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How many messages do you send?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Message for the men really. As women only need to put a blank profile up and you get more enquires than selling £50 notes for £20, I know I've tried it and was shocked in more ways than one.

I admit I do spend more time than I should on here, but I send very few messages, admittedly with no success, probably very well deserved.

I was just wondering how many messages do you send out on average.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Some. It depends how much I look and how many profiles catch my eye.

Sometimes women send first messages.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

7 because bisexual men are only allowed odd numbers.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"7 because bisexual men are only allowed odd numbers. "

I don't think he meant per person. Sex pest

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"7 because bisexual men are only allowed odd numbers.

I don't think he meant per person. Sex pest "

Oh! 836 then.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I tend to only message friends or posters on threads. Mainly though I am a reactive messenger not pro-active.

So 42.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I don't send any messages.... unless I haven't had "it" in a while...

The great thing about MOST (not all) guys, post a pic of a meaty cock, put "who wants it up them" in the status and I get inundated with messages ...

I gave up trying to meet lasses months ago... less stressful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only occasionally send a message in response to a forum post, usually when I want to be caring or helpful as doing so on the public forums would ruin my reputation

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

To new people, I average less than one a week, new members get inundated with messages so I tend to wait until they have been a few weeks first, by which time, the profile has gone anyway.

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By *uppy ConquerorMan
over a year ago

dundee

I sent 4 yesterday all to different people and got 4 replies. Wasn't the replies i wanted, but at least i never felt like i was talking to myself.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I tend to only message friends or posters on threads. Mainly though I am a reactive messenger not pro-active.

So 42."

Make it 43*

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IN YA DREAMS MATEY-BOI!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One or two a week at most,

Thats if you don't include friends

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


" As women only need to put a blank profile up and you get more enquires than selling £50 notes for £20, I know I've tried it and was shocked in more ways than one.

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You put up a blank womans profile ?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"I tend to only message friends or posters on threads. Mainly though I am a reactive messenger not pro-active.

So 42.

Make it 43*

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IN YA DREAMS MATEY-BOI!!!!!

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Answer my message you bitch!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


" As women only need to put a blank profile up and you get more enquires than selling £50 notes for £20, I know I've tried it and was shocked in more ways than one.

You put up a blank womans profile ? "

I though that too but then I thought he probably works for Sydney University and it was a research project so it was ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send my standard copy n paste message to every profile within a 200 mile radius every couple of weeks. I get about 2 replies, chat for a bit, then get bored and have a wank instead.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"I send my standard copy n paste message to every profile within a 200 mile radius every couple of weeks. I get about 2 replies, chat for a bit, then get bored and have a wank instead. "

To be fair you have a very narrow age requirement. Chances are they have departed before replying to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I send my standard copy n paste message to every profile within a 200 mile radius every couple of weeks. I get about 2 replies, chat for a bit, then get bored and have a wank instead. "

Message me on a Monday, not actually in your age range but most Mondays I feel as if I am

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE


"I send my standard copy n paste message to every profile within a 200 mile radius every couple of weeks. I get about 2 replies, chat for a bit, then get bored and have a wank instead.

To be fair you have a very narrow age requirement. Chances are they have departed before replying to you "

hi lov the profile , there's more information on a blocked profile. but as a female it enough..Connie x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" As women only need to put a blank profile up and you get more enquires than selling £50 notes for £20, I know I've tried it and was shocked in more ways than one.

You put up a blank womans profile ?

I though that too but then I thought he probably works for Sydney University and it was a research project so it was ok. "

In answer to both questions, yes I did, and if I did work for Sydney University I had plenty of new material. Left it for a day had 200+ messages.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


" As women only need to put a blank profile up and you get more enquires than selling £50 notes for £20, I know I've tried it and was shocked in more ways than one.

You put up a blank womans profile ?

I though that too but then I thought he probably works for Sydney University and it was a research project so it was ok.

In answer to both questions, yes I did, and if I did work for Sydney University I had plenty of new material. Left it for a day had 200+ messages."

Why did you do that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" .

Why did you do that? "

I was bored I suppose, just wanted to see what happened, didn't have to wait long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only reply now ; To shield my delicate ego from the ruthless sabres of rejection or worse , the devastating silent dismissal.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I only reply now ; To shield my delicate ego from the ruthless sabres of rejection or worse , the devastating silent dismissal."

Shall I send you a 'wanna wank?' message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only reply now ; To shield my delicate ego from the ruthless sabres of rejection or worse , the devastating silent dismissal.

Shall I send you a 'wanna wank?' message? "

If it is in good taste with comprehensive instructions, by all means.

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