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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London

We have the single mother who's stressed out because she can't find the money to feed her kids. We look down on her.

We have the tramps we step over in the street 70% are ex military, they take a concoction of drugs and drink to drown out the horrors they've witnessed.

Then we have the rich and famous who get stressed out deciding which island to sail there boat over to, so that they can wash down there with a bottle of blue label Jonny Walker.

And who do we cry for!!

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"we" is a pretty sweeping generalisation.

I know where my sympathy and empathy lies, so please avoid such statements.

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By *xpresMan
over a year ago

Elland

Dont cry for no one unles its my family no one else counts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

And who do we cry for!!"

Argentina?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I've no idea what your talking about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i only cry for those i know or who have impacted my life..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor evita

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"

And who do we cry for!!

Argentina?"

Onions.

A

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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I've no idea what your talking about"

what I'm talking about are the famous people who have passed away and have taken their life or contributed to there own early departure.

Hope that helps, I'm not wanting to call out people names outof respect .

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"I've no idea what your talking about

what I'm talking about are the famous people who have passed away and have taken their life or contributed to there own early departure.

Hope that helps, I'm not wanting to call out people names outof respect ."

until you have sat there in the very depths of terrible depression, thinking that taking your own life is the only solution and would make the world a better place, then who the hell are you to judge what another human being has done. Empathy? Caring?

And yes, a celebrity suicide does raise questions and make people talk - but anything that makes people more accepting of mental health issues and talk about it is good in my book - if it saves one single person, then all for the good.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I've no idea what your talking about

what I'm talking about are the famous people who have passed away and have taken their life or contributed to there own early departure.

Hope that helps, I'm not wanting to call out people names outof respect ."

Do you think that those who take their own lives wake up one morning, bored, and think 'ah, stuffit, I think I'll hang myself today'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've no idea what your talking about

what I'm talking about are the famous people who have passed away and have taken their life or contributed to there own early departure.

Hope that helps, I'm not wanting to call out people names outof respect .

until you have sat there in the very depths of terrible depression, thinking that taking your own life is the only solution and would make the world a better place, then who the hell are you to judge what another human being has done. Empathy? Caring?

And yes, a celebrity suicide does raise questions and make people talk - but anything that makes people more accepting of mental health issues and talk about it is good in my book - if it saves one single person, then all for the good."

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By *3rial Thr1LL3rMan
over a year ago

aberdeenshire


"I've no idea what your talking about

what I'm talking about are the famous people who have passed away and have taken their life or contributed to there own early departure.

Hope that helps, I'm not wanting to call out people names outof respect .

until you have sat there in the very depths of terrible depression, thinking that taking your own life is the only solution and would make the world a better place, then who the hell are you to judge what another human being has done. Empathy? Caring?

And yes, a celebrity suicide does raise questions and make people talk - but anything that makes people more accepting of mental health issues and talk about it is good in my book - if it saves one single person, then all for the good."

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I've no idea what your talking about

what I'm talking about are the famous people who have passed away and have taken their life or contributed to there own early departure.

Hope that helps, I'm not wanting to call out people names outof respect ."
so people shouldn't be sad that a talented person is in such depths of despair takes their own life.

I think you are being disrespectful of making light of mental illness, on the surface he may have had everything but the famous person that takes his own life or someone whose ex military takes their own life its still sad

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"We have the single mother who's stressed out because she can't find the money to feed her kids. We look down on her.

We have the tramps we step over in the street 70% are ex military, they take a concoction of drugs and drink to drown out the horrors they've witnessed.

Then we have the rich and famous who get stressed out deciding which island to sail there boat over to, so that they can wash down there with a bottle of blue label Jonny Walker.

And who do we cry for!!"

if the rich have worked hard for their cash.. I have no issue whatsoever how they enjoy their riches... good on them.

as for the homeless, again.. it is down to individual cases, some may have been dealt a bad deck and I wish them better fortune. Some may have trown it all away with addiction, I wish them successful treatment for their demons..

and as for the single mum, that she bring her child/ren up with love. If she is a breeding machine, I have little opinion. If she has been left by a partner to carry the responsibility, shame on him and good luck to her..

as always, there is a story behind every case. Treat each of them as an individual, it will shed a truer light.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I've no idea what your talking about

what I'm talking about are the famous people who have passed away and have taken their life or contributed to there own early departure.

Hope that helps, I'm not wanting to call out people names outof respect .

until you have sat there in the very depths of terrible depression, thinking that taking your own life is the only solution and would make the world a better place, then who the hell are you to judge what another human being has done. Empathy? Caring?

And yes, a celebrity suicide does raise questions and make people talk - but anything that makes people more accepting of mental health issues and talk about it is good in my book - if it saves one single person, then all for the good."
you said it so much better than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've no idea what your talking about

what I'm talking about are the famous people who have passed away and have taken their life or contributed to there own early departure.

Hope that helps, I'm not wanting to call out people names outof respect ."

I have as much empathy, sympathy, and respect for someone who lost a battle with long standing addiction or depression as i do a veteran in the streets, a single mum on benefit, a victim of a d*unk driver, or any other human being. It's impossible to accurately know the heart and mind of another. And we ALL contribute to our own demise in one way or another because no human is perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

And who do we cry for!!

Argentina?

Onions.

A"

When you cut a lemon in half and it spurts in your eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sheffield United.

C'mon the Blades, c'mon the Blades.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keith Lemon squirting, Diamonds will get all a dither.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've no idea what your talking about

what I'm talking about are the famous people who have passed away and have taken their life or contributed to there own early departure.

Hope that helps, I'm not wanting to call out people names outof respect ."

Would you not agree that some stressed out single mothers who can't feed their poor bairns have also contributed to their own problems/situation.

Either being far too generous to the would be father in the first place or far too hateful and spiteful thereafter.

Just where do you draw the line of who contibutes to what?

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By *andS66Couple
over a year ago

Derby

So we shouldn't feel sorry or sad for their passing because they took their own lives? We should treat them with contempt for doing so, should we?

And what about all the 'ordinary' people that commit suicide? Are they deserving only of our contempt?

I see only one person deserving of cuntempt on this forum.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

Break your arm = ok

Break your leg = ok

Break your brain = he's fucking crazy!!!

???

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"We have the single mother who's stressed out because she can't find the money to feed her kids. We look down on her.

We have the tramps we step over in the street 70% are ex military, they take a concoction of drugs and drink to drown out the horrors they've witnessed.

Then we have the rich and famous who get stressed out deciding which island to sail there boat over to, so that they can wash down there with a bottle of blue label Jonny Walker.

And who do we cry for!!"

Oh how gallant of you. Your shoulders must be very broad to take on the guilt and grief of all the forgotten in the world.

Of course people._xpress sadness at the passing of someone they invited into their homes again and again through films and TV shows. That doesn't mean to say they are blind to the plight of others. Are you saying we should start threads for all those that pass away each day?

Are you trivialising the death of Robin Williams, a talented yet troubled man whose psssing has caused mental illness to be discussed more in the last few days than anything else?

No one can grieve for everyone but we can empathise and support and learn and grow from the passing of someone we knew from a distance. Who knows, perhaps as a result of Robin Williams death more people are able to see those who need help and offer support when needed.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

I'm confused as to how you've taken someone who has battled depression for years and sadly decided to take their own life and likened it to someone throwing a hissy fit about not knowing where to sail their boat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Break your arm = ok

Break your leg = ok

Break your brain = he's fucking crazy!!!

???"

Spot on!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I never got death out of the OP

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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"So we shouldn't feel sorry or sad for their passing because they took their own lives? We should treat them with contempt for doing so, should we?

And what about all the 'ordinary' people that commit suicide? Are they deserving only of our contempt?

I see only one person deserving of cuntempt on this forum.

"

In your words, the ordinary people who have day to day struggles, yes i will cry for. The ordinary people who take drugs to blunt out the woes, yes i will cry for.

The ordinary people who have made a lot and lost it, yes i will cry for.

But i fail to feel sorry for those who have financial wealth, wealth of a loving family but because of misuse of drugs and drinks for over a decade i will not cry for.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"So we shouldn't feel sorry or sad for their passing because they took their own lives? We should treat them with contempt for doing so, should we?

And what about all the 'ordinary' people that commit suicide? Are they deserving only of our contempt?

I see only one person deserving of cuntempt on this forum.

In your words, the ordinary people who have day to day struggles, yes i will cry for. The ordinary people who take drugs to blunt out the woes, yes i will cry for.

The ordinary people who have made a lot and lost it, yes i will cry for.

But i fail to feel sorry for those who have financial wealth, wealth of a loving family but because of misuse of drugs and drinks for over a decade i will not cry for."
wow wonderful to see your awareness of mental health

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By *andS66Couple
over a year ago

Derby


"I never got death out of the OP "

Read the posts..... he clarified exactly what he was talking about.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"So we shouldn't feel sorry or sad for their passing because they took their own lives? We should treat them with contempt for doing so, should we?

And what about all the 'ordinary' people that commit suicide? Are they deserving only of our contempt?

I see only one person deserving of cuntempt on this forum.

In your words, the ordinary people who have day to day struggles, yes i will cry for. The ordinary people who take drugs to blunt out the woes, yes i will cry for.

The ordinary people who have made a lot and lost it, yes i will cry for.

But i fail to feel sorry for those who have financial wealth, wealth of a loving family but because of misuse of drugs and drinks for over a decade i will not cry for."

so is it people with wealth you have intolerance of

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I never got death out of the OP

Read the posts..... he clarified exactly what he was talking about."

I had answered then, it's cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""we" is a pretty sweeping generalisation.

I know where my sympathy and empathy lies, so please avoid such statements.

"

This

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"So we shouldn't feel sorry or sad for their passing because they took their own lives? We should treat them with contempt for doing so, should we?

And what about all the 'ordinary' people that commit suicide? Are they deserving only of our contempt?

I see only one person deserving of cuntempt on this forum.

In your words, the ordinary people who have day to day struggles, yes i will cry for. The ordinary people who take drugs to blunt out the woes, yes i will cry for.

The ordinary people who have made a lot and lost it, yes i will cry for.

But i fail to feel sorry for those who have financial wealth, wealth of a loving family but because of misuse of drugs and drinks for over a decade i will not cry for."

So because someone has a lot of money they can't gave personal demons that they fight with daily?

Money isn't the best all and end all in life. If you think.it is then cry for you!

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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"So we shouldn't feel sorry or sad for their passing because they took their own lives? We should treat them with contempt for doing so, should we?

And what about all the 'ordinary' people that commit suicide? Are they deserving only of our contempt?

I see only one person deserving of cuntempt on this forum.

In your words, the ordinary people who have day to day struggles, yes i will cry for. The ordinary people who take drugs to blunt out the woes, yes i will cry for.

The ordinary people who have made a lot and lost it, yes i will cry for.

But i fail to feel sorry for those who have financial wealth, wealth of a loving family but because of misuse of drugs and drinks for over a decade i will not cry for.

So because someone has a lot of money they can't gave personal demons that they fight with daily?

Money isn't the best all and end all in life. If you think.it is then cry for you! "

Booze and drugs for over a decade!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have the single mother who's stressed out because she can't find the money to feed her kids. We look down on her.

We have the tramps we step over in the street 70% are ex military, they take a concoction of drugs and drink to drown out the horrors they've witnessed.

Then we have the rich and famous who get stressed out deciding which island to sail there boat over to, so that they can wash down there with a bottle of blue label Jonny Walker.

And who do we cry for!!"

I guess SOME people on low wages could look at me with my nice car, modern flat, food and drink to fill my belly etc and wonder why I would have Black Dog Days, but I'll unashamedly admit that I've suffered from depression and I've stared suicide in the face but some how decided to wait another day until the darkness passes.

Rich or poor, old or young, 1 in 4 of us will suffer some kind of mental illness. I truly hope you are one of the fortunate.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"So we shouldn't feel sorry or sad for their passing because they took their own lives? We should treat them with contempt for doing so, should we?

And what about all the 'ordinary' people that commit suicide? Are they deserving only of our contempt?

I see only one person deserving of cuntempt on this forum.

In your words, the ordinary people who have day to day struggles, yes i will cry for. The ordinary people who take drugs to blunt out the woes, yes i will cry for.

The ordinary people who have made a lot and lost it, yes i will cry for.

But i fail to feel sorry for those who have financial wealth, wealth of a loving family but because of misuse of drugs and drinks for over a decade i will not cry for.

So because someone has a lot of money they can't gave personal demons that they fight with daily?

Money isn't the best all and end all in life. If you think.it is then cry for you!

Booze and drugs for over a decade!"

Do you drink or smoke?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a drug treatment practitioner.

substance abuse and mental health problems often go hand in hand.

It doesn't differentiate from rich or poor.

All those that suffer need help.

sadly the desperation some people feel has no end and suicide is the only release.

very sad.

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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"We have the single mother who's stressed out because she can't find the money to feed her kids. We look down on her.

We have the tramps we step over in the street 70% are ex military, they take a concoction of drugs and drink to drown out the horrors they've witnessed.

Then we have the rich and famous who get stressed out deciding which island to sail there boat over to, so that they can wash down there with a bottle of blue label Jonny Walker.

And who do we cry for!!

I guess SOME people on low wages could look at me with my nice car, modern flat, food and drink to fill my belly etc and wonder why I would have Black Dog Days, but I'll unashamedly admit that I've suffered from depression and I've stared suicide in the face but some how decided to wait another day until the darkness passes.

Rich or poor, old or young, 1 in 4 of us will suffer some kind of mental illness. I truly hope you are one of the fortunate."

My friend ive been there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So we shouldn't feel sorry or sad for their passing because they took their own lives? We should treat them with contempt for doing so, should we?

And what about all the 'ordinary' people that commit suicide? Are they deserving only of our contempt?

I see only one person deserving of cuntempt on this forum.

In your words, the ordinary people who have day to day struggles, yes i will cry for. The ordinary people who take drugs to blunt out the woes, yes i will cry for.

The ordinary people who have made a lot and lost it, yes i will cry for.

But i fail to feel sorry for those who have financial wealth, wealth of a loving family but because of misuse of drugs and drinks for over a decade i will not cry for.

So because someone has a lot of money they can't gave personal demons that they fight with daily?

Money isn't the best all and end all in life. If you think.it is then cry for you!

Booze and drugs for over a decade!"

As an attempt to cope with depression, which is a very real condition. It was that depression which ultimately took the life of a celebrity a few days ago. He did not overdose. He did not drink himself to the point that his body physically gave out. The method he used is well publicised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have the single mother who's stressed out because she can't find the money to feed her kids. We look down on her.

We have the tramps we step over in the street 70% are ex military, they take a concoction of drugs and drink to drown out the horrors they've witnessed.

Then we have the rich and famous who get stressed out deciding which island to sail there boat over to, so that they can wash down there with a bottle of blue label Jonny Walker.

And who do we cry for!!

I guess SOME people on low wages could look at me with my nice car, modern flat, food and drink to fill my belly etc and wonder why I would have Black Dog Days, but I'll unashamedly admit that I've suffered from depression and I've stared suicide in the face but some how decided to wait another day until the darkness passes.

Rich or poor, old or young, 1 in 4 of us will suffer some kind of mental illness. I truly hope you are one of the fortunate.

My friend ive been there!"

Then you should know better than to post what you did.

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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"So we shouldn't feel sorry or sad for their passing because they took their own lives? We should treat them with contempt for doing so, should we?

And what about all the 'ordinary' people that commit suicide? Are they deserving only of our contempt?

I see only one person deserving of cuntempt on this forum.

In your words, the ordinary people who have day to day struggles, yes i will cry for. The ordinary people who take drugs to blunt out the woes, yes i will cry for.

The ordinary people who have made a lot and lost it, yes i will cry for.

But i fail to feel sorry for those who have financial wealth, wealth of a loving family but because of misuse of drugs and drinks for over a decade i will not cry for.

So because someone has a lot of money they can't gave personal demons that they fight with daily?

Money isn't the best all and end all in life. If you think.it is then cry for you!

Booze and drugs for over a decade!

Do you drink or smoke? "

I drink yes, when i was younger on and off . Stopped when i was 24

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"So we shouldn't feel sorry or sad for their passing because they took their own lives? We should treat them with contempt for doing so, should we?

And what about all the 'ordinary' people that commit suicide? Are they deserving only of our contempt?

I see only one person deserving of cuntempt on this forum.

In your words, the ordinary people who have day to day struggles, yes i will cry for. The ordinary people who take drugs to blunt out the woes, yes i will cry for.

The ordinary people who have made a lot and lost it, yes i will cry for.

But i fail to feel sorry for those who have financial wealth, wealth of a loving family but because of misuse of drugs and drinks for over a decade i will not cry for.

So because someone has a lot of money they can't gave personal demons that they fight with daily?

Money isn't the best all and end all in life. If you think.it is then cry for you!

Booze and drugs for over a decade!

Do you drink or smoke?

I drink yes, when i was younger on and off . Stopped when i was 24"

I see.

You say you have suffered mental health problems. How wealthy were you when that happened?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a single mum of 3 children, have very little support and help. I work part time and I try my best. It's tough yes, sometimes rock bottom but I don't/didn't cry for myself...I cried for Robin Williams. I think that's called empathy

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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"We have the single mother who's stressed out because she can't find the money to feed her kids. We look down on her.

We have the tramps we step over in the street 70% are ex military, they take a concoction of drugs and drink to drown out the horrors they've witnessed.

Then we have the rich and famous who get stressed out deciding which island to sail there boat over to, so that they can wash down there with a bottle of blue label Jonny Walker.

And who do we cry for!!

I guess SOME people on low wages could look at me with my nice car, modern flat, food and drink to fill my belly etc and wonder why I would have Black Dog Days, but I'll unashamedly admit that I've suffered from depression and I've stared suicide in the face but some how decided to wait another day until the darkness passes.

Rich or poor, old or young, 1 in 4 of us will suffer some kind of mental illness. I truly hope you are one of the fortunate.

My friend ive been there!

Then you should know better than to post what you did."

Please read my post again.

Alot of A lister have everything around them haven't lost anything to trigger there low. When i was low i new what triggered it like many people. Not like many looking for a new high and not finding it

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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

Yikes. You know you can have sympathy for poor people and rich people alike?

It's not a competition.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Its like talking to a brick wall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Words fail me......................

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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"So we shouldn't feel sorry or sad for their passing because they took their own lives? We should treat them with contempt for doing so, should we?

And what about all the 'ordinary' people that commit suicide? Are they deserving only of our contempt?

I see only one person deserving of cuntempt on this forum.

In your words, the ordinary people who have day to day struggles, yes i will cry for. The ordinary people who take drugs to blunt out the woes, yes i will cry for.

The ordinary people who have made a lot and lost it, yes i will cry for.

But i fail to feel sorry for those who have financial wealth, wealth of a loving family but because of misuse of drugs and drinks for over a decade i will not cry for.

So because someone has a lot of money they can't gave personal demons that they fight with daily?

Money isn't the best all and end all in life. If you think.it is then cry for you!

Booze and drugs for over a decade!

Do you drink or smoke?

I drink yes, when i was younger on and off . Stopped when i was 24

I see.

You say you have suffered mental health problems. How wealthy were you when that happened? "

'i know where we are going, but I'm been honest'

a lot more money than what i have now.

and i never said i suffered mental health problems

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"So we shouldn't feel sorry or sad for their passing because they took their own lives? We should treat them with contempt for doing so, should we?

And what about all the 'ordinary' people that commit suicide? Are they deserving only of our contempt?

I see only one person deserving of cuntempt on this forum.

In your words, the ordinary people who have day to day struggles, yes i will cry for. The ordinary people who take drugs to blunt out the woes, yes i will cry for.

The ordinary people who have made a lot and lost it, yes i will cry for.

But i fail to feel sorry for those who have financial wealth, wealth of a loving family but because of misuse of drugs and drinks for over a decade i will not cry for.

So because someone has a lot of money they can't gave personal demons that they fight with daily?

Money isn't the best all and end all in life. If you think.it is then cry for you!

Booze and drugs for over a decade!

Do you drink or smoke?

I drink yes, when i was younger on and off . Stopped when i was 24

I see.

You say you have suffered mental health problems. How wealthy were you when that happened?

'i know where we are going, but I'm been honest'

a lot more money than what i have now.

and i never said i suffered mental health problems"

"My friend ive been there!"

A

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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"So we shouldn't feel sorry or sad for their passing because they took their own lives? We should treat them with contempt for doing so, should we?

And what about all the 'ordinary' people that commit suicide? Are they deserving only of our contempt?

I see only one person deserving of cuntempt on this forum.

In your words, the ordinary people who have day to day struggles, yes i will cry for. The ordinary people who take drugs to blunt out the woes, yes i will cry for.

The ordinary people who have made a lot and lost it, yes i will cry for.

But i fail to feel sorry for those who have financial wealth, wealth of a loving family but because of misuse of drugs and drinks for over a decade i will not cry for.

So because someone has a lot of money they can't gave personal demons that they fight with daily?

Money isn't the best all and end all in life. If you think.it is then cry for you!

Booze and drugs for over a decade!

Do you drink or smoke?

I drink yes, when i was younger on and off . Stopped when i was 24

I see.

You say you have suffered mental health problems. How wealthy were you when that happened?

'i know where we are going, but I'm been honest'

a lot more money than what i have now.

and i never said i suffered mental health problems

"My friend ive been there!"

A"

the peron in question said mental illness

that's when i replied ive been there.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Make up your mind, either you have or haven't because you've clearly contradicted yourself

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"So we shouldn't feel sorry or sad for their passing because they took their own lives? We should treat them with contempt for doing so, should we?

And what about all the 'ordinary' people that commit suicide? Are they deserving only of our contempt?

I see only one person deserving of cuntempt on this forum.

In your words, the ordinary people who have day to day struggles, yes i will cry for. The ordinary people who take drugs to blunt out the woes, yes i will cry for.

The ordinary people who have made a lot and lost it, yes i will cry for.

But i fail to feel sorry for those who have financial wealth, wealth of a loving family but because of misuse of drugs and drinks for over a decade i will not cry for.

So because someone has a lot of money they can't gave personal demons that they fight with daily?

Money isn't the best all and end all in life. If you think.it is then cry for you!

Booze and drugs for over a decade!

Do you drink or smoke?

I drink yes, when i was younger on and off . Stopped when i was 24

I see.

You say you have suffered mental health problems. How wealthy were you when that happened?

'i know where we are going, but I'm been honest'

a lot more money than what i have now.

and i never said i suffered mental health problems

"My friend ive been there!"

A

the peron in question said mental illness

that's when i replied ive been there."

So when you say "i never said i suffered mental health problems" but in response to mental illness "My friend ive been there!"............

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've no idea what your talking about

what I'm talking about are the famous people who have passed away and have taken their life or contributed to there own early departure.

Hope that helps, I'm not wanting to call out people names outof respect .

Would you not agree that some stressed out single mothers who can't feed their poor bairns have also contributed to their own problems/situation.

Either being far too generous to the would be father in the first place or far too hateful and spiteful thereafter.

Just where do you draw the line of who contibutes to what?

"

what about stressed out single moms whose husbands decided they no longer liked the idea of being married or being a father and fucked off to the other side of the world without contributing anything ever to his offspring.

i dont think i contributed anything to the situation i am in but i have contributed loads ever since being left alone to bring my child up.

Not all single moms are lazy baby making machines

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

are mental illness and mental heath problems no the same thing then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think its because people enjoyed watching his films so much they felt like they knew him and he was like the father or relative they wished they had.

been reading about him and can relate to how he felt even though he had so much to live for.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"We have the single mother who's stressed out because she can't find the money to feed her kids. We look down on her.

We have the tramps we step over in the street 70% are ex military, they take a concoction of drugs and drink to drown out the horrors they've witnessed.

Then we have the rich and famous who get stressed out deciding which island to sail there boat over to, so that they can wash down there with a bottle of blue label Jonny Walker.

And who do we cry for!!

I guess SOME people on low wages could look at me with my nice car, modern flat, food and drink to fill my belly etc and wonder why I would have Black Dog Days, but I'll unashamedly admit that I've suffered from depression and I've stared suicide in the face but some how decided to wait another day until the darkness passes.

Rich or poor, old or young, 1 in 4 of us will suffer some kind of mental illness. I truly hope you are one of the fortunate.

My friend ive been there!

Then you should know better than to post what you did.

Please read my post again.

Alot of A lister have everything around them haven't lost anything to trigger there low. When i was low i new what triggered it like many people. Not like many looking for a new high and not finding it"

you have no clue what triggers other peoples lows. you have admitted that when you were a lot wealthier than you are now you suffered mental illness (i will use your term as mine confused you earlier). How do you know hey have not lost anything. As much as celebs are in the limelight we really do only know a little about their lives.

ou cannot dictate wo has problems and who doesnt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have the single mother who's stressed out because she can't find the money to feed her kids. We look down on her.

We have the tramps we step over in the street 70% are ex military, they take a concoction of drugs and drink to drown out the horrors they've witnessed.

Then we have the rich and famous who get stressed out deciding which island to sail there boat over to, so that they can wash down there with a bottle of blue label Jonny Walker.

And who do we cry for!!

if the rich have worked hard for their cash.. I have no issue whatsoever how they enjoy their riches... good on them.

as for the homeless, again.. it is down to individual cases, some may have been dealt a bad deck and I wish them better fortune. Some may have trown it all away with addiction, I wish them successful treatment for their demons..

and as for the single mum, that she bring her child/ren up with love. If she is a breeding machine, I have little opinion. If she has been left by a partner to carry the responsibility, shame on him and good luck to her..

as always, there is a story behind every case. Treat each of them as an individual, it will shed a truer light."

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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I've no idea what your talking about

what I'm talking about are the famous people who have passed away and have taken their life or contributed to there own early departure.

Hope that helps, I'm not wanting to call out people names outof respect .

Would you not agree that some stressed out single mothers who can't feed their poor bairns have also contributed to their own problems/situation.

Either being far too generous to the would be father in the first place or far too hateful and spiteful thereafter.

Just where do you draw the line of who contibutes to what?

what about stressed out single moms whose husbands decided they no longer liked the idea of being married or being a father and fucked off to the other side of the world without contributing anything ever to his offspring.

i dont think i contributed anything to the situation i am in but i have contributed loads ever since being left alone to bring my child up.

Not all single moms are lazy baby making machines"

I hole hartely agree with you. Read my post in on your side

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I never understand the _iew that people who cry for the death of celebrities cannot also feel pain at the plight of the homeless and the destitute.

I can empathise and sympathise quite a lot. Its not restricted to one person at a time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've no idea what your talking about

what I'm talking about are the famous people who have passed away and have taken their life or contributed to there own early departure.

Hope that helps, I'm not wanting to call out people names outof respect .

Would you not agree that some stressed out single mothers who can't feed their poor bairns have also contributed to their own problems/situation.

Either being far too generous to the would be father in the first place or far too hateful and spiteful thereafter.

Just where do you draw the line of who contibutes to what?

what about stressed out single moms whose husbands decided they no longer liked the idea of being married or being a father and fucked off to the other side of the world without contributing anything ever to his offspring.

i dont think i contributed anything to the situation i am in but i have contributed loads ever since being left alone to bring my child up.

Not all single moms are lazy baby making machines

I hole hartely agree with you. Read my post in on your side"

I was responding to another poster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never understand the _iew that people who cry for the death of celebrities cannot also feel pain at the plight of the homeless and the destitute.

I can empathise and sympathise quite a lot. Its not restricted to one person at a time."

That's clearly because you don't have as perspective as the OP!

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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"are mental illness and mental heath problems no the same thing then?"

My Gp said people have illness, but forget that the brain sometimes need repairing as well. So off i went and got it repairs. Thus it wasn't an on going requiring procedures

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"are mental illness and mental heath problems no the same thing then?

My Gp said people have illness, but forget that the brain sometimes need repairing as well. So off i went and got it repairs. Thus it wasn't an on going requiring procedures "

thats doesnt answer the question.

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

A lot of you may have seen this but for those that haven't I think it explains depression quite well, in an easy to understand way.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XiCrniLQGYc

Of course everyone is different and everyone copes differently. There is no one type of depression and no one treatment, and sadly for some no treatments seem to work.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"are mental illness and mental heath problems no the same thing then?

My Gp said people have illness, but forget that the brain sometimes need repairing as well. So off i went and got it repairs. Thus it wasn't an on going requiring procedures "

With some people it is unfortunately.

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By *xpresMan
over a year ago

Elland


"I've no idea what your talking about

what I'm talking about are the famous people who have passed away and have taken their life or contributed to there own early departure.

Hope that helps, I'm not wanting to call out people names outof respect .

Do you think that those who take their own lives wake up one morning, bored, and think 'ah, stuffit, I think I'll hang myself today'?"

Depression is a killer

Its the one thing that when broken people cant see

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I think the op needs educating

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"We have the single mother who's stressed out because she can't find the money to feed her kids. We look down on her.

"
I dislike the "we" in that paragraph immensely.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

OP, you know me and have seen me very broken.

I'm surprised that your stance is not to accept that circumstances, surroundings, appearing to have everything means nothing to a mind that is unwell.

Debt affects some but not others. Addiction by it's very nature suggests less than robust mental wellbeing.

Some of us are just more resilient than others.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

There is a piece on the Guardian website by Mary Hamilton "Don't kill your readers" which is worth a read. OP, I think you will see it supports your _iew and in the sense of media reporting and the context of services available here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having everything does not preclude you from depression or any other mental illness, in much the same way as being a millionaire doesn't make you immune to say, flu.

I don't think anyone who hasn't had depression can truly appreciate the darkness that can blight one's life especially when the sufferer is blessed with wealth or a great talent to make others laugh.

My only hope is that mental health is talked about openly and the taboos surrounding it are dispelled.

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