FabSwingers.com forum: freind requests

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Never had 1 or a wink lol

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Poor you.

As pointed out before, if you put the effort you're making in chasing sympathy into presenting yourself well, you'd probably do much better.

Take a look at the profiles and photos of some of the guys who get a lot of meets and see what they do. I doubt you'll find them repeatedly posting looking for the sympathy vote.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Poor you.

As pointed out before, if you put the effort you're making in chasing sympathy into presenting yourself well, you'd probably do much better.

Take a look at the profiles and photos of some of the guys who get a lot of meets and see what they do. I doubt you'll find them repeatedly posting looking for the sympathy vote."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sympathy vote this is meant be swingers site i had better luck on normal dating site i thought we all wanted same thing here no fuss or drama just fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least you can laugh about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And whats it with hidden profiles

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Sympathy vote this is meant be swingers site i had better luck on normal dating site i thought we all wanted same thing here no fuss or drama just fun"

Ah, you expected hot running pussy on tap with no effort.

Sorry, your expectations were way off target.

There are probably 10 times, or more, as many men here as women. It's not as easy as just being here. You have to make an effort.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Honestly im trying but have no idea really when comes to this sort sight

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"And whats it with hidden profiles"

They're taking some time off, not actively looking or don't want messages. Where's the confusion?

Not everyone here is always looking for meets. Maybe they have enough arranged, maybe they have other stuff going on in their life, maybe the site has started getting to them or they needed a break...

There are loads of reasons and it's a perfectly valid thing for someone to do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks like i said no idea i did not know what it meant

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Honestly im trying but have no idea really when comes to this sort sight"

Look at what some of the successful guys do. Join in, get to know people. Consider some of the social meets that are arranged.

At the moment you look like you expected to create a profile and instantly be knee deep in horny women.

There are far, far more men here than women, so even if we were all looking for the same thing, (which we're not), some guys are going to struggle to get meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor profile

Poor photos

The green arrow of truth suggests you're more interested in pic collecting over meeting.

Ask yourself honestly, are you doing the best you can with the tools available to attract people?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you join expecting to get your leg over whenever you wanted it?

It's not Insta shag and as VV has already mentioned single guy numbers far out number single ladies and couples!!

And you've only been on the site for 9 weeks which isn't a very long time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you need to stop worrying about things on here you have no control over and start concentrating on the things you have and maybe you can make the site work for you like many men have. Good luck.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Did you join expecting to get your leg over whenever you wanted it?

I do. I'm frequently disappointed.

I'm considering suing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to work on your profile! Perhaps re-word/re-write, check spelling & grammar & maybe be clearer about what you want? You say you're looking for females & MF couples, why?

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol thank you for all your advice and dorty if you thought feeling sorry for myself lol i was

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Your profile does not indicate what you want, what you can offer,what kind me person you are, or give any reason why anyone would want to contact you. Some may feel sorry for you here on the forum,but that is hardly going to improve your chances of meeting anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And whats it with hidden profiles"

Aw that's also a choice x I'm sad you have no friends invite x but get those messages flowing and someone will say hi back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of your threads are of no replies and kik, you're making yourself sound desperate, actually write something on your profile, coz it doesn't say a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And whats it with hidden profiles

Aw that's also a choice x I'm sad you have no friends invite x but get those messages flowing and someone will say hi back. "

Messages flowing, sent over a 500, and guess what. Made quite a few friends.

The forums is also a good place to get to know people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am trying if any of you fancy chatting drop me a line

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

You have started at least a dozen forum threads over the past week. I would suggest that you redirect that time and energy to working on your profile. Your photos and profile text need serious improvement!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Like i have said i really have no idea about this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like i have said i really have no idea about this site"

It's not rocket science!

or do you need it putting into simpler context?

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"Like i have said i really have no idea about this site"

You've certainly managed to find the forums tho!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yep think i have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like i have said i really have no idea about this site"

Sorry if this offends bit that's a piss poor excuse, you want us to believe you have no idea how to attract?

You've been offered advice on numerous threads.................yet this remain the same.

It's really very, very straightforward..............

Effort in = rewards out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No i get it sort out profile stop bitchin dont exspect to be knee deep in women

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"Like i have said i really have no idea about this site

Sorry if this offends bit that's a piss poor excuse, you want us to believe you have no idea how to attract?

You've been offered advice on numerous threads.................yet this remain the same.

It's really very, very straightforward..............

Effort in = rewards out."

Exactly! This site is fantastic IF you do yourself a decent profile with decent pics....and dont whine in the forums every day! What more do you really need to know? After 9 weeks and still no attempt to improve your profile you can't keep whinging that you 'don't know anything about the site'!

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Like i have said i really have no idea about this site

It's not rocket science!

or do you need it putting into simpler context?"

Well given the number of threads you've started and the amount of advice you've been given, you must have some idea by now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sympathy vote this is meant be swingers site i had better luck on normal dating site i thought we all wanted same thing here no fuss or drama just fun"

Not sure how to say this without it sounding harsh but it's meant with kindness... Go back to the dating sites, this isn't the right place for you. It is for a certain type of person which you aren't. You will just be miserable looking for meets on here.

Life's too short. Go have fun.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

"Like i have said i really have no idea about this site

Sorry if this offends bit that's a piss poor excuse, you want us to believe you have no idea how to attract?

You've been offered advice on numerous threads.................yet this remain the same.

It's really very, very straightforward..............

Effort in = rewards out.

What she said

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Sympathy vote this is meant be swingers site i had better luck on normal dating site i thought we all wanted same thing here no fuss or drama just fun

Life's too short. Go have fun.

I agree with this. Being a serial moaner is going to get you nowhere on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Harsh yes you people know nothing about me or what im looking for so dont tell me this site is not for me"

Well maybe if you tell us about yourself and explain what you're looking for on here in your profile, you'll have more success.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im going to update profile and add some more pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take it back. You'll fit right in.

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By *oody39Man
over a year ago

tunbridge wells

Oh poor guy, I get on average 30 friends invites a day, 80-100 emails and so many meets I fear my cock may fall of

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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire/Midlands

"No i get it sort out profile stop bitchin dont exspect to be knee deep in women"

You've posted a thread(s) moaning about not getting much response - you've only been here for 9 weeks and assume that this is just wholly a 'sex site'?? You've been given advice on how to improve your profile and all you can do is be rude back. Sums it all up really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anybody care to lay odds on the profile remaining 'as is'?

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Anybody care to lay odds on the profile remaining 'as is'?

Having just read all the OP's other threads, all in a similar whining attention-seeking vein, I'm not taking that bet whatever the odds are.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Make.it.stop!

Stop moaning.

There... that's the only advice I can give.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was seeking advice and i got it thank you .see not moaning or being rude

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I was seeking advice and i got it thank you .see not moaning or being rude "

Awesome!

Hope you take the advice and start using it soon!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Us damsels in shining armour do help, even if our swords are a little sharp sometimes. Great to see the op's interest in pursuit of improving what he can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never had 1 or a wink lol"

O dear

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"I was seeking advice and i got it thank you .see not moaning or being rude "

I'm going to be interested in seeing if you follow the advice. Some people need more help than others and it is good to ask for help, but if you don't follow the advice, then people can lose patience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never had 1 or a wink lol"

They only get on your nerves after a while,you're not missing anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get about 5 winks a month lol

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I was seeking advice and i got it thank you .see not moaning or being rude "

I think you are bloody awesome.

Our very own Victor Meldrew.

Moan moan moan ... I mean the advisers not you

Ha !

You have been a pain in the bum but a pain in the bum that has been nothing but polite.

Now ... listen to the ladies of Eastwick. Lower your standards, your expectations and the number of times you post - they dun like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Poor you.

As pointed out before, if you put the effort you're making in chasing sympathy into presenting yourself well, you'd probably do much better.

Take a look at the profiles and photos of some of the guys who get a lot of meets and see what they do. I doubt you'll find them repeatedly posting looking for the sympathy vote.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get mainly friend request but most I don't accept apart from the odd few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every rare in my case. Had 1 since joining and 1 wink but I'm trying to change my profile and update to get more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very rare in my case. Had 1 since joining and 1 wink but I'm trying to change my profile and update to get more. "

you're chances may improve if you took the cock pics off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And have what instead? I was thinking about adding some face pics up in a private album but will that help. I do want to be discreet about this. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And have what instead? I was thinking about adding some face pics up in a private album but will that help. I do want to be discreet about this. x "

well how do you expect meets without a face pic? no one is gonna go on a blind date. and you have other body parts other than your cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry sent you a pm by mistake rather than clicking on the right tap. I'll add some up in my private album and see how that goes. Cheers J

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"Every rare in my case. Had 1 since joining and 1 wink but I'm trying to change my profile and update to get more. "

Lose the cock pics! Lets see something a bit more tasteful.....torso, shoulders, boxer shorts...do I need to go on? a large percentage of ladies on here will delete straight away with all those cock pics. I can safely say we have all seen one before, its nothing unique!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a lady too id like to defend the cock pic,they're not all the same and if you've seen one you havn't seen them all as they are very much all different

Just have a selection of different pics so that people don't mistake you for only being a cock

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I don't mind cock pics as long as it's not a close up cock pic as an avatar and the guy has other pics as well as cock ones.

I actually quite like that torso and cock pic.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I was seeking advice and i got it thank you .see not moaning or being rude

I think you are bloody awesome.

Our very own Victor Meldrew.

Moan moan moan ... I mean the advisers not you

Ha !

You have been a pain in the bum but a pain in the bum that has been nothing but polite.

Now ... listen to the ladies of Eastwick. Lower your standards, your expectations and the number of times you post - they dun like it. "

Oi. I woz being helpful. Get back to your crocodile.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

OP I have a fleet of fake profiles (at last count 464). For the right price I could deploy one of my Single Bi Fems to wink you or even send a carefully worded 'sexy' message.

Would this be something that would interest you or any other readers?

Just thinking of expanding my picture fabbing service and would like feedback

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have updated a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brush up on spelling, grammar and punctuation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's updated? It tells us nothing that the 'old' one told us.

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By *UFC9Man
over a year ago

Whitley Bay & Tamworth

"Brush up on spelling, grammar and punctuation"

Exactly what I thought!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Iam shit at grammar but its a start

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

5 winks yipeeee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a lady too id like to defend the cock pic,they're not all the same and if you've seen one you havn't seen them all as they are very much all different

Just have a selection of different pics so that people don't mistake you for only being a cock

Agree! Except I'm not a lady.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You look like a lady to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

New pic added to profile

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Have you been working out ? Because your profile pic doesn't look much like the one with the towel

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Towels pic old this is new so yes i have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So why would you put old pics up?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Caise i had not taken any

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By *uperGuy68Man
over a year ago

Southampton

"I was seeking advice and i got it thank you .see not moaning or being rude

I think you are bloody awesome.

Our very own Victor Meldrew.

Moan moan moan ... I mean the advisers not you

Ha !

You have been a pain in the bum but a pain in the bum that has been nothing but polite.

Now ... listen to the ladies of Eastwick. Lower your standards, your expectations and the number of times you post - they dun like it. "

Lmao

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