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By *G Lana OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

All right I am expecting a flaming for this as surely no man has the right to be at all critical of any woman or couples here. But, I have just looked at a woman's profile after she posted a status message complaining that the site was a waste of her time. Now given how hugely disproportionate the ratio of men to women on here is you would imagine that finding a few suitable men would be achievable but if all the women opted to be this selective none of them would find any playmates.

I'm not saying don't state what you want but if your unrealistic don't be surprised if you don't find what you want either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with you mate.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Why does not finding what you want make you unrealistic?

Frustrated ? Maybe! Disappointed? Likewise!

But why should someone change their preferences or standards just because they can't find what's right for them? Surely it's better to go without?

If I want a certain style of shoes - I look and I can't find something I like the look of - I'll keep looking or wait til I spot something rather than just 'making do'. Is what she's doing any different?

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not saying don't state what you want but if your unrealistic don't be surprised if you don't find what you want either."

I can agree with this...it's fine to have certain criteria, but if it's very specific then some need to accept that it's going to be hard to find, especially as many don't actually look and wait for it to fall into their lap!

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

What was she asking for that made her request/search unrealistic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does not finding what you want make you unrealistic?

Frustrated ? Maybe! Disappointed? Likewise!

But why should someone change their preferences or standards just because they can't find what's right for them? Surely it's better to go without?

If I want a certain style of shoes - I look and I can't find something I like the look of - I'll keep looking or wait til I spot something rather than just 'making do'. Is what she's doing any different?

A"

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Looks like I'd better delete that status about wanting to meet a leprechaun.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Why does not finding what you want make you unrealistic?

Frustrated ? Maybe! Disappointed? Likewise!

But why should someone change their preferences or standards just because they can't find what's right for them? Surely it's better to go without?

If I want a certain style of shoes - I look and I can't find something I like the look of - I'll keep looking or wait til I spot something rather than just 'making do'. Is what she's doing any different?

A

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Although I'd be unlikely to post a whiny status slagging the site!

Was she looking for Brad Pitt and nobody else?

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By *G Lana OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

Most of her requirements seemed sensible enough, a fairly limited age range, fit attractive etc. can all be limiting but women can have there pick her.

What seemed over optimistic to me was that she expected the selected man to be available daytime, evenings and weekends at short notice with 100% reliability. Surely you have to accept people have a life beyond fab?

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By *G Lana OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport


"Looks like I'd better delete that status about wanting to meet a leprechaun. "

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By *G Lana OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport


"Why does not finding what you want make you unrealistic?

Frustrated ? Maybe! Disappointed? Likewise!

But why should someone change their preferences or standards just because they can't find what's right for them? Surely it's better to go without?

If I want a certain style of shoes - I look and I can't find something I like the look of - I'll keep looking or wait til I spot something rather than just 'making do'. Is what she's doing any different?

A

Although I'd be unlikely to post a whiny status slagging the site!

Was she looking for Brad Pitt and nobody else? "

No he would have been out of her age range.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Why does not finding what you want make you unrealistic?

Frustrated ? Maybe! Disappointed? Likewise!

But why should someone change their preferences or standards just because they can't find what's right for them? Surely it's better to go without?

If I want a certain style of shoes - I look and I can't find something I like the look of - I'll keep looking or wait til I spot something rather than just 'making do'. Is what she's doing any different?

A

Although I'd be unlikely to post a whiny status slagging the site!

Was she looking for Brad Pitt and nobody else?

No he would have been out of her age range. "

Fussy fucker!

A

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

Is it really worth worrying about?

Women (and men) are going to want what they want. Sometimes this may be realistic, other times not.

This place would be a lot more fun if we all just got on with our own thing instead of all these forum threads trying to tell other people how to behave.

Er, I realise that telling people just to get on with things *is* telling them how to behave. But. Um.

*runs away*

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