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By *ranthamThroat OP   Man
over a year ago

Grantham.

are nice but they don't deliver & after the uncounted number of them they do become SO tedious, but honestly what is the point of them?

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By *ojoTV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool

Well chick....it's a shame you aren't nearer then I could explain...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they're hinting that they'd like you to travel to them.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Shame you weren't nearer op

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

we get quite a few like that and we think they're nice. You know as surely as is possible on a site like this that any compliment is genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree they are boring messages but if the user catches my eye I'll always keep them in mind just in case I am ever in their area

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By *ranthamThroat OP   Man
over a year ago

Grantham.


"Well chick....it's a shame you aren't nearer then I could explain..."

LOL well if I was a chick in need of a mother hen I would let you know;-)

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By *ranthamThroat OP   Man
over a year ago

Grantham.


"Maybe they're hinting that they'd like you to travel to them. "

Ah well that would get them blocked because they would not have read my profile that says I don not travel!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shame you weren't nearer op "

What's nearer lol

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By *cankeepMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Same with the max age thing: "Shame, your max age is 42 and I'm 59"... Not a shame at all for me!

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By *ranthamThroat OP   Man
over a year ago

Grantham.


"Shame you weren't nearer op "

Oh I owe you so many drinks missus!, 20 miles away and never near!

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By *ranthamThroat OP   Man
over a year ago

Grantham.


"we get quite a few like that and we think they're nice. You know as surely as is possible on a site like this that any compliment is genuine "

It is, but after hundreds it is slightly teeeeddddiouuuuuus!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Shame you weren't nearer op

Oh I owe you so many drinks missus!, 20 miles away and never near! "

you do owe me drinks one day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes send them as a means of testing the water, and trying to see if there might be an attraction. After all, I've been here a long time, and know that a fair few people on here travel with work, so it's worth it now and then just askig if there might be a chance you could meet somewhere nearer.

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By *ranthamThroat OP   Man
over a year ago

Grantham.


"I agree they are boring messages but if the user catches my eye I'll always keep them in mind just in case I am ever in their area "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"we get quite a few like that and we think they're nice. You know as surely as is possible on a site like this that any compliment is genuine

It is, but after hundreds it is slightly teeeeddddiouuuuuus!"

If only we got hundreds three or four is fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awwww, feel we're missing out now....

Never had a single one of those types

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By *ranthamThroat OP   Man
over a year ago

Grantham.


"Shame you weren't nearer op

What's nearer lol "

To whom?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Same with the max age thing: "Shame, your max age is 42 and I'm 59"... Not a shame at all for me!"

Lol!

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I get quite a lot, but I do live in the middle of bugger all, north east of scotland...

I tend to find they are followed up with a do you skype/kik/naughty chat message.

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By *ranthamThroat OP   Man
over a year ago

Grantham.


"Same with the max age thing: "Shame, your max age is 42 and I'm 59"... Not a shame at all for me!"

What has that to do with the price of bread?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I get quite a lot, but I do live in the middle of bugger all, north east of scotland...

I tend to find they are followed up with a do you skype/kik/naughty chat message."

we sometimes get a follow up of "we are hoping to come down that way on holiday and are looking for cheap accommodation"

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By *ranthamThroat OP   Man
over a year ago

Grantham.


"Shame you weren't nearer op

Oh I owe you so many drinks missus!, 20 miles away and never near! you do owe me drinks one day"

Lots of em missus. I shall brink a case of wine, red or white?, please don't say white as I won't be drinking lol, or is it an evening in THAT pub? lol

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Not keen on those types of messages because it seems like they are trying to get you to change your preferences, whether it be shame you're not nearer /shame about your age limit /shame you can't accommodate. My usual reply to such messages is along the lines of 'well it is what it is, I'm sure you can find someone nearer/with different age limit /who can accom'.

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By *ranthamThroat OP   Man
over a year ago

Grantham.


"I sometimes send them as a means of testing the water, and trying to see if there might be an attraction. After all, I've been here a long time, and know that a fair few people on here travel with work, so it's worth it now and then just askig if there might be a chance you could meet somewhere nearer."

Ah but as I said earlier, they haven't read my profile that does say I do not travel.

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By *ranthamThroat OP   Man
over a year ago

Grantham.


"Awwww, feel we're missing out now....

Never had a single one of those types "

Plenty of tiime to catch upasmine have been over the years, but more frequent recently, must be the summer heat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I shall refrain from commenting, you are to far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they're hot I say yes its a shame

If they're not I say there must be loads of people near you

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

well i understood how the age thing fitted in ..not sure about the bread though

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By *ranthamThroat OP   Man
over a year ago

Grantham.


"I get quite a lot, but I do live in the middle of bugger all, north east of scotland...

I tend to find they are followed up with a do you skype/kik/naughty chat message."

Oh them daft f**ckers, usually on a Friday or Saturday perchance? I call them www's - weekend web wankers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a shame lots aren't nearer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"are nice but they don't deliver & after the uncounted number of them they do become SO tedious, but honestly what is the point of them?"

well I have sent em in the past to mean phwoooar you're hot! fancy living in Scotland, I wanna rip ya clothes off

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By *ranthamThroat OP   Man
over a year ago

Grantham.


"I get quite a lot, but I do live in the middle of bugger all, north east of scotland...

I tend to find they are followed up with a do you skype/kik/naughty chat message.

we sometimes get a follow up of "we are hoping to come down that way on holiday and are looking for cheap accommodation" "

And a free shag? lol did they expect a "full english" the morning after?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"are nice but they don't deliver & after the uncounted number of them they do become SO tedious, but honestly what is the point of them?

well I have sent em in the past to mean phwoooar you're hot! fancy living in Scotland, I wanna rip ya clothes off "

We don't live in effing Scotland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there should be an international swingers party where every single person on fab attends, imagine that.....

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By *ranthamThroat OP   Man
over a year ago

Grantham.


"Not keen on those types of messages because it seems like they are trying to get you to change your preferences, whether it be shame you're not nearer /shame about your age limit /shame you can't accommodate. My usual reply to such messages is along the lines of 'well it is what it is, I'm sure you can find someone nearer/with different age limit /who can accom'.

"

Mine too, als it does tend to lead to further messages, but for heavens sake who is going to travel from Dublin / Inverness to me just for a sucking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get quite a lot, but I do live in the middle of bugger all, north east of scotland...

I tend to find they are followed up with a do you skype/kik/naughty chat message.

we sometimes get a follow up of "we are hoping to come down that way on holiday and are looking for cheap accommodation"

And a free shag? lol did they expect a "full english" the morning after? "

Er I'm actually quite partial to those lovely swans made out of towels

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By *ranthamThroat OP   Man
over a year ago

Grantham.


"are nice but they don't deliver & after the uncounted number of them they do become SO tedious, but honestly what is the point of them?

well I have sent em in the past to mean phwoooar you're hot! fancy living in Scotland, I wanna rip ya clothes off "

Haven't had a message from you!

Although I am Scottish and used to run courser at Ed. Uni lol

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By *ranthamThroat OP   Man
over a year ago

Grantham.


"I shall refrain from commenting, you are to far away "

But you didn't refrain from commenting

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

They make me laugh cos they generally don't match my preferences at all so even if they did live nearer nothing would happen!

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By *ranthamThroat OP   Man
over a year ago

Grantham.


"are nice but they don't deliver & after the uncounted number of them they do become SO tedious, but honestly what is the point of them?

well I have sent em in the past to mean phwoooar you're hot! fancy living in Scotland, I wanna rip ya clothes off

We don't live in effing Scotland "

ermm I beleive the reply was to MY post not YOURS! so stay in England for ffs lol, am joking btw

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"I get quite a lot, but I do live in the middle of bugger all, north east of scotland...

I tend to find they are followed up with a do you skype/kik/naughty chat message.

Oh them daft f**ckers, usually on a Friday or Saturday perchance? I call them www's - weekend web wankers. "

Lol, No, I get rubbish messages most days, they don't just wait for weekends.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Maybe they're hoping for a positive response and would then say they can travel to you, or suggest meeting half way between.

If I want to meet someone enough, and I know they are interested in me, distance (within the UK), is not a problem. It may mean the meet takes longer to happen, but as long as I'm sure they're honestly keen, I can make it happen.

There are a few people on here I'd be willing to travel a few hundred miles to meet, (if they wanted to meet me).

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"They make me laugh cos they generally don't match my preferences at all so even if they did live nearer nothing would happen! "

Yes, quite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"are nice but they don't deliver & after the uncounted number of them they do become SO tedious, but honestly what is the point of them?

well I have sent em in the past to mean phwoooar you're hot! fancy living in Scotland, I wanna rip ya clothes off

We don't live in effing Scotland "

no you don't but I have had the pleasure

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By *ranthamThroat OP   Man
over a year ago

Grantham.


"there should be an international swingers party where every single person on fab attends, imagine that....."

by volition or compulsion? mmmmm lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"are nice but they don't deliver & after the uncounted number of them they do become SO tedious, but honestly what is the point of them?

well I have sent em in the past to mean phwoooar you're hot! fancy living in Scotland, I wanna rip ya clothes off

Haven't had a message from you!

Although I am Scottish and used to run courser at Ed. Uni lol "

as I don't fit yours and you don't fit mine it's hardly surprising

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By *ranthamThroat OP   Man
over a year ago

Grantham.


"I get quite a lot, but I do live in the middle of bugger all, north east of scotland...

I tend to find they are followed up with a do you skype/kik/naughty chat message.

Oh them daft f**ckers, usually on a Friday or Saturday perchance? I call them www's - weekend web wankers.

Lol, No, I get rubbish messages most days, they don't just wait for weekends. "

Ooooh er, I get them at weekends, glad I work Friday, Saturday & Sunday so I can, without guilt, delete them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been posted in the forum many times when someone's pouring out their heart about not getting any meets , generally men, then often you get possibly just kind hearted ladies giving it the "if only you we're nearer"

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"They make me laugh cos they generally don't match my preferences at all so even if they did live nearer nothing would happen!

Yes, quite "

Yes I know what you mean. Been tempted to say 'it wouldn't matter if you lived next door, I still wouldn't! '

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

I'm guilty of sending these on occasion

usually because I go into this forum as well as the ireland one. .. and there are so many hot guys elsewhere! ! It feels rude just to go in and perve their pics lol.. so I usually say Helloand wish they were nearer... Who knows I might be in their area some day or they might be near mine. ...

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By *ranthamThroat OP   Man
over a year ago

Grantham.


"It's been posted in the forum many times when someone's pouring out their heart about not getting any meets , generally men, then often you get possibly just kind hearted ladies giving it the "if only you we're nearer"

"

Oh no not he dreaded timewasters?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I get them to, next time I get it, will say I can pay your jerney to me for a quicky lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"are nice but they don't deliver & after the uncounted number of them they do become SO tedious, but honestly what is the point of them?

well I have sent em in the past to mean phwoooar you're hot! fancy living in Scotland, I wanna rip ya clothes off "

Your not wearing much to rip off lol

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By *ranthamThroat OP   Man
over a year ago

Grantham.


"are nice but they don't deliver & after the uncounted number of them they do become SO tedious, but honestly what is the point of them?

well I have sent em in the past to mean phwoooar you're hot! fancy living in Scotland, I wanna rip ya clothes off

Haven't had a message from you!

Although I am Scottish and used to run courser at Ed. Uni lol

as I don't fit yours and you don't fit mine it's hardly surprising "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep it's annoying :/

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By *ranthamThroat OP   Man
over a year ago

Grantham.


"Yes I get them to, next time I get it, will say I can pay your jerney to me for a quicky lol."

You pay for them to travel to you? that must be a daft Swedish idea! Sorry mister lol.

If that want to meet me it says I don't travle, so they visit...and I don't pay travel lol, f**k that I can have more fun watching porn & having fun on my own until I next meet one of my "friends"

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

We've had the odd one in the past - sometimes we've agreed with them.

It's a bit odd though when you get one from somebody who appears in your local updates!!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I shall refrain from commenting, you are to far away

But you didn't refrain from commenting "

I did I said I wasn't commenting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"are nice but they don't deliver & after the uncounted number of them they do become SO tedious, but honestly what is the point of them?

well I have sent em in the past to mean phwoooar you're hot! fancy living in Scotland, I wanna rip ya clothes off

We don't live in effing Scotland

no you don't but I have had the pleasure "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well chick....it's a shame you aren't nearer then I could explain..."

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"are nice but they don't deliver & after the uncounted number of them they do become SO tedious, but honestly what is the point of them?"
no point or the shame you don't accom or shame you won't meet younger etc .....as if you can suddenly change what you can and will do..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a compliment. They wished they lived closer but don't. Still, they have sent the message. I like it.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Im sick of 'Shame you are so close' messages.

I don't mind too much until they push me out of their hedge

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

They are pretty tedious after a while, although can be flattering. I'm happy to chat with people in the back of beyond or London, but it's when they drop hints about travelling to them that I get a bit irritated. Although there are a couple of people who I'd love to see who do live miles away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I get them to, next time I get it, will say I can pay your jerney to me for a quicky lol.

You pay for them to travel to you? that must be a daft Swedish idea! Sorry mister lol.

If that want to meet me it says I don't travle, so they visit...and I don't pay travel lol, f**k that I can have more fun watching porn & having fun on my own until I next meet one of my "friends" "

lool yes, most that send me them live in Scotland, shows I live in the wrong capital for sex lol

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By *ranthamThroat OP   Man
over a year ago

Grantham.


"I shall refrain from commenting, you are to far away

But you didn't refrain from commenting

I did I said I wasn't commenting "

You are repeating yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best one I had was from Texas USA!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best one I had was from Texas USA!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"are nice but they don't deliver & after the uncounted number of them they do become SO tedious, but honestly what is the point of them?"

Its a round about way of wondering if you would travel cos they are too lazy to do so. Bin them we do.

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