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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Met a girl last week (not on fab) took her out twice (no sex involved) really liked her a lot couldn't wait to see her again then found out she is married! I was gutted and can't stop thinking about her. How do I stop thinking about her???? It's driving me crazy!

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By *andixxxMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

I know that this may sound harsh,but this is a swinging site....if you arranged a meet,hoping that a relationship will follow,you really need to reevaluate your reasons for being on the site...I know that's probably not what you want to hear,but I feel it's best to be honest...hope you're ok though...there's plenty more fish in the sea!!good luck in finding the right one!!! xxx

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

She went out with you twice and then told you she is married?

Cut contact and let some time pass. You will stop thinking about her. It was two great dates but that is all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know that this may sound harsh,but this is a swinging site....if you arranged a meet,hoping that a relationship will follow,you really need to reevaluate your reasons for being on the site...I know that's probably not what you want to hear,but I feel it's best to be honest...hope you're ok though...there's plenty more fish in the sea!!good luck in finding the right one!!! xxx"

Forgot to put didn't meet her on here met on a night out! Meeting my fb tomorrow hopefully will help me forget about her! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't be that smitten then if you're off for a leg over tomorrow

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By *andixxxMan
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I know that this may sound harsh,but this is a swinging site....if you arranged a meet,hoping that a relationship will follow,you really need to reevaluate your reasons for being on the site...I know that's probably not what you want to hear,but I feel it's best to be honest...hope you're ok though...there's plenty more fish in the sea!!good luck in finding the right one!!! xxx

Forgot to put didn't meet her on here met on a night out! Meeting my fb tomorrow hopefully will help me forget about her! X"

I see,that's a different matter entirely!!! My advice would be...fuck each other brains out (with your FB) and then fuck some more till you forget about her!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can't be that smitten then if you're off for a leg over tomorrow "

Never felt like it bout any other girl and thought about her non stop for last 5 days so thought a meet might help x

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"I know that this may sound harsh,but this is a swinging site....if you arranged a meet,hoping that a relationship will follow,you really need to reevaluate your reasons for being on the site...I know that's probably not what you want to hear,but I feel it's best to be honest...hope you're ok though...there's plenty more fish in the sea!!good luck in finding the right one!!! xxx"

He did say he DIDN'T meet her on this site. x


"Met a girl last week (not on fab)"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know that this may sound harsh,but this is a swinging site....if you arranged a meet,hoping that a relationship will follow,you really need to reevaluate your reasons for being on the site...I know that's probably not what you want to hear,but I feel it's best to be honest...hope you're ok though...there's plenty more fish in the sea!!good luck in finding the right one!!! xxx

Forgot to put didn't meet her on here met on a night out! Meeting my fb tomorrow hopefully will help me forget about her! X

I see,that's a different matter entirely!!! My advice would be...fuck each other brains out (with your FB) and then fuck some more till you forget about her!!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does the very fact that they would do that give you any solace that you had a lucky escape?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I know that this may sound harsh,but this is a swinging site....if you arranged a meet,hoping that a relationship will follow,you really need to reevaluate your reasons for being on the sitexxx"

She was not on Fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does the very fact that they would do that give you any solace that you had a lucky escape?"

Yes definitely only found out when she invited me back to hers I slept on couch then left early in morning could never do that to another bloke as I would hate it happen to me

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Does the very fact that they would do that give you any solace that you had a lucky escape?

Yes definitely only found out when she invited me back to hers I slept on couch then left early in morning could never do that to another bloke as I would hate it happen to me"

She took you to her marital home, presumably to use the marital bed? Maybe she is on here and has a cuckold husband. Or, she is cheating and has no respect for her husband.

Would seeing her in a Fab context be better or worse for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just remind yourself that it was only 2 dates and you would have either got bored after a few more dates or devasted when she cheated on you too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does the very fact that they would do that give you any solace that you had a lucky escape?

Yes definitely only found out when she invited me back to hers I slept on couch then left early in morning could never do that to another bloke as I would hate it happen to me

She took you to her marital home, presumably to use the marital bed? Maybe she is on here and has a cuckold husband. Or, she is cheating and has no respect for her husband.

Would seeing her in a Fab context be better or worse for you?"

Haha Deffo worse she didn't seem like the type to be on fab but you do get all sorts on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What "type" come on to Fab then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just remind yourself that it was only 2 dates and you would have either got bored after a few more dates or devasted when she cheated on you too "

I do try do I just feel like a bit of a dick because I can't seem to just forget about her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just remind yourself that it was only 2 dates and you would have either got bored after a few more dates or devasted when she cheated on you too

I do try do I just feel like a bit of a dick because I can't seem to just forget about her "

you have a crush on her. Perhaps the fact she's unavailable is making you want her more. It'll dissipate.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"What "type" come on to Fab then? "

The type that choose not to use the marital bed for an affair?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What "type" come on to Fab then? "

The Ladies I have met seem very comfortable and open talking about sex where she just seemed very innocent and shy. Didn't mean any offence by 'type" on fab honestly sorry

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"What "type" come on to Fab then?

The Ladies I have met seem very comfortable and open talking about sex where she just seemed very innocent and shy. Didn't mean any offence by 'type" on fab honestly sorry"

This woman that you are smitten with seemed innocent and shy but not so innocent or shy as demure from dating you whilst married and suggesting sex in her home. Your idea of innocence is a little different to mine.

I'm glad I'm comfortable and open discussing sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What "type" come on to Fab then?

The Ladies I have met seem very comfortable and open talking about sex where she just seemed very innocent and shy. Didn't mean any offence by 'type" on fab honestly sorry

This woman that you are smitten with seemed innocent and shy but not so innocent or shy as demure from dating you whilst married and suggesting sex in her home. Your idea of innocence is a little different to mine.

I'm glad I'm comfortable and open discussing sex.

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Your right probably not so innocent. And honestly didn't mean any offence sorry if I did. Maybe I will stick to ladies more open and comfortable in the future as they seem a lot more honest

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