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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Have you ever found yourself building roads that lead nowhere?

Is the act of building enough at times?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Build it and they will come

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Build it and they will come"

Maybe.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"Have you ever found yourself building roads that lead nowhere?

Is the act of building enough at times?"

This is why my brother banned me from building our Sca Electrix set.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

another surreal thread, welcome to the twilight zone where all roads lead to the other side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It offers promise, hope and in essence gives direction.. Roads into the unknown offer potential, opportunity and connections, they present both choice and requirement; change direction, go forward, go back, or leave the road and wander. You may rest a while at the crossroads but at some point, you must strike out, say yes or no or even, maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I literally do not experience peace anymore. I remember what it is, but sometimes I keep busy just to stay on my feet through the depression periods and most often I just keep working away because it's better than stopping to realise that I actually have nothing to stop for.

One day it will all be worth something. One day it will begin to pay off, because I like what I do and I never stop working to be better at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 years of hard labour that was a dead end. Never do that again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey what an intellectual thread and all from building a bloody road I'm well impressed

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

all roads lead to somewhere eventualy,maybe you cant see it yet but look back in a few years and you will realise it was all for a purpose x

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"all roads lead to somewhere eventualy,maybe you cant see it yet but look back in a few years and you will realise it was all for a purpose x"

Unless it's a road going round a roundabout.

With no exits !

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want to be building a road to end up behind myself

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you


"all roads lead to somewhere eventualy,maybe you cant see it yet but look back in a few years and you will realise it was all for a purpose x

Unless it's a road going round a roundabout.

With no exits !

A"
that's a paved area

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Don't they all lead to Rome?

If so, can someone bring me back a stick of rock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't want to build a road full stop ....... Looks bloody hard work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who here has ever gone running to keep fit? I can't anymore but I always used to go at night so that I didn't have to concentrate on how far away the end of a road was. That way I could get lost in my thoughts and get into the mindset of completing what I set out to do.

I think that speaks a lot for building roads too. It's often around the midway that we doubt what we're doing, even if we have a clear cut plan.

When it finally leads to something, you forget all the unpleasant doubt. So just know that you're halfway there and the rest can become mind over matter!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Don't they all lead to Rome?

If so, can someone bring me back a stick of rock "

Mine doesn't, I live in a cul-de-sac

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Who here has ever gone running to keep fit? I can't anymore but I always used to go at night so that I didn't have to concentrate on how far away the end of a road was. That way I could get lost in my thoughts and get into the mindset of completing what I set out to do.

I think that speaks a lot for building roads too. It's often around the midway that we doubt what we're doing, even if we have a clear cut plan.

When it finally leads to something, you forget all the unpleasant doubt. So just know that you're halfway there and the rest can become mind over matter!"

Thank you for that contribution, and the rest of you for all the others.

I do think sometimes at the mid point it feels like the road will never get finished and if it does the destination will have changed and it's pointing in the wrong direction.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"Don't they all lead to Rome?

If so, can someone bring me back a stick of rock

Mine doesn't, I live in a cul-de-sac "

But does it have any sticks of rock?

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Don't they all lead to Rome?

If so, can someone bring me back a stick of rock "

I'm pretty sure the A1 doesn't go to Rome. It has led me to Fab friends but not Rome.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Don't they all lead to Rome?

If so, can someone bring me back a stick of rock "

How about a stick and some rocks?

Just took the dog out down the road and there were loads of both - just laying around, unwanted and abandoned!

A

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

Roads. Where we're going we don't need roads ??

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Roads. Where we're going we don't need roads ??"

Are you getting there by map?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Don't they all lead to Rome?

If so, can someone bring me back a stick of rock

Mine doesn't, I live in a cul-de-sac

But does it have any sticks of rock? "

Unfortunately not, just double yellow lines and a pair of traffic lights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who here has ever gone running to keep fit? I can't anymore but I always used to go at night so that I didn't have to concentrate on how far away the end of a road was. That way I could get lost in my thoughts and get into the mindset of completing what I set out to do.

I think that speaks a lot for building roads too. It's often around the midway that we doubt what we're doing, even if we have a clear cut plan.

When it finally leads to something, you forget all the unpleasant doubt. So just know that you're halfway there and the rest can become mind over matter!"

Losing the thoughts might help! Don't get lost IN them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who here has ever gone running to keep fit? I can't anymore but I always used to go at night so that I didn't have to concentrate on how far away the end of a road was. That way I could get lost in my thoughts and get into the mindset of completing what I set out to do.

I think that speaks a lot for building roads too. It's often around the midway that we doubt what we're doing, even if we have a clear cut plan.

When it finally leads to something, you forget all the unpleasant doubt. So just know that you're halfway there and the rest can become mind over matter!

Thank you for that contribution, and the rest of you for all the others.

I do think sometimes at the mid point it feels like the road will never get finished and if it does the destination will have changed and it's pointing in the wrong direction.

"

I know that feeling. I've been torn in different directions for much of my life. But whereas we cant have it all at once, you still cant have junctions without that one road.

Patience is the hardest virtue today. Some people seem to be able to snap their fingers and have shit done for them. But there's no victory in that.

Even if I only have one victory in life, I will feel achieved. If I dont even get one and I learn I'm dying next week, my achievement is that I met it on my feet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who here has ever gone running to keep fit? I can't anymore but I always used to go at night so that I didn't have to concentrate on how far away the end of a road was. That way I could get lost in my thoughts and get into the mindset of completing what I set out to do.

I think that speaks a lot for building roads too. It's often around the midway that we doubt what we're doing, even if we have a clear cut plan.

When it finally leads to something, you forget all the unpleasant doubt. So just know that you're halfway there and the rest can become mind over matter!

Losing the thoughts might help! Don't get lost IN them."

Now I find there is a difference between thinking on your feet and on your arse lol on your feet, getting lost in thought is more meditative. On your arse, it's daydreaming. That's for me, I dont assume for others

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"

Thank you for that contribution, and the rest of you for all the others.

I do think sometimes at the mid point it feels like the road will never get finished and if it does the destination will have changed and it's pointing in the wrong direction.

I know that feeling. I've been torn in different directions for much of my life. But whereas we cant have it all at once, you still cant have junctions without that one road.

Patience is the hardest virtue today. Some people seem to be able to snap their fingers and have shit done for them. But there's no victory in that.

Even if I only have one victory in life, I will feel achieved. If I dont even get one and I learn I'm dying next week, my achievement is that I met it on my feet!"

I bet there have been victories already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who here has ever gone running to keep fit? I can't anymore but I always used to go at night so that I didn't have to concentrate on how far away the end of a road was. That way I could get lost in my thoughts and get into the mindset of completing what I set out to do.

I think that speaks a lot for building roads too. It's often around the midway that we doubt what we're doing, even if we have a clear cut plan.

When it finally leads to something, you forget all the unpleasant doubt. So just know that you're halfway there and the rest can become mind over matter!

Losing the thoughts might help! Don't get lost IN them.

Now I find there is a difference between thinking on your feet and on your arse lol on your feet, getting lost in thought is more meditative. On your arse, it's daydreaming. That's for me, I dont assume for others"

Meditative is thoughtless! Nothing wrong with daydreaming; especially if you've got a nice arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep but keep at it you will find that road that will lead to somewhere

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Every new path is a new experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the fucking time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every new path is a new experience"

I like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So now were on paths , did the roads not go anywhere then ?

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"So now were on paths , did the roads not go anywhere then ?"

Are you a big rotty or a bi grotty?

You have to go down the path to get to the road.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I see glad you helped me out and by the way my mrs says it's big rotty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meditative is not thoughtless in my experience. Meditative is only truly meditative when it is progressive. In that sense, thinking on your feet not only makes time less relative, it literally gets you to where you're going.

As a creative I do a lot of daydreaming on my beautiful arse lol applying what I gain from that to the place I go in my mind when I'm proactively challenging myself allows me to challenge my ideas, my faith in them and my doubts.

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