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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A very simple water jug, bought from ikea reduced me to tears tonight when I chipped it.... nothing spectacular about it, but....

I bought it with my lovely when we were setting up home together.

We were full of hope and dreams for the future, we had our family and were complete.

Circumstances took my lovely from me and that stupid chip on the jug seemed to bring all my grief flooding back and the tears wouldn't stop.

Strange how the simplest of things evoke such memories and intense feelings.

Hugs to all who need and want them tonight. Laine xxxxxx

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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!

(((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))) to you Laine.

I can only imagine how you are feeling and take comfort in how strong you are in the face of things, always looking out for others when you are falling to bits inside. Be kind to yourself xxxxxxxx

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

A great big hug from me. Z xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A very simple water jug, bought from ikea reduced me to tears tonight when I chipped it.... nothing spectacular about it, but....

I bought it with my lovely when we were setting up home together.

We were full of hope and dreams for the future, we had our family and were complete.

Circumstances took my lovely from me and that stupid chip on the jug seemed to bring all my grief flooding back and the tears wouldn't stop.

Strange how the simplest of things evoke such memories and intense feelings.

Hugs to all who need and want them tonight. Laine xxxxxx"

I am the same way...so big hugs from me xxx

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"A very simple water jug, bought from ikea reduced me to tears tonight when I chipped it.... nothing spectacular about it, but....

I bought it with my lovely when we were setting up home together.

We were full of hope and dreams for the future, we had our family and were complete.

Circumstances took my lovely from me and that stupid chip on the jug seemed to bring all my grief flooding back and the tears wouldn't stop.

Strange how the simplest of things evoke such memories and intense feelings.

Hugs to all who need and want them tonight. Laine xxxxxx"

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Hugggssss}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

awww hunni have a big hug from me! its the little things like that that bring memories back! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A very simple water jug, bought from ikea reduced me to tears tonight when I chipped it.... nothing spectacular about it, but....

I bought it with my lovely when we were setting up home together.

We were full of hope and dreams for the future, we had our family and were complete.

Circumstances took my lovely from me and that stupid chip on the jug seemed to bring all my grief flooding back and the tears wouldn't stop.

Strange how the simplest of things evoke such memories and intense feelings.

Hugs to all who need and want them tonight. Laine xxxxxx"

How kind and unselfish of you to share this precious memory with us here tonight - thank you xx

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"A very simple water jug, bought from ikea reduced me to tears tonight when I chipped it.... nothing spectacular about it, but....

I bought it with my lovely when we were setting up home together.

We were full of hope and dreams for the future, we had our family and were complete.

Circumstances took my lovely from me and that stupid chip on the jug seemed to bring all my grief flooding back and the tears wouldn't stop.

Strange how the simplest of things evoke such memories and intense feelings.

Hugs to all who need and want them tonight. Laine xxxxxx"

Hugs back aplenty. xx

Can you not think of your chipped beloved jug as a symbol of your own lovely man, no one is perfect, i am sure he had a slight "chip" somewhere?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

(((((((HUG))))))) xxxxxxxxx

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Great big hugs from us too xxx

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

(((((((((HUGS)))))))) and big Femmefatale kisses XXXXXXXXXXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two big hugs from me. One for today and one tommorow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A very simple water jug, bought from ikea reduced me to tears tonight when I chipped it.... nothing spectacular about it, but....

I bought it with my lovely when we were setting up home together.

We were full of hope and dreams for the future, we had our family and were complete.

Circumstances took my lovely from me and that stupid chip on the jug seemed to bring all my grief flooding back and the tears wouldn't stop.

Strange how the simplest of things evoke such memories and intense feelings.

Hugs to all who need and want them tonight. Laine xxxxxx

Hugs back aplenty. xx

Can you not think of your chipped beloved jug as a symbol of your own lovely man, no one is perfect, i am sure he had a slight "chip" somewhere?"

He certainly had a few flaws and a cracked sense of humour.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for the hugs and the PM's xxxxx

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

Nothing wrong with attaching memories to objects. As for hugs well they come when you need them and looks like you have had a few. I hope the jug can be restored some way xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs!

I have moments like that myself!

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"A very simple water jug, bought from ikea reduced me to tears tonight when I chipped it.... nothing spectacular about it, but....

I bought it with my lovely when we were setting up home together.

We were full of hope and dreams for the future, we had our family and were complete.

Circumstances took my lovely from me and that stupid chip on the jug seemed to bring all my grief flooding back and the tears wouldn't stop.

Strange how the simplest of things evoke such memories and intense feelings.

Hugs to all who need and want them tonight. Laine xxxxxx

Hugs back aplenty. xx

Can you not think of your chipped beloved jug as a symbol of your own lovely man, no one is perfect, i am sure he had a slight "chip" somewhere?"

I think that this is a lovely way to put a positive thought on this - it's sad that the jugs been chipped but what a poignant way to look at it - Z

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

hugs laine xxx

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By *lumsy colinMan
over a year ago

basingstoke

hugs to laine i know exactly how you feel about your jug and have to say this am really impressed by the amazing answers from everyone on this posting today hope you keep your chipped jug to remind me of your perfect imperfect man xx

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By *alakMan
over a year ago

Milan

a silent, sympathetic, long and tight hug. remember me to give it to you in person soon

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

big massive hugs from me hun {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

some days it just hts you like that, although i have not lost someone special to me i do have days when i just need a hug and i know that the lovely people on here are always happy to give them xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you, and how right you both are Colin and Eve.

The people here never cease to impress me with their warmth insight and empathy.

And Galak.... see you friday?

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By *onny BonesMan
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

HUGS and even more HUGS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

((((((((((everyone on fabswingers)))))))))))))))

(((((((rugby mfm)))))))

(((((site owners/bosses))))))))

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By *ornyandnymphoCouple
over a year ago

poole

Big hugs from us both laine xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs

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By *iamondladyWoman
over a year ago

titsville

(((((Hugs)))))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And great big ((((((hugs)))))) for you laine....mwah! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BIG ((((HUGS)))) from us both Laine xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for your hugs and big squeezy hugs back, I'm feeling the love and a happy bunny again this morning. I've bounced right back because of all the love.

Hugs aplenty for anyone else who needs one.

You peeps rock!!!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and a belated Hug from me Laine and I'll gladly accept one back in return

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