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By *ushladverybad OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

First meet tonight with a couple, any tips? Dos and don'ts? Probably seems a stupid question!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most important! Remember you're meeting a couple and not just the woman. It's extremely rude to forget that, engage with the hubby/bf/partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh gawd I've never met a couple I prefer single pringles! Bet your bricking it lol

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By *uppy ConquerorMan
over a year ago

dundee

Don't let them treat you like a peace of meat. Your fun matters too!

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
over a year ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)

Take time to talk with them socially first so that all are relaxed, then talk about for instance ideas of what they would like the ideal meet to be. Don't go too much on alcohol as that can easily tip from being a relaxant to showing you up.

Games are good to break the ice and remember to ask if "this is ok or are you enjoying that .....nerves should soon go then go with the flow being respectful at all times. Then maybe a massage afterwards or a friendly chat so that you bond the time with a memorable positive conclusion

Above all.....Have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be respectful enjoy the social side too, don't rush into anything too quickly

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over a year ago

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By *ushladverybad OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Yeah I am nervous but should be fun, it's role play they want to do as well! So meeting the woman in the hotel bar and buying her a drink and chatting her up while hubby watches from a table. If all goes well we then move up to the hotel room!

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By *uppy ConquerorMan
over a year ago

dundee

Is the couple verified?

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

Bring plenty of lube as the initiation ceremony involves a pineapple. I won't go into detail and spoil the suprise

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Yeah I am nervous but should be fun, it's role play they want to do as well! So meeting the woman in the hotel bar and buying her a drink and chatting her up while hubby watches from a table. If all goes well we then move up to the hotel room! "

Sounds fun.

It's advisable to find out any definite boundaries before the meet - you don't want everything going great and then the mood/atmosphere to change instantly because you've done something (oh I don't know - called her a slut, shoved a finger up her bum, stripped off to reveal frilly knickers) that could easily have been avoided had you had advanced warning.

Apart from that - relax, go with the flow, don't drink too much - and don't forget the condoms!

Enjoy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrive d*unk. The husband will generally do most of the talking (interrogating) so just tell him to sit in the corner and "shut the fuck up".

Find the fridge and make a sandwich. Then stand in front of the woman, get you cock out, take a bite of the sandwich and say "listen lady, I'm not the only one who should have their mouth full right now".

That should break the ice.

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By *ushladverybad OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Hey everyone, just wanted to say thanks for the tips! First meet was a huge success! Very hot night of filthy fun!! Ready for my next one now!! Who wants me lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn up and smelling sweet . lol

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