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"I've never complained " oh there you go never complaining - typical woman  | |||
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"I had a no show by an average man with a pot belly once " That has really made me laugh!!!! | |||
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"I had a no show by an average man with a pot belly once " I'm really sorry, I don't even remember arranging to meet  | |||
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"I've never complained oh there you go never complaining - typical woman " | |||
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"Maybe they should try sending polite, well crafted messages and see them get deleted or ignored day in day out for a few weeks, then they would realise just how difficult this site can be lol "I do and I do. | |||
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"Maybe they should try sending polite, well crafted messages and see them get deleted or ignored day in day out for a few weeks, then they would realise just how difficult this site can be lol "It doesn't occur to you that's it's not always sunshine and rainbows for women here either? The problems are different, certainly, but everyone has their own issues here, at least until they learn how to deal with them. | |||
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"Maybe they should try sending polite, well crafted messages and see them get deleted or ignored day in day out for a few weeks, then they would realise just how difficult this site can be lol
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"I got a 6pack and got a fairly big spunk gun  "I read that as spud gun... | |||
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"Maybe they should try sending polite, well crafted messages and see them get deleted or ignored day in day out for a few weeks, then they would realise just how difficult this site can be lol
I do and I do."Don't be daft! We all know women don't make the first contact and we certainly never get turned down. We sit on fluffy pillows, deleting and ignoring genuine, polite men all day, just to be cruel. | |||
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"Maybe they should try sending polite, well crafted messages and see them get deleted or ignored day in day out for a few weeks, then they would realise just how difficult this site can be lol
I do and I do.
Don't be daft! We all know women don't make the first contact and we certainly never get turned down. We sit on fluffy pillows, deleting and ignoring genuine, polite men all day, just to be cruel."Hang on just scratching my bollocks..... Right what's all this about real women? | |||
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"Maybe they should try sending polite, well crafted messages and see them get deleted or ignored day in day out for a few weeks, then they would realise just how difficult this site can be lol
I do and I do.
Don't be daft! We all know women don't make the first contact and we certainly never get turned down. We sit on fluffy pillows, deleting and ignoring genuine, polite men all day, just to be cruel."Genuine and polite??? Lucky sod | |||
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"There's even more posts by men complaining of fakes and timewasters so you're acting a little biased there. I'm sorry and this may seem a little harsh but there's a very large selection of men on here that couples/women can choose to be selective so you need to stand out from the crowd to be noticed. This all might seem very shallow but it really isn't.....It's about putting the effort in and making yourself appealing. Read your profile and think..would this person stand out? would this person be fun? would I want to meet this person?" I've seen this site from every angle, we have a couples profile and my wife has a single profile too, I see the messages we get as a couple, and those she gets as a fem, on my single profile I put more effort into the messages I send than most of those my wife receives on her profile, I see and hear what she has to put up with, and what we have to on our couples profile, and my personal opinion is .... I'd rather be a couple or a single fem on here than a single guy!! Of course if I had the looks of George CLooney, and a nice six pack, I may feel differently | |||
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"There's even more posts by men complaining of fakes and timewasters so you're acting a little biased there. I'm sorry and this may seem a little harsh but there's a very large selection of men on here that couples/women can choose to be selective so you need to stand out from the crowd to be noticed. This all might seem very shallow but it really isn't.....It's about putting the effort in and making yourself appealing. Read your profile and think..would this person stand out? would this person be fun? would I want to meet this person?" Nah, posting that fitter, better looking men are guaranteed to let you down, so meet me instead is sure to work. I can't think why nobody has tried it before... | |||
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"How many 'normal' guys have the stamina to last all night?!! I've yet to find one. It's usually all talk..." I don't and I last for about 2min maibe 5 min if I really stretch it lol | |||
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"How many 'normal' guys have the stamina to last all night?!! I've yet to find one. It's usually all talk...I don't and I last for about 2min maibe 5 min if I really stretch it lol "Always prefer a quick shag!  | |||
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"How many 'normal' guys have the stamina to last all night?!! I've yet to find one. It's usually all talk...I don't and I last for about 2min maibe 5 min if I really stretch it lol
Always prefer a quick shag! "Yes that's correct lol quicker than it takes to boil an egg is classed as a quicky | |||
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"How many 'normal' guys have the stamina to last all night?!! I've yet to find one. It's usually all talk..." To be fair it depends how you define Normal. If the alternative is deranged then that's a different matter. Would you really risk it for a guy who goes all night and then prances about in a TuTu and wellies in the morning shouting " I'm a Fairy" ??? I know I wouldn't | |||
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"There's even more posts by men complaining of fakes and timewasters so you're acting a little biased there. I'm sorry and this may seem a little harsh but there's a very large selection of men on here that couples/women can choose to be selective so you need to stand out from the crowd to be noticed. This all might seem very shallow but it really isn't.....It's about putting the effort in and making yourself appealing. Read your profile and think..would this person stand out? would this person be fun? would I want to meet this person? I've seen this site from every angle, we have a couples profile and my wife has a single profile too, I see the messages we get as a couple, and those she gets as a fem, on my single profile I put more effort into the messages I send than most of those my wife receives on her profile, I see and hear what she has to put up with, and what we have to on our couples profile, and my personal opinion is .... I'd rather be a couple or a single fem on here than a single guy!! Of course if I had the looks of George CLooney, and a nice six pack, I may feel differently "You're not a single man. She is not a single woman. You are a couple that also meets individually. The dynamic is different. Single people do not have the support of a partner. Because you see your wife's messages, you don't know how she'd deal with them if she were actually single, since she isn't. This site can be equally difficult for women as it can for men sometimes, even if it's in different ways. | |||
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"... This site can be equally difficult for women as it can for men sometimes, even if it's in different ways." 
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"There's even more posts by men complaining of fakes and timewasters so you're acting a little biased there. I'm sorry and this may seem a little harsh but there's a very large selection of men on here that couples/women can choose to be selective so you need to stand out from the crowd to be noticed. This all might seem very shallow but it really isn't.....It's about putting the effort in and making yourself appealing. Read your profile and think..would this person stand out? would this person be fun? would I want to meet this person? I've seen this site from every angle, we have a couples profile and my wife has a single profile too, I see the messages we get as a couple, and those she gets as a fem, on my single profile I put more effort into the messages I send than most of those my wife receives on her profile, I see and hear what she has to put up with, and what we have to on our couples profile, and my personal opinion is .... I'd rather be a couple or a single fem on here than a single guy!! Of course if I had the looks of George CLooney, and a nice six pack, I may feel differently
You're not a single man. She is not a single woman. You are a couple that also meets individually. The dynamic is different.
Single people do not have the support of a partner. Because you see your wife's messages, you don't know how she'd deal with them if she were actually single, since she isn't.
This site can be equally difficult for women as it can for men sometimes, even if it's in different ways."I think most guys on here would rather be a couple or a single female. This is the male half talking and from experience I might add as some years ago I was indeed single on here. I don't consider myself good looking or any sort of catch but I found that with a little humour and attention I was getting a little success....Not masses but as much as anyone else so your assumption that good looks and a six pack are necessary are totally incorrect because I have neither. I don't have a massive cock either...just a very fast arse and lots of energy lol | |||
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"VV So is a man or woman who is cheating on their partner a single man or woman then? My wife makes her own decisions as to who she chats to and who she wants to meet, and I do likewise (on the rare occasions I get an offer lol), so not sure what you mean about the 'support' thing. Genuine question looking for an interesting response/debate, not an argument lol "It's not about whether anyone is cheating. Just as an example, if a woman feels secure in her marriage then being treated repeatedly and frequently like a piece of meat or a free prostitute is possibly not going to affect her in the same way as a woman who is single. There are lots of ways a married person may feel differently towards or respond differently to various situations. I'm not in the mood to write an essay. Your wife, if she is in a secure, loving relationship - which I assume she is from what you say - obviously has emotional support a single person may well not have. The difference between single and married but meeting alone is significant. | |||
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"Evening Naughty It's not an assumption that they are necessary, just that they would be more of a help than a hindrance "Yeah I know what you mean but a sense of humour and intelligence go further. No use having the looks and body if you've nothing else to offer...Looks will please a woman temporarily but a personality and a sense of humour will keep her smiling and interested. | |||
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"VV So is a man or woman who is cheating on their partner a single man or woman then? My wife makes her own decisions as to who she chats to and who she wants to meet, and I do likewise (on the rare occasions I get an offer lol), so not sure what you mean about the 'support' thing. Genuine question looking for an interesting response/debate, not an argument lol
It's not about whether anyone is cheating.
Just as an example, if a woman feels secure in her marriage then being treated repeatedly and frequently like a piece of meat or a free prostitute is possibly not going to affect her in the same way as a woman who is single.
There are lots of ways a married person may feel differently towards or respond differently to various situations. I'm not in the mood to write an essay.
Your wife, if she is in a secure, loving relationship - which I assume she is from what you say - obviously has emotional support a single person may well not have.
The difference between single and married but meeting alone is significant."I can see where you are coming from, but to a large extent I still stand by my comments regarding seeing things from each perspective, even though I acknowledge it is a little different as I am in a secure relationship. Thank you for sharing your thoughts as a single woman though, it's nice to get a response on here lol Could you send it in a PM next time, to give me something to get excited about | |||
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"To be honest, if I can't get meets with people I fancy, I'd rather not meet anyone. I'm not willing to make do with something that's not what I want. I'd rather not meet. I'm not so desperate for casual sex that I'll meet anyone willing to turn up. And as already pointed out, letting people down is not limited to good looking guys and more average guys are absolutely not always reliable." | |||
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"How many 'normal' guys have the stamina to last all night?!! I've yet to find one. It's usually all talk..." I still have not found a man that can go all night long either. I would even bring spinach along for them if necessary and call them Pops ( as in pop eye) if that would help thwm. | |||
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"There's even more posts by men complaining of fakes and timewasters so you're acting a little biased there. I'm sorry and this may seem a little harsh but there's a very large selection of men on here that couples/women can choose to be selective so you need to stand out from the crowd to be noticed. This all might seem very shallow but it really isn't.....It's about putting the effort in and making yourself appealing. Read your profile and think..would this person stand out? would this person be fun? would I want to meet this person? I've seen this site from every angle, we have a couples profile and my wife has a single profile too, I see the messages we get as a couple, and those she gets as a fem, on my single profile I put more effort into the messages I send than most of those my wife receives on her profile, I see and hear what she has to put up with, and what we have to on our couples profile, and my personal opinion is .... I'd rather be a couple or a single fem on here than a single guy!! Of course if I had the looks of George CLooney, and a nice six pack, I may feel differently
You're not a single man. She is not a single woman. You are a couple that also meets individually. The dynamic is different.
Single people do not have the support of a partner. Because you see your wife's messages, you don't know how she'd deal with them if she were actually single, since she isn't.
This site can be equally difficult for women as it can for men sometimes, even if it's in different ways.
I think most guys on here would rather be a couple or a single female. This is the male half talking and from experience I might add as some years ago I was indeed single on here. I don't consider myself good looking or any sort of catch but I found that with a little humour and attention I was getting a little success....Not masses but as much as anyone else so your assumption that good looks and a six pack are necessary are totally incorrect because I have neither. I don't have a massive cock either...just a very fast arse and lots of energy lol"They might well prefer it but I can guarantee the grass isn't as green as it looks from singleblokeland. If women had, in general, the same wants from this site as men, it may well be heaven here for us. Unfortunately we often don't. Men see that what they want is more easily available to women here and think it would be better to be women here. What's forgotten is that most women aren't after the same things a lot of men are. It's just like the age old "why do women moan about cock pics when they show boob/fanny pics?". It's because, in general, women and men are different. We think differently, we are turned on differently and we want different things. How many "any hole's a goal" women are there on here, willing to meet anyone with a cock? Compare that with how many men just want a warm, wet hole and don't really care whose. Different. It isn't easier for women here (mostly), just different. Seriously guys, stop telling us how great it is here for women. You're not women. You don't know how it is for women. | |||
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"VV So is a man or woman who is cheating on their partner a single man or woman then? My wife makes her own decisions as to who she chats to and who she wants to meet, and I do likewise (on the rare occasions I get an offer lol), so not sure what you mean about the 'support' thing. Genuine question looking for an interesting response/debate, not an argument lol
It's not about whether anyone is cheating.
Just as an example, if a woman feels secure in her marriage then being treated repeatedly and frequently like a piece of meat or a free prostitute is possibly not going to affect her in the same way as a woman who is single.
There are lots of ways a married person may feel differently towards or respond differently to various situations. I'm not in the mood to write an essay.
Your wife, if she is in a secure, loving relationship - which I assume she is from what you say - obviously has emotional support a single person may well not have.
The difference between single and married but meeting alone is significant.
I can see where you are coming from, but to a large extent I still stand by my comments regarding seeing things from each perspective, even though I acknowledge it is a little different as I am in a secure relationship.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts as a single woman though, it's nice to get a response on here lol
Could you send it in a PM next time, to give me something to get excited about "Having stable, loving, emotional support is not "a little different" to not having it. It's vastly different. If someone makes me feel like crap on here - and it does happen - I have to deal with it myself. Sometimes I share with a few female friends on here. Your wife has the knowledge that you love her and are there for her. I don't believe that anyone in a happy, stable relationship, even if they meet singly, has the same experience on here as a single person. | |||
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"It's a bit of a fab cliche that these so called six pack young Adonis types treat people like meat and are gone in sixty seconds. Plenty on here who have the aesthetic and performance attributes along with good game and banter to go with it. " Some of 'em like fatties too, thank Heavens! | |||
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"It's a bit of a fab cliche that these so called six pack young Adonis types treat people like meat and are gone in sixty seconds. Plenty on here who have the aesthetic and performance attributes along with good game and banter to go with it. Some of 'em like fatties too, thank Heavens! "Exactly they are not up themselves and give us mere mortals a chance. | |||
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"It's a bit of a fab cliche that these so called six pack young Adonis types treat people like meat and are gone in sixty seconds. Plenty on here who have the aesthetic and performance attributes along with good game and banter to go with it. " That's not the point that was being made. People are simply stating that it's about standing out and making yourself appealing, The OP assumed good looks and a six pack were what was needed which is complete rubbish! | |||
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"It's a bit of a fab cliche that these so called six pack young Adonis types treat people like meat and are gone in sixty seconds. Plenty on here who have the aesthetic and performance attributes along with good game and banter to go with it. Some of 'em like fatties too, thank Heavens!
Exactly they are not up themselves and give us mere mortals a chance. "I do hope you aren't suggesting I am a mere mortal 
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"It's a bit of a fab cliche that these so called six pack young Adonis types treat people like meat and are gone in sixty seconds. Plenty on here who have the aesthetic and performance attributes along with good game and banter to go with it. That's not the point that was being made. People are simply stating that it's about standing out and making yourself appealing, The OP assumed good looks and a six pack were what was needed which is complete rubbish!" Gonna stand by our point on this one. Long live the Aesthetics who got game!!! Although we take the last bit onboard ya all | |||
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"There's even more posts by men complaining of fakes and timewasters so you're acting a little biased there. I'm sorry and this may seem a little harsh but there's a very large selection of men on here that couples/women can choose to be selective so you need to stand out from the crowd to be noticed. This all might seem very shallow but it really isn't.....It's about putting the effort in and making yourself appealing. Read your profile and think..would this person stand out? would this person be fun? would I want to meet this person?" I do make the effort probably more than most I don't just send random messages I think about what to say and it's always polite and friendly,and yes I get replies and we start to chat things are going really well even arrange a meet all looking good, then on the night of the meet they just don't turn up so you message them no reply try again still no reply then all of a sudden out of the blue they have a verify for the night you were meant to meet them,I have no illusions on here but a simple no thanks rather than being lead on like a dog,I've got no issues with being turned down at all I've had quite a few meets on here with some still on going, I count myself as one of the lucky guys but there is no need to be treated like that and yes men have got feelings too, it's not just a one of ever why just not say sorry not interested in the first place simple fact is they were happy with you till a better offer came up,as for me I would never treat anyone like that. x | |||
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"It's a bit of a fab cliche that these so called six pack young Adonis types treat people like meat and are gone in sixty seconds. Plenty on here who have the aesthetic and performance attributes along with good game and banter to go with it. That's not the point that was being made. People are simply stating that it's about standing out and making yourself appealing, The OP assumed good looks and a six pack were what was needed which is complete rubbish!" I think the point is that whilst a six pack and good looks are not a guarantee of success, they will open more doors and give you the opportunities which are not afforded to us 'ordinary guys' (looks wise) too often. Of course there is still a way to go before getting the opportunity to meet and play with ladies on here, but if you cannot engage with them initially it is very difficult. | |||
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"How many 'normal' guys have the stamina to last all night?!! I've yet to find one. It's usually all talk... I still have not found a man that can go all night long either. I would even bring spinach along for them if necessary and call them Pops ( as in pop eye) if that would help thwm. "Well for me I can play all night I'm not talking about non stop of course you have little breaks in play!! But I can cum at least four times in a night plus of course other play too so all night is not that hard to do | |||
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"It's a bit of a fab cliche that these so called six pack young Adonis types treat people like meat and are gone in sixty seconds. Plenty on here who have the aesthetic and performance attributes along with good game and banter to go That's not the point that was being made. People are simply stating that it's about standing out and making yourself appealing, The OP assumed good looks and a six pack were what was needed which is complete rubbish! I think the point is that whilst a six pack and good looks are not a guarantee of success, they will open more doors and give you the opportunities which are not afforded to us 'ordinary guys' (looks wise) too often. Of course there is still a way to go before getting the opportunity to meet and play with ladies on here, but if you cannot engage with them initially it is very difficult. " Exactly with good looks and a nice body you have that initial foot in the door so to speak which does make things easier for you And fair play to them guys for looking after themselves | |||
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"I think the point is that whilst a six pack and good looks are not a guarantee of success, they will open more doors and give you the opportunities which are not afforded to us 'ordinary guys' (looks wise) too often. Of course there is still a way to go before getting the opportunity to meet and play with ladies on here, but if you cannot engage with them initially it is very difficult. " I'm not here to provide opportunities for others. I'm here to find what I'm looking for .I hope I can provide those I'm interested in with what they are looking for too, and that we'll decide to meet. If someone catches my eye or stands out then it's not important to me that he has a six pack or whatever, but he has to actually catch my eye. I'm not going to chat to every bloke on the site to give them the chance to try to catch my eye! There are quite a few men on this site I have met or would like to meet. Some are the "Adonis" types and some are "average" looking. They all caught my eye somehow. The fact is that you don't have to have a 6-pack or model looks to be successful. To claim you do is a cop out - trying to blame something out of your control for your lack of/limited success. A 6-pack may make more people look, that's true, but most will lose interest pretty fast if that's all there is. Some will even be intimidated by it, or put off by preconceived ideas about athletic men. Basically, in order to get my attention, (and I am aware there are plenty of guys who don't want my attention, but I can only say for sure what works for me), requires more or less the same thing whether the person has model looks or not. I love muscular, toned guys. I make no secret of that. However, the right approach from an average guy will get my attention. | |||
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"I think the point is that whilst a six pack and good looks are not a guarantee of success, they will open more doors and give you the opportunities which are not afforded to us 'ordinary guys' (looks wise) too often. Of course there is still a way to go before getting the opportunity to meet and play with ladies on here, but if you cannot engage with them initially it is very difficult. I'm not here to provide opportunities for others. I'm here to find what I'm looking for .I hope I can provide those I'm interested in with what they are looking for too, and that we'll decide to meet. If someone catches my eye or stands out then it's not important to me that he has a six pack or whatever, but he has to actually catch my eye. I'm not going to chat to every bloke on the site to give them the chance to try to catch my eye! There are quite a few men on this site I have met or would like to meet. Some are the "Adonis" types and some are "average" looking. They all caught my eye somehow. The fact is that you don't have to have a 6-pack or model looks to be successful. To claim you do is a cop out - trying to blame something out of your control for your lack of/limited success. A 6-pack may make more people look, that's true, but most will lose interest pretty fast if that's all there is. Some will even be intimidated by it, or put off by preconceived ideas about athletic men. Basically, in order to get my attention, (and I am aware there are plenty of guys who don't want my attention, but I can only say for sure what works for me), requires more or less the same thing whether the person has model looks or not. I love muscular, toned guys. I make no secret of that. However, the right approach from an average guy will get my attention." sorry but you just shot yourself in the foot there and completely agreed with the original post on the topic. Yes you say you meet "average" guys but your last comment says you loved muscular toned guys ie with a six pack. So those guys would get preferred to an average joe. Which is exactly what the guy who initiated the topic said at the very start. | |||
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"How many 'normal' guys have the stamina to last all night?!! I've yet to find one. It's usually all talk... I still have not found a man that can go all night long either. I would even bring spinach along for them if necessary and call them Pops ( as in pop eye) if that would help thwm.
Well for me I can play all night I'm not talking about non stop of course you have little breaks in play!! But I can cum at least four times in a night plus of course other play too so all night is not that hard to do "I guess Viagra is a wonderful thing! | |||
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"I see so many posts by woman complaining about no shows and why can't they get a meet,so why not give an average guy a chance you might be surprised,there are only so many six packed guys hung like donkeys!!!!.why not give a normal guy a chance as for me I know I'm fat and not the greatest looking guy but I am a very sensual guy with a lot of passion and stamina, and I can play all night long as I am a repeater,so ladies why not try a normal guy one that will really apreciate you and treat you like a lady and not just a piece of meat,your never know you might be pleasently surprised.xx And this it not about me it's about a lot of good normal looking guys out there that are never given a second look. " I don't complain, meet "ordinary Joe's", never had a no show and have a blast! It's easy to blame others for lack of personal success. I don't know what type of message you're sending or whether you meet what they're looking for. Neither do you know if these "whining" women are being stood up/ignored by David Beckham lookalikes...funnily enough, can't say I've noticed many on here, so what do you reckon?!! | |||
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"There's even more posts by men complaining of fakes and timewasters so you're acting a little biased there. I'm sorry and this may seem a little harsh but there's a very large selection of men on here that couples/women can choose to be selective so you need to stand out from the crowd to be noticed. This all might seem very shallow but it really isn't.....It's about putting the effort in and making yourself appealing. Read your profile and think..would this person stand out? would this person be fun? would I want to meet this person? Nah, posting that fitter, better looking men are guaranteed to let you down, so meet me instead is sure to work. I can't think why nobody has tried it before..." | |||
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"To be honest, if I can't get meets with people I fancy, I'd rather not meet anyone. I'm not willing to make do with something that's not what I want. I'd rather not meet. I'm not so desperate for casual sex that I'll meet anyone willing to turn up. And as already pointed out, letting people down is not limited to good looking guys and more average guys are absolutely not always reliable." It wouldn't cross my mind meeting someone I thought second best just to have a shag. | |||
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"It's a bit of a fab cliche that these so called six pack young Adonis types treat people like meat and are gone in sixty seconds. Plenty on here who have the aesthetic and performance attributes along with good game and banter to go with it. Some of 'em like fatties too, thank Heavens! "Amen to that! | |||
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"I think the point is that whilst a six pack and good looks are not a guarantee of success, they will open more doors and give you the opportunities which are not afforded to us 'ordinary guys' (looks wise) too often. Of course there is still a way to go before getting the opportunity to meet and play with ladies on here, but if you cannot engage with them initially it is very difficult. I'm not here to provide opportunities for others. I'm here to find what I'm looking for .I hope I can provide those I'm interested in with what they are looking for too, and that we'll decide to meet. If someone catches my eye or stands out then it's not important to me that he has a six pack or whatever, but he has to actually catch my eye. I'm not going to chat to every bloke on the site to give them the chance to try to catch my eye! There are quite a few men on this site I have met or would like to meet. Some are the "Adonis" types and some are "average" looking. They all caught my eye somehow. The fact is that you don't have to have a 6-pack or model looks to be successful. To claim you do is a cop out - trying to blame something out of your control for your lack of/limited success. A 6-pack may make more people look, that's true, but most will lose interest pretty fast if that's all there is. Some will even be intimidated by it, or put off by preconceived ideas about athletic men. Basically, in order to get my attention, (and I am aware there are plenty of guys who don't want my attention, but I can only say for sure what works for me), requires more or less the same thing whether the person has model looks or not. I love muscular, toned guys. I make no secret of that. However, the right approach from an average guy will get my attention." Couldn't have put it better myself! | |||
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"Nobody is 'owed' anything by having. A profile on here - Adonis, 'ordinary guy' or elephant man lookalike. This site is often mistaken for an easy solution to a lack of sex - by men, women and in some cases couples. People are under no obligation to 'settle' for anything outside their preferences, tastes, desires and for some - fantasies. When people struggle to get attention and meets it's usually a sign that their expectancy levels are way off the mark. The age old argument that only the young, fit and good looking (of both sexes) get a look in on here is an easy cop out when things don't go to plan. Look at the number of times people state that personality is as important as looks. Yes, there are plenty who are focused on aesthetics - looks and figures - but communication skills, sense of humour and general attitude don't diminish with age. Everyone (well, almost everyone!) has their string points. If they used these, stopped concentrating on things they can't change (height, looks, tit/cock/ arse size) and 'sold themselves' to others using the positives instead of bleating on about how life is unfair - then they'd probably be much happier. I repeat. Nobody is owed anything simply by signing up to a website, typing a few words and popping up a few pictures. In the land of internet contact sites it's how you portray yourself to others visually that gets conversations going - after that it's whether you can maintain someone's interest with your communication skills. People make decisions largely on what they can see. And average joe or musclebound sex god - get it wrong and there's nothing to spark that interest and get the ball rolling. A" | |||
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"Nobody is 'owed' anything by having. A profile on here - Adonis, 'ordinary guy' or elephant man lookalike. A" See this was my _iew of it all, for many years - but I actually think that this a falsehood. Its a comfort or a balm that gets bandied about too much on here (and I'm guilty of saying it too). You, me, everyone on who is on here is owed the opportunity to be treated as a decent human being (until you prove that you're otherwise). No one on here is a piece of meat unless they choose to be treated as such - it the same way that the only person who can take away your right to be treated as a decent human being on here is yourself. Respect. Decency. Honesty. Humility. We are all owed these things from the outset because behind every Lynx can dick shot or arty Lingerie pose sits a human being. | |||
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"I see so many posts by woman complaining about no shows and why can't they get a meet,so why not give an average guy a chance you might be surprised,there are only so many six packed guys hung like donkeys!!!!.why not give a normal guy a chance as for me I know I'm fat and not the greatest looking guy but I am a very sensual guy with a lot of passion and stamina, and I can play all night long as I am a repeater,so ladies why not try a normal guy one that will really apreciate you and treat you like a lady and not just a piece of meat,your never know you might be pleasently surprised.xx And this it not about me it's about a lot of good normal looking guys out there that are never given a second look. " Where are all these posts from women complaining about no shows, I must be on the wrong forum?? And who's treating women like pieces of meat? I've met all types of guys looks and physique wise. For me its about way more than a big cock and a six pack (both of which I think are highly overrated) If a guy can't hold a decent conversation, make me laugh and stimulate my mind, he'll have no chance of stimulating anything else!!! | |||
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"Maybe they should try sending polite, well crafted messages and see them get deleted or ignored day in day out for a few weeks, then they would realise just how difficult this site can be lol "No one said it was easy. What did you expect? Shooting fish in a barrel? I have done very well out of this site; it is great. | |||
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"Nobody is 'owed' anything by having. A profile on here - Adonis, 'ordinary guy' or elephant man lookalike. A See this was my _iew of it all, for many years - but I actually think that this a falsehood. Its a comfort or a balm that gets bandied about too much on here (and I'm guilty of saying it too). You, me, everyone on who is on here is owed the opportunity to be treated as a decent human being (until you prove that you're otherwise). No one on here is a piece of meat unless they choose to be treated as such - it the same way that the only person who can take away your right to be treated as a decent human being on here is yourself. Respect. Decency. Honesty. Humility. We are all owed these things from the outset because behind every Lynx can dick shot or arty Lingerie pose sits a human being." I agree prof. But that's not what the OP was about. There's a big difference between expecting to be treated with respect and decency and expecting people to want to meet you for sex. I have no issue with the first - and every issue with the second. Sadly many can't see the difference and expect one to go hand in hand with the other. We've met plenty of people we respect, like on a social level and have had a great laugh with - but don't have the slightest desire to get naked with. Likewise there are those we interact with on site via the forums and PMs. And I'm pretty sure there are plenty that don't want to play with us too. Bothered? Nope. Blaming younger, better looking, or more suitable to others tastes? Nope - not doing that either. A | |||
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"Ive not seen any women complaining only men, and as a couple we get no end of no shows and desperation messages from people who wouldnt fit with what we ask for in a million years, so its not so great being a couple, especially now we are no longer listed as new, we get messages ignored daily no matter how well written and by polite they are, even from single guys! Im a bi fem, the golden trophy, the sought after one apparently but because I wont play without my partner (cheat in my mind) we constantly get turned down! You are one of the biggest group here you really do have to stand out, people will not settle here they know what they want and they will find it and if your not it, deal with it! Its that simple. "I think thats true of so many Couples
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"Nobody is 'owed' anything by having. A profile on here - Adonis, 'ordinary guy' or elephant man lookalike. A See this was my _iew of it all, for many years - but I actually think that this a falsehood. Its a comfort or a balm that gets bandied about too much on here (and I'm guilty of saying it too). You, me, everyone on who is on here is owed the opportunity to be treated as a decent human being (until you prove that you're otherwise). No one on here is a piece of meat unless they choose to be treated as such - it the same way that the only person who can take away your right to be treated as a decent human being on here is yourself. Respect. Decency. Honesty. Humility. We are all owed these things from the outset because behind every Lynx can dick shot or arty Lingerie pose sits a human being." | |||
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"To be honest, if I can't get meets with people I fancy, I'd rather not meet anyone. I'm not willing to make do with something that's not what I want. I'd rather not meet. I'm not so desperate for casual sex that I'll meet anyone willing to turn up. And as already pointed out, letting people down is not limited to good looking guys and more average guys are absolutely not always reliable."
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"I think the point is that whilst a six pack and good looks are not a guarantee of success, they will open more doors and give you the opportunities which are not afforded to us 'ordinary guys' (looks wise) too often. Of course there is still a way to go before getting the opportunity to meet and play with ladies on here, but if you cannot engage with them initially it is very difficult. I'm not here to provide opportunities for others. I'm here to find what I'm looking for .I hope I can provide those I'm interested in with what they are looking for too, and that we'll decide to meet. If someone catches my eye or stands out then it's not important to me that he has a six pack or whatever, but he has to actually catch my eye. I'm not going to chat to every bloke on the site to give them the chance to try to catch my eye! There are quite a few men on this site I have met or would like to meet. Some are the "Adonis" types and some are "average" looking. They all caught my eye somehow. The fact is that you don't have to have a 6-pack or model looks to be successful. To claim you do is a cop out - trying to blame something out of your control for your lack of/limited success. A 6-pack may make more people look, that's true, but most will lose interest pretty fast if that's all there is. Some will even be intimidated by it, or put off by preconceived ideas about athletic men. Basically, in order to get my attention, (and I am aware there are plenty of guys who don't want my attention, but I can only say for sure what works for me), requires more or less the same thing whether the person has model looks or not. I love muscular, toned guys. I make no secret of that. However, the right approach from an average guy will get my attention. sorry but you just shot yourself in the foot there and completely agreed with the original post on the topic. Yes you say you meet "average" guys but your last comment says you loved muscular toned guys ie with a six pack. So those guys would get preferred to an average joe. Which is exactly what the guy who initiated the topic said at the very start. " That's not at all how I read that last paragraph, and you need to read it in the light of the whole posting to get the point that is being well made. The average guy is not excluded and can draw favourable attention to himself in spite of the 6-pack deficit, which, as she clearly points out, does intimidate some women. | |||
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"It's a bit of a fab cliche that these so called six pack young Adonis types treat people like meat and are gone in sixty seconds. Plenty on here who have the aesthetic and performance attributes along with good game and banter to go with it. " Exactly . Cliche and jealousy I reckon. Plus silly assumptions that the fit, six (or eight  ) packed men are arses who totally love themselves, are crap in bed, treat women badly and have no personality
Instead of the moany men "blaming" these Adonis types for taking and blindsiding all the women, maybe they should put the effort into their own profiles.
Maybe these men choose to make their profile text more meaningful, as they know - or have come to know - the assumptions some people make about them just by looking at their pictures. Maybe they even have or have developed a thicker skin, having seen the bashing they get and assumptions that are made about them. Maybe they are even (shock horror) normal?!
I find it so tiresome seeing said fit, single younger than me men being slated so frequently  , so usually choose to say nothing but it's the bank holiday weekend and I decided to change that
As for " normal" men. Normality is totally subjective.
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"It's a bit of a fab cliche that these so called six pack young Adonis types treat people like meat and are gone in sixty seconds. Plenty on here who have the aesthetic and performance attributes along with good game and banter to go with it. " Exactly . Cliche and jealousy I reckon. Plus silly assumptions that the fit, six (or eight ) packed men are arses who totally love themselves, are crap in bed, treat women badly and have no personality and take steroids
Instead of the moany men "blaming" these Adonis types for taking and blindsiding all the women, maybe they should put the effort into their own profiles.
Maybe these men choose to make their profile text more meaningful, as they know - or have come to know - the assumptions some people make about them just by looking at their pictures. Maybe they even have or have developed a thicker skin, having seen the bashing they get and assumptions that are made about them. Maybe they are even (shock horror) normal?!
I find it so tiresome seeing said fit, single younger than me men being slated so frequently , so usually choose to say nothing but it's the bank holiday weekend and I decided to change that
As for " normal" men. Normality is totally subjective.
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"Lots of 'fit young single' men moan about no meets too. Theory busted. Must be something else.... " You and that damn common sense again!
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A"I've never seen a post from a fit, young, single guy asking why he can't/doesn't get any meets. Ever ....
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I've never seen a post from a fit, young, single guy asking why he can't/doesn't get any meets. Ever ....
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"Lots of 'fit young single' men moan about no meets too. Theory busted. Must be something else.... " This it true Ive seen some stunners asking why its so difficult on here | |||
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"Lots of 'fit young single' men moan about no meets too. Theory busted. Must be something else.... This it true Ive seen some stunners asking why its so difficult on here" I don't think I recall ever asking? | |||
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"It's a bit of a fab cliche that these so called six pack young Adonis types treat people like meat and are gone in sixty seconds. Plenty on here who have the aesthetic and performance attributes along with good game and banter to go with it. Exactly . Cliche and jealousy I reckon. Plus silly assumptions that the fit, six (or eight ) packed men are arses who totally love themselves, are crap in bed, treat women badly and have no personality and take steroids
Instead of the moany men "blaming" these Adonis types for taking and blindsiding all the women, maybe they should put the effort into their own profiles.
Maybe these men choose to make their profile text more meaningful, as they know - or have come to know - the assumptions some people make about them just by looking at their pictures. Maybe they even have or have developed a thicker skin, having seen the bashing they get and assumptions that are made about them. Maybe they are even (shock horror) normal?!
I find it so tiresome seeing said fit, single younger than me men being slated so frequently , so usually choose to say nothing but it's the bank holiday weekend and I decided to change that
As for " normal" men. Normality is totally subjective.
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"How many 'normal' guys have the stamina to last all night?!! I've yet to find one. It's usually all talk... I still have not found a man that can go all night long either. I would even bring spinach along for them if necessary and call them Pops ( as in pop eye) if that would help thwm.
Well for me I can play all night I'm not talking about non stop of course you have little breaks in play!! But I can cum at least four times in a night plus of course other play too so all night is not that hard to do
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"It's a bit of a fab cliche that these so called six pack young Adonis types treat people like meat and are gone in sixty seconds. Plenty on here who have the aesthetic and performance attributes along with good game and banter to go with it. That's not the point that was being made. People are simply stating that it's about standing out and making yourself appealing, The OP assumed good looks and a six pack were what was needed which is complete rubbish! So how do you explain the fact that I can be talking to a lady for hours all going really well they ask me to meet up with them so you arrange a meet,then out of the blue they stop replying to your messages then you see a verify on there profile from a guy with a six pack on the day you was meant to meet them ????" The simple ruthless fact here is they fancied the other person more. There are no set rules on here. Flip it round how many men would do the same? You get offered a meet by Jo Brand and Jessica Alba comes swooping in for you offering to fuck your brains out!! Which one would you choose? Ok it's not the same exactly. Op in no way am I comparing you to Jo Brand!! So don't be offended by my badly written point. | |||
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"It's a bit of a fab cliche that these so called six pack young Adonis types treat people like meat and are gone in sixty seconds. Plenty on here who have the aesthetic and performance attributes along with good game and banter to go with it. That's not the point that was being made. People are simply stating that it's about standing out and making yourself appealing, The OP assumed good looks and a six pack were what was needed which is complete rubbish! So how do you explain the fact that I can be talking to a lady for hours all going really well they ask me to meet up with them so you arrange a meet,then out of the blue they stop replying to your messages then you see a verify on there profile from a guy with a six pack on the day you was meant to meet them ???? The simple ruthless fact here is they fancied the other person more. There are no set rules on here. Flip it round how many men would do the same? You get offered a meet by Jo Brand and Jessica Alba comes swooping in for you offering to fuck your brains out!! Which one would you choose? Ok it's not the same exactly. Op in no way am I comparing you to Jo Brand!! So don't be offended by my badly written point. " Maybe that's the difference I would never do that If I arrange a meet with someone I would never not meet them because I had a better offer I'm not that shallow. I have no issue with being turned down that is part of being on here but don't lead someone on if I don't like someone I will just say sorry your not for me how hard is that | |||
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"It's a bit of a fab cliche that these so called six pack young Adonis types treat people like meat and are gone in sixty seconds. Plenty on here who have the aesthetic and performance attributes along with good game and banter to go with it. That's not the point that was being made. People are simply stating that it's about standing out and making yourself appealing, The OP assumed good looks and a six pack were what was needed which is complete rubbish! So how do you explain the fact that I can be talking to a lady for hours all going really well they ask me to meet up with them so you arrange a meet,then out of the blue they stop replying to your messages then you see a verify on there profile from a guy with a six pack on the day you was meant to meet them ???? The simple ruthless fact here is they fancied the other person more. There are no set rules on here. Flip it round how many men would do the same? You get offered a meet by Jo Brand and Jessica Alba comes swooping in for you offering to fuck your brains out!! Which one would you choose? Ok it's not the same exactly. Op in no way am I comparing you to Jo Brand!! So don't be offended by my badly written point. Maybe that's the difference I would never do that If I arrange a meet with someone I would never not meet them because I had a better offer I'm not that shallow. I have no issue with being turned down that is part of being on here but don't lead someone on if I don't like someone I will just say sorry your not for me how hard is that " To some on here, its impossible so they prefer to just go quiet or block for fear of abuse if they say no thanks. Its life on here. I find my time on here much more enjoyable if I just shrug my shoulders, accept things and move on without dwelling on things I have no control over. | |||
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" So how do you explain the fact that I can be talking to a lady for hours all going really well they ask me to meet up with them so you arrange a meet,then out of the blue they stop replying to your messages then you see a verify on there profile from a guy with a six pack on the day you was meant to meet them ????" Because she wasn't interested in you? Because they changed their mind? Because they had a better offer? You state about women moaning about being stood by men with 6packs. And moaning how "regular" guys cant get meets. Now your moaning about women meeting men with 6 packs You're contradicting yourself. | |||
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"It's a bit of a fab cliche that these so called six pack young Adonis types treat people like meat and are gone in sixty seconds. Plenty on here who have the aesthetic and performance attributes along with good game and banter to go with it. That's not the point that was being made. People are simply stating that it's about standing out and making yourself appealing, The OP assumed good looks and a six pack were what was needed which is complete rubbish! So how do you explain the fact that I can be talking to a lady for hours all going really well they ask me to meet up with them so you arrange a meet,then out of the blue they stop replying to your messages then you see a verify on there profile from a guy with a six pack on the day you was meant to meet them ???? how many times has this happened to you?" It happens quite a lot I've got no illusions of meeting everyone I talk to I'm not silly enough to think that but a simple no thank you is not that hard to do which I get a lot of and I just reply with a thanks and good luck message it's about being polite and nice for me it does not cost anything to do that | |||
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"It's a bit of a fab cliche that these so called six pack young Adonis types treat people like meat and are gone in sixty seconds. Plenty on here who have the aesthetic and performance attributes along with good game and banter to go with it. That's not the point that was being made. People are simply stating that it's about standing out and making yourself appealing, The OP assumed good looks and a six pack were what was needed which is complete rubbish! So how do you explain the fact that I can be talking to a lady for hours all going really well they ask me to meet up with them so you arrange a meet,then out of the blue they stop replying to your messages then you see a verify on there profile from a guy with a six pack on the day you was meant to meet them ???? how many times has this happened to you? It happens quite a lot I've got no illusions of meeting everyone I talk to I'm not silly enough to think that but a simple no thank you is not that hard to do which I get a lot of and I just reply with a thanks and good luck message it's about being polite and nice for me it does not cost anything to do that " You're right, it does not cost anything and in an ideal world, everyone who wasn't interested would reply with a polite no thanks and get a reply back similar to yours but unfortunately, we are on fab and some replies I've had to a polite no thanks are rude, immature and abusive and totally uncalled for. This is why many don't reply, this is supposed to be fun but not everyone has the self confidence and respect to gracefully accept a no thanks. | |||
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"I don't meet anyone that treats me like a piece of meat." ? How do you know until its too late and you've been fucked like a piece of meat? | |||
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" So how do you explain the fact that I can be talking to a lady for hours all going really well they ask me to meet up with them so you arrange a meet,then out of the blue they stop replying to your messages then you see a verify on there profile from a guy with a six pack on the day you was meant to meet them ???? Because she wasn't interested in you? Because they changed their mind? Because they had a better offer? You state about women moaning about being stood by men with 6packs. And moaning how "regular" guys cant get meets. Now your moaning about women meeting men with 6 packs You're contradicting yourself." I'm not moaning about you guys at all I'm just stating some of the things that I have read and that have happened to me I have got no issue with men that look good and take care of them selfs in fact I admire you for looking so good for me it's just about having respect for someone and not using them and just being honest and polite enough to say sorry your not for me | |||
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"It's a bit of a fab cliche that these so called six pack young Adonis types treat people like meat and are gone in sixty seconds. Plenty on here who have the aesthetic and performance attributes along with good game and banter to go with it. That's not the point that was being made. People are simply stating that it's about standing out and making yourself appealing, The OP assumed good looks and a six pack were what was needed which is complete rubbish! So how do you explain the fact that I can be talking to a lady for hours all going really well they ask me to meet up with them so you arrange a meet,then out of the blue they stop replying to your messages then you see a verify on there profile from a guy with a six pack on the day you was meant to meet them ???? how many times has this happened to you? It happens quite a lot I've got no illusions of meeting everyone I talk to I'm not silly enough to think that but a simple no thank you is not that hard to do which I get a lot of and I just reply with a thanks and good luck message it's about being polite and nice for me it does not cost anything to do that You're right, it does not cost anything and in an ideal world, everyone who wasn't interested would reply with a polite no thanks and get a reply back similar to yours but unfortunately, we are on fab and some replies I've had to a polite no thanks are rude, immature and abusive and totally uncalled for. This is why many don't reply, this is supposed to be fun but not everyone has the self confidence and respect to gracefully accept a no thanks." And for me people that are abusive on here should be removed I was not talking in general about messages I send if I don't get a reply and they just get deleted then that is fine with me I don't expect to get a no thanks you from them all as I know you ladies get hundreds of messages, it's the ones were we have been talking for a while and then all if a sudden out of the blue nothing if things have changed that's fine with me just say I won't be offended | |||
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"You get offered a meet by Jo Brand and Jessica Alba comes swooping in for you offering to fuck your brains out!! Which one would you choose? " Why must it be an either/or? There's enough room for everyone! | |||
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"It's a bit of a fab cliche that these so called six pack young Adonis types treat people like meat and are gone in sixty seconds. Plenty on here who have the aesthetic and performance attributes along with good game and banter to go with it. That's not the point that was being made. People are simply stating that it's about standing out and making yourself appealing, The OP assumed good looks and a six pack were what was needed which is complete rubbish! So how do you explain the fact that I can be talking to a lady for hours all going really well they ask me to meet up with them so you arrange a meet,then out of the blue they stop replying to your messages then you see a verify on there profile from a guy with a six pack on the day you was meant to meet them ???? how many times has this happened to you? It happens quite a lot I've got no illusions of meeting everyone I talk to I'm not silly enough to think that but a simple no thank you is not that hard to do which I get a lot of and I just reply with a thanks and good luck message it's about being polite and nice for me it does not cost anything to do that You're right, it does not cost anything and in an ideal world, everyone who wasn't interested would reply with a polite no thanks and get a reply back similar to yours but unfortunately, we are on fab and some replies I've had to a polite no thanks are rude, immature and abusive and totally uncalled for. This is why many don't reply, this is supposed to be fun but not everyone has the self confidence and respect to gracefully accept a no thanks. And for me people that are abusive on here should be removed I was not talking in general about messages I send if I don't get a reply and they just get deleted then that is fine with me I don't expect to get a no thanks you from them all as I know you ladies get hundreds of messages, it's the ones were we have been talking for a while and then all if a sudden out of the blue nothing if things have changed that's fine with me just say I won't be offended " Did you subsequently contact the lady in question? | |||
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"It's a bit of a fab cliche that these so called six pack young Adonis types treat people like meat and are gone in sixty seconds. Plenty on here who have the aesthetic and performance attributes along with good game and banter to go with it. That's not the point that was being made. People are simply stating that it's about standing out and making yourself appealing, The OP assumed good looks and a six pack were what was needed which is complete rubbish! So how do you explain the fact that I can be talking to a lady for hours all going really well they ask me to meet up with them so you arrange a meet,then out of the blue they stop replying to your messages then you see a verify on there profile from a guy with a six pack on the day you was meant to meet them ???? how many times has this happened to you? It happens quite a lot I've got no illusions of meeting everyone I talk to I'm not silly enough to think that but a simple no thank you is not that hard to do which I get a lot of and I just reply with a thanks and good luck message it's about being polite and nice for me it does not cost anything to do that You're right, it does not cost anything and in an ideal world, everyone who wasn't interested would reply with a polite no thanks and get a reply back similar to yours but unfortunately, we are on fab and some replies I've had to a polite no thanks are rude, immature and abusive and totally uncalled for. This is why many don't reply, this is supposed to be fun but not everyone has the self confidence and respect to gracefully accept a no thanks. And for me people that are abusive on here should be removed I was not talking in general about messages I send if I don't get a reply and they just get deleted then that is fine with me I don't expect to get a no thanks you from them all as I know you ladies get hundreds of messages, it's the ones were we have been talking for a while and then all if a sudden out of the blue nothing if things have changed that's fine with me just say I won't be offended " I wasn't talking in general about messages. I've chatted to guys about meeting, seemingly getting on then have been ignored, blocked or they left the site, only to reappear days later, it happens. Even though you've been chatting, some still can't say no thanks, in fact for some, a no thanks after chatting can be even harder than a no thanks to a first message. It happens, its life, if it really bothers you that much to start a thread then maybe this isn't for you? | |||
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"I wouldn't want to meet you because of your tattoos, particularly the ones on your ears and your knees!! Whether your a good guy or not, those tattoos would give a different impression, sorry. So guys with tattoos like mine are looked at as what mindless thugs now who is stereotyping which I can understand because people judge a book by it's cover they don't see the real person underneath " It might go a little way to understand why the good looking guy with the six pack is getting more interest!! | |||
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"I wouldn't want to meet you because of your tattoos, particularly the ones on your ears and your knees!! Whether your a good guy or not, those tattoos would give a different impression, sorry. So guys with tattoos like mine are looked at as what mindless thugs now who is stereotyping which I can understand because people judge a book by it's cover they don't see the real person underneath It might go a little way to understand why the good looking guy with the six pack is getting more interest!!" That's a fair comment | |||
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"Op completely unrelated but are those blindfold pics taken by yourself on your own? " A couple was just me and a couple with someone whys that | |||
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