FabSwingers.com forum: Am i a ok looking guy?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im not sure if women are into my looks i wouldnt say im ugly haha but im not having much luck on here after i send a face photo would a genuine woman reply so i can send a photo and get some feed back x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps make the photo public so they can see?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im bored.. why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im not sure if women are into my looks i wouldnt say im ugly haha but im not having much luck on here after i send a face photo would a genuine woman reply so i can send a photo and get some feed back x"
Just a warning mate . These very rarely go the way you planned . Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nahh ya bloody Ugly

Mr Archie Gimp

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Perhaps make the photo public so they can see?"

Not sure about that im new and trying to keep identity hidden haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a moose!

Pathetic!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive seen that pic somewhere else - in fact thousands of times

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Sounds like an attempt to con women into chatting to you and angling for sympathy.

Not a turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps make the photo public so they can see?

Not sure about that im new and trying to keep identity hidden haha"

But you're happy to send it to complete strangers if they message you privately?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sounds like an attempt to con women into chatting to you and angling for sympathy.

Not a turn on."

Not at all just wondered why i talk to women on here and as soon as i send a face pic thats it convos dead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps make the photo public so they can see?

Not sure about that im new and trying to keep identity hidden haha

But you're happy to send it to complete strangers if they message you privately? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok honest opinion yes your classically good looking.. tidy hair, blue eyes, like the tattoos. Arms look muscular and strong. Facial fuzz although neat will be hit n miss with some.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Perhaps make the photo public so they can see?

Not sure about that im new and trying to keep identity hidden haha

But you're happy to send it to complete strangers if they message you privately? "

If im unlucky to be close friends with them

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Send it to me then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok honest opinion yes your classically good looking.. tidy hair, blue eyes, like the tattoos. Arms look muscular and strong. Facial fuzz although neat will be hit n miss with some. "

Thanks will shave and see how that goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds like an attempt to con women into chatting to you and angling for sympathy.

Not a turn on.

Not at all just wondered why i talk to women on here and as soon as i send a face pic thats it convos dead "

Well that's easy to work out, you're not they're type.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Sounds like an attempt to con women into chatting to you and angling for sympathy.

Not a turn on.

Not at all just wondered why i talk to women on here and as soon as i send a face pic thats it convos dead "

Because you're not what they're looking for. It doesn't mean you're unattractive, just not what they're looking for.

You can't change it whatever the verdict of others is so keep trying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok honest opinion yes your classically good looking.. tidy hair, blue eyes, like the tattoos. Arms look muscular and strong. Facial fuzz although neat will be hit n miss with some.

Thanks will shave and see how that goes "

why?! Just be who you are. Dont change to please others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds like an attempt to con women into chatting to you and angling for sympathy.

Not a turn on.

Not at all just wondered why i talk to women on here and as soon as i send a face pic thats it convos dead "
Just a little advice mate . You have no public pics at all . Your profile text is not saying anything . You don't even have a avatar pic . Maybe if you spent some time concentrating on these things you would not need to beg ladies to message you on a thread . Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sounds like an attempt to con women into chatting to you and angling for sympathy.

Not a turn on."

Not after a sympathy vote just want to know if i need a image change been single a long time just want to know why after i send face pic convo goes dead

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sounds like an attempt to con women into chatting to you and angling for sympathy.

Not a turn on.

Not at all just wondered why i talk to women on here and as soon as i send a face pic thats it convos dead Just a little advice mate . You have no public pics at all . Your profile text is not saying anything . You don't even have a avatar pic . Maybe if you spent some time concentrating on these things you would not need to beg ladies to message you on a thread . Good luck "

Cheers bud im new so not really done much to profile will try that thanks for advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok honest opinion yes your classically good looking.. tidy hair, blue eyes, like the tattoos. Arms look muscular and strong. Facial fuzz although neat will be hit n miss with some.

Thanks will shave and see how that goes

why?! Just be who you are. Dont change to please others. "

Going to echo this. Never change who you are to please someone.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

No OP you aren't ugly.

I'd never change something about myself just to get meets though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok cheers for helping guys and gals will take on the advice and go through my profile and hopefully will help myself out

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

There's a lot of competition on here for guys.

Ask yourself are you doing all you can to 'market' yourself and stand out?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Sounds like an attempt to con women into chatting to you and angling for sympathy.

Not a turn on.

Cheers bud im new so not really done much to profile will try that thanks for advice "

Also the fact that you've been on 11 months and aren't verified might be putting some off, get out there to socials and meet people. You say you are new but 11 months doesn't make you a newbie, if it were me I'd be tempted to delete and start over with a fresh profile so that people don't think you are just a dreamer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just curious. ... Are you going to have surgery to change your looks if everyone declares it is because you aren't good looking enough? You will most certainly be attractive to somebody. Many on here declare not to be bothered by looks so be positive and confident in the way you approach things would be my advice. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds like an attempt to con women into chatting to you and angling for sympathy.

Not a turn on.

Cheers bud im new so not really done much to profile will try that thanks for advice "
you are welcome mate . Take the advice off people on here and use it. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds like an attempt to con women into chatting to you and angling for sympathy.

Not a turn on.

Cheers bud im new so not really done much to profile will try that thanks for advice "

I wouldn't say 11 months on site is new! To us, its just another faceless 2 sentence profile (sorry to be harsh). Try to write a little more, why you're here, what you're looking for and what you can offer. Try getting your sense of humour and personality across and a few pics would make a big difference, torso, bum etc, not cock pics. Get to organised social meets and get known. Good luck.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Check your spelling too. It matters to some of us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Am taking the advice on board and applying it now and will add more pictures later cheers guys

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Ooh, nice bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am taking the advice on board and applying it now and will add more pictures later cheers guys "
See mate its working already lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am taking the advice on board and applying it now and will add more pictures later cheers guys See mate its working already lol

Yep, single women love to see another woman's arse in a pic, or is it a bloke, or is it you waiting to receive??? lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha didnt really think of it like that but yea she had a nice bum and il try a different one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I'm a geek I just did a little experiment....

You can try it at home too kids...

Browse women looking for men in your area then note the number online

Then repeat with men looking for women

In Cov I found the ratio of men to women to be about 10:1

Not statistically accurate I grant you, but would make a great study, perhaps by Sydney University

It shows, however, that as a geezer you have LOTs of competition and need to stand out to get noticed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its hard tho theres only so much you can take a photo of or in text, its even harder when women want tom hardy lookalikes haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its hard tho theres only so much you can take a photo of or in text, its even harder when women want tom hardy lookalikes haha "

Get yourself to social meets and get known. This site is just one of many ways of getting known but not easy for single guys. Who the hell is Tom Hardy??? See, not all women are looking for lookalikes of him, whoever he is lol

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Its hard tho theres only so much you can take a photo of or in text, its even harder when women want tom hardy lookalikes haha "

Really? The options are that limited??

Browse other guys profiles - ones with plenty of veri's - and see how they portray themselves through the joy of images and words.

Then come back and tell me that there's only so much you can take a picture of or write in profile text.

It'll be good homework!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, I don't know who he is either... I'm off to google

I'm betting X Factor, BB or summat similar

Im the geezer of the couple though

thought women like a sense of humour and a nice bum

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*** other male options are available

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry for the swerve....

An actor... Looks like he played Bronson

Carry on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, nice avatar, now take some more and put them in public

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