheeky, relax , breathe. Be patient and he will probably come to you. You're a lovely woman with a great personality xx dating in the vanilla world takes time xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I would have said I had a great time if you fancy meeting up again then send me a text and we can sort something out,then I would leave the ball in his courtfuck me, you've been talking some sense over the last couple of days

I must have had a bang on the head!

Normal service will resume once the swelling has gone down "

thank god. I'm fed up of agreeing with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm insulted you haven't taken my advice - you'd be engaged and making babies by now.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Think I'm going to become a relationship councillor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm insulted you haven't taken my advice - you'd be engaged and making babies by now."

did she turn you down?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After the sex date, I usually text, thanks for a fab time, its a bonus if there comes something out of it lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm terrible at dating myself

But usually when dates go well the girl sends me a nice thank you text along the lines of 'had a great time, lets do it again..'

Then just wait and hopefully you'll get a second date!

Don't worry about the other stuff like sex until the time comes... just enjoy yourself

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I want to go on a date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a vanilla date and I'm just worried I'm so entrenched in this lifestyle I fear that I can't be myself...

Have you thought that its all part of who you are?

It is part of me I've met some awesome people and made some great friends etc...it's a lot to just give up and I'm not looking to the future as it was just a first date...it just got me thinking "

I left after a first date, the chemistry was big enough to do that. Don't know the back story but your dating so guess your 'looking for something'. Attaching your to certain things (ie this lifestyle) are just your boundarys right now. Funny when something comes out of blue and smashes everything out the water. If I have advice it's; what do you truly want!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I went on a date yesterday with a guy that I got on really well with...I'd like to see him again but I tend to fuck things up lol....can I have some tips please so I don't end up with egg on my face... "

Why would you fuck things up... Daft bugger. Wait for him to call, be yourself, you are a lovely person... Don't doubt yourself, or be so hard on yourself! He will be back for more, I'm sure... Slowly slowly ... Good luck sweetie x

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"It's a vanilla date and I'm just worried I'm so entrenched in this lifestyle I fear that I can't be myself...

Have you thought that its all part of who you are?

It is part of me I've met some awesome people and made some great friends etc...it's a lot to just give up and I'm not looking to the future as it was just a first date...it just got me thinking

I left after a first date, the chemistry was big enough to do that. Don't know the back story but your dating so guess your 'looking for something'. Attaching your to certain things (ie this lifestyle) are just your boundarys right now. Funny when something comes out of blue and smashes everything out the water. If I have advice it's; what do you truly want!"

I've been single 4 years and I miss a relationship so thought I'd take the plunge and try...he came out of the blue to be honest but like I say I tend to fuck things up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've decided that the next man who dates me will have to wait for 3 months for sex

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"Dating and relationships are not my area of expertise.

I wish they were because I'm stuck in the middle of a marital row at the moment and I'm tempted to knock their heads together. "

I've been in that place and it's so frustrating!!!

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By *rcalmMan
over a year ago

leeds/bradford

hi all,well if you met him on fab,,cant see a problem,if he read your profile!!if he dont know you on here,you will have to tell him,,simplesxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What ever happens don't let an ex/fb send him a nice email explaining what he does to get u off alongside 32 attached intimate pics of u making sure his cock was in a few for added measure. (yes this has just happened to me with a nice girl i was dating hadn't even got to find anything out for myself )

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I've decided that the next man who dates me will have to wait for 3 months for sex"
jay and I didn't have penetrive sex for three months lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've decided that the next man who dates me will have to wait for 3 months for sex"

i just tried that. See my last post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relax, enjoy, be yourself...

Says he giving advice when he is crap at relationships and dating lol

Good luck

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"hi all,well if you met him on fab,,cant see a problem,if he read your profile!!if he dont know you on here,you will have to tell him,,simplesxx "

Possibly I will but that's something to consider somewhere along the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck!

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Good luck! "

Thanks lovely x

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"What ever happens don't let an ex/fb send him a nice email explaining what he does to get u off alongside 32 attached intimate pics of u making sure his cock was in a few for added measure. (yes this has just happened to me with a nice girl i was dating hadn't even got to find anything out for myself )"

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

be yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be yourself

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

1. Buy house with cellar

2. Lure him round

3. Lock him in cellar

4. Gradually brainwash him into your perfect partner

5. Have babies

6. Live happily ever after

Or let him know you had a good time and would like to see him again and wait and see what happens.

I hope it works out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've decided that the next man who dates me will have to wait for 3 months for sexjay and I didn't have penetrive sex for three months lol

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Good woman! Lol I probably won't last 3 months unless he's working away

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Chastity belt.

Send me the key.

I'll send it back in 3 months.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Cheeky, don't over-think it, make plans for the future and then wonder why it isn't going as you want it to.

Each date is a new step, a new unveiling of yourself and a chance to see more of him. One date at a time.

Enjoy it and he will too.

Have fun and good luck.

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Well I got a dear Jess message, I'm a lovely person and he had a great laugh and a lovely time but he doesn't think it will go any further...hey ho...I tried

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww Cheeky. He's mad x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Well I got a dear Jess message, I'm a lovely person and he had a great laugh and a lovely time but he doesn't think it will go any further...hey ho...I tried "
bugger but at least you know and he's not kept you waiting around. Next.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Well I got a dear Jess message, I'm a lovely person and he had a great laugh and a lovely time but he doesn't think it will go any further...hey ho...I tried "

I'm sorry. At least he told you sooner rather than later. And, you did put yourself out there and enjoyed the date.

Back to kissing frogs.

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Aww Cheeky. He's mad x "

He ain't mad he is being honest x

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aww Cheeky. He's mad x

He ain't mad he is being honest x "

That's true. You know what I mean though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty more where he came from. Have fun looking for the one

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"It's a vanilla date and I'm just worried I'm so entrenched in this lifestyle I fear that I can't be myself... has he contacted you? Does he know your on here?

Try not to over think it and if you go out again just aim to have a laugh and find out stuff about each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a numpty his arse needs a good kick x

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


" "

Libs don't be shit happens xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't catch fish if you don't go fishing. Some you catch some slip the hook some you get to keep. Its not great if a good one gets away but keep in your mind there is always more than good one and you won't get unless you get your hook in the water. So the morale to this tail is keep wiggling your worm!

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By *heBirminghamWeekendMan
over a year ago

here


"Aww Cheeky. He's mad x

He ain't mad he is being honest x "

Appreciate the honesty - but don't dwell.

What's next?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Aww Cheeky. He's mad x

He ain't mad he is being honest x "

And saving you time.

It's not a bad thing that he knows what he wants and didn't want to string you along whilst he waited for it to come along.

If you really do feel so entrenched in this place that you're not being yourself... remember, people will pick up on it!

My philosophy is.... if they are the right one, they accept you for the person you are.

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"You don't catch fish if you don't go fishing. Some you catch some slip the hook some you get to keep. Its not great if a good one gets away but keep in your mind there is always more than good one and you won't get unless you get your hook in the water. So the morale to this tail is keep wiggling your worm!

"

Thanks Ron x

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Aww Cheeky. He's mad x

He ain't mad he is being honest x

And saving you time.

It's not a bad thing that he knows what he wants and didn't want to string you along whilst he waited for it to come along.

If you really do feel so entrenched in this place that you're not being yourself... remember, people will pick up on it!

My philosophy is.... if they are the right one, they accept you for the person you are.

"

Great advice thanks polo xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't catch fish if you don't go fishing. Some you catch some slip the hook some you get to keep. Its not great if a good one gets away but keep in your mind there is always more than good one and you won't get unless you get your hook in the water. So the morale to this tail is keep wiggling your worm!

Thanks Ron x "

I know you girls haven't a worm so it kind of doesn't fit but you cant put a punani on a hook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chin up! x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I reckon I'm going to come on one of your dates with you

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I reckon I'm going to come on one of your dates with you "

You should lol x

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Just read through the thread filled with hope; a nice guy for lovely CC !!

Then heartbreak....for me at least. I am gutted Lovely. I hope the right guy comes along soon.

Xxx

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Just read through the thread filled with hope; a nice guy for lovely CC !!

Then heartbreak....for me at least. I am gutted Lovely. I hope the right guy comes along soon.

Xxx"

Thanks sweet pea xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes a good person to be upbeat and positive, just keep doing what you're doing.

Honesty is the best policy, sounds like you've done the hardest part - attracting people who you are interested in (enough for a first date), and seeing if there's that spark etc.

Plenty more fish and you're a good catch, won't be long 'till you find whatever it is you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*til

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Well I got a dear Jess message, I'm a lovely person and he had a great laugh and a lovely time but he doesn't think it will go any further...hey ho...I tried "

stupid man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I got a dear Jess message, I'm a lovely person and he had a great laugh and a lovely time but he doesn't think it will go any further...hey ho...I tried "

Hiss loss Cheeky. keep smiling lovely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As has been said, better sooner than later... Don't dwell. Guess he wasn't the right guy for you. He will come along when your not looking and least expect it.

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Well I got a dear Jess message, I'm a lovely person and he had a great laugh and a lovely time but he doesn't think it will go any further...hey ho...I tried

stupid man"

He isn't though, it's his choice and I'd rather be told now than being led up the merry path. I wish him all the luck in the world he is a nice guy...not that I messaged him back saying that I just deleted his message and number and thought what a great day out I had yesterday

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Well I got a dear Jess message, I'm a lovely person and he had a great laugh and a lovely time but he doesn't think it will go any further...hey ho...I tried

stupid man

He isn't though, it's his choice and I'd rather be told now than being led up the merry path. I wish him all the luck in the world he is a nice guy...not that I messaged him back saying that I just deleted his message and number and thought what a great day out I had yesterday "

I thought she meant stupid for not stringing it out for a blow-job

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Well I got a dear Jess message, I'm a lovely person and he had a great laugh and a lovely time but he doesn't think it will go any further...hey ho...I tried

stupid man

He isn't though, it's his choice and I'd rather be told now than being led up the merry path. I wish him all the luck in the world he is a nice guy...not that I messaged him back saying that I just deleted his message and number and thought what a great day out I had yesterday

I thought she meant stupid for not stringing it out for a blow-job "

Lol that was date 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a vanilla date and I'm just worried I'm so entrenched in this lifestyle I fear that I can't be myself... has he contacted you? Does he know your on here?

Try not to over think it and if you go out again just aim to have a laugh and find out stuff about each other

He said he wanted to see me again so I've left it there, he hasn't contacted me today..no he does not know I'm on here I think he would freak and run a mile x well if you want to be honest with him you need to say your on here and let him make the decision before it goes any further

I will see if I get a second date and go from there... "

Exactly. Leave it be, let him find you. If you have a social something you could call and ask if he will join you ? .. Mates going swinging (joke), family picnic, family do ....otherwise, if no reason to call him be patient.

As for here, well let the relationship blossum before telling him you swing ... Xx

Lucky man to have caught your eye!!

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

next!!!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Well I got a dear Jess message, I'm a lovely person and he had a great laugh and a lovely time but he doesn't think it will go any further...hey ho...I tried

stupid man

He isn't though, it's his choice and I'd rather be told now than being led up the merry path. I wish him all the luck in the world he is a nice guy...not that I messaged him back saying that I just deleted his message and number and thought what a great day out I had yesterday

I thought she meant stupid for not stringing it out for a blow-job "

Well, yes, there's that too.

Cheeky, I still think he's daft for not wanting to see you again but yeah, shit happens.

I agree it's a good thing he was honest and didn't drag it out.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"It's a vanilla date and I'm just worried I'm so entrenched in this lifestyle I fear that I can't be myself... "

If you feel that you can't be yourself, he's not the one for you. The right one won't give a hoot about how you entrench yourself.

Good luck lovely x

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Well I got a dear Jess message, I'm a lovely person and he had a great laugh and a lovely time but he doesn't think it will go any further...hey ho...I tried

stupid man

He isn't though, it's his choice and I'd rather be told now than being led up the merry path. I wish him all the luck in the world he is a nice guy...not that I messaged him back saying that I just deleted his message and number and thought what a great day out I had yesterday

I thought she meant stupid for not stringing it out for a blow-job

Lol that was date 2 "

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Well I got a dear Jess message, I'm a lovely person and he had a great laugh and a lovely time but he doesn't think it will go any further...hey ho...I tried

stupid man

He isn't though, it's his choice and I'd rather be told now than being led up the merry path. I wish him all the luck in the world he is a nice guy...not that I messaged him back saying that I just deleted his message and number and thought what a great day out I had yesterday

I thought she meant stupid for not stringing it out for a blow-job

Well, yes, there's that too.

Cheeky, I still think he's daft for not wanting to see you again but yeah, shit happens.

I agree it's a good thing he was honest and didn't drag it out."

Deep down I'm disappointed but it's life and life ain't always rosy x x

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

One day one of your threads will end with " we've been seeing loads of each other and I know he's the one" and everyone will be genuinely happy for you.

Onwards and upwards!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

That'll teach me for not reading all the comments. Sorry that he didn't see the same spark you saw. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I got a dear Jess message, I'm a lovely person and he had a great laugh and a lovely time but he doesn't think it will go any further...hey ho...I tried "

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"That'll teach me for not reading all the comments. Sorry that he didn't see the same spark you saw. x"

Thanks lovely, this place cheers me up no end....and I thank everyone for that x.

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I'm off to Denmark soon so no doubt my mum will try and set me up with some Danish guy lol xx

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I'm off to Denmark soon so no doubt my mum will try and set me up with some Danish guy lol xx "

Don't knock it - she may know exactly the right person for you.

You'll be in your Viking costume too, won't you? How can they resist?

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I'm off to Denmark soon so no doubt my mum will try and set me up with some Danish guy lol xx

Don't knock it - she may know exactly the right person for you.

You'll be in your Viking costume too, won't you? How can they resist?

"

My mother knows me better than any Human being I know but I'm not looking for anything...I tried it didn't happen and the last thing I need is a long distance romance lol

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Although not the fairytale, I agree it's better to know sooner than later. I've been on dates and it's more than disappointing when it just fizzles out on account of not being told where i/we stand. That's a bit cowardice but it's better just to know.

Although he may not have been for you, you'll meet someone who is, this many people saying such nice things can't be wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See each meet for what it is with no expectations for the next time. Free yourself of stressful thinking. It's all about being present now instead of being consumed about the future, with something that has not even happened yet. Wishing you only the best xxx

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I'm off to Denmark soon so no doubt my mum will try and set me up with some Danish guy lol xx "

Ask her to find a hunky one to send over for me instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See each meet for what it is with no expectations for the next time. Free yourself of stressful thinking. It's all about being present now instead of being consumed about the future, with something that has not even happened yet. Wishing you only the best xxx"
good stuff

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Sometimes best to be upfront if you like him rather than waiting for him which create some sort of game of course don't come to heavy just simple had a great time and would like to see you again.

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Thanks for all the lovely replies I feel a bit today but got to keep smiling...cheers guys xx

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Did anyone say fuck his brains out ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all the lovely replies I feel a bit today but got to keep smiling...cheers guys xx "

Aww..hugs...and don't forget

"This time next year we'll be millionaires Cheeky......"

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By *hris n AnnaCouple
over a year ago

edinburghish


"You need to look up his mums number from the phonebook and have nice conversation - always good to get in with his mum because she'll nag him to like you.

After that you probably need to ask him how many kids he wants because that's essential information you need to know before it goes any further.Ha ha that's made me laugh

You'll probably need to scare off any other women too so try and hang around outside his house/place of work and observe - if any goes near him just run screaming at them and that should be enough to assert your authority."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll date you miss cheeky chops xxx

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I'll date you miss cheeky chops xxx"

Aww thanks, my dating days are over for a bit lol...I'm just going to have fun life is too short to be miserable and anyway dating is so hard work lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be yourself, but reign in the sex stuff.. Some things are better kept to yourself, until you know the relationship is going somewhere at least!

I'm the queen of playing it cool. But sometimes I'm a bit too cool!

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"I'll date you miss cheeky chops xxx

Aww thanks, my dating days are over for a bit lol...I'm just going to have fun life is too short to be miserable and anyway dating is so hard work lol "

Well ...how about a big hug

Mwah

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"Be yourself, but reign in the sex stuff.. Some things are better kept to yourself, until you know the relationship is going somewhere at least!

I'm the queen of playing it cool. But sometimes I'm a bit too cool! "

Well when you are as hot as you are, you have to do something to chill those around you.

Im red hot after looking at your pics...again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was it a POF date? I'd say first thing is you need to sort your priorities. Then you, yourself will know where you need to take it and how to behave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all the lovely replies I feel a bit today but got to keep smiling...cheers guys xx "

Hope you feel better soon Cheeky. Good things come to those that wait. You're always so positive on here, I'm sure, when the timing is right, you'll meet the right guy.

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

His loss Miss CC but least he didn't keep you hanging on!! I applaud you for stepping into the vanilla dating I'm still afraid to!!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I'll date you miss cheeky chops xxx

Aww thanks, my dating days are over for a bit lol...I'm just going to have fun life is too short to be miserable and anyway dating is so hard work lol "

I'll come over one night and we can go out on the pull if you like. I need to get out more.

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I'll date you miss cheeky chops xxx

Aww thanks, my dating days are over for a bit lol...I'm just going to have fun life is too short to be miserable and anyway dating is so hard work lol

I'll come over one night and we can go out on the pull if you like. I need to get out more."

Sounds fun

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