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swingers babysitter service???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just an idea???? What do you all think??? CBO checked of course! !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good idea in principle but fraught with problems in practice, i would imagine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just an idea!!!! We and lots of our fabs friends just hate fibbing to vinalla family and friends about were we are going, were we have been etc etc!

We just like to be honest! But difficult in this lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Please note that the safety of our little monkeys is the most important thing! It's just a question

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Reminds me of a social I was organising....I got asked several times if there was a babysitting service.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this is a fab idea! Obviously you wouldn't just drip your kids off at a complete strangers house after exchanging a message on here. I agree with you, I have had to make some terrible fibs up, I even had an imaginary boyfriend for 6 months so I could have meets. It is really difficult x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok ok I'll watch your sprogs, what's the pay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok ok I'll watch your sprogs, what's the pay "

Lots of coffee and your choice of biscuits x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok ok I'll watch your sprogs, what's the pay

Lots of coffee and your choice of biscuits x"

i can have that at home without being surrounded by screaming kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think this is a fab idea! Obviously you wouldn't just drip your kids off at a complete strangers house after exchanging a message on here. I agree with you, I have had to make some terrible fibs up, I even had an imaginary boyfriend for 6 months so I could have meets. It is really difficult x"

My best friend and his girlfriend have had more than 5 birthdays each so far this year. Trouble is because they live so far away we have to stay over

Only trust my mum and sister in law if neither can babysit we don't go out x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very dangerous and I'm sorry, I believe; naive ...don't go there....many sex offenders haven't been caught and probably don't have a relevant criminal history for a record check to pick up....jobs where people are filling such important positions of trust need more than a records check anyway... they need interviewing, testing, regular supervision, training and support....I just think there is no need here...

Ok, so we need people to be footie coaches for our kids and we need people to sit our children generally so we can have adult lives but a swingers site sitting service so people can swing...no, just no!

I know the vast majority of child abuse is familial but this is a risk too far in my opinion, we should leave our children with those we trust, who the children trust and who have built that trust with us as parents in ways that leave us certain that our babies are safe....no little nagging doubts, questions we ask ourselves about the sitter's motives, nothing in our minds that gives us little uncomfortable feelings and there often are nagging doubts when something is wrong.

NB: I have 20 years experience working with sex offenders...I'll leave it there folks xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very dangerous and I'm sorry, I believe; naive ...don't go there....many sex offenders haven't been caught and probably don't have a relevant criminal history for a record check to pick up....jobs where people are filling such important positions of trust need more than a records check anyway... they need interviewing, testing, regular supervision, training and support....I just think there is no need here...

Ok, so we need people to be footie coaches for our kids and we need people to sit our children generally so we can have adult lives but a swingers site sitting service so people can swing...no, just no!

I know the vast majority of child abuse is familial but this is a risk too far in my opinion, we should leave our children with those we trust, who the children trust and who have built that trust with us as parents in ways that leave us certain that our babies are safe....no little nagging doubts, questions we ask ourselves about the sitter's motives, nothing in our minds that gives us little uncomfortable feelings and there often are nagging doubts when something is wrong.

NB: I have 20 years experience working with sex offenders...I'll leave it there folks xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just do what I do...leave them with a Peppa Pig marathon and plenty smarties while I nip out for a quickie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very dangerous and I'm sorry, I believe; naive ...don't go there....many sex offenders haven't been caught and probably don't have a relevant criminal history for a record check to pick up....jobs where people are filling such important positions of trust need more than a records check anyway... they need interviewing, testing, regular supervision, training and support....I just think there is no need here...

Ok, so we need people to be footie coaches for our kids and we need people to sit our children generally so we can have adult lives but a swingers site sitting service so people can swing...no, just no!

I know the vast majority of child abuse is familial but this is a risk too far in my opinion, we should leave our children with those we trust, who the children trust and who have built that trust with us as parents in ways that leave us certain that our babies are safe....no little nagging doubts, questions we ask ourselves about the sitter's motives, nothing in our minds that gives us little uncomfortable feelings and there often are nagging doubts when something is wrong.

NB: I have 20 years experience working with sex offenders...I'll leave it there folks xx"

i totally agree but as you have stated most kids are abused by family members and friends so who do we really trust

a child is no more likely to abused by a child minder than a member of its own family

though to be honest i did take this thread tongue in cheek surely noone would really leave their kids with a service run by fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very dangerous and I'm sorry, I believe; naive ...don't go there....many sex offenders haven't been caught and probably don't have a relevant criminal history for a record check to pick up....jobs where people are filling such important positions of trust need more than a records check anyway... they need interviewing, testing, regular supervision, training and support....I just think there is no need here...

Ok, so we need people to be footie coaches for our kids and we need people to sit our children generally so we can have adult lives but a swingers site sitting service so people can swing...no, just no!

I know the vast majority of child abuse is familial but this is a risk too far in my opinion, we should leave our children with those we trust, who the children trust and who have built that trust with us as parents in ways that leave us certain that our babies are safe....no little nagging doubts, questions we ask ourselves about the sitter's motives, nothing in our minds that gives us little uncomfortable feelings and there often are nagging doubts when something is wrong.

NB: I have 20 years experience working with sex offenders...I'll leave it there folks xx

i totally agree but as you have stated most kids are abused by family members and friends so who do we really trust

a child is no more likely to abused by a child minder than a member of its own family

though to be honest i did take this thread tongue in cheek surely noone would really leave their kids with a service run by fab?"

Yes very tongue in cheek but it does raise the question of how to get sitters, we live hundreds of miles away from family so they are out of the question .explaining to friends why your going to be out till the early morning does pose it's problems especially when as has been mentioned you talk of trust very few we would so meets are few and far between for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very dangerous and I'm sorry, I believe; naive ...don't go there....many sex offenders haven't been caught and probably don't have a relevant criminal history for a record check to pick up....jobs where people are filling such important positions of trust need more than a records check anyway... they need interviewing, testing, regular supervision, training and support....I just think there is no need here...

Ok, so we need people to be footie coaches for our kids and we need people to sit our children generally so we can have adult lives but a swingers site sitting service so people can swing...no, just no!

I know the vast majority of child abuse is familial but this is a risk too far in my opinion, we should leave our children with those we trust, who the children trust and who have built that trust with us as parents in ways that leave us certain that our babies are safe....no little nagging doubts, questions we ask ourselves about the sitter's motives, nothing in our minds that gives us little uncomfortable feelings and there often are nagging doubts when something is wrong.

NB: I have 20 years experience working with sex offenders...I'll leave it there folks xx"

Lighten up! You can meet people on here socially who then may go on to become friends in the same way as you would at the school gates or karate club etc. Would you question me leaving my child at their house for a few hours or letting them sleep over just because we met in different circumstances?

I wouldn't for one moment let my child stay at a complete strangers house but friendships can be built and trust formed whether your a swinger or local vicars wife. Not every man on the planet is a paedophile!

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

i just told the family the truth said i was going to blah blah club and i wont be back till late or even the next day

and yes they do know i do this found it much easier to tell the truth and why

also meant i could have that quality time knowing they was safe even better when kids came back as they was spoilt as it meant i could ask again and they would go just to get more of the same

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