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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's official. I genuinely hate my job, the environment and the staff. Sat here waiting to start a long shift really getting me down but can't find another job! Am I just being a girl, think everyone doesn't like work really? The thought of going in makes me sad. Lucky to have a job though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you hate it that much apply for another it can't be that good for you sticking at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not many people like having to go to work if they are completely honest about it, its just a case of having too, until you win the lottery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love my job ! Lucky to do what was my hobby for a living

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have to stick at it, no other choice until something comes up lol.. can't just quit without another job!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I was beginning to hate my job so I left, I was fortunate in that I was in a position to do that but I will have to find something else eventually.

I am a woman not a girl but I put up with it as cheerfully as possible for as long as I could. I made sure that my leisure time was fun so that I saw the work as a means to an end and I tried to value my colleagues or some of them at least.

I don't see what being a girl has to do with it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy my job guess I'm lucky

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I really dislime my job but love the guys I work with.

Short staffing and serious danger of being assaulted every day does nothing to make me more enamoured.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yea, people who love their work are lucky indeed. I have done at times....am needing to find new inspiration now.

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

You're not on your own there. Luckily I managed to find another job and I am now working my notice. After 17 years its a shame that I feel this way now but theres nothing worse than not liking your job...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hated my job so I went back to Uni to retrain. Lucky I was in a position to do that though.

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By *usty_n_LustyCouple
over a year ago

Kent

I used to hate my job so I thought sod it, I still have 30 odd years of working and I want to do something I enjoy so I retrained. Have now been doing this job for 2 years and I love it! Just hope I feel the same way in 5, 10 years time! X

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

"good things come to those who wa…... WORK their asses off and go out and get it"

If you hate your job that much, there is only you who can do something about it, yes it may take time, but there will be something out there if you go out and look for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's official. I genuinely hate my job, the environment and the staff. Sat here waiting to start a long shift really getting me down but can't find another job! Am I just being a girl, think everyone doesn't like work really? The thought of going in makes me sad. Lucky to have a job though "

Is this the job ypu were offered without an interview and started 2 days later presumably leaving your previous employer short staffed at short notice?

And where tge colleague was hitting on you on your first day?

Or am I getting confused?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah thanks for tips. Dropped out of uni 3 times so unlikely I'll be going back to retrain like! Had about 20 odd jobs in 5 years!!! Not sure I'm gonna find this so called good job lol as you can see I'm highly employable haha gaaaawd I should just do a one way ticket to Australia and enjoy myself! Own worst enemy!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Why do you ask if you are being a girl ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's official. I genuinely hate my job, the environment and the staff. Sat here waiting to start a long shift really getting me down but can't find another job! Am I just being a girl, think everyone doesn't like work really? The thought of going in makes me sad. Lucky to have a job though

Is this the job ypu were offered without an interview and started 2 days later presumably leaving your previous employer short staffed at short notice?

And where tge colleague was hitting on you on your first day?

Or am I getting confused?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do you ask if you are being a girl ?"

Nothing sinister in it at all just a saying a suppose!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Why do you ask if you are being a girl ?

Nothing sinister in it at all just a saying a suppose!"

I didn't think it was sinister.

Why do you think it's girlish behaviour to not want to work ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's official. I genuinely hate my job, the environment and the staff. Sat here waiting to start a long shift really getting me down but can't find another job! Am I just being a girl, think everyone doesn't like work really? The thought of going in makes me sad. Lucky to have a job though

Is this the job ypu were offered without an interview and started 2 days later presumably leaving your previous employer short staffed at short notice?

And where tge colleague was hitting on you on your first day?

Or am I getting confused?

"

Well maybe yoi shouldn't have quot your last job? Did you not express concerns about your current employer before you'd even taken the job?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only you can change the situation mate.

You will find something. Just keep trying

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I utterly love my job most of the time but took a risk a few years ago when I was in a job that made me miserable by resigning without anything new lined up. It was utterly terrifying but I was lucky and it worked out. I don't know if I'd take that risk in the current economic climate though; if I was in a similar situation now I think I'd stick at it until I had a definite plan.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's official. I genuinely hate my job, the environment and the staff. Sat here waiting to start a long shift really getting me down but can't find another job! Am I just being a girl, think everyone doesn't like work really? The thought of going in makes me sad. Lucky to have a job though

Is this the job ypu were offered without an interview and started 2 days later presumably leaving your previous employer short staffed at short notice?

And where tge colleague was hitting on you on your first day?

Or am I getting confused?

Well maybe yoi shouldn't have quot your last job? Did you not express concerns about your current employer before you'd even taken the job?"

Nooooo. Eeeeee, it will be fiiiine. Who knows next year I could be in a good job and life will be great.. !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah thanks for tips. Dropped out of uni 3 times so unlikely I'll be going back to retrain like! Had about 20 odd jobs in 5 years!!! Not sure I'm gonna find this so called good job lol as you can see I'm highly employable haha gaaaawd I should just do a one way ticket to Australia and enjoy myself! Own worst enemy!"

I was the same, dropped out of my A levels and an accounting course because they bored me. Then lacked enthusiasm for every other job I ever had after that. Then I did Open university in something that interested me then moved on to a brick Uni. Now halfway through a six year degree and no intention of not completing. Just have to find the right thing for you, then you'll be motivated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I Jez can honestly say I love my job. After being made redundant from Comet I kept looking and now work as a shift manager for a big pub chain.Love the guys and girls I work with and the good customers out weigh the fucktards.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hopefully it's just a blip.. just have a feeling ill be hitting year after year flitting in and out of jobs and the folks won't be around forever lol as if I still don't know what I want to do for a job!!! Should be had this shot sorted years ago!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Why do you ask if you are being a girl ?

Nothing sinister in it at all just a saying a suppose!

I didn't think it was sinister.

Why do you think it's girlish behaviour to not want to work ?"

I wondered this. Very odd

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The saying, 'stop being a big girls blouse' jeeeeeeez! Right enough self loathing for one day. Got a crap job just get on with it. Thanks for advice all

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Doing a job you can't stand sounds tough. Hopefully something will come along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah thanks for tips. Dropped out of uni 3 times so unlikely I'll be going back to retrain like! Had about 20 odd jobs in 5 years!!! Not sure I'm gonna find this so called good job lol as you can see I'm highly employable haha gaaaawd I should just do a one way ticket to Australia and enjoy myself! Own worst enemy!"

You do realise that with a CV showing 3 abandoned degrees and that many jobs you are in real danger of making yourself unemployable?

Seriously you need to stop whinging and knuckle down particularly as before you even started this job you'd expressed concerns about the high attrition rate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah thanks for tips. Dropped out of uni 3 times so unlikely I'll be going back to retrain like! Had about 20 odd jobs in 5 years!!! Not sure I'm gonna find this so called good job lol as you can see I'm highly employable haha gaaaawd I should just do a one way ticket to Australia and enjoy myself! Own worst enemy!

You do realise that with a CV showing 3 abandoned degrees and that many jobs you are in real danger of making yourself unemployable?

Seriously you need to stop whinging and knuckle down particularly as before you even started this job you'd expressed concerns about the high attrition rate"

Alriiiiiight alright lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love my Work been in it from the age of 16.Mixing with different People everyday and helping them.

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By *usty_n_LustyCouple
over a year ago

Kent


"Hopefully it's just a blip.. just have a feeling ill be hitting year after year flitting in and out of jobs and the folks won't be around forever lol as if I still don't know what I want to do for a job!!! Should be had this shot sorted years ago!"

Not that easy tho! I started retraining when I was 35 you just need to find what it is that floats your boat! You'll get there xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The saying, 'stop being a big girls blouse' jeeeeeeez! Right enough self loathing for one day. Got a crap job just get on with it. Thanks for advice all "

too much is taken literally on the forums instead of light hearted as intended... Why do people get offended so easily and then the threat goes into a political debate rather then discussing the threat itself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The saying, 'stop being a big girls blouse' jeeeeeeez! Right enough self loathing for one day. Got a crap job just get on with it. Thanks for advice all

too much is taken literally on the forums instead of light hearted as intended... Why do people get offended so easily and then the threat goes into a political debate rather then discussing the threat itself "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't even get me started on the politically correct terminology for the word Christmas!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't even get me started on the politically correct terminology for the word Christmas!"

Haha.. Lets debate it if you are still in the same job by Christmas lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't even get me started on the politically correct terminology for the word Christmas!

Haha.. Lets debate it if you are still in the same job by Christmas lol"

Unlikely. By Christmas ill be in job number 24 and working a week I'm hand AGAIN and moaning on here saying I could of been someone. Right going

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I love my job

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"The saying, 'stop being a big girls blouse' jeeeeeeez! Right enough self loathing for one day. Got a crap job just get on with it. Thanks for advice all

too much is taken literally on the forums instead of light hearted as intended... Why do people get offended so easily and then the threat goes into a political debate rather then discussing the threat itself

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Because it's a forum and people can take the discussion any way they choose and casual sexism is the top of a slippery slope.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I love both my jobs, and am training to add another diverse string to my bow.

Work supporting charities locally, single mum, and am training to be a gym instructor.

If your job is so utterly crap, why not stick at it but add in some study to do something you love, and head that way?

As someone who previously interviewed for many posts, I'd pass you by with your job history unless you showed real drive, desire and aptitude to the job I was interviewing for (and proof you'd stick it - ie having completed some training, courses etc for it)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back on topic we both have jobs we love but have both done jobs we loathe so know how lucky we are.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"The saying, 'stop being a big girls blouse' jeeeeeeez! Right enough self loathing for one day. Got a crap job just get on with it. Thanks for advice all

too much is taken literally on the forums instead of light hearted as intended... Why do people get offended so easily and then the threat goes into a political debate rather then discussing the threat itself "

You're making up your own stories.

I asked the O.P. a question.

No one said they were offended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The saying, 'stop being a big girls blouse' jeeeeeeez! Right enough self loathing for one day. Got a crap job just get on with it. Thanks for advice all

too much is taken literally on the forums instead of light hearted as intended... Why do people get offended so easily and then the threat goes into a political debate rather then discussing the threat itself

Because it's a forum and people can take the discussion any way they choose and casual sexism is the top of a slippery slope."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been in my job since I was 19 and don't particularly enjoy it but the pay is insane.

The plan is:

Pay my car off then drop my mortgage term to 10 years maybe even less and then once that's paid find something less demanding that I enjoy more

I work to live not live to work, while I don't enjoy working so much I certainly enjoy living and working hard allows me to live how I want

Catch 22 really

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I have been in my job since I was 19 and don't particularly enjoy it but the pay is insane.

The plan is:

Pay my car off then drop my mortgage term to 10 years maybe even less and then once that's paid find something less demanding that I enjoy more

I work to live not live to work, while I don't enjoy working so much I certainly enjoy living and working hard allows me to live how I want

Catch 22 really"

By insane do you mean good ? high ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah insane as in good for what I do

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I want a job where I get insanely high remuneration for not much effort with great security.

Any ideas ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want a job where I get insanely high remuneration for not much effort with great security.

Any ideas ?"

Politician ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I want a job where I get insanely high remuneration for not much effort with great security.

Any ideas ?"

no but when you get it ask if they need anyone else.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I want a job where I get insanely high remuneration for not much effort with great security.

Any ideas ?

Politician ?"

Don't they tend to get pilloried , prosecuted then shot ?

Besides... I already have a duck island.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I want a job where I get insanely high remuneration for not much effort with great security.

Any ideas ?

no but when you get it ask if they need anyone else. "

Will do. You can carry my bag.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I want a job where I get insanely high remuneration for not much effort with great security.

Any ideas ?

no but when you get it ask if they need anyone else.

Will do. You can carry my bag. "

Waiting for that call with my bag carrying hat on

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