FabSwingers.com forum: Women never send first message

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why is that? I suppose you don't need to do the leg work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do...when someone catches my eye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can assure you they do mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't send, only reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hussies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is that? I suppose you don't need to do the leg work?"

yes they do,,i get quite a few ladies message me 1st

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had several first messages from single ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't be bothered. Every guy who signs up and is interested will message the women anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send a fair few from my single profile and I have to say, I've had way more success by doing this than waiting for guys to message me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they do. Nearly all my friends sent the first message

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Well that seems to be that theory busted!

Next question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well that seems to be that theory busted!

Next question?

The meaning of life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's not strictly true but I am sceptical when they do if they haven't been on here more than a month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they defo do, i dont even message anyone first anymore to be honest only the odd ones that i think mmm when i see them haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maibe once in a while they send a message first, its rare as the afrikan tiger lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had a few message me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is that? I suppose you don't need to do the leg work?"

Why do you think they don't?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They do but not very often same as if your out to be fair the man usually makes tge move ! Even if there dying to chat to you there woman there little fuckers lol but wouldn't have it any other way

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Well that seems to be that theory busted!

Next question?

The meaning of life?"

42.

Next!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We quite often send the first message

Missus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no I don't. I do get lots of messages but my mum always said don't chase after men because it makes you look sad and desperate and if they are interested they will come to you.

the majority of men prefer younger, slimmer women.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'd rather choose to message people who interest me. The majority of messages I receive do not. I don't feel sad and desperate though. I suspect things have moved on a little now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they do. I get loads from women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well that seems to be that theory busted!

Next question?

The meaning of life?

42.

Next!!

What is the question to the answer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been known to

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Am too shy!

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Well that seems to be that theory busted!

Next question?

The meaning of life?

42.

Next!!

What is the question to the answer?

The question IS the answer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no I don't. I do get lots of messages but my mum always said don't chase after men because it makes you look sad and desperate and if they are interested they will come to you.

the majority of men prefer younger, slimmer women."

I don't know your mum but I am guessing she was not talking about fab when she said that

Sending a first message is not sad or desperate. Now if you send another 5 after not getting a response from number one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now if you send another 5 after not getting a response from number one."

You've got to make sure - what if they change their minds?!

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Now if you send another 5 after not getting a response from number one.

You've got to make sure - what if they change their minds?!"

Women!

Soooooooo indecisive!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now if you send another 5 after not getting a response from number one.

You've got to make sure - what if they change their minds?!

Women!

Soooooooo indecisive!!

Exactly!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I get a lot of women sending initial messages. Usually insults though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get a lot of women sending initial messages. Usually insults though.

Ha ha, some of us, err i mean them, are not really women though.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I get a lot of women sending initial messages. Usually insults though.

Probably all your fake single bi fem profiles - it'll be strike action next!

They've formed a union !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get a lot of women sending initial messages. Usually insults though.

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I get loads of them.. jealousy springs to mind, that's y they do it lol.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Don't mind me, just laughing to myself at something

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

They do mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try adding some pictures to your profile. Hopefully it will help attract what your looking for.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"I get a lot of women sending initial messages. Usually insults though.

Probably all your fake single bi fem profiles - it'll be strike action next!

They've formed a union !

I know! I think there are more that are sentient now than there are dumb profiles. You would think they would adore their creator but no! Pure insults!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a lady message me first in 1997 so they do

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

i rarely send a first message if its something I read on forum and want to get in touch I may do then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've sent a few messages first in the past but i think i set my sighs to high as not a single guy who i have messaged first has ever replied, so now i just reply to men i like who mail me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive sent loads today in a face pic thingy

generally I dont as tend to go partys and clubs so im always meeting new people and meets ive met before. Not anybody in my area to my taste but did spot a newbie other day put in hotlist, he fabbed my pics I did his but gonna wait see if he gets a veri then I pounce

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
over a year ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)

I tend to find women sending a wink or just messaging after a comment in the forums but that's how I have " bumped" into some of the nicest of people here....women or otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is that? I suppose you don't need to do the leg work?"

May do Its probably they don't see enough in your profile to make you a good enough proposition to do so.

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples

"Well that seems to be that theory busted!

Next question?

The meaning of life?

42.

Next!!

What is the question to the answer?"

Cheese!

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