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How many unread mails do you have...781 here :0

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I will get round them all eventually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just 17 now, I've been ruthlessly culling this morning!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

None... I deleted my whole inbox yesterday. And my sent box. With my memory I fear this may have been a mistake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will get round them all eventually "

No you won't. You're only human.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"I will get round them all eventually "

After just looking at your pics i think you are about to get 782 in your inbox.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read reply ,delete daily

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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago

Staines


"Just 17 now, I've been ruthlessly culling this morning!"

Me too - I've scythed it down to zero and this morning I started at er, uhm, ah... Roughly the same

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

25 at the moment, but some have been there so long they're getting automatically deleted.

I'm trying to work through them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get about 2 new messages a week. I aint doing too badly for a single male, 7 meets in 3 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 36 at the moment and from skimming through those I can see they're not jumping out and saying read me

The most I had was with a new profile,over 1500 in a week and that was with filters on, I thought sod this and deleted the account,completely ridiculous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will get round them all eventually "
so whats your point.... Are you bragging you get so many mails or are you showing you dont care to correspond by mail. Whichever it is i dont really see the point of your thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I will get round them all eventually so whats your point.... Are you bragging you get so many mails or are you showing you dont care to correspond by mail. Whichever it is i dont really see the point of your thread"

Neither actually!!

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By *oody39Man
over a year ago

tunbridge wells

I was actually rather shocked when I logged on this morning, I had 1 mail.

Makes a change from weeks of a big fat zero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fems are obviously going to get more messages, because they are outnumbered by something like 50 males to 1 fem

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i had three ... yay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies how many are blocked?

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton

A rather inadequate number of 1!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have any unread mail

But that's because I have filters set, I open every one and I reply to everyone, even if it is a no thank you.

I find it rather disrespectful to brag about hundreds of unread messages, I wouldn't like to think my efforts to communicate were treated with such disregard.

Ok a lot of them will be idiotic ones but that's what filters and the block button are for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody hell!! I do hope you're going to reply with a thanks but no thanks to all you're not interested in as you know what some guys are like on here getting all upset when they get no reply lol. Best of luck getting through that lot, most I've ever had was around 60 but have now applied pretty much every filter known to man so get around 5 to 10 a day, much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None we read them and answer them even if it's no thanks . How good are we

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a meer 4 i get use to it lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'd love to know why a few people on here think I'm disrespectful...

The amount of messages I have does not = I am not replying!!!!

I do reply!

Lighten up people!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will get round them all eventually "

Lol...what?!

I have 23 unread...

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Bloody hell!! I do hope you're going to reply with a thanks but no thanks to all you're not interested in as you know what some guys are like on here getting all upset when they get no reply lol. Best of luck getting through that lot, most I've ever had was around 60 but have now applied pretty much every filter known to man so get around 5 to 10 a day, much better "

Same here. When I first joined I didn't know about filters. On my first day I had about 4 pages or more. I tried to read and respond to every one but for each one I opened I was getting 3 new ones. It was ridiculous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a meer 4 i get use to it lol"

Bless we don't get loads either so the filters must work . Love the pair of knickers lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

781

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

124

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 when I logged on, now it's at 2 as I post this. I read, reply delete so never have that many.

To the person that asked how many blocked.....too many to count but I'd guess between 300 & 500 as anyone I say no thanks to I block, hence so many.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

It's up to individuals how they manage their mailbox.

I'm not sure how it can be disrespectful not to reply to a message that wasn't actually requested.

Having a profile invites messages from people that match the stated preferences but doesn't make any promise of a response, a meet or anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ing_ArserMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Fems are obviously going to get more messages, because they are outnumbered by something like 50 males to 1 fem"

Why is this so, I mean women being so outnumbered by men.

I don't think they're less interested in sex, not less technology savvy, not less time at hand. So why are there less women?

I really don't understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just 17 now, I've been ruthlessly culling this morning!"

Just made it 18, you look amazing baby x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None.....feelinginadequate.com

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

None as I like to keep my box neat and tidy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None as I like to keep my box neat and tidy "

Goody two shoes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None :-/

On the rare occasion I'm messaged I read and respond at first available opportunity.

Go on try me out & I'll give a live demonstration, ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive got 6 at the moment

I have a profile name which acts as a filter

a well written profile that works for me

many filters that stop alot of what I dont want

We have all as woman been there in the past had many messages and it gets ridiculous.good management of a profile helps alot and my biggest help was to stop unverified messaging me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a meer 4 i get use to it lol

Bless we don't get loads either so the filters must work . Love the pair of knickers lol"

Thanks, filters are in place on mine so I suppose when you put it like that, its all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a meer 4 i get use to it lol

Bless we don't get loads either so the filters must work . Love the pair of knickers lol

Thanks, filters are in place on mine so I suppose when you put it like that, its all good "

Just speak to select few ...... That sounds snobbish , should I retract no stuff it

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston


"Just 17 now, I've been ruthlessly culling this morning!"

You look AMAZING, what an absolutely beautiful body! I read that you're straight so I'm not trying anything on (It's hard work this trying business!) Tis a compliment from someone that admires and at the same time is envious of them curves! (If you weren't straight....you'd probably either block me for my persistency or have 117 messages right now! Haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a meer 4 i get use to it lol

Bless we don't get loads either so the filters must work . Love the pair of knickers lol

Thanks, filters are in place on mine so I suppose when you put it like that, its all good

Just speak to select few ...... That sounds snobbish , should I retract no stuff it "

I try too lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's up to individuals how they manage their mailbox.

I'm not sure how it can be disrespectful not to reply to a message that wasn't actually requested.

Having a profile invites messages from people that match the stated preferences but doesn't make any promise of a response, a meet or anything else."

well said

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston


"Just 17 now, I've been ruthlessly culling this morning!

You look AMAZING, what an absolutely beautiful body! I read that you're straight so I'm not trying anything on (It's hard work this trying business!) Tis a compliment from someone that admires and at the same time is envious of them curves! (If you weren't straight....you'd probably either block me for my persistency or have 117 messages right now! Haha! "

God I'm such a creep!!! Hahaha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just 17 now, I've been ruthlessly culling this morning!

You look AMAZING, what an absolutely beautiful body! I read that you're straight so I'm not trying anything on (It's hard work this trying business!) Tis a compliment from someone that admires and at the same time is envious of them curves! (If you weren't straight....you'd probably either block me for my persistency or have 117 messages right now! Haha!

God I'm such a creep!!! Hahaha! "

You are

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

0 - I get 200 or so messages a day (mostly from friends), but get to go on fab when at work, so have plenty of time to deal with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"0 - I get 200 or so messages a day (mostly from friends), but get to go on fab when at work, so have plenty of time to deal with them "

So you won't have time to do any work then tina

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By *ancs30Man
over a year ago

Blackpool

I had the usual........ 0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have any unread mail

But that's because I have filters set, I open every one and I reply to everyone, even if it is a no thank you.

I find it rather disrespectful to brag about hundreds of unread messages, I wouldn't like to think my efforts to communicate were treated with such disregard.

Ok a lot of them will be idiotic ones but that's what filters and the block button are for "

It's pretty sad when people need things like that to boost their self confidence. Even sadder if they think all the mail is 'genuine'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just 17 now, I've been ruthlessly culling this morning!

You look AMAZING, what an absolutely beautiful body! I read that you're straight so I'm not trying anything on (It's hard work this trying business!) Tis a compliment from someone that admires and at the same time is envious of them curves! (If you weren't straight....you'd probably either block me for my persistency or have 117 messages right now! Haha!

God I'm such a creep!!! Hahaha!

You are "

Yes you are, total creep!

Thank you for the compliment, it's all in the flattering angles and steel boned corsets

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"0 - I get 200 or so messages a day (mostly from friends), but get to go on fab when at work, so have plenty of time to deal with them

So you won't have time to do any work then tina"

I do pretty much ok. A lot of what I do is of the kind where I have to be busy for half an hour then might not be needed for the next hour.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't have any unread mail

But that's because I have filters set, I open every one and I reply to everyone, even if it is a no thank you.

I find it rather disrespectful to brag about hundreds of unread messages, I wouldn't like to think my efforts to communicate were treated with such disregard.

Ok a lot of them will be idiotic ones but that's what filters and the block button are for

It's pretty sad when people need things like that to boost their self confidence. Even sadder if they think all the mail is 'genuine'."

also pretty sad when people think, that's it's pretty sad when people need things like that to boost there self confidence.

I hope you are not implying anything about me as have tons of self confidence thanks!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Ah, I see the disrespectful comment was related to bragging about unread messages, not not replying to messages.

I agree the bragging about it is not reasonable.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I read or delete several time a day, I cannot bear to have piles of unread mail hanging around, though it takes me too long to reply to the ones I want to sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ah, I see the disrespectful comment was related to bragging about unread messages, not not replying to messages.

I agree the bragging about it is not reasonable."

how am I bragging please tell me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have any unread mail

But that's because I have filters set, I open every one and I reply to everyone, even if it is a no thank you.

I find it rather disrespectful to brag about hundreds of unread messages, I wouldn't like to think my efforts to communicate were treated with such disregard.

Ok a lot of them will be idiotic ones but that's what filters and the block button are for

It's pretty sad when people need things like that to boost their self confidence. Even sadder if they think all the mail is 'genuine'.

also pretty sad when people think, that's it's pretty sad when people need things like that to boost there self confidence.

I hope you are not implying anything about me as have tons of self confidence thanks! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read,reply or delete as soon as I can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None.....feelinginadequate.com "

I can send you one but you may probably just read+delete

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Ah, I see the disrespectful comment was related to bragging about unread messages, not not replying to messages.

I agree the bragging about it is not reasonable.

how am I bragging please tell me? "

Oh, look at me, I'm so popular and get so many e-mails is the subtext of your post, basically.

It's up to you if you don't use filters and whether you reply to messages. It's your mailbox and it's up to you to manage it as you choose.

The first post _is_ a post bragging about your popularity though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im just lazy

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

6.

Had 11 this morning.

Deleted 4, replied to 1.

Filters help. As does a lack of concern over whether people think it's rude just to delete.

I reckon I could probably take care of a few hundred in half an hour easily enough.

But we don't need to.

A

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I have 0 unread messages, thank god for not being popular.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Fems are obviously going to get more messages, because they are outnumbered by something like 50 males to 1 fem

Why is this so, I mean women being so outnumbered by men.

I don't think they're less interested in sex, not less technology savvy, not less time at hand. So why are there less women?

I really don't understand "

I have no idea why there are fewer women than men actually, that's a very interesting point. Every reason I come up with in my head sounds improbable but could it be that women in general (I stress that)will find it easier to find nsa sex in real life?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

1. Had a few more this morning.

Replied/deleted as necessary. I pop on and off here through the day so keep on top of it. Would drive me nuts having dozens of unread messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All then men unhappy because they don't get any messages, many ladies upset because they get too many

Says it all about the balance of power in the sex dating game!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on here 14 months, received two messages in that time. And even they were just replies to a thread I made.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1. Had a few more this morning.

Replied/deleted as necessary. I pop on and off here through the day so keep on top of it. Would drive me nuts having dozens of unread messages. "

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"All then men unhappy because they don't get any messages, many ladies upset because they get too many

Says it all about the balance of power in the sex dating game!"

Not really.

What use are hundreds of unread messages?

Effective use of filters and the block button can reduce incoming mail overnight.

*if people want to that is!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And to the OP, the very fact you have proclaimed you have 781 unread messages would put me off messaging you 100%. How on earth would I have any chance of a reply, never mind a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None :-/

On the rare occasion I'm messaged I read and respond at first available opportunity.

Go on try me out & I'll give a live demonstration, ha "

Nee naw!! Coming through....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just 17 now, I've been ruthlessly culling this morning!"

16 from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

781? I find it hard to believe that you have this many. Is there not a limit to how many you can have and the first one would go back months surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And to the OP, the very fact you have proclaimed you have 781 unread messages would put me off messaging you 100%. How on earth would I have any chance of a reply, never mind a meet?"

also shows the frantic message sending by a lot of males...well 781 of them...

it is hard to keep up with if you're not online frequently but yes filters are the only way to go...shushes 'em up...aaahhh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None :-/

On the rare occasion I'm messaged I read and respond at first available opportunity.

Go on try me out & I'll give a live demonstration, ha

Nee naw!! Coming through.... "

Ha, oh well it was worth a try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1673. I really need a clear out. No way am I getting through them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None :-/

On the rare occasion I'm messaged I read and respond at first available opportunity.

Go on try me out & I'll give a live demonstration, ha

Nee naw!! Coming through....

Ha, oh well it was worth a try "

What was?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have any unread mail

But that's because I have filters set, I open every one and I reply to everyone, even if it is a no thank you.

I find it rather disrespectful to brag about hundreds of unread messages, I wouldn't like to think my efforts to communicate were treated with such disregard.

Ok a lot of them will be idiotic ones but that's what filters and the block button are for "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None :-/

On the rare occasion I'm messaged I read and respond at first available opportunity.

Go on try me out & I'll give a live demonstration, ha

Nee naw!! Coming through....

Ha, oh well it was worth a try

What was?!"

My forlorn and desperate attempt to get people to message me ...

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"I have 0 unread messages, thank god for not being popular."

You can have some of mine, if you like. Not the ones from friends, but from people in Exeter, Inverness, Pluto, all asking if I'm ever in their area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

23 and most of the are the usual one liners!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None :-/

On the rare occasion I'm messaged I read and respond at first available opportunity.

Go on try me out & I'll give a live demonstration, ha

Nee naw!! Coming through....

Ha, oh well it was worth a try

What was?!

My forlorn and desperate attempt to get people to message me ... "

Hang on, wait...sit..wait!

Ah there it is...my teeny tiny violin!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"23 and most of the are the usual one liners!!! "

Is someone out there pinching my one liners ? I've not sent any yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah, I see the disrespectful comment was related to bragging about unread messages, not not replying to messages.

I agree the bragging about it is not reasonable.

how am I bragging please tell me?

Oh, look at me, I'm so popular and get so many e-mails is the subtext of your post, basically.

It's up to you if you don't use filters and whether you reply to messages. It's your mailbox and it's up to you to manage it as you choose.

The first post _is_ a post bragging about your popularity though."

How do these poor loves cope with being so popular. All together now "ahhh"

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Fems are obviously going to get more messages, because they are outnumbered by something like 50 males to 1 fem

Why is this so, I mean women being so outnumbered by men.

I don't think they're less interested in sex, not less technology savvy, not less time at hand. So why are there less women?

I really don't understand

I have no idea why there are fewer women than men actually, that's a very interesting point. Every reason I come up with in my head sounds improbable but could it be that women in general (I stress that)will find it easier to find nsa sex in real life?"

I think most women want less sex than most men too. Far more men than women are interested in having multiple partners. Women more often want one long-term partner. That's partly an evolutionary thing. Men want to 'spread their seed' as widely as possible to give their genetic line the best chance of continuing.

Men can father a lot of babies in a year, given a chance. Women can only have one and are more interested in finding good genetic father material and someone who will protect her and their offspring.

Most women don't need sites like this because their needs and wants are different. They can more easily find what they want in daily life or through dating organisations and sites.

There's also the stigma that nice girls don't use sites like this or have casual sex - the slut/stud dichotomy.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"And to the OP, the very fact you have proclaimed you have 781 unread messages would put me off messaging you 100%. How on earth would I have any chance of a reply, never mind a meet?"

I sent the OP a message since she posted this thread and i got a reply, so you won't know unless you try?

One thing is 100% certain, if you don't send a message, you definately won't get a reply.

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over a year ago


"781? I find it hard to believe that you have this many. Is there not a limit to how many you can have and the first one would go back months surely?"

My inbox using my phone only displays the last 30ish messages, read or unread.

To actually sit and count the messages and get to the grand total of 781 is firstly quite sad, you could have read and replied to half of them in that time, and secondly impossible as to see older messages you must first delete the displayed ones (on a phone this is the case it may be different on a pc)

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over a year ago

I don't understand why anyone would allow their unanswered message list to get so long - you may well have missed out on meeting some amazing men/people as a result - but its your inbox, run it your way. Like many others I'm not really sure why you felt the need to advertise how many unread messages you have but it does come across as showing off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I read reply ,delete daily "

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"781? I find it hard to believe that you have this many. Is there not a limit to how many you can have and the first one would go back months surely?

My inbox using my phone only displays the last 30ish messages, read or unread.

To actually sit and count the messages and get to the grand total of 781 is firstly quite sad, you could have read and replied to half of them in that time, and secondly impossible as to see older messages you must first delete the displayed ones (on a phone this is the case it may be different on a pc) "

The mailbox shows the total of unread messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"781? I find it hard to believe that you have this many. Is there not a limit to how many you can have and the first one would go back months surely?

My inbox using my phone only displays the last 30ish messages, read or unread.

To actually sit and count the messages and get to the grand total of 781 is firstly quite sad, you could have read and replied to half of them in that time, and secondly impossible as to see older messages you must first delete the displayed ones (on a phone this is the case it may be different on a pc) "

On a laptop it tells you how many messages you have.

She's getting a hard time now which is a bit unfair.

I don't understand.

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over a year ago

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I have 0 unread messages, thank god for not being popular.

You can have some of mine, if you like. Not the ones from friends, but from people in Exeter, Inverness, Pluto, all asking if I'm ever in their area "

So, are you ever in my area?

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over a year ago


"781? I find it hard to believe that you have this many. Is there not a limit to how many you can have and the first one would go back months surely?

My inbox using my phone only displays the last 30ish messages, read or unread.

To actually sit and count the messages and get to the grand total of 781 is firstly quite sad, you could have read and replied to half of them in that time, and secondly impossible as to see older messages you must first delete the displayed ones (on a phone this is the case it may be different on a pc)

On a laptop it tells you how many messages you have.

She's getting a hard time now which is a bit unfair.

I don't understand."

O bless and she's not well either are you hun

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over a year ago


"None :-/

On the rare occasion I'm messaged I read and respond at first available opportunity.

Go on try me out & I'll give a live demonstration, ha

Nee naw!! Coming through....

Ha, oh well it was worth a try

What was?!

My forlorn and desperate attempt to get people to message me ...

Hang on, wait...sit..wait!

Ah there it is...my teeny tiny violin!

"

Lol - I was joking of course!

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

1 (still thinking how to respond to it). I do not open my filters to single men or couples because i prefer to singlemake the first move and choose wisely. What is the point of letting people mail me if i have no desire to answer their mail? It would only how me as ignorant and i am not.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"781? I find it hard to believe that you have this many. Is there not a limit to how many you can have and the first one would go back months surely?

My inbox using my phone only displays the last 30ish messages, read or unread.

To actually sit and count the messages and get to the grand total of 781 is firstly quite sad, you could have read and replied to half of them in that time, and secondly impossible as to see older messages you must first delete the displayed ones (on a phone this is the case it may be different on a pc) "

No need to count them all, on my pc it shows a mail icon in the top left corner of the screen which tells you how many messages you have in your inbox, so a quick 1 second glance there would suffice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I read reply ,delete daily "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"781? I find it hard to believe that you have this many. Is there not a limit to how many you can have and the first one would go back months surely?

My inbox using my phone only displays the last 30ish messages, read or unread.

To actually sit and count the messages and get to the grand total of 781 is firstly quite sad, you could have read and replied to half of them in that time, and secondly impossible as to see older messages you must first delete the displayed ones (on a phone this is the case it may be different on a pc)

On a laptop it tells you how many messages you have.

She's getting a hard time now which is a bit unfair.

I don't understand.

O bless and she's not well either are you hun"

Pardon?

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over a year ago

34

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"I have 0 unread messages, thank god for not being popular.

You can have some of mine, if you like. Not the ones from friends, but from people in Exeter, Inverness, Pluto, all asking if I'm ever in their area

So, are you ever in my area?"

I was last Sunday

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"34"

35

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if someone has taken the time and trouble to send a polite message then it only takes seconds to reply even if it is to kindly decline an offer.

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over a year ago


"1 (still thinking how to respond to it). I do not open my filters to single men or couples because i prefer to singlemake the first move and choose wisely. What is the point of letting people mail me if i have no desire to answer their mail? It would only how me as ignorant and i am not."

Why on earth is it ignorant to allow people to message you? I have mine open to single men because I want to meet single men. I have verification and photo and age filters on, but obviously still end up with messages from people I'm not interested in because they can 'fit' the criteria but I'm just not interested. It's not rude of them to send them, just as it's not ignorant of me to allow them.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I have 0 unread messages, thank god for not being popular.

You can have some of mine, if you like. Not the ones from friends, but from people in Exeter, Inverness, Pluto, all asking if I'm ever in their area

So, are you ever in my area?

I was last Sunday "

And you didn't pop in for tea because...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None :-/

On the rare occasion I'm messaged I read and respond at first available opportunity.

Go on try me out & I'll give a live demonstration, ha

Nee naw!! Coming through....

Ha, oh well it was worth a try

What was?!

My forlorn and desperate attempt to get people to message me ...

Hang on, wait...sit..wait!

Ah there it is...my teeny tiny violin!

Lol - I was joking of course! "

Reading isn't that far you know!

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"781? I find it hard to believe that you have this many. Is there not a limit to how many you can have and the first one would go back months surely?

My inbox using my phone only displays the last 30ish messages, read or unread.

To actually sit and count the messages and get to the grand total of 781 is firstly quite sad, you could have read and replied to half of them in that time, and secondly impossible as to see older messages you must first delete the displayed ones (on a phone this is the case it may be different on a pc)

On a laptop it tells you how many messages you have.

She's getting a hard time now which is a bit unfair.

I don't understand.

O bless and she's not well either are you hun

Pardon?"

Maybe he was refering to your status that you have an ear infection?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"781? I find it hard to believe that you have this many. Is there not a limit to how many you can have and the first one would go back months surely?

My inbox using my phone only displays the last 30ish messages, read or unread.

To actually sit and count the messages and get to the grand total of 781 is firstly quite sad, you could have read and replied to half of them in that time, and secondly impossible as to see older messages you must first delete the displayed ones (on a phone this is the case it may be different on a pc)

No need to count them all, on my pc it shows a mail icon in the top left corner of the screen which tells you how many messages you have in your inbox, so a quick 1 second glance there would suffice."

Same on my iPhone.

Says 6 unread at the top off the screen in looking at now.

A

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.


"I read,reply or delete as soon as I can"

Every week delete all messages and just save ones I want to refer back to. Like a nice tidy inbox.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

69! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"781? I find it hard to believe that you have this many. Is there not a limit to how many you can have and the first one would go back months surely?

My inbox using my phone only displays the last 30ish messages, read or unread.

To actually sit and count the messages and get to the grand total of 781 is firstly quite sad, you could have read and replied to half of them in that time, and secondly impossible as to see older messages you must first delete the displayed ones (on a phone this is the case it may be different on a pc)

No need to count them all, on my pc it shows a mail icon in the top left corner of the screen which tells you how many messages you have in your inbox, so a quick 1 second glance there would suffice.

Same on my iPhone.

Says 6 unread at the top off the screen in looking at now.

A"

The mobile app is exactly the same, you can't see the older messages until you've deleted some newer ones but it still tells you how many there are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1 (still thinking how to respond to it). I do not open my filters to single men or couples because i prefer to singlemake the first move and choose wisely. What is the point of letting people mail me if i have no desire to answer their mail? It would only how me as ignorant and i am not.

Why on earth is it ignorant to allow people to message you? I have mine open to single men because I want to meet single men. I have verification and photo and age filters on, but obviously still end up with messages from people I'm not interested in because they can 'fit' the criteria but I'm just not interested. It's not rude of them to send them, just as it's not ignorant of me to allow them. "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"781? I find it hard to believe that you have this many. Is there not a limit to how many you can have and the first one would go back months surely?

My inbox using my phone only displays the last 30ish messages, read or unread.

To actually sit and count the messages and get to the grand total of 781 is firstly quite sad, you could have read and replied to half of them in that time, and secondly impossible as to see older messages you must first delete the displayed ones (on a phone this is the case it may be different on a pc)

On a laptop it tells you how many messages you have.

She's getting a hard time now which is a bit unfair.

I don't understand.

O bless and she's not well either are you hun

Pardon?

Maybe he was refering to your status that you have an ear infection? "

You think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I was

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"781? I find it hard to believe that you have this many. Is there not a limit to how many you can have and the first one would go back months surely?

My inbox using my phone only displays the last 30ish messages, read or unread.

To actually sit and count the messages and get to the grand total of 781 is firstly quite sad, you could have read and replied to half of them in that time, and secondly impossible as to see older messages you must first delete the displayed ones (on a phone this is the case it may be different on a pc) "

I FIND THIS MESSAGE HILARIOUS!!! I CLEARLY DID NOT COUNT ANYTHING IT TELLS ME HOW MANY MESSAGES I HAVE IN MY INBOX WHEN U CLICK ON.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"1 (still thinking how to respond to it). I do not open my filters to single men or couples because i prefer to singlemake the first move and choose wisely. What is the point of letting people mail me if i have no desire to answer their mail? It would only how me as ignorant and i am not.

Why on earth is it ignorant to allow people to message you? I have mine open to single men because I want to meet single men. I have verification and photo and age filters on, but obviously still end up with messages from people I'm not interested in because they can 'fit' the criteria but I'm just not interested. It's not rude of them to send them, just as it's not ignorant of me to allow them. "

re-read my post and You will notice that what i meant is not whAt you understood. If you need clarification just let me know and i will rephrase

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"781? I find it hard to believe that you have this many. Is there not a limit to how many you can have and the first one would go back months surely?

My inbox using my phone only displays the last 30ish messages, read or unread.

To actually sit and count the messages and get to the grand total of 781 is firstly quite sad, you could have read and replied to half of them in that time, and secondly impossible as to see older messages you must first delete the displayed ones (on a phone this is the case it may be different on a pc)

I FIND THIS MESSAGE HILARIOUS!!! I CLEARLY DID NOT COUNT ANYTHING IT TELLS ME HOW MANY MESSAGES I HAVE IN MY INBOX WHEN U CLICK ON."

Just ignore....but to make up for it you could answer each and every message until your inbox is empty...see you in 4 hours....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"781? I find it hard to believe that you have this many. Is there not a limit to how many you can have and the first one would go back months surely?

My inbox using my phone only displays the last 30ish messages, read or unread.

To actually sit and count the messages and get to the grand total of 781 is firstly quite sad, you could have read and replied to half of them in that time, and secondly impossible as to see older messages you must first delete the displayed ones (on a phone this is the case it may be different on a pc)

No need to count them all, on my pc it shows a mail icon in the top left corner of the screen which tells you how many messages you have in your inbox, so a quick 1 second glance there would suffice.

Same on my iPhone.

Says 6 unread at the top off the screen in looking at now.

A

The mobile app is exactly the same, you can't see the older messages until you've deleted some newer ones but it still tells you how many there are."

Haha that's my blond moment for the day, totally missed that the yellow box has a number in it as well as unread displayed, but then I don't really read what it says just notice it is yellow for unread mail

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

None. And I've only had one mail in the last three days.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"781? I find it hard to believe that you have this many. Is there not a limit to how many you can have and the first one would go back months surely?

My inbox using my phone only displays the last 30ish messages, read or unread.

To actually sit and count the messages and get to the grand total of 781 is firstly quite sad, you could have read and replied to half of them in that time, and secondly impossible as to see older messages you must first delete the displayed ones (on a phone this is the case it may be different on a pc)

On a laptop it tells you how many messages you have.

She's getting a hard time now which is a bit unfair.

I don't understand."

thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"69! X"

Ooh matron!

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over a year ago


"781? I find it hard to believe that you have this many. Is there not a limit to how many you can have and the first one would go back months surely?

My inbox using my phone only displays the last 30ish messages, read or unread.

To actually sit and count the messages and get to the grand total of 781 is firstly quite sad, you could have read and replied to half of them in that time, and secondly impossible as to see older messages you must first delete the displayed ones (on a phone this is the case it may be different on a pc)

I FIND THIS MESSAGE HILARIOUS!!! I CLEARLY DID NOT COUNT ANYTHING IT TELLS ME HOW MANY MESSAGES I HAVE IN MY INBOX WHEN U CLICK ON.

Just ignore....but to make up for it you could answer each and every message until your inbox is empty...see you in 4 hours.... "

good luck to me he he xx

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"781? I find it hard to believe that you have this many. Is there not a limit to how many you can have and the first one would go back months surely?

My inbox using my phone only displays the last 30ish messages, read or unread.

To actually sit and count the messages and get to the grand total of 781 is firstly quite sad, you could have read and replied to half of them in that time, and secondly impossible as to see older messages you must first delete the displayed ones (on a phone this is the case it may be different on a pc)

On a laptop it tells you how many messages you have.

She's getting a hard time now which is a bit unfair.

I don't understand.

O bless and she's not well either are you hun

Pardon?

Maybe he was refering to your status that you have an ear infection?

You think?

"

Well when you said "Pardon?" it did appear that you were a little slow and you did'nt get what he meant by saying you were not well? If you got it then why bother saying Pardon?

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over a year ago


"None :-/

On the rare occasion I'm messaged I read and respond at first available opportunity.

Go on try me out & I'll give a live demonstration, ha

Nee naw!! Coming through....

Ha, oh well it was worth a try

What was?!

My forlorn and desperate attempt to get people to message me ...

Hang on, wait...sit..wait!

Ah there it is...my teeny tiny violin!

Lol - I was joking of course!

Reading isn't that far you know!"

Just a short hop down the M4 by all accounts

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over a year ago


"781? I find it hard to believe that you have this many. Is there not a limit to how many you can have and the first one would go back months surely?

My inbox using my phone only displays the last 30ish messages, read or unread.

To actually sit and count the messages and get to the grand total of 781 is firstly quite sad, you could have read and replied to half of them in that time, and secondly impossible as to see older messages you must first delete the displayed ones (on a phone this is the case it may be different on a pc)

I FIND THIS MESSAGE HILARIOUS!!! I CLEARLY DID NOT COUNT ANYTHING IT TELLS ME HOW MANY MESSAGES I HAVE IN MY INBOX WHEN U CLICK ON.

Just ignore....but to make up for it you could answer each and every message until your inbox is empty...see you in 4 hours....

good luck to me he he xx"

Eek!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"781? I find it hard to believe that you have this many. Is there not a limit to how many you can have and the first one would go back months surely?

My inbox using my phone only displays the last 30ish messages, read or unread.

To actually sit and count the messages and get to the grand total of 781 is firstly quite sad, you could have read and replied to half of them in that time, and secondly impossible as to see older messages you must first delete the displayed ones (on a phone this is the case it may be different on a pc)

On a laptop it tells you how many messages you have.

She's getting a hard time now which is a bit unfair.

I don't understand.

O bless and she's not well either are you hun

Pardon?

Maybe he was refering to your status that you have an ear infection?

You think?

Well when you said "Pardon?" it did appear that you were a little slow and you did'nt get what he meant by saying you were not well? If you got it then why bother saying Pardon?"

Ha...charming.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"781? I find it hard to believe that you have this many. Is there not a limit to how many you can have and the first one would go back months surely?

My inbox using my phone only displays the last 30ish messages, read or unread.

To actually sit and count the messages and get to the grand total of 781 is firstly quite sad, you could have read and replied to half of them in that time, and secondly impossible as to see older messages you must first delete the displayed ones (on a phone this is the case it may be different on a pc)

On a laptop it tells you how many messages you have.

She's getting a hard time now which is a bit unfair.

I don't understand.

O bless and she's not well either are you hun

Pardon?

Maybe he was refering to your status that you have an ear infection?

You think?

Well when you said "Pardon?" it did appear that you were a little slow and you did'nt get what he meant by saying you were not well? If you got it then why bother saying Pardon?"

Because it's an ear infection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"781? I find it hard to believe that you have this many. Is there not a limit to how many you can have and the first one would go back months surely?

My inbox using my phone only displays the last 30ish messages, read or unread.

To actually sit and count the messages and get to the grand total of 781 is firstly quite sad, you could have read and replied to half of them in that time, and secondly impossible as to see older messages you must first delete the displayed ones (on a phone this is the case it may be different on a pc)

I FIND THIS MESSAGE HILARIOUS!!! I CLEARLY DID NOT COUNT ANYTHING IT TELLS ME HOW MANY MESSAGES I HAVE IN MY INBOX WHEN U CLICK ON."

We all make mistakes at times and I have now discovered that the number of unread is displayed, I will apologize for the sad for counting comment as I was wrong.

I stand by anything else I said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had 5 this morning, felt like a lottery winner !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"781? I find it hard to believe that you have this many. Is there not a limit to how many you can have and the first one would go back months surely?

My inbox using my phone only displays the last 30ish messages, read or unread.

To actually sit and count the messages and get to the grand total of 781 is firstly quite sad, you could have read and replied to half of them in that time, and secondly impossible as to see older messages you must first delete the displayed ones (on a phone this is the case it may be different on a pc)

On a laptop it tells you how many messages you have.

She's getting a hard time now which is a bit unfair.

I don't understand.

O bless and she's not well either are you hun

Pardon?

Maybe he was refering to your status that you have an ear infection?

You think?

Well when you said "Pardon?" it did appear that you were a little slow and you did'nt get what he meant by saying you were not well? If you got it then why bother saying Pardon?

Because it's an ear infection."

Indeed it is..thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had 5 this morning, felt like a lottery winner !!! "

Bonus ball?

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"781? I find it hard to believe that you have this many. Is there not a limit to how many you can have and the first one would go back months surely?

My inbox using my phone only displays the last 30ish messages, read or unread.

To actually sit and count the messages and get to the grand total of 781 is firstly quite sad, you could have read and replied to half of them in that time, and secondly impossible as to see older messages you must first delete the displayed ones (on a phone this is the case it may be different on a pc)

On a laptop it tells you how many messages you have.

She's getting a hard time now which is a bit unfair.

I don't understand.

O bless and she's not well either are you hun

Pardon?

Maybe he was refering to your status that you have an ear infection?

You think?

Well when you said "Pardon?" it did appear that you were a little slow and you did'nt get what he meant by saying you were not well? If you got it then why bother saying Pardon?

Because it's an ear infection."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think we've ever had more than four. What does that say about us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't think we've ever had more than four. What does that say about us "

It says you have a filter on

And probably very wise too to keep all the timewasters out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aside from making a new member feel unwelcome....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't think we've ever had more than four. What does that say about us "

I wouldn't let it worry you. I try not to let it worry me either. As long as the replies you get are from genuine people that you're interested in that's the main thing.

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over a year ago


"Had 5 this morning, felt like a lottery winner !!!

Bonus ball?"

Lol my balls are always bonus ,

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your sarcastic and condescending replies may not strictly break the rules but it's not a very pleasant way to treat a new member is it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had 5 this morning, felt like a lottery winner !!!

Bonus ball?

Lol my balls are always bonus , "

Yahoo!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"I have 0 unread messages, thank god for not being popular.

You can have some of mine, if you like. Not the ones from friends, but from people in Exeter, Inverness, Pluto, all asking if I'm ever in their area

So, are you ever in my area?

I was last Sunday

And you didn't pop in for tea because... "

I was busy eating ice cream

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

had 10 when I logged on, now I have 0, as I like to keep on top of them by replying.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm slightly lost here.. who's the new member and what's Been said??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And to the OP, the very fact you have proclaimed you have 781 unread messages would put me off messaging you 100%. How on earth would I have any chance of a reply, never mind a meet?

I sent the OP a message since she posted this thread and i got a reply, so you won't know unless you try?

One thing is 100% certain, if you don't send a message, you definately won't get a reply. "

what was her reply ? For fucks sake thats 782 messages ill tell the world ive received and not read lol

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Its Saturday!! Chill out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And to the OP, the very fact you have proclaimed you have 781 unread messages would put me off messaging you 100%. How on earth would I have any chance of a reply, never mind a meet?

I sent the OP a message since she posted this thread and i got a reply, so you won't know unless you try?

One thing is 100% certain, if you don't send a message, you definately won't get a reply.

what was her reply ? For fucks sake thats 782 messages ill tell the world ive received and not read lol"

once again...I never said I have no intentions of replying!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm slightly lost here.. who's the new member and what's Been said??"

Fuck knows!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its Saturday!! Chill out "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think if someone has taken the time and trouble to send a polite message then it only takes seconds to reply even if it is to kindly decline an offer. "

I did that to 84 messages the other week,took a lot more than a few seconds I can tell you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I have 0 unread messages, thank god for not being popular.

You can have some of mine, if you like. Not the ones from friends, but from people in Exeter, Inverness, Pluto, all asking if I'm ever in their area

So, are you ever in my area?

I was last Sunday

And you didn't pop in for tea because...

I was busy eating ice cream "

A very poor excuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my inbox is a right old mess and there's quite a lot unread messages in there Really need to get off the forums & start doing some house keeping...!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Op is no more attractive than many other women on this thread so she clearly is just not managing her inbox as well as others.

That is unless as some have suggested, this is more about an ego boost than anything else.

If it is, there's nothing wrong with that. She's not the first and she won't be the last.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"my inbox is a right old mess and there's quite a lot unread messages in there Really need to get off the forums & start doing some house keeping...!!

"

Same.

Can't be bothered.

Staying here.

Someone put the kettle on please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally can't see the point of letting messages build up like that. If you're on the site why ignore them?

Also can't see point of telling everyone either.

But then a lot of things posted in these forums are pointless. So this fits in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Pointless comments and opinions are just as bad as pointless threads so we are all guilty. Let's all have an orgy and make friends

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"I have 0 unread messages, thank god for not being popular.

You can have some of mine, if you like. Not the ones from friends, but from people in Exeter, Inverness, Pluto, all asking if I'm ever in their area

So, are you ever in my area?

I was last Sunday

And you didn't pop in for tea because...

I was busy eating ice cream

A very poor excuse "

Not at £2 a pop. I had flakes in them, too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pointless comments and opinions are just as bad as pointless threads so we are all guilty. Let's all have an orgy and make friends "

Now there's a great idea! I'll bring the nibbles!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pointless comments and opinions are just as bad as pointless threads so we are all guilty. Let's all have an orgy and make friends "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pointless comments and opinions are just as bad as pointless threads so we are all guilty. Let's all have an orgy and make friends

Well said "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pointless comments and opinions are just as bad as pointless threads so we are all guilty. Let's all have an orgy and make friends "

Beat me to it!!

......... gizza shag!

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By *amBam minus Pebbles21p3Man
over a year ago

Hampton Court/Belfast


"I will get round them all eventually so whats your point.... Are you bragging you get so many mails or are you showing you dont care to correspond by mail. Whichever it is i dont really see the point of your thread"

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By *amBam minus Pebbles21p3Man
over a year ago

Hampton Court/Belfast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pointless comments and opinions are just as bad as pointless threads so we are all guilty. Let's all have an orgy and make friends "

I'm sure someone will come up with a percentage of pointless posts soon based on no actual evidence but said like it's fact. ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I will get round them all eventually so whats your point.... Are you bragging you get so many mails or are you showing you dont care to correspond by mail. Whichever it is i dont really see the point of your thread "

i repeat...neither!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my inbox is a right old mess and there's quite a lot unread messages in there Really need to get off the forums & start doing some house keeping...!!

Same.

Can't be bothered.

Staying here.

Someone put the kettle on please."

I've made a cuppa & a cheese & pickle sarnie....it's going well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An opinion is never pointless. It's a personal _iew. But the topic can be pointless because who gives a fuck about how many messages you have unread?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"An opinion is never pointless. It's a personal _iew. But the topic can be pointless because who gives a fuck about how many messages you have unread? "

you have never heard a pointless opinion?

Well heres my opinion. I don't care for your opinion. I hope you take me personal _iew into consideration.

and if you don't give a fuck why are you wasting your time commenting on my post?

Take your opinons/personal _iews and do something valuable with them.. maybe post on a different thread..maybe one your actually interested in???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally can't see the point of letting messages build up like that. If you're on the site why ignore them?

Also can't see point of telling everyone either.

But then a lot of things posted in these forums are pointless. So this fits in"

There isn't a point. It happens. I have 71 that have dropped off my first page. They mount up quite easily. I can't read them on my phone without deleting others,which is time consuming. Nothing wrong with pointless threads,some are for fun,some written through boredom. Don't like,don't read and don't be rude. I made my point I don't care if people like it or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had half hour to waste lol. But yes you're right I could do much more interesting things. So il leave you to your unread messages and go and read my own.

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By *each_PittWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"5 when I logged on, now it's at 2 as I post this. I read, reply delete so never have that many.

To the person that asked how many blocked.....too many to count but I'd guess between 300 & 500 as anyone I say no thanks to I block, hence so many."

Think I'll do this. One polite no TY should be enough. I don't like being asked over and over and for reasons why I don't wanna meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hurry up & get to mine, Banana cake, - I'm awaiting your in depth response!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An opinion is never pointless. It's a personal _iew. But the topic can be pointless because who gives a fuck about how many messages you have unread? "

172 responses make it quite a popular topic,you obviously gave a fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When my inbox gets that full, it's just easier to delete them all and start again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I personally can't see the point of letting messages build up like that. If you're on the site why ignore them?

Also can't see point of telling everyone either.

But then a lot of things posted in these forums are pointless. So this fits in

There isn't a point. It happens. I have 71 that have dropped off my first page. They mount up quite easily. I can't read them on my phone without deleting others,which is time consuming. Nothing wrong with pointless threads,some are for fun,some written through boredom. Don't like,don't read and don't be rude. I made my point I don't care if people like it or not "

I love this well said

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"An opinion is never pointless. It's a personal _iew. But the topic can be pointless because who gives a fuck about how many messages you have unread?

172 responses make it quite a popular topic,you obviously gave a fuck "

love it. Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hurry up & get to mine, Banana cake, - I'm awaiting your in depth response!!

"

It was my own fault. I hold my hands up. I unblocked men on a whim and I'm unable to carry on a conversation whilst saying no thank you and blocking. I have stupid days like that. I don't create when I get a second message from an unread messager though

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