FabSwingers.com forum: Dear Fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Dear Fab

To be honest, I joined fab for sex as I find it hard to get in normal world via going out, clubs etc. But I have realised women on here no matter how unattractive they are, dont need guys like me, because they can pick from male models. Why cant these guys go for women in their own league and leave the rest for us normal guys?

Can you not do some kind of filtering so good looking guys can only see good looking female profiles.

Thank you

Sweet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But I want to punch above my weight.

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

wow, Tina!!! Forum insurance form! Pronto lovey!

So... erm where to start. Just wow.

Fab is not a sex site, the ladies on here are not free escorts and duty bound to shag you just because they are in the same league as you... And ever heard beauty is in the eye of the beholder, or that its only skin deep.... this post have just proved how deeply ugly some people can be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But I want to punch above my weight.

No thats not fair

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Oh and for what its worth - I don't go for male models, and nor would that appeal. I got for sense of humour, attraction and a spark... but maybe thats just the league I am in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" this post have just proved how deeply ugly some people can be.

Bit harsh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab can be used for all sorts, cheating, 1-1 sex, its catered for all lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh and for what its worth - I don't go for male models, and nor would that appeal. I got for sense of humour, attraction and a spark... but maybe thats just the league I am in

Just checked your veris and glad to announce you do stick to your own league. Bravo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't be that bad surely? Or are you punching above your weight when you're out and not trying to pull the ugly women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somebody out there loves you man. Keep the faith, and pay homage to the law of averages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You can't be that bad surely? Or are you punching above your weight when you're out and not trying to pull the ugly women? "

Honestly I would get with anything. Big skinny tall short, dont care. It still doesnt happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and for what its worth - I don't go for male models, and nor would that appeal. I got for sense of humour, attraction and a spark... but maybe thats just the league I am in

Just checked your veris and glad to announce you do stick to your own league. Bravo "

just shown up the fact that previous comments weren't harsh at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Somebody out there loves you man. Keep the faith, and pay homage to the law of averages. "

No these good looking guys on fab are doing people like me over giving me no chance and I wont stand for it

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"Oh and for what its worth - I don't go for male models, and nor would that appeal. I got for sense of humour, attraction and a spark... but maybe thats just the league I am in

Just checked your veris and glad to announce you do stick to your own league. Bravo "

And proof of that ugliness again.

Honestly mate, give up... insulting everyone on fab is not a good look - ever.

I think the only one in your league would now be yourself - I'd suggest a mirror but perhaps it would break with the sheer monstrosity in front of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we'd be lying if we didn't acknowledge there was some kind of disparity but the only real way to get over that is to rise above it and not be an ass.

Outlook isn't great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you can't meet people away from here...

How do you expect to suddenly meet In here?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"Oh and for what its worth - I don't go for male models, and nor would that appeal. I got for sense of humour, attraction and a spark... but maybe thats just the league I am in

Just checked your veris and glad to announce you do stick to your own league. Bravo

just shown up the fact that previous comments weren't harsh at all "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dear Fab

Can you not do some kind of filtering so good looking guys can only see good looking female profiles.

Thank you

Sweet "

LMAO! Seriously is this a wind up?

It also hard for male models to get meets on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh and for what its worth - I don't go for male models, and nor would that appeal. I got for sense of humour, attraction and a spark... but maybe thats just the league I am in

Just checked your veris and glad to announce you do stick to your own league. Bravo

And proof of that ugliness again.

Honestly mate, give up... insulting everyone on fab is not a good look - ever.

I think the only one in your league would now be yourself - I'd suggest a mirror but perhaps it would break with the sheer monstrosity in front of it.

I wasnt trying to insult you honestly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dear Fab

Can you not do some kind of filtering so good looking guys can only see good looking female profiles.

Thank you

Sweet

LMAO! Seriously is this a wind up?

It also hard for male models to get meets on here."

Oh here is one of the culprits. Right explain to me why you do not haveca preference on your profile? Why you keeping doir open for people below your league to enter? You dont think you shoukd give other people a chance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can't be that bad surely? Or are you punching above your weight when you're out and not trying to pull the ugly women?

Honestly I would get with anything. Big skinny tall short, dont care. It still doesnt happen "

Maybe you should look at your personality? I know you can't really change it but you can try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wasnt trying to insult you honestly"

I truely believe you weren't, but really who do you think you weren't insulting by this?

The women you can't get? - negligile

The guys who get the cream? - negligile

Nope, just us - the regular people (male & female) that make up 99% (figures from arse).

Please don't think I'm offended though, I think it's hilarious.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You can't be that bad surely? Or are you punching above your weight when you're out and not trying to pull the ugly women?

Honestly I would get with anything. Big skinny tall short, dont care. It still doesnt happen

Maybe you should look at your personality? I know you can't really change it but you can try "

My personality is not the issue

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wasnt trying to insult you honestly

I truely believe you weren't, but really who do you think you weren't insulting by this?

The women you can't get? - negligile

The guys who get the cream? - negligile

Nope, just us - the regular people (male & female) that make up 99% (figures from arse).

Please don't think I'm offended though, I think it's hilarious."

Sometime in life, things just need to be said

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I don't get all the bullshit with "leagues"

Someone is either attractive or they aren't. I've never thought someone is out of my league and nor have I thought I am better than someone else.

I may be lucky enough that some people might find me sexy, and appealing enough to play with (I know my other half does, which pleases me immensely, especially when he understands this side of my personality and is happily giving me the freedom to explore) but I'm not in a league. I'm also grown up enough to take it on the chin that I will not appeal to everyone.

Its not a league, punching above or below my weight, or any such childish nonsense to justify it. Thats just life, so suck it up princess.

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By *iss69Man
over a year ago

Knutsford

Isn't fab a site where u meet other folk for sex!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometime in life, things just need to be said"

And sometimes they don't - like the obvious.

Be cool, play the game.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"Isn't fab a site where u meet other folk for sex!!"

Nope its a site to meet like minded swingers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sometime in life, things just need to be said

And sometimes they don't - like the obvious.

Be cool, play the game."

I dont play games, I speak the truth

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Do enjoy these Forums!

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By *aurenkaWoman
over a year ago

London

The problem with guys (and women) who divide peoples on leagues, and constantly ranking (0-10) how hot the person is and if he is in title to date other is they completely don't realize how unattractive and repulsive that attitude is. And how easy to spot it, even if one try to hide.

And there are questions like OP or "geez, she is not even my leauge, how can she refuse me? bitch"

So yes, believe me, it is issue of your personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can't be that bad surely? Or are you punching above your weight when you're out and not trying to pull the ugly women?

Honestly I would get with anything. Big skinny tall short, dont care. It still doesnt happen

Maybe you should look at your personality? I know you can't really change it but you can try

My personality is not the issue"

What do you think the issue is? Off of here and on. It isn't only model types that have sex. There aren't many actual male models on here anyway but have you looked at the people who are having sex and seen only model types?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont play games, I speak the truth "

Well, if you can't get what you want off the site:

" I find it hard to get in normal world via going out, clubs etc"

as others can *cough*, you'd better either learn or take it less seriously.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The problem with guys (and women) who divide peoples on leagues, and constantly ranking (0-10) how hot the person is and if he is in title to date other is they completely don't realize how unattractive and repulsive that attitude is. And how easy to spot it, even if one try to hide.

And there are questions like OP or "geez, she is not even my leauge, how can she refuse me? bitch"

So yes, believe me, it is issue of your personality."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and for what its worth - I don't go for male models, and nor would that appeal. I got for sense of humour, attraction and a spark... but maybe thats just the league I am in

Just checked your veris and glad to announce you do stick to your own league. Bravo

just shown up the fact that previous comments weren't harsh at all

Thank you

youre more than welcome - he has one pic and been on a week and knows it all

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh and for what its worth - I don't go for male models, and nor would that appeal. I got for sense of humour, attraction and a spark... but maybe thats just the league I am in

Just checked your veris and glad to announce you do stick to your own league. Bravo

just shown up the fact that previous comments weren't harsh at all

Thank you

youre more than welcome - he has one pic and been on a week and knows it all "

Oh I need to add more pictures before I can give an opinion hey?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And there are questions like OP or "geez, she is not even my leauge, how can she refuse me? bitch"

So yes, believe me, it is issue of your personality.

This isn't dating and in real life plenty of men break your so called rules. That's because they see a beautiful personality. Men like you don't and won't date them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And there are questions like OP or "geez, she is not even my leauge, how can she refuse me? bitch"

So yes, believe me, it is issue of your personality.

This isn't dating and in real life plenty of men break your so called rules. That's because they see a beautiful personality. Men like you don't and won't date them "

No I am all for personslity. But these guys are not interested in personality. Just looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and for what its worth - I don't go for male models, and nor would that appeal. I got for sense of humour, attraction and a spark... but maybe thats just the league I am in

Just checked your veris and glad to announce you do stick to your own league. Bravo

just shown up the fact that previous comments weren't harsh at all

Thank you

youre more than welcome - he has one pic and been on a week and knows it all

Oh I need to add more pictures before I can give an opinion hey? "

well you never know you might be someones ideal but youre not giving much away - apart from a not so nice side to your character

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By *iss69Man
over a year ago

Knutsford

"Isn't fab a site where u meet other folk for sex!!

Nope its a site to meet like minded swingers."

Swingers don't generally meet up for a round of golf, they meet up to have sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To suggest that Fab is not effected by supply and demand is deluded or simply a lie. Of course women can be more choosy on here, anything that's rare has a higher percieved value.

There's nothing at all wrong with being shallow on a site that is predominently aimed at no strings attached sex and fantasy.

That said, all types of guys (from any percieved league) have had success on here. I hope your luck changes fella.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

No I am all for personslity. But these guys are not interested in personality. Just looks "

You've asked every single person thats met why they meet from fab? FFS I must have missed that email survey.

I don't use leagues or anything like that. I don't judge people on looks, either on here or in real life. For what its worth, I think I am the luckiest lady on earth to be with my other half, and do wonder what he sees in me - but I never once thought he was out of my league...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not being serious are you?

If not. Then ha ha funny funny.

If yes. Then, confidence is the main thing. You just have to go out there and give it your all. No one person is better than another. If you think like that, then honestly..you're just going to keep putting yourself down.

You can't let fab be your sole sexual playground (not that i'm saying i'm right in my _iew). Of course, everyone has their own purpose on fab but if you not getting a meet affects you that much. You're going to have to pull your socks up and grow a thick skin. You need to balance fab life with real life.

You know. Even i'm not the best thing since sliced bread but if someone tickles my fancy then i really wouldn't worry if i'm in her league or not. At least i showed my interest and it's her choice whether to take it forward or not. Otherwise we'd be kicking ourselves for not taking that step.

Good luck OP

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"Isn't fab a site where u meet other folk for sex!!

Nope its a site to meet like minded swingers.

Swingers don't generally meet up for a round of golf, they meet up to have sex"

Actually, I meet up with swinging friends to catch up, have fun together as well as just sex. Just sex wouldn't suit me - its not what I look for from here. If I just wanted a random no strings fuck, I'd go out on the town on a saturday night and pull.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Isn't fab a site where u meet other folk for sex!!

Nope its a site to meet like minded swingers.

Swingers don't generally meet up for a round of golf, they meet up to have sex

And people on sex sites dont socialise and make friends? Its the same damn thing. Just because it has swingers in the title doesnt make this any different to shag sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To suggest that Fab is not effected by supply and demand is deluded or simply a lie. Of course women can be more choosy on here, anything that's rare has a higher percieved value.

There's nothing at all wrong with being shallow on a site that is predominently aimed at no strings attached sex and fantasy.

That said, all types of guys (from any percieved league) have had success on here."

Boom.

Your current train of thought is not going to help you one little bit. Show what you have to offer in a more positive light and ditch all the negative shit as I can assure you that it won't help one bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You seem like an intelligent guy, the fact you have to be force feed this shit is a little disconcerning.

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By *aurenkaWoman
over a year ago

London

Everyone uses leagues. Even if you think you don't, you do. If it wasnt there will be loads of random couples like phil mitchell dating frickin beyonce. We all do it. We go for people in our league. Other then here where good looking guys are breaking the rules "
You are measuring others with your own measure (geez I hope I am understandable, I couldn't find out how to translate this phrase)

Not everyone diving ppl on leagues. Which is very shallow and degrading.

Of course there is always meter of attraction.

And attraction is not only about the look, which is ofc big part of it.

You are just afraid to face a true, that you are not able to attract lady, let just say "in your league".

So you post this thread, to justify.

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

Great post funny as hell , just goes to prove that a sense of humour doesn't always work ......lol

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

And people on sex sites dont socialise and make friends? Its the same damn thing. Just because it has swingers in the title doesnt make this any different to shag sites "

I'm not quite sure what your issue with me is...

But yes, it is different to the "shag sites" - there is more of a connection and friendship on fab. I chat to folk on here that I will never meet, and class them as fab buddies. Its not about sex. Theres a whole lot more to it than that, but as you have confessed an inability to pull on here or in real life, maybe thats something that has passed you by (or could be why it is passing you by)

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By *iss69Man
over a year ago

Knutsford

I get that, I wouldn't be able to have sex with somebody I wasn't able to get on with or attracted to, but you've got to admit sex is an integral part of swinging

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By *iss69Man
over a year ago

Knutsford

"Great post funny as hell , just goes to prove that a sense of humour doesn't always work ......lol"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And people on sex sites dont socialise and make friends? Its the same damn thing. Just because it has swingers in the title doesnt make this any different to shag sites

I'm not quite sure what your issue with me is...

Aww no issue with you lol I am just saying. Not personal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet people from here... We have a giggle, no sex... They've evolved in to friends... I'm guessing like a social

Media site

I also meet people from here and shag their brains out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And there are questions like OP or "geez, she is not even my leauge, how can she refuse me? bitch"

So yes, believe me, it is issue of your personality.

This isn't dating and in real life plenty of men break your so called rules. That's because they see a beautiful personality. Men like you don't and won't date them

No I am all for personslity. But these guys are not interested in personality. Just looks "

That's what my problem is then. Must remember bag for head as well as condoms

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"I get that, I wouldn't be able to have sex with somebody I wasn't able to get on with or attracted to, but you've got to admit sex is an integral part of swinging "

Its part of the package yes, but not the be all and end all. I've had swinging friendships that have developed, and we are still friends years on but no longer play, but yet are still swinging friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't fab a site where u meet other folk for sex!!

Nope its a site to meet like minded swingers.

Swingers don't generally meet up for a round of golf, they meet up to have sex

Different people use the site for different things, there are no rules prescibing that people must all _iew swinging in one limited way, but I'm sure most would agree that no strings sex is the common denominator for most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I meet people from here... We have a giggle, no sex... They've evolved in to friends... I'm guessing like a social

Media site

I also meet people from here and shag their brains out.

...because you're lovely.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I meet people from here... We have a giggle, no sex... They've evolved in to friends... I'm guessing like a social

Media site

I also meet people from here and shag their brains out.

Exactly the same happens on sex sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And there are questions like OP or "geez, she is not even my leauge, how can she refuse me? bitch"

So yes, believe me, it is issue of your personality.

This isn't dating and in real life plenty of men break your so called rules. That's because they see a beautiful personality. Men like you don't and won't date them

No I am all for personslity. But these guys are not interested in personality. Just looks

That's what my problem is then. Must remember bag for head as well as condoms

Yeah you bloody munter you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get that, I wouldn't be able to have sex with somebody I wasn't able to get on with or attracted to, but you've got to admit sex is an integral part of swinging

That's great for you if that's what you want, but not everybody wants that. Your _iew of swinging has no more merit than anybody elses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What did I just get involved with?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"I get that, I wouldn't be able to have sex with somebody I wasn't able to get on with or attracted to, but you've got to admit sex is an integral part of swinging

That's great for you if that's what you want, but not everybody wants that. Your _iew of swinging has no more merit than anybody elses. "

I have never claimed it has more merit. I have expressed my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To suggest that Fab is not effected by supply and demand is deluded or simply a lie. Of course women can be more choosy on here, anything that's rare has a higher percieved value.

There's nothing at all wrong with being shallow on a site that is predominently aimed at no strings attached sex and fantasy.

That said, all types of guys (from any percieved league) have had success on here. I hope your luck changes fella. "

not all women choose muscle over a personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I meet people from here... We have a giggle, no sex... They've evolved in to friends... I'm guessing like a social

Media site

I also meet people from here and shag their brains out.

Exactly the same happens on sex sites "

Yes my point... Anyway what's the matter with you? Yes people do put themselves in different leagues its human nature. The thing is if you get involved, have a giggle, and genuinely get involved. People sometimes tend to move their goal posts. As sooo many ladies have stated on here, on numerous occasions...Humour, versus a dark, ripped Adonis.. With the personality of a slug... Usually wins hands down... I know which I would choose... Anyway chill the fuck out and smile... You can't be that much of a munter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But I want to punch above my weight.

Fpmsl!!! XD

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I meet people from here... We have a giggle, no sex... They've evolved in to friends... I'm guessing like a social

Media site

I also meet people from here and shag their brains out.

Exactly the same happens on sex sites

Number 1. I dont giggle

Numer 2. There are not many handsome blokes with personality of a slug.

Number 3. I dont smile . . . Ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know what OP. I'm short, bit hairy on the facial front, ain't no Mr T but i have never put myself down by thinking there's all these elite leagues.

You see, on fab i may not meet much and yes, women have every right to be picky as to who they want to meet as do we. But, outside of fab i have a good sex life as should you.

You just have to decide what it is you want from the side and go from there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You know what OP. I'm short, bit hairy on the facial front, ain't no Mr T but i have never put myself down by thinking there's all these elite leagues.

You see, on fab i may not meet much and yes, women have every right to be picky as to who they want to meet as do we. But, outside of fab i have a good sex life as should you.

You just have to decide what it is you want from the side and go from there.

I want sex from site. Nothing else just sex. But I think its being made harder by the fact good looking guys are sleeping with less attractive women. It means these women, who should be going fir me, are going for some bloke with a 6pack and a huge co#k. Its just not fair.

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over a year ago

"I get that, I wouldn't be able to have sex with somebody I wasn't able to get on with or attracted to, but you've got to admit sex is an integral part of swinging

That's great for you if that's what you want, but not everybody wants that. Your _iew of swinging has no more merit than anybody elses.

I have never claimed it has more merit. I have expressed my opinion."

And I am just expressing mine.

Your quoted exchange was -

"Isn't fab a site where u meet other folk for sex!!"

Nope its a site to meet like minded swingers. -

You're basically stating here that your _iew of the site is the correct _iew. I simply disagree with you, as long as people don't break the rules, the site is what they choose to make of it.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"I get that, I wouldn't be able to have sex with somebody I wasn't able to get on with or attracted to, but you've got to admit sex is an integral part of swinging

That's great for you if that's what you want, but not everybody wants that. Your _iew of swinging has no more merit than anybody elses.

I have never claimed it has more merit. I have expressed my opinion.

And I am just expressing mine.

Your quoted exchange was -

"Isn't fab a site where u meet other folk for sex!!"

Nope its a site to meet like minded swingers. -

You're basically stating here that your _iew of the site is the correct _iew. I simply disagree with you, as long as people don't break the rules, the site is what they choose to make of it.

Nope, I said like minded - not that see it the same as me. Like minded may well mean those that see it as a sex site meet others who are of like mind.

I will only meet people who are of the same opinion as me, but never put down anyone else for how they use the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You know what OP. I'm short, bit hairy on the facial front, ain't no Mr T but i have never put myself down by thinking there's all these elite leagues.

You see, on fab i may not meet much and yes, women have every right to be picky as to who they want to meet as do we. But, outside of fab i have a good sex life as should you.

You just have to decide what it is you want from the side and go from there.

Life sucks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To suggest that Fab is not effected by supply and demand is deluded or simply a lie. Of course women can be more choosy on here, anything that's rare has a higher percieved value.

There's nothing at all wrong with being shallow on a site that is predominently aimed at no strings attached sex and fantasy.

That said, all types of guys (from any percieved league) have had success on here. I hope your luck changes fella.

not all women choose muscle over a personality"

I'm not suggesting they do. Not all men choose bust size over intellect.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Life sucks?

hehehe, I don't think thats the kind of sucks hes after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously?

"it's just not fair"?

I was unsure if you were joking or not at times...

Dude, wow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tis life my friend. Tis life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get that, I wouldn't be able to have sex with somebody I wasn't able to get on with or attracted to, but you've got to admit sex is an integral part of swinging

That's great for you if that's what you want, but not everybody wants that. Your _iew of swinging has no more merit than anybody elses.

I have never claimed it has more merit. I have expressed my opinion.

And I am just expressing mine.

Your quoted exchange was -

"Isn't fab a site where u meet other folk for sex!!"

Nope its a site to meet like minded swingers. -

You're basically stating here that your _iew of the site is the correct _iew. I simply disagree with you, as long as people don't break the rules, the site is what they choose to make of it.

Nope, I said like minded - not that see it the same as me. Like minded may well mean those that see it as a sex site meet others who are of like mind.

I will only meet people who are of the same opinion as me, but never put down anyone else for how they use the site.

I'll accept what you say, I guess I just didn't understand why you'd use the word 'nope' in response to someone elses opinion of what the site is to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To suggest that Fab is not effected by supply and demand is deluded or simply a lie. Of course women can be more choosy on here, anything that's rare has a higher percieved value.

There's nothing at all wrong with being shallow on a site that is predominently aimed at no strings attached sex and fantasy.

That said, all types of guys (from any percieved league) have had success on here. I hope your luck changes fella.

not all women choose muscle over a personality

I'm not suggesting they do. Not all men choose bust size over intellect. "

I either misread your post or replied to the wrong one. I can't scroll through to find out. Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What makes a man good looking to some women is how he treats her. We all want sex,we don't all want to be treated like an object

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What makes a man good looking to some women is how he treats her. We all want sex,we don't all want to be treated like an object "

Hush down, sphere

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By *aurenkaWoman
over a year ago

London

"What makes a man good looking to some women is how he treats her. We all want sex,we don't all want to be treated like an object "

Exactly the point!

The think is the modern man prefer to be "honest" then develop some social skills and class.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I'll accept what you say, I guess I just didn't understand why you'd use the word 'nope' in response to someone elses opinion of what the site is to them. "

The nope was disagreeing about it being a site for meeting for sex - you don't have to agree to have sex to sign up - you're not contracted or expected to (not saying anyones use of the site is right or wrong) - there are people on here who will never meet, and have no intention - So its not just a sex site. Besides, if you read most of the single men (predominantly) moaning posts, they never get meets anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What makes a man good looking to some women is how he treats her. We all want sex,we don't all want to be treated like an object

Hush down, sphere"

I'm more apple shaped thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To suggest that Fab is not effected by supply and demand is deluded or simply a lie. Of course women can be more choosy on here, anything that's rare has a higher percieved value.

There's nothing at all wrong with being shallow on a site that is predominently aimed at no strings attached sex and fantasy.

That said, all types of guys (from any percieved league) have had success on here. I hope your luck changes fella.

not all women choose muscle over a personality

I'm not suggesting they do. Not all men choose bust size over intellect.

I either misread your post or replied to the wrong one. I can't scroll through to find out. Sorry "

No apology necessary, I agree with what you said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll accept what you say, I guess I just didn't understand why you'd use the word 'nope' in response to someone elses opinion of what the site is to them.

He wasn't suggesting any form of contractual agreement to have sex, he was just expressing his opinion of what this site represents to him. He's entitled to that opinion because that is his reality, as you are to yours. Someone else saying 'nope' does not change your reality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What makes a man good looking to some women is how he treats her. We all want sex,we don't all want to be treated like an object

Exactly the point!

The think is the modern man prefer to be "honest" then develop some social skills and class."

Hey lady, I may not of been born within the last three decades but I'd like to think I'm modern! Social skills and class are somewhat of a controversial point though...

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I could pick 'male model' types and instigate a chat on here but if I'm not attracted to them as a person I'm simply not going to give up my precious free time to fuck them because they're pretty or it gives me some misguided ego boost to fuck someone 'out of my league'. I like sex with people who turn me on and personality is 99% of the turn on (I would estimate). As to unattractive women getting gorgeous guys on here maybe the gorgeous guys don't perceive them as unattractive in the first place.

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By *aurenkaWoman
over a year ago

London

"What makes a man good looking to some women is how he treats her. We all want sex,we don't all want to be treated like an object

Exactly the point!

The think is the modern man prefer to be "honest" then develop some social skills and class.

Hey lady, I may not of been born within the last three decades but I'd like to think I'm modern! Social skills and class are somewhat of a controversial point though... "

So you wan to be put in a pile of "modern guys" who have a lack os social skills?

Did I understand u right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" So you wan to be put in a pile of "modern guys" who have a lack os social skills?

Did I understand u right?

All I want is Cheesecake. As a modern man I will graciously allow you to determine the rest.

You're welcome by the way.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

priceless !! go to bed lib ...you are cracking me up!

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By *aurenkaWoman
over a year ago

London

All I want is Cheesecake. As a modern man I will graciously allow you to determine the rest.

You're welcome by the way. "

Fair enough!

Unfortunately I am terrible cook and baker, but be happy to receive invitation to cafeteria.

Is that modern enough of me to instruct gentleman to ask me out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"priceless !! go to bed lib ...you are cracking me up! "

hes trying - see other thread lol

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Lol i missed all the fun while sleeping, thanks for the chuckle before work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get that, I wouldn't be able to have sex with somebody I wasn't able to get on with or attracted to, but you've got to admit sex is an integral part of swinging

That's great for you if that's what you want, but not everybody wants that. Your _iew of swinging has no more merit than anybody elses.

I have never claimed it has more merit. I have expressed my opinion.

And I am just expressing mine.

Your quoted exchange was -

"Isn't fab a site where u meet other folk for sex!!"

Nope its a site to meet like minded swingers. -

You're basically stating here that your _iew of the site is the correct _iew. I simply disagree with you, as long as people don't break the rules, the site is what they choose to make of it.

Nope, I said like minded - not that see it the same as me. Like minded may well mean those that see it as a sex site meet others who are of like mind.

I will only meet people who are of the same opinion as me, but never put down anyone else for how they use the site.

priceless, oh and contradictory. You don't think you're putting people down for misusing the site by stating we all should shop for others in the same league?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

OP - it's not just the good looking guys stealing all the women you have to worry about!

It's the average joes that 'rim'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate the bullying on the forums I really do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dear Fab

Can you not do some kind of filtering so good looking guys can only see good looking female profiles.

Thank you

Sweet "

I would hate for you to find me attractive cos in essence that would make me unattractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr Fab and I are in a league of our own and welcome applications from anyone who is fun, sexy & well mannered! The gentleman who started this thread need not apply!

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

"To suggest that Fab is not effected by supply and demand is deluded or simply a lie. Of course women can be more choosy on here, anything that's rare has a higher percieved value.

There's nothing at all wrong with being shallow on a site that is predominently aimed at no strings attached sex and fantasy.

That said, all types of guys (from any percieved league) have had success on here. I hope your luck changes fella. "

Well written.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Why you all being jumped up nobs to him ??? This was a light hearted post of self pitty

What's wrong with you all !!!

Shame on you

Naughty then is no need to call people Nobs though is there...

Could not think what else to say

Sometimes in that situations it's just best not to say anything at all...the OP did not help himself by some of the comments he made and people responded to that, I don't think they were being Jumped up nobs but perception is different from person to person but to throw insults around is not the best way to get your point across

The usual people jumped on him . He responded.

Some people don't do themselves any favours.

Some appear to be looking to get a rise out of people.

Some are posting in jest but it either doesn't come across that way or isn't perceived that way.

Some are returning members who may/may not have voluntarily stopped using the forums!

It seems coincidental sometimes that a new poster is so prevalent in the forums a mere 7 days after joining when it often take people weeks or months to even work out they exist - but that could just be my cynical head working!

Whatever the case - the green arrow tells much.

I have my own suspicions that certain posts may not be meant to be taken seriously - but if others don't spot this and get peeved - is it their fault,the OP's or just fate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got the joke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got the joke

Good !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So FAB now needs league tables?! Personally I don't punch above my weight. My partner would make Channing Tatum insecure! I don't struggle to attract men/women in vanilla life. Never have - not me being big headed just fact. So on FAB I'm not going to lower my standards. However I am here for fantasies with like minded people. Meet some great people from here. All lovely in their own way. OP - the gorgeous women of FAB will be queuing up to meet you now. But you knew that anyhow didnt you? Look forward to your equally whinny 'why can't I get any meets thread' Swiftly followed by your 'I'm leaving thread'

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Well I don't mind telling you all that you made me snort this morning.

Good fucking work!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Anyone who finds it difficult to get laid away from the internet is only ever going to find it significantly more difficult here.

Attraction is about more than how people look anyway so the concepts of leagues, and physically attractive people only wanting other physically attractive people, are total bullshit.

Anyone who thinks attraction is purely down to looks and that people should be limited to others with similar attractiveness is going to struggle. Try _iewing people as individual people, not just according to your standard of aesthetic values.

No wonder you can't get laid.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

To quote from one of the op's previous posts....

"Oh god no, ain't no way my tongue will go near an arse or a pussy"

And some people wonder why they don't get meets.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I could pick 'male model' types and instigate a chat on here but if I'm not attracted to them as a person I'm simply not going to give up my precious free time to fuck them because they're pretty or it gives me some misguided ego boost to fuck someone 'out of my league'. I like sex with people who turn me on and personality is 99% of the turn on (I would estimate). As to unattractive women getting gorgeous guys on here maybe the gorgeous guys don't perceive them as unattractive in the first place."

Personality is 99% turn on? Well what happens if personality was great but they smelled or had an ear on their forehead? You would still get with them? No way. Looks 60 personality 40. Think thats fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You know what OP. I'm short, bit hairy on the facial front, ain't no Mr T but i have never put myself down by thinking there's all these elite leagues.

You see, on fab i may not meet much and yes, women have every right to be picky as to who they want to meet as do we. But, outside of fab i have a good sex life as should you.

You just have to decide what it is you want from the side and go from there.

I think the fact you won't meet women who won't rim you but yourself will not go anywhere near a pussy or arse according to your other thread is making it hard for you on here. Maybe these good looking guys offer a lot more sexually than you? The green arrow is such a great tool and the way someone conducts themselves on the forums can speak volumes about them as a person and in some cases have an effect on a persons success or lack of. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and for what its worth - I don't go for male models, and nor would that appeal. I got for sense of humour, attraction and a spark... but maybe thats just the league I am in

Just checked your veris and glad to announce you do stick to your own league. Bravo

And proof of that ugliness again.

Honestly mate, give up... insulting everyone on fab is not a good look - ever.

I think the only one in your league would now be yourself - I'd suggest a mirror but perhaps it would break with the sheer monstrosity in front of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To quote from one of the op's previous posts....

"Oh god no, ain't no way my tongue will go near an arse or a pussy"

And some people wonder why they don't get meets.....

I explained that. I prefer the attention be on me for sex. I like women who enjoy pleasing men and not after their own pleasure. I like to be the leader

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"To quote from one of the op's previous posts....

"Oh god no, ain't no way my tongue will go near an arse or a pussy"

And some people wonder why they don't get meets.....

I explained that. I prefer the attention be on me for sex. I like women who enjoy pleasing men and not after their own pleasure. I like to be the leader"

But for most people, sex is about mutual enjoyment, I reckon you will struggle greatly to get anyone to meet you knowing that she will not be pleasured

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To quote from one of the op's previous posts....

"Oh god no, ain't no way my tongue will go near an arse or a pussy"

And some people wonder why they don't get meets.....

I explained that. I prefer the attention be on me for sex. I like women who enjoy pleasing men and not after their own pleasure. I like to be the leader"

And I'm sure you'll find someone like that on here, but I'd hazard a guess that 99% of the women on here aren't looking to be used as a free escort service/working girl and are looking for mutual satisfaction. However limit your options and only meet the women that meet your requirements, that's your choice.

Good luck as you'll need it as you're looking for a needle in a haystack.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To quote from one of the op's previous posts....

"Oh god no, ain't no way my tongue will go near an arse or a pussy"

And some people wonder why they don't get meets.....

I explained that. I prefer the attention be on me for sex. I like women who enjoy pleasing men and not after their own pleasure. I like to be the leader

But for most people, sex is about mutual enjoyment, I reckon you will struggle greatly to get anyone to meet you knowing that she will not be pleasured

She gets pleasure from knowing she satisfied me

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"To quote from one of the op's previous posts....

"Oh god no, ain't no way my tongue will go near an arse or a pussy"

And some people wonder why they don't get meets.....

I explained that. I prefer the attention be on me for sex. I like women who enjoy pleasing men and not after their own pleasure. I like to be the leader"

You wanna be in my gang...my gang my gang

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"To quote from one of the op's previous posts....

"Oh god no, ain't no way my tongue will go near an arse or a pussy"

And some people wonder why they don't get meets.....

I explained that. I prefer the attention be on me for sex. I like women who enjoy pleasing men and not after their own pleasure. I like to be the leader

But for most people, sex is about mutual enjoyment, I reckon you will struggle greatly to get anyone to meet you knowing that she will not be pleasured

She gets pleasure from knowing she satisfied me "

Really? So the ladies satisfaction is not important to you at all???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To quote from one of the op's previous posts....

"Oh god no, ain't no way my tongue will go near an arse or a pussy"

And some people wonder why they don't get meets.....

I explained that. I prefer the attention be on me for sex. I like women who enjoy pleasing men and not after their own pleasure. I like to be the leader

But for most people, sex is about mutual enjoyment, I reckon you will struggle greatly to get anyone to meet you knowing that she will not be pleasured

She gets pleasure from knowing she satisfied me

Really? So the ladies satisfaction is not important to you at all??? "

It is but her satisfaction comes from pleasuring me.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Pinch of salt anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You know what OP. I'm short, bit hairy on the facial front, ain't no Mr T but i have never put myself down by thinking there's all these elite leagues.

You see, on fab i may not meet much and yes, women have every right to be picky as to who they want to meet as do we. But, outside of fab i have a good sex life as should you.

You just have to decide what it is you want from the side and go from there.

Pic mods should rate the pics people upload from 1-10. Profiles of 1-5 would only be able to contact other 1-5 level profiles. Same for 6-10 rated profiles.

Profiles with no pics would be deleted after a week as they are clearly not even on the sexy scale.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"To quote from one of the op's previous posts....

"Oh god no, ain't no way my tongue will go near an arse or a pussy"

And some people wonder why they don't get meets.....

I explained that. I prefer the attention be on me for sex. I like women who enjoy pleasing men and not after their own pleasure. I like to be the leader

But for most people, sex is about mutual enjoyment, I reckon you will struggle greatly to get anyone to meet you knowing that she will not be pleasured

She gets pleasure from knowing she satisfied me

Really? So the ladies satisfaction is not important to you at all???

It is but her satisfaction comes from pleasuring me. "

I kinda get where you are coming from I enjoy seeing a man getting pleasure from me and enjoying it, as long as there is a mutual balance of pleasuring then I'm quite happy

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"To quote from one of the op's previous posts....

"Oh god no, ain't no way my tongue will go near an arse or a pussy"

And some people wonder why they don't get meets.....

I explained that. I prefer the attention be on me for sex. I like women who enjoy pleasing men and not after their own pleasure. I like to be the leader

But for most people, sex is about mutual enjoyment, I reckon you will struggle greatly to get anyone to meet you knowing that she will not be pleasured

She gets pleasure from knowing she satisfied me

Really? So the ladies satisfaction is not important to you at all???

It is but her satisfaction comes from pleasuring me. "

How do you know that? Surely she is expecting to be pleasured too? ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To quote from one of the op's previous posts....

"Oh god no, ain't no way my tongue will go near an arse or a pussy"

And some people wonder why they don't get meets.....

I explained that. I prefer the attention be on me for sex. I like women who enjoy pleasing men and not after their own pleasure. I like to be the leader

But for most people, sex is about mutual enjoyment, I reckon you will struggle greatly to get anyone to meet you knowing that she will not be pleasured

She gets pleasure from knowing she satisfied me

Really? So the ladies satisfaction is not important to you at all???

It is but her satisfaction comes from pleasuring me.

How do you know that? Surely she is expecting to be pleasured too? ??"

No I explain all this before sex. They know how it works with me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You know what OP. I'm short, bit hairy on the facial front, ain't no Mr T but i have never put myself down by thinking there's all these elite leagues.

You see, on fab i may not meet much and yes, women have every right to be picky as to who they want to meet as do we. But, outside of fab i have a good sex life as should you.

You just have to decide what it is you want from the side and go from there.

Pic mods should rate the pics people upload from 1-10. Profiles of 1-5 would only be able to contact other 1-5 level profiles. Same for 6-10 rated profiles.

Profiles with no pics would be deleted after a week as they are clearly not even on the sexy scale.

Yeah I like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What makes a man good looking to some women is how he treats her. We all want sex,we don't all want to be treated like an object "

Post of the year. Seriously. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What makes a man good looking to some women is how he treats her. We all want sex,we don't all want to be treated like an object

Post of the year. Seriously. x

Its inaccurate so cant be post of the year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And there are questions like OP or "geez, she is not even my leauge, how can she refuse me? bitch"

So yes, believe me, it is issue of your personality.

This isn't dating and in real life plenty of men break your so called rules. That's because they see a beautiful personality. Men like you don't and won't date them

No I am all for personslity. But these guys are not interested in personality. Just looks

That's what my problem is then. Must remember bag for head as well as condoms

Yeah you bloody munter you!

You havent seen me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To quote from one of the op's previous posts....

"Oh god no, ain't no way my tongue will go near an arse or a pussy"

And some people wonder why they don't get meets.....

I explained that. I prefer the attention be on me for sex. I like women who enjoy pleasing men and not after their own pleasure. I like to be the leader

But for most people, sex is about mutual enjoyment, I reckon you will struggle greatly to get anyone to meet you knowing that she will not be pleasured

She gets pleasure from knowing she satisfied me

Really? So the ladies satisfaction is not important to you at all???

It is but her satisfaction comes from pleasuring me. "

As I said there aren't many women that get genuine satisfaction with nothing in return. You'll be hard pushed to find one that will orgasm just by rimming or sucking you. However if you keep looking you might find one, she'll be riding a unicorn too probably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why you all being jumped up nobs to him ??? This was a light hearted post of self pitty

What's wrong with you all !!!

Shame on you

Naughty then is no need to call people Nobs though is there...

Could not think what else to say

The usual people jumped on him . He responded.

Some people don't do themselves any favours.

Some appear to be looking to get a rise out of people.

Some are posting in jest but it either doesn't come across that way or isn't perceived that way.

Some are returning members who may/may not have voluntarily stopped using the forums!

Whatever the case - the green arrow tells much.

I have my own suspicions that certain posts may not be meant to be taken seriously - but if others don't spot this and get peeved - is it their fault,the OP's or just fate?

Funny to watch though.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"You know what OP. I'm short, bit hairy on the facial front, ain't no Mr T but i have never put myself down by thinking there's all these elite leagues.

You see, on fab i may not meet much and yes, women have every right to be picky as to who they want to meet as do we. But, outside of fab i have a good sex life as should you.

You just have to decide what it is you want from the side and go from there.

Pic mods should rate the pics people upload from 1-10. Profiles of 1-5 would only be able to contact other 1-5 level profiles. Same for 6-10 rated profiles.

Profiles with no pics would be deleted after a week as they are clearly not even on the sexy scale.

But what if a 1-5 person got a good photographer to take a pic that got rated 6-10?

Or a 6-10 hottie got fake tan/baby oil on the lens of their camera and the pic came out kinda fuzzy - even though they were a proper hottie?

The system would crash and descend into utter chaos - with fuglies bumping uglies with hotties and claims of false advertising putting excess strain on Tina's FORUM INSURANCE service, resulting in a whole bunch of rival claims companies!!!

Wouldn't it be better if everyone just met wearing blindfolds in dark rooms ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This guy SERIOUSLY can't be for real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

has the OP been relegated to a lower league yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh dear OP. Have you ever heard the expression "think before you speak!" (or in this case type) as it would seem by not doing so, you are helping people to understand exactly why you have no success in fab and in the real world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really? So the ladies satisfaction is not important to you at all???

It is but her satisfaction comes from pleasuring me.

How do you know that? Surely she is expecting to be pleasured too? ??

No I explain all this before sex. They know how it works with me "

Is that usually the point they decide not to meet you?

There is a difference between fantasy & reality, stop living in one and give the other one a try. Who knows you might like going down on a woman or smiling if you actually try it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously the OP is a sheer laugh. Has to be???? Are you for real?????

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Really? So the ladies satisfaction is not important to you at all???

It is but her satisfaction comes from pleasuring me.

How do you know that? Surely she is expecting to be pleasured too? ??

No I explain all this before sex. They know how it works with me

Is that usually the point they decide not to meet you?

There is a difference between fantasy & reality, stop living in one and give the other one a try. Who knows you might like going down on a woman or smiling if you actually try it.

No absolutely not thats not happening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really? So the ladies satisfaction is not important to you at all???

It is but her satisfaction comes from pleasuring me.

How do you know that? Surely she is expecting to be pleasured too? ??

No I explain all this before sex. They know how it works with me

Is that usually the point they decide not to meet you?

There is a difference between fantasy & reality, stop living in one and give the other one a try. Who knows you might like going down on a woman or smiling if you actually try it.

No absolutely not thats not happening. "

That's a shame, I bet you have a lovely smile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This guy SERIOUSLY can't be for real

Of course he's not, but people are biting. I have my suspicions on who it is based on his location and pic.

Just play along with him, the schools go back soon."

So you talking to me when you dont think I am being serious? End of conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really? So the ladies satisfaction is not important to you at all???

It is but her satisfaction comes from pleasuring me.

How do you know that? Surely she is expecting to be pleasured too? ??

No I explain all this before sex. They know how it works with me

Is that usually the point they decide not to meet you?

There is a difference between fantasy & reality, stop living in one and give the other one a try. Who knows you might like going down on a woman or smiling if you actually try it.

No absolutely not thats not happening. "

Neither will the meets be!!!

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Gutted I missed all of this. Ive only read the first few replies.

I expect all the women bar a few went mental, quite a few blocked you, quite a few suggest you leave.

A few blokes agreed, a few blokes added 'you spoil it for the rest of us'

Even more blokes found it funny and saw the humour.

Stop taking things so serious people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Really? So the ladies satisfaction is not important to you at all???

It is but her satisfaction comes from pleasuring me.

How do you know that? Surely she is expecting to be pleasured too? ??

No I explain all this before sex. They know how it works with me

Is that usually the point they decide not to meet you?

There is a difference between fantasy & reality, stop living in one and give the other one a try. Who knows you might like going down on a woman or smiling if you actually try it.

No absolutely not thats not happening.

Neither will the meets be!!!"

Forum rules mean you are not alloeed to contact me. Just letting you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This guy SERIOUSLY can't be for real

Of course he's not, but people are biting. I have my suspicions on who it is based on his location and pic.

Just play along with him, the schools go back soon.

So you talking to me when you dont think I am being serious? End of conversation "

If you are being serious that's a whole other story and actually quite a sad one, I'd worry what trauma you've been through to not ever smile & shut yourself off in the ways you are, however my opinion (which I'm perfectly entitled to express) is that you are posting some of this to get a rise out of people & see who bites.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This guy SERIOUSLY can't be for real

Of course he's not, but people are biting. I have my suspicions on who it is based on his location and pic.

Just play along with him, the schools go back soon.

So you talking to me when you dont think I am being serious? End of conversation

Refuse to read your comment. Speak to the hand