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The strange fickleness of women

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By *riggsy OP   Man
over a year ago

rugby

Ok for all the ladies here can you explain this.

I was chatting to someone on here, we got on,swapped face pics and became fab friends after chatting a while. Arranged a first drink social meet for tomorrow. Spoke this morning and she said she was good for tomorrow. Then without notice I am now blocked. I could understand if I had sent a nasty message but we were getting on well ???? Confused.com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she just liked the chase, or simply she's just changed her mind?

Who knows the mind of a woman

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By *each_PittWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

It's a woman's prerogative to change her mind.

Could have been literally ANYTHING. The length of your fingernails, the way you pronounce either, the brand of toothpaste you use . . .

Don't sweat it and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Changed her mind but though blocking you was an simpler option than telling you, who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe cold feet ? just could not do it. Some bottle out as nerves or maybe married or men around and cant cope. Better to find out now then her not turn up.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

saw the face pick and bolted shit happens

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Because meeting you would reveal that the picture she sent wasn't her......or him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Open another account, mail her and ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's changing your mind and there's wasting someone's time. I think the fact she blocked him pretty much guarantees the latter. Let's call it for what it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she was married and didn't log out of the family computer. There are many many reasons why this happens BUT guys also do it.

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because meeting you would reveal that the picture she sent wasn't her......or him."

good point^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women are mental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because meeting you would reveal that the picture she sent wasn't her......or him."

I thought this ... Are they a verified member? If not it could well be a man..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could it have been anything to do with the photo you sent her of you wearing a crash helmet whilst you fucked a pig up its arse?

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By *riggsy OP   Man
over a year ago

rugby


"Could it have been anything to do with the photo you sent her of you wearing a crash helmet whilst you fucked a pig up its arse? "
that would scare me let alone anyone else ??

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By *riggsy OP   Man
over a year ago

rugby


"There's changing your mind and there's wasting someone's time. I think the fact she blocked him pretty much guarantees the latter. Let's call it for what it is."
your probably right mate but it's annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't try and understand women.

Women understand women........

.....and they all hate eachother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's changing your mind and there's wasting someone's time. I think the fact she blocked him pretty much guarantees the latter. Let's call it for what it is. your probably right mate but it's annoying"

I wouldn't let it bother you, it's a part of fab, probably won't be the last time it happens (hopefully it is though) just move on, plenty of nice folks on here.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Don't try and understand women.

Women understand women........

.....and they all hate eachother. "

ok.......

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Don't try and understand women.

Women understand women........

.....and they all hate eachother. "

I don't understand them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a woman's prerogative to change her mind.

Could have been literally ANYTHING. The length of your fingernails, the way you pronounce either, the brand of toothpaste you use . . .

Don't sweat it and move on."

No wonder it's a minefield.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If not verified by a number of meets my mobey would it being a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's changing your mind and there's wasting someone's time. I think the fact she blocked him pretty much guarantees the latter. Let's call it for what it is. your probably right mate but it's annoying"

It's also rude - don't let it spoil your fun on here, plenty of decent folk around x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I do wonder why these generalisations about women are still widely accepted. Fickle, impossible to understand, illogical .....really? Do men honestly still believe this?

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By *riggsy OP   Man
over a year ago

rugby


"I do wonder why these generalisations about women are still widely accepted. Fickle, impossible to understand, illogical .....really? Do men honestly still believe this?"
I wasn't generalising, I was asking if some women are still that fickle. I know a lot of lovely women that aren't

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I do wonder why these generalisations about women are still widely accepted. Fickle, impossible to understand, illogical .....really? Do men honestly still believe this? I wasn't generalising, I was asking if some women are still that fickle. I know a lot of lovely women that aren't "

Ok let you off. Well maybe I will maybe I won't......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

she fcuked u about plain n simple

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By *riggsy OP   Man
over a year ago

rugby


"I do wonder why these generalisations about women are still widely accepted. Fickle, impossible to understand, illogical .....really? Do men honestly still believe this? I wasn't generalising, I was asking if some women are still that fickle. I know a lot of lovely women that aren't

Ok let you off. Well maybe I will maybe I won't...... "
maybe I need to make up so you let me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because meeting you would reveal that the picture she sent wasn't her......or him."

I'd say more that this was the case however it's a woman's perogative to change her mind

Just wipe down you ego and move on lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry..I opened the account just to tease

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By *riggsy OP   Man
over a year ago

rugby


"Because meeting you would reveal that the picture she sent wasn't her......or him.

I'd say more that this was the case however it's a woman's perogative to change her mind

Just wipe down you ego and move on lol x"
what's an ego don't have one of them. Yes some guys don't have an ego

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because meeting you would reveal that the picture she sent wasn't her......or him.

I'd say more that this was the case however it's a woman's perogative to change her mind

Just wipe down you ego and move on lol x what's an ego don't have one of them. Yes some guys don't have an ego "

Sorry didn't mean it disrespectfully just meant it happens to everyone don't let it put you off x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok for all the ladies here can you explain this.

I was chatting to someone on here, we got on,swapped face pics and became fab friends after chatting a while. Arranged a first drink social meet for tomorrow. Spoke this morning and she said she was good for tomorrow. Then without notice I am now blocked. I could understand if I had sent a nasty message but we were getting on well ???? Confused.com"

Had you spoken on the phone?

Was she verified?

It could just be that if she was actually a female that she got cold feet and didn't have the guts to say so,the block button is a very easy way to avoid having to deal with an awkward situation,or she was just on a mega wind up and had no intention of meeting at all

Dust yourself down and put it down to experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It just happens sometimes, ive had it where i have been talking to someone next thing you know your blocked, not everyone has the balls to tell you they have changed their mind so find the block button an easier option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok for all the ladies here can you explain this.

I was chatting to someone on here, we got on,swapped face pics and became fab friends after chatting a while. Arranged a first drink social meet for tomorrow. Spoke this morning and she said she was good for tomorrow. Then without notice I am now blocked. I could understand if I had sent a nasty message but we were getting on well ???? Confused.com"

Lost her bottle but didn't have the guts to tell you most likely. Its better than a complete no show on the day

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Why blame it on being female? It may be something about males and not females. Or likely something else. A sample size of one is not enough to slate a whole gender! Your focus should now be on what you want, what you may have learned about yourself as well as now how to progress. I imagine the pool of available women to you is now smaller, you having acquired an extra few blocks into the bargain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably a fake profile mate.... Move on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now, harking back to a thread from a few days ago, would you say that the this person has treated the OP with respect (based on the facts as presented)?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It just happens sometimes, ive had it where i have been talking to someone next thing you know your blocked, not everyone has the balls to tell you they have changed their mind so find the block button an easier option "

Maybe you had cold feet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why blame it on being female? It may be something about males and not females. Or likely something else. A sample size of one is not enough to slate a whole gender! Your focus should now be on what you want, what you may have learned about yourself as well as now how to progress. I imagine the pool of available women to you is now smaller, you having acquired an extra few blocks into the bargain. "

Why would he gain extra blocks?

I wouldn't block him on the strength of this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now, harking back to a thread from a few days ago, would you say that the this person has treated the OP with respect (based on the facts as presented)?"

Definitely not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me too. Although the women (yes, more than one!) in question were all verified, which kinda makes it worse :-/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happened to me too. Although the women (yes, more than one!) in question were all verified, which kinda makes it worse :-/"

Probably cold feet we've never changed our minds even though I (mrs) do get extremely nervous even on socials but that adds to the fun I think personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happened to me too. Although the women (yes, more than one!) in question were all verified, which kinda makes it worse :-/

Probably cold feet we've never changed our minds even though I (mrs) do get extremely nervous even on socials but that adds to the fun I think personally "

Cold feet meeting me, but not the other 5-10 men on their verification list?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happened to me too. Although the women (yes, more than one!) in question were all verified, which kinda makes it worse :-/

Probably cold feet we've never changed our minds even though I (mrs) do get extremely nervous even on socials but that adds to the fun I think personally

Cold feet meeting me, but not the other 5-10 men on their verification list?"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is it just a woman's prerogative to change her mind, isn't it a man's too?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

If it's any consolation, I don't understand the behaviour of a lot of men, both on here and in daily life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's any consolation, I don't understand the behaviour of a lot of men, both on here and in daily life."

Nor me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's any consolation, I don't understand the behaviour of a lot of men, both on here and in daily life."

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

just be thankful you didn't meet her....

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Don't over-think it. It happens to men and women on here.

I don't think of it as timewasting now unless I turn up and they don't.

It's not very grown-up if you have been chatting but for an adult site not everyone on here is a grown-up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why blame it on being female? It may be something about males and not females. Or likely something else. A sample size of one is not enough to slate a whole gender! Your focus should now be on what you want, what you may have learned about yourself as well as now how to progress. I imagine the pool of available women to you is now smaller, you having acquired an extra few blocks into the bargain.

Why would he gain extra blocks?

I wouldn't block him on the strength of this thread

"

some people block for the thrill they must get from it

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By *riggsy OP   Man
over a year ago

rugby

I would be concerned if I got extra blocks as a result as I am genuinely a nice guy and treat everyone I speak with total respect

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I would be concerned if I got extra blocks as a result as I am genuinely a nice guy and treat everyone I speak with total respect"

Don't be concerned by the threat of blocks. All it means is that there are one or two people that you won't be able to contact from the thousands on here, if you aren't compatible it doesn't really matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would be concerned if I got extra blocks as a result as I am genuinely a nice guy and treat everyone I speak with total respect"

You come across that way,I think it was wrong to make the assumption that women will block you because of this thread,if you had come in all guns blazing and calling her everyname under the sun then that would be a different matter,you asked a question thats all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would be concerned if I got extra blocks as a result as I am genuinely a nice guy and treat everyone I speak with total respect

You come across that way,I think it was wrong to make the assumption that women will block you because of this thread,if you had come in all guns blazing and calling her everyname under the sun then that would be a different matter,you asked a question thats all "

slut! and my guns are firing banks ya bitch xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would be concerned if I got extra blocks as a result as I am genuinely a nice guy and treat everyone I speak with total respect

You come across that way,I think it was wrong to make the assumption that women will block you because of this thread,if you had come in all guns blazing and calling her everyname under the sun then that would be a different matter,you asked a question thats all

slut! and my guns are firing banks ya bitch xxx"

Kiss my peachy arse and re load ya gun with custard! Xx

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

It could have been for any number of reasons... Cold feet. . Caught on site. .. fake profile. . Real life issues. .

whatever the reason and you will probably never know it was rude and discourteous. .. put it down to experience and don't take it personally. . It happens

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By *riggsy OP   Man
over a year ago

rugby


"I would be concerned if I got extra blocks as a result as I am genuinely a nice guy and treat everyone I speak with total respect

You come across that way,I think it was wrong to make the assumption that women will block you because of this thread,if you had come in all guns blazing and calling her everyname under the sun then that would be a different matter,you asked a question thats all

slut! and my guns are firing banks ya bitch xxx

Kiss my peachy arse and re load ya gun with custard! Xx "
would gladly kiss that peachy arse given the chance

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

Sorry I did read the thread but couldn't see if you replied as to whether she was verified genuine or if you had spoken on the phone. Mind you I don't trust verifications since I've come across a few dodgy ones!

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By *riggsy OP   Man
over a year ago

rugby


"Sorry I did read the thread but couldn't see if you replied as to whether she was verified genuine or if you had spoken on the phone. Mind you I don't trust verifications since I've come across a few dodgy ones!"
she had several verifications but no not spoken on phone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't over-think it. It happens to men and women on here.

I don't think of it as timewasting now unless I turn up and they don't.

It's not very grown-up if you have been chatting but for an adult site not everyone on here is a grown-up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have blocked in error when we have gone to write in the notes thingy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a well verified guy do pretty much the same thing. He winked at me, fab'd some of my pics so I messaged. Arranged a social and blocked me the day we'd arranged. He later set up a new profile and was back fabbing my pics, needless to say, I didn't bother messaging that time! Who knows why people do that, its annoying but just move on, it didn't happen for a reason.

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