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"Wasn't it part of an experiment where a guy asks women and then a woman asks guys? ### Spoiler alert ### The guy didn't have as much luck as the woman. " I never saw that one, lets have a look see... | |||
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"Wasn't it part of an experiment where a guy asks women and then a woman asks guys? ### Spoiler alert ### The guy didn't have as much luck as the woman. I never saw that one, lets have a look see..." They should have done one hot guy with a tight t-shirt and one in a flasher mac and a comb-over.  | |||
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"Wasn't it part of an experiment where a guy asks women and then a woman asks guys? ### Spoiler alert ### The guy didn't have as much luck as the woman. " A bit like Fab then? | |||
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"Well I checked it out, the girl in question was gorgeous, and though she didn't ask as many guys as the guy did girls, still got a 50% success rate - and I reckon the majority of the guys who declined her did so simply because they thought it was a trick." What if they were gay, married and monogamous, can't stand women that look like her or just not into casual sex? I'd like to think that there are men that who wouldn't drop everything for the chance of sex with a stranger in the street. | |||
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"Well I checked it out, the girl in question was gorgeous, and though she didn't ask as many guys as the guy did girls, still got a 50% success rate - and I reckon the majority of the guys who declined her did so simply because they thought it was a trick. What if they were gay, married and monogamous, can't stand women that look like her or just not into casual sex? I'd like to think that there are men that who wouldn't drop everything for the chance of sex with a stranger in the street. " If I don't know somebody, how will I know if I want to have sex with them? I can guarantee I would have said no, and not because I thought it was a trick... | |||
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"Well I checked it out, the girl in question was gorgeous, and though she didn't ask as many guys as the guy did girls, still got a 50% success rate - and I reckon the majority of the guys who declined her did so simply because they thought it was a trick. What if they were gay, married and monogamous, can't stand women that look like her or just not into casual sex? I'd like to think that there are men that who wouldn't drop everything for the chance of sex with a stranger in the street. " I wonder what the reaction would be if she asked guys on here. | |||
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"Well I checked it out, the girl in question was gorgeous, and though she didn't ask as many guys as the guy did girls, still got a 50% success rate - and I reckon the majority of the guys who declined her did so simply because they thought it was a trick. What if they were gay, married and monogamous, can't stand women that look like her or just not into casual sex? I'd like to think that there are men that who wouldn't drop everything for the chance of sex with a stranger in the street. " Perhaps you're right, and there's certainly plenty of guys in the comments section saying such (whilst spouting torrents of hate filled vitriol in the process), and though I can only speak for myself, there's something very saddening and sobering about these videos. | |||
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"Its an age old tactic of days before the internet going for a night out on the pull in pubs, bars and nightclubs....i.e, if you ask enough people the law of averages suggests sooner or later someone will say yes. " Lordy, save us from average sex.  | |||
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"Its an age old tactic of days before the internet going for a night out on the pull in pubs, bars and nightclubs....i.e, if you ask enough people the law of averages suggests sooner or later someone will say yes. " I believe that but how many no's can a guy take? It would take a guy with a MASSIVE amount of heart to keep pushing on from one rejection after another. | |||
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"Its an age old tactic of days before the internet going for a night out on the pull in pubs, bars and nightclubs....i.e, if you ask enough people the law of averages suggests sooner or later someone will say yes. I believe that but how many no's can a guy take? It would take a guy with a MASSIVE amount of heart to keep pushing on from one rejection after another." So pretty much the same as guys mailing on here. | |||
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"Its an age old tactic of days before the internet going for a night out on the pull in pubs, bars and nightclubs....i.e, if you ask enough people the law of averages suggests sooner or later someone will say yes. I believe that but how many no's can a guy take? It would take a guy with a MASSIVE amount of heart to keep pushing on from one rejection after another." If you've ever worked in sales or cold calling (research, sales etc.) then you just learn to press on. | |||
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"Its an age old tactic of days before the internet going for a night out on the pull in pubs, bars and nightclubs....i.e, if you ask enough people the law of averages suggests sooner or later someone will say yes. I believe that but how many no's can a guy take? It would take a guy with a MASSIVE amount of heart to keep pushing on from one rejection after another." When one says yes you soon forget about all the "No's". | |||
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"Its an age old tactic of days before the internet going for a night out on the pull in pubs, bars and nightclubs....i.e, if you ask enough people the law of averages suggests sooner or later someone will say yes. I believe that but how many no's can a guy take? It would take a guy with a MASSIVE amount of heart to keep pushing on from one rejection after another. So pretty much the same as guys mailing on here." Pretty much! It'd be lovely if women could find males as immediately attractive as we do you. | |||
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" So pretty much the same as guys mailing on here. Pretty much! It'd be lovely if women could find males as immediately attractive as we do you." In my time on here I think I have probably contacted about 50 men, instead of responding to messages. I have only had one yes. I am sure you are not immediately attracted to every woman you see. | |||
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Who would've thought... relatively good looking fit guy approaches 200 girls, with a smile, says they're cute, then asks them for sex... and gets a 0.5% success rate. From a male perspective it just leaves a big question mark... why???
The reality of this is born out when a relatively good looking fit girl approaches guys for sex. Hell yeah!!! 50% success rate.
Of course in both cases you'd want to know they're not prostitutes or creeps or psychos. But the reality is that the guys are willing to stand around and find that stuff out whilst the women run off saying "no".
For me it just reinforces that for women to understand men they need to get their heads around the idea that the male biology is explorative... we go places and see what's there.. so we're always interested in what's round the next corner. Meanwhile men need to empathise that female biology is absorbing... it's about letting someone inside you. Therefore... just as it's a no brainer to answer the question "do you want to go visit someone new?" with a probable "yes, why not?"... it's also a no brainer to realise that the question "do you want someone new inside you right now?" is almost certainly gonna result in a "no". | |||
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" So pretty much the same as guys mailing on here. Pretty much! It'd be lovely if women could find males as immediately attractive as we do you. In my time on here I think I have probably contacted about 50 men, instead of responding to messages. I have only had one yes. I am sure you are not immediately attracted to every woman you see. " No, but using the videos I was referencing as an example, the guy doing the asking was actually pretty good looking, well built, had a nice voice, I'd say most peoples first impressions of him would be that he does look somewhat attractive, yet he got almost entirely no's and even some hostility to his approaches, whereas the girl, who had a comparable (though I'd say slightly higher) level of attractiveness got vastly more positive feedback - that's what I mean when I say 'find us immediately attractive as we do you'. | |||
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"Last month I was at a BBQ with (non-swinging) friends. I was the only single female there. A male came up to me and said "I'm single, you're single, shall we have sex?" He was quite cute, and I'd been chatting to him on and off throughout the day, so I responded with "yeah, why not?" I've never seen a guy blush and run away so fast! He avoided me for the rest of the BBQ and it was in quite a small flat, so wasn't that easy!" How odd. I wonder what answer he was wanting? | |||
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"I don't mind the "no"s so much. It's when they fall about laughing..." Depends on what sort of laughter it is though? I'll assume you mean the 'how pathetic!' sort of laughter, but it could just as easily be 'are you serious?! How can you ask someone that?!' amusement that could in turn be used as an ice breaker to the conversation that possibly COULD lead to sex with them. I'd say its the ones who either go quiet, or whose faces crinkle up in deeply offended disgust that are the most negative reactions. | |||
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"I don't mind the "no"s so much. It's when they fall about laughing... Depends on what sort of laughter it is though? I'll assume you mean the 'how pathetic!' sort of laughter, but it could just as easily be 'are you serious?! How can you ask someone that?!' amusement that could in turn be used as an ice breaker to the conversation that possibly COULD lead to sex with them. I'd say its the ones who either go quiet, or whose faces crinkle up in deeply offended disgust that are the most negative reactions." I think that's the most positive and empowering thing to come out of these videos. Out of the 200 women this dude asked for sex only one slapped him in the face... and even that was a jovial 'tsk' slap. I'd say he probably came across as a creepy psycho and genuinely frightened another 10 women. But all in all women found it funny that he was being so direct. I found that liberating... they don't bite after all  | |||
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