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"beginning to feel a bit silly....I've always been a bit paranoid that people, having seen my photos will be disappointed when they meet me. I think I look much better in my pics than in the flesh, been told many times, that I look just like my pics and not to worry, but can't help it! Am I the only one?? Do any of you worry that people will be disappointed after having high expectations from your pics? Or am I just being a silly moo?" Ive looked through your pics...ur beautiful) x | |||
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"beginning to feel a bit silly....I've always been a bit paranoid that people, having seen my photos will be disappointed when they meet me. I think I look much better in my pics than in the flesh, been told many times, that I look just like my pics and not to worry, but can't help it! Am I the only one?? Do any of you worry that people will be disappointed after having high expectations from your pics? Or am I just being a silly moo?" You look good in the pics and in person. So yes you are being a silly moo | |||
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"I don't photograph well. I reckon I look better, and less fat, in person than in photos. Those who've met me would have to confirm or deny that though because I'm not exactly an objective judge." You look great Your photos don't bring out your intelligence. | |||
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"beginning to feel a bit silly....I've always been a bit paranoid that people, having seen my photos will be disappointed when they meet me. I think I look much better in my pics than in the flesh, been told many times, that I look just like my pics and not to worry, but can't help it! Am I the only one?? Do any of you worry that people will be disappointed after having high expectations from your pics? Or am I just being a silly moo?" . Snap. And you are not being a silly moo | |||
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"I am exactly the same. I always think I look better in my pics or cam than what I see in the mirror... But saying that, I ain't here to impress so it's not really an issue! Once you've learnt to love/like yourself, other people's opinions don't matter.. " I think that's the most important thing. Learning to love/like yourself means you're not relying on others to make you feel good. | |||
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"A ladies size does not bother me too much as long as it does not bother her. I have met women thatcher get undressed with the tiniest bit of light in or only under the sheets and parts of her body are no touch areas. All of which is silly I can tell someone's size even in clothes" You met Thatcher? You kinky sod! A | |||
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"beginning to feel a bit silly....I've always been a bit paranoid that people, having seen my photos will be disappointed when they meet me. I think I look much better in my pics than in the flesh, been told many times, that I look just like my pics and not to worry, but can't help it! Am I the only one?? Do any of you worry that people will be disappointed after having high expectations from your pics? Or am I just being a silly moo?" If you at bothered about your body type, there's only one person who will be able to change it.. Gaining minor complements online, from people who haven't seen you, isn't in reality going to do anything for your self image or actual confidence. There is nothing worse for me, than a woman who isn't comfortable with herself. It shows so much and you can feel their discomfort when near naked. | |||
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"beginning to feel a bit silly....I've always been a bit paranoid that people, having seen my photos will be disappointed when they meet me. I think I look much better in my pics than in the flesh, been told many times, that I look just like my pics and not to worry, but can't help it! Am I the only one?? Do any of you worry that people will be disappointed after having high expectations from your pics? Or am I just being a silly moo?" Looking at your verifications, I don't think you have a single thing to worry about. Chin up | |||
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"Do any of you worry that people will be disappointed after having high expectations from your pics?" All the time. Although once the meet gets going I'm OK | |||
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"beginning to feel a bit silly....I've always been a bit paranoid that people, having seen my photos will be disappointed when they meet me. I think I look much better in my pics than in the flesh, been told many times, that I look just like my pics and not to worry, but can't help it! Am I the only one?? Do any of you worry that people will be disappointed after having high expectations from your pics? Or am I just being a silly moo? If you at bothered about your body type, there's only one person who will be able to change it.. Gaining minor complements online, from people who haven't seen you, isn't in reality going to do anything for your self image or actual confidence. There is nothing worse for me, than a woman who isn't comfortable with herself. It shows so much and you can feel their discomfort when near naked. " ' I'm not bothered about my body type! I like bring a bigger, curvy woman, if I didn't, I'd put down my pie and head to the gym. I simply wouldn't want someone to expect something they ain't gonna get! There is nothing worse to me than a man who judges a woman on her own self esteem! | |||
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"I am exactly the same. I always think I look better in my pics or cam than what I see in the mirror... But saying that, I ain't here to impress so it's not really an issue! Once you've learnt to love/like yourself, other people's opinions don't matter.. I think that's the most important thing. Learning to love/like yourself means you're not relying on others to make you feel good." | |||
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"beginning to feel a bit silly....I've always been a bit paranoid that people, having seen my photos will be disappointed when they meet me. I think I look much better in my pics than in the flesh, been told many times, that I look just like my pics and not to worry, but can't help it! Am I the only one?? Do any of you worry that people will be disappointed after having high expectations from your pics? Or am I just being a silly moo?" You don't have a belly and you have a waist. Great underwear too. | |||
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"I have always had what my family describe as an "interesting face" and until recently always had a slim body but drugs have me a size 14/16 now, strange to get used to as last time I wore size 14 clothes I was pregnant! Whatever size I am and no matter how knackered my chops look I manage (mostly) to keep a sense of humour and accept my body the way it is, lumps bumps and missing bits if I'm comfortable with me then so should others and if they are not ...... I release them back into the wild with all their body parts intact. " Laine, you will always be Laine no matter what size you are.....you are amazing just the way you are xx | |||
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"I have always had what my family describe as an "interesting face" and until recently always had a slim body but drugs have me a size 14/16 now, strange to get used to as last time I wore size 14 clothes I was pregnant! Whatever size I am and no matter how knackered my chops look I manage (mostly) to keep a sense of humour and accept my body the way it is, lumps bumps and missing bits if I'm comfortable with me then so should others and if they are not ...... I release them back into the wild with all their body parts intact. Laine, you will always be Laine no matter what size you are.....you are amazing just the way you are xx " Thank you for that. xxx | |||
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"beginning to feel a bit silly....I've always been a bit paranoid that people, having seen my photos will be disappointed when they meet me. I think I look much better in my pics than in the flesh, been told many times, that I look just like my pics and not to worry, but can't help it! Am I the only one?? Do any of you worry that people will be disappointed after having high expectations from your pics? Or am I just being a silly moo?" This is me to a T. I'm a size 16 probably bordering 18 at the moment and I know my pics look a lot thinner because of the angles and the steel boned corsets! Find myself having to lower people's expectations before they actually meet me. Having said that, I think everyone picks their good angles, men and their cock pics included, so we're all at it! | |||
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"beginning to feel a bit silly....I've always been a bit paranoid that people, having seen my photos will be disappointed when they meet me. I think I look much better in my pics than in the flesh, been told many times, that I look just like my pics and not to worry, but can't help it! Am I the only one?? Do any of you worry that people will be disappointed after having high expectations from your pics? Or am I just being a silly moo?" This is me in a nutshell! Ive always done it and the doubt will probably always creep in just before that first meet with someone new. As others have said who in their right mind is going to put up a bad pic of themselves on the internet its just about trying to get the balance right of a realistic but flattering looking picture of yourself. Although we cant please everyone on here! | |||
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"beginning to feel a bit silly....I've always been a bit paranoid that people, having seen my photos will be disappointed when they meet me. I think I look much better in my pics than in the flesh, been told many times, that I look just like my pics and not to worry, but can't help it! Am I the only one?? Do any of you worry that people will be disappointed after having high expectations from your pics? Or am I just being a silly moo? This is me to a T. I'm a size 16 probably bordering 18 at the moment and I know my pics look a lot thinner because of the angles and the steel boned corsets! Find myself having to lower people's expectations before they actually meet me. Having said that, I think everyone picks their good angles, men and their cock pics included, so we're all at it! " Gorgeous pics | |||
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"I'm the opposite, I look less terrible in life than in my pictures. My big worry with meets is not being as entertaining as people seem to expect me to be. Ms Dangerouslycurvy, I met you at Jaydee's Social and I thought you looked red hot. You've got curves, but they are nice and you have such a warm smile I doubt anyone would notice. And these aren't cheap words to get a shag, as you live closer to some of the places in Star Wars than to me. " I'd second Tina's comments. I tell people I am fat but they think it's a bad word and tell me that I am being hard on myself. I know I am fat and I can dress it up anyway I want but it won't change that fact. | |||
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"beginning to feel a bit silly....I've always been a bit paranoid that people, having seen my photos will be disappointed when they meet me. I think I look much better in my pics than in the flesh, been told many times, that I look just like my pics and not to worry, but can't help it! Am I the only one?? Do any of you worry that people will be disappointed after having high expectations from your pics? Or am I just being a silly moo? You don't have a belly and you have a waist. Great underwear too. " I do have a belly! It's the awesome undies that hide it! lol Thankyou! | |||
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