FabSwingers.com forum: Single guys are a let down.....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Had a hotel room booked tonight for a gangbang and six guys had been invited to attend. All 6 seemed genuine, and we had several message exchanges with them. They all had our contact number. Only one guy turned up and he wasn't pleased when we cancelled the meet, but its not a gangbang with only one guy. Not one of the other 5 responded to texts or bothered to get in touch to say they were not attending. Why do we bother? It cost £40 for the room which was only booked for the gangbang.

Single guys are a waste of time they give Fab a bad name........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the same trying to organise 5 a side football

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Um... if it's not a stupid question, why didn't you have some fun with the guy who did turn up? Seems a shame to waste the room and his time... he turned up after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes ALL single guys are a let down

I better shut my account now !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Um... if it's not a stupid question, why didn't you have some fun with the guy who did turn up? Seems a shame to waste the room and his time... he turned up after all. "

I was thinking this. Not a gangbang but you could still have had some fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the same trying to organise 5 a side football"

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

You should have gone for about 30 guys.. try that in future, to account for the inevitable drop outs (pardon the pun)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So one guy turns up, but you then cancel on him?

How does that make you any better than the five guys who bailed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm, okay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to offer more incentives - certficiates, lollys, stickers.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I'll go shoot myself now then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had a hotel room booked tonight for a gangbang and six guys had been invited to attend. All 6 seemed genuine, and we had several message exchanges with them. They all had our contact number. Only one guy turned up and he wasn't pleased when we cancelled the meet, but its not a gangbang with only one guy. Not one of the other 5 responded to texts or bothered to get in touch to say they were not attending. Why do we bother? It cost £40 for the room which was only booked for the gangbang.

Single guys are a waste of time they give Fab a bad name........"
yes it does not help but to make the most

Of a bad thing you could have had a 3

Some the guy that turned up would Remember that keep in touch etc after

it would have been the other five,s

Loss then and booking the room would

Not have been wasted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So one guy turns up, but you then cancel on him?

How does that make you any better than the five guys who bailed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So one guy turns up, but you then cancel on him?

How does that make you any better than the five guys who bailed?

Bingo

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Bit of a sweeping statement there.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"So one guy turns up, but you then cancel on him?

How does that make you any better than the five guys who bailed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So one guy turns up, but you then cancel on him?

How does that make you any better than the five guys who bailed?

Very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So one guy turns up, but you then cancel on him?

How does that make you any better than the five guys who bailed?

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

Greater London

How can you say that when all your veris are by single men?

Shame the men bottled it but then you let the one poor sod who turned up down too. Bet he was not best pleased either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thanks..I think those that have met me think otherwise...but thanks for tarnishing us all with the same brush.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the same trying to organise 5 a side football"

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By *az_1976Man
over a year ago

Peterborough/Huntingdon

I always turn up and I've got veri's to prove it. There are some decent single guys out there so don't lose faith

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That poor one guy that turned up!

You had the room,the time and an extra man,sounds like fun to me

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So one guy turns up, but you then cancel on him?

How does that make you any better than the five guys who bailed?

Don't worry guys, I gave him a handjob for showing up. It was the least I could do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think OP should rephrase the thread,

"99% of the guys we chose were a let down for this particular meet"

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Wonder if you are trying to stave off reports of being a time waster early? No need to cancel on the one guy at all. Mind you, at £40, was the hotel covered by tarpaulin??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wouldn't have such a good time on here if it wasn't for the single guys....yeah , some are knobheads but by and by i've met some decent single guys ...keep up the good work lads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the same trying to organise 5 a side football"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely you have to play the numbers game like you would for any party ~ you want 6 men well in that case invite 12, allows for no shows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't sound like this thread went to plan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree the guy who turned up should have had a play. He made the effort

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Single guys are a waste of time they give Fab a bad name........"
Get guys you know next time, if you advertised and they were people you hadn't met before...what do you expect? Seriously????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doesn't sound like this thread went to plan "

Single men never actually get bashed on the single men bashing threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey not all single guys are bad, i've never let down anyone i've said i would meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok Ok i hear what you say.......but put youself in our shoes, we booked the room 2 weeks ago and spent the time since contacting guys to attend a gangbang, so our mindset all day in the build up was about that, a gangbang, so when only one guy shows up Im sorry but we were not in the right frame of mind for a one on one.

So ok maybe the statement about single guys was a bit over the top but anyone who has been let down will know how we feel......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the same trying to organise 5 a side football"

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast

"So one guy turns up, but you then cancel on him?

How does that make you any better than the five guys who bailed?

Ure just as bad as them single blokes.That poor guy sure had things to do to.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Doesn't sound like this thread went to plan "

Bit like the gangbang really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello couples are just as bad at timewasting lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And another point is that the one guy who did show up lived in the same town so did not have to travel far, but he chose to arrive 50 minutes early and then slagged us off when we cancelled because he had sat there for 50 minutes, that was his choice...........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been trying to arrange 5 females and me for years. ..I feel very let down its never got anywhere near happening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All this negativity... I feel like I gave the guy a handjob for nothing.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"And another point is that the one guy who did show up lived in the same town so did not have to travel far, but he chose to arrive 50 minutes early and then slagged us off when we cancelled because he had sat there for 50 minutes, that was his choice..........."
He had a right to be fucked off. Seriously, if you think otherwise you need to read what you have posted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

glad it's not just me letting the side down; I was getting a complex, but now I know ALL single men are time wasters/married/liars/mental etc I can rest easy. Happy swinging xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YEah maibe u need to rephrase your heading and say some single guys not all are the same, you just pick the bad ones lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously....shoot the whinging fucker!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op all i can say is I dunno how u planned the meet, or the communication beforehand..or indeed the guys u chose.

but glad u retracted the over the top statement lol

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"YEah maibe u need to rephrase your heading and say some single guys not all are the same, you just pick the bad ones lol."
Nooooooooooooo darling that makes far too much sense!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok Ok i hear what you say.......but put youself in our shoes, we booked the room 2 weeks ago and spent the time since contacting guys to attend a gangbang, so our mindset all day in the build up was about that, a gangbang, so when only one guy shows up Im sorry but we were not in the right frame of mind for a one on one.

So ok maybe the statement about single guys was a bit over the top but anyone who has been let down will know how we feel......"

Well done for coming back and facing the music. If you plan another and will play with those who agree to turn up, let me know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all single guys. We've never had a 'no show'

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And what is also frustrating is people who hijack a thread with sarcastic or unfunny comments...........

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"It's the same trying to organise 5 a side football"

Maybe you are trying the wrong sport - we can always manage to get together a squad of 20 for Rugby matches...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been let down by guys many times but there are some genuine guys out there there are time wasters in many guises on fab not just 1 strain !!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

For real?!

I'd be fucked off if I turned up for a meet in plenty of time and then the other party cancelled cause someone else didn't turn up.

The only time waster in the end scenario was you. I hope you apologised to the guy who's time you totally wasted.

And forum stalking is alive and well!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guys are a waste of time they give Fab a bad name........"

Hi guys we lived in Northampton and had lots of fun.

Guys can be idiots but have you addressed how you advertise what you want?

Most single guys will say yes to anything for a snatch or sniff at a fanny.

Once they have cracked one off! Well it's a different story.

If we can help. Give us a message.

There is a lot of nice folks in Northampton

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"And what is also frustrating is people who hijack a thread with sarcastic or unfunny comments..........."

Welcome to the internet. You must be new.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

For real?!

I'd be fucked off if I turned up for a meet in plenty of time and then the other party cancelled cause someone else didn't turn up.

The only time waster in the end scenario was you. I hope you apologised to the guy who's time you totally wasted.

And forum stalking is alive and well!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And what is also frustrating is people who hijack a thread with sarcastic or unfunny comments..........."

Does it count as hijacking the thread when everyone else has had exactly the same reaction, which is the complete opposite of your view?

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By *eesidechrisMan
over a year ago

stockton

"So one guy turns up, but you then cancel on him?

How does that make you any better than the five guys who bailed?

I agree with this

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"And what is also frustrating is people who hijack a thread with sarcastic or unfunny comments..........."

Dreadful, aren't they? Smart Alec Wise-Guys.

You know what? I had to rein in some daft horse jokes on another thread about a guy wanting someone to ride his cock. And there was that prick thread but I couldn't see the point of that one.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"And what is also frustrating is people who hijack a thread with sarcastic or unfunny comments..........."

Toys and pram spring to mind if I'm honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without reading the whole thread!

One guy turned up to your gangbang?

And you sent him away?

You could have had a lot of fun if you tried.

That guy travelled to you.

Turned up on time.

If he was not to your taste.

Then don't slag him off on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not all single guys. We've never had a 'no show' "

Yes us too!

We do the pre chat.

But given the the address all couples and singles have turned up.

Selection process I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guys are a waste of time they give Fab a bad name........"

Couples that cancel meets at the last minute give Fab a bad name....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We are not slagging off the guy who turned up, it was his choice to arrive 50 minutes early when he lives 5 minutes away and he then slagged us off for wasting his time.......... sorry but one guy doth not maketh a gangbang.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Couples that cancel meets at the last minute give Fab a bad name....

We cancelled a gangbang not a 1-2-1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are not slagging off the guy who turned up, it was his choice to arrive 50 minutes early when he lives 5 minutes away and he then slagged us off for wasting his time.......... sorry but one guy doth not maketh a gangbang....."
so at the end of it all did you get a deposit back on the price of the room if not you lost

out on everything but I still feel sorry for that single guy just the same.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And while we are having a rant why is it that guys wink at you when it states on the profile no winks please as they will be deleted? oh I see now, as well as not turning up for meets, and not bothering to contact to say they cant make it, it appears they cant read either.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice day for sailing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go pour a glass of wine and have a chill out,its pointless keep moaning about it,you have each other too

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Aaaaaaaaand relax.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

So if he'd turned up 50 mins early having lived 200 miles away would that have been different? I would have been pissed off had I arranged a meet, turned up, and been turned away cos others hadn't turned up.

I may even have been tempted to post a thread about time wasting couples...

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"And while we are having a rant why is it that guys wink at you when it states on the profile no winks please as they will be deleted? oh I see now, as well as not turning up for meets, and not bothering to contact to say they cant make it, it appears they cant read either....."
Get a large glass of wine....seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be annoyed too having taken time off work, been kept waiting after turning up on time, all for nothing!

funnily enough single men also have a life outside fab they're not just sitting around waiting for the gangbang hotline to ring!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" funnily enough single men also have a life outside fab they're not just sitting around waiting for the gangbang hotline to ring!

Speak for yourself..

"Good morning, you have reached the gang bang Hotline all of our members are currently searching for a hotel in Northampton, please heavy breathe after the beep"

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By *uppy ConquerorMan
over a year ago

dundee

I'd be annoyed too having taken time off work, been kept waiting after turning up on time, all for nothing!

funnily enough single men also have a life outside fab they're not just sitting around waiting for the gangbang hotline to ring!

"
Sitting around praying for it to ring more like

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I'd be annoyed too having taken time off work, been kept waiting after turning up on time, all for nothing!

funnily enough single men also have a life outside fab they're not just sitting around waiting for the gangbang hotline to ring!

Hello? HELLO? Is that the....

*click*

buzzzzzz

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

oh really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" funnily enough single men also have a life outside fab they're not just sitting around waiting for the gangbang hotline to ring!

Speak for yourself..

"Good morning, you have reached the gang bang Hotline all of our members are currently searching for a hotel in Northampton, please heavy breathe after the beep""

haha funny man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do feel a bit sorry for the OP as I can appreciate that when you get yourself excited and geared up for something that then doesn't work out it is really disappointing, however I only meet single guys and even though some haven't been mind blowing I've never been let down or cancelled on before.

I also do agree that the guy who did turn up should have been shown a little more respect for his effort, if you invited him to the gang bang then there was obviously an attraction of some form and having some fun with him would have probably been enjoyable for you all.

Seems a shame to have wasted the opportunity even if it wasn't exactly what you had planned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

shame the OP never met me..I'm a one gang bang army

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