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By *reamwithchocolate OP   Couple
over a year ago

London

Have never understood why people lie on here. Why not tell the truth. It's a swinging site not a date site. Can not understand revealing all details but forgetting your married or partner? Be honest. Some won't meet if you are but others will.

Give a general idea where your based and what the rules are for contacting peeps off site. Saves every one a lot of time wasted and hurt sometimes.

Rant over but am I the only one that thinks this?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

People lie. People lie about all sorts of things.

I prefer the attached to say they are as it means I can make an informed choice. However, I have come to the conclusion that it's the internet and people can tell me anything and with enough conviction that how would I know whether it is truth or lie?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

To make a life sound more interesting, make someone appear more attractive & to get their end away.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

To compete in the game.........

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"To make a life sound more interesting, make someone appear more attractive & to get their end away."

Especially getting their end away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately some people lie to get what they want . Or just lie to get out of something they don't want too do . Its just life and you need to accept it and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they're twats ...

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

My cock is 12 inches long. Really.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"My cock is 12 inches long. Really."

I've seen it and know that to be true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My cock is 12 inches long. Really."
your nose will be after that lie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are just plain dumb. They hatch some master plan about bedding a gorgeous babe that involves setting up a couples profile, snatching some hot young pics from a Google search, and sit back rubbing their hands waiting for all that sweeeeet pussy to come their way. It's only when you ask to meet them that they suddenly realise their plan has one small flaw in it i.e. they're a single 60 year old unkempt and unfit bloke with a comb over lol

What's even madder is that some of these nuts actually turn up to the meet lol I mean... what's going through their heads?!?!?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Some people are just plain dumb. They hatch some master plan about bedding a gorgeous babe that involves setting up a couples profile, snatching some hot young pics from a Google search, and sit back rubbing their hands waiting for all that sweeeeet pussy to come their way. It's only when you ask to meet them that they suddenly realise their plan has one small flaw in it i.e. they're a single 60 year old unkempt and unfit bloke with a comb over lol

What's even madder is that some of these nuts actually turn up to the meet lol I mean... what's going through their heads?!?!? "

The thought of sweeeet pussy and the belief that you won't say no once you meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the land of tinternet you can be whatever your imagination is capable of creating. You can also believe you can have what you dream of having.....that's where the fundamental flaws begin.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I can have what I dream of. I just can't have it on the terms I want.

Bah!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cowardice.

In the words of Scarface, "no bols."

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Its not rocket science, they lie because they can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not rocket science, they lie because they can. "

I've wanted to answer "it's not rocket science" to many maaaany posts today!!

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By *estlands4Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth


"Its not rocket science, they lie because they can. "

So you've set up 90 different profiles to give you veri's you're keen

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Good times for a change

see, the luck I've had

can make a good man

turn bad

So please please please.........let me

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yup, cowardice, laziness, and false entitlement.

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By *reamwithchocolate OP   Couple
over a year ago

London

But after talking and maybe meeting the lies would be seen and who wants to have fun with someone who thinks your stupied?

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
over a year ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)

They lie to themselves as much as they lie to everyone else

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"But after talking and maybe meeting the lies would be seen and who wants to have fun with someone who thinks your stupied?"

I was told a monumental lie by someone on here. When he confessed the truth I did feel stupid. It changed how I _iew what I am told here. I choose to believe I am told the truth by the people I agree to meet. If that turns out not to be the case then they know I am displeased. Nothing more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive always felt that if people lie (in whatever scenario),its probably the fact that their life is rather boring and they think a lie makes them appear more interesting.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

There is a book about this. Why we lie by Dorothy Rowe.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

why do people lie?

simple....

because they think they can get away with it!!!

in their eyes the risk is worth the reward...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think personally this is a dead easy going website and you can just be very open about stuff to people who your talking to, but some people are maybe just insecure, trying to make them selves look good, or maybe other reasons but shit happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they too scared to tell the truth tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes my legs get tired.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"There is a book about this. Why we lie by Dorothy Rowe.

"

More than one I suspect.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could probably write a book about the lies I have had in my life alone

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

because there are people so desperate for love, affection, caring, sex, cuddles, that they will believe any shite they are told, time and time again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the same reason a dog can lick its own balls.

Lucky dogs lol

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes my legs get tired."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people just lie to get them out of situations they no longer want to be in .And its easier to lie then be honest

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I would've finished painting the house today but two giraffes and a rhinoceros wandered into the garden looking very lost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They lie to get what they want.

You'll find people lie to get what they want in life, not just on here.

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By *od6Woman
over a year ago

redcar


"Sometimes my legs get tired."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would've finished painting the house today but two giraffes and a rhinoceros wandered into the garden looking very lost.

"
Sounds like my garden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a difficult one this. Sometimes you can be totally honest with someone and they still think you are lying coz its not what they want to hear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would've finished painting the house today but two giraffes and a rhinoceros wandered into the garden looking very lost.

"

That's a feeble excuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are timewasters. Lies always come into the open. Every time I get one the next time I'm that little bit more cautious, dig that little bit deeper.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I would've finished painting the house today but two giraffes and a rhinoceros wandered into the garden looking very lost.

That's a feeble excuse."

But, but....they made such a mess, took me ages to clear it up!!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I am a bit of an open book and really don't like being lied to, once found out there is no going back. I have had to cancel meets in the past because of family issues and been called a fake and a liar because of it, their choice to believe that I suppose

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"They are timewasters. Lies always come into the open. Every time I get one the next time I'm that little bit more cautious, dig that little bit deeper. "

I think the longer you are on a site like this the more savvy you get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They lie to themselves as much as they lie to everyone else"

I know someone who tells that many lies they believe them themself... Even when caught out red handed they still believe the lie they told Always tells you what you want to hear rather then the facts But they are a lovely person and mean no harm to anyone... I just know not to believe a word they say anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would've finished painting the house today but two giraffes and a rhinoceros wandered into the garden looking very lost.

"

Oh that's were they got to!they are so cheeky that lot,as soon as I open the gates to my safari park,they're off!They caught an open top bus to Southport once!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a bit of an open book and really don't like being lied to, once found out there is no going back. I have had to cancel meets in the past because of family issues and been called a fake and a liar because of it, their choice to believe that I suppose "

Same here. Its not nice.

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings


"They lie to themselves as much as they lie to everyone else

I know someone who tells that many lies they believe them themself... Even when caught out red handed they still believe the lie they told Always tells you what you want to hear rather then the facts But they are a lovely person and mean no harm to anyone... I just know not to believe a word they say anymore "

I had a guy that worked for me that told lies all the time he turned the whole workforce against me then he started telling lies about how ill his wife was and in the end they all hated him for all the trouble he caused.

The trouble was he believed himself

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By *u and DuCouple
over a year ago

gosport

We don't tell lies but usually find out liars.

Why?

Simple.

We too have been called fake because we have a real life and real life issues always happen at inopportune times.

Real life does take precedence over our fun on here.

A few examples:

Profile - will not meet married people. We then get a message from them saying 'I know what my profile says but I will make an exception in your case'

Profile - looking for sexy BBW's. Message 'didn't realise your Mrs was such a bloater, BBW should be size 14/16'

Lies or extensions of the truth???

DUKE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Telling the truth can also hurt but you can mostly work through that .

A lies and deceit is a lot harder to get over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would've finished painting the house today but two giraffes and a rhinoceros wandered into the garden looking very lost.

Oh that's were they got to!they are so cheeky that lot,as soon as I open the gates to my safari park,they're off!They caught an open top bus to Southport once! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cannot stant lies in any shape or form at all. Its always best to tell the truth even if means hurting someones feelings. At least everyone lnows where they stand

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I would've finished painting the house today but two giraffes and a rhinoceros wandered into the garden looking very lost.

Oh that's were they got to!they are so cheeky that lot,as soon as I open the gates to my safari park,they're off!They caught an open top bus to Southport once! "

Tsk, such tourists! !

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Think for some, lies can be alot more exciting than the truth . Todays Lie is tomorrows tangled web .... And those who lie, have to have great memories... Or hope those hearing them dont!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To trick people into fucking them

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By *icked weaselCouple
over a year ago

Near Edinburgh..

Remember a comedian once saying how he Hated Liars.. He said the only thing worse than a Liar is a Paedophile.. and that's because they tell lies as well..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I told the truth to someone today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I told someone the truth including my marital status and much more as I trusted her, and she told her husband because openness is sooo important and he threatened to tell my wife because his wife admitted to liking me too much.

So I'll be economical with the truth from now on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I told someone the truth including my marital status and much more as I trusted her, and she told her husband because openness is sooo important and he threatened to tell my wife because his wife admitted to liking me too much.

So I'll be economical with the truth from now on.

"

speaks volumes about their relationship ~ I would stay well away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too late...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same reasons they lie anywhere else; they can, they want to, and some feel the need to

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"I told someone the truth including my marital status and much more as I trusted her, and she told her husband because openness is sooo important and he threatened to tell my wife because his wife admitted to liking me too much.

So I'll be economical with the truth from now on.

"
see i would look at it in another way. At least by you telling the truth, you got to see true colours of all involved . If you had lied and this happen then your whole life could have ended up de funked, (cos wifey liked ya and hubby got the hump) You telling the truth didn't cause the shit! Was a cple, who clearly shouldn't use swinging to sort out their mess of a relationship, with no respect for each other ,that were the loose cannons!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not rocket science........"

It is cos i'm an astronaut and its in my contract with International Rescue that i have to do it at least once a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some stories are so involved the lie is obvious - if you didnt laugh you'd cry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask no questions get told no lies. Some people want to know too much about private lives. At a hotel meet I wouldn't know if a man is married or not

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"Ask no questions get told no lies. Some people want to know too much about private lives. At a hotel meet I wouldn't know if a man is married or not "
so true!

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