FabSwingers.com forum: Male to male compliments

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have my own opinion on this, but wondered what others thought.

Why is it considered far more of a social norm for a woman to compliment another woman, than it is a male to another male?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother me in the slightest.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I happily compliment anyone if its genuine. On here I am a little more cautious as have had enough ' Wanna suck my cock ?' messages thanks.

Good thread and shows your name is very apt. SB

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think its the influence of religion largely, that inflated fears and loathing of gaiety and men were press ganged into becoming cyborg unemotional and hardened freaks of masculinity that didnt dare whisper much other than aggression with other blokes.

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

"Doesn't bother me in the slightest."

Or me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure to be honest. I wonder if it's deemed to be a sign of weakness, not very masculine a bit like men showing emotion?

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

So what is your theory, OP?

Men in Britain don't hold hands either.

Put the ball in the back of the net with gay abandon & hetero image subsides! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've noticed it doesn't happen often on this site. Although my group of mates, all who claim to be straight, compliment each other from time to time

I think I've passed a few compliments to men on here but not often I must admit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genuine compliments are nice, but i will say I'm apprehensive about receiving them from friend and very skeptical lol

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

It doesn't bother me really although because I prefer the female form I struggle to see too much beauty in the male form.

However, nice tits OP xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its dead poofy if you ask me

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've complimented a couple of guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It doesn't bother me really although because I prefer the female form I struggle to see too much beauty in the male form.

However, nice tits OP xxx"

Nice arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've complimented a couple of guys. "

Nice....package

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"It doesn't bother me really although because I prefer the female form I struggle to see too much beauty in the male form.

However, nice tits OP xxx

Nice arse

Cheers babe, you've got dreamy eyes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will it make u gay ??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It doesn't bother me really although because I prefer the female form I struggle to see too much beauty in the male form.

However, nice tits OP xxx

Nice arse

Cheers babe, you've got dreamy eyes x"

Ooh thank you kind sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im not a man, but i do tend to add the bit 'as a straight lass i just wanna say i think ....'

for some reason, maybe to indicate its not a sexual thing in fear that she might think im coming onto her..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother me in the slightest, in fact the other day in work I had a guy walk up to me to say nice beard lol (should point out its a tidy styled beard and not a Santa beard)

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

"im not a man, but i do tend to add the bit 'as a straight lass i just wanna say i think ....'

for some reason, maybe to indicate its not a sexual thing in fear that she might think im coming onto her..

But why does a compliment have to be taken in a sexual manner, if you get over that then it makes for a far brighter world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women look beautiful to everyone . I like cocks but don't find men attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im not a man, but i do tend to add the bit 'as a straight lass i just wanna say i think ....'

for some reason, maybe to indicate its not a sexual thing in fear that she might think im coming onto her..

But why does a compliment have to be taken in a sexual manner, if you get over that then it makes for a far brighter world"

it doesnt,, i just add it because im worried that on a site like this it might be a sign of showing interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can find men attractive in a non-sexual way and see men looking good or doing or saying things I am impressed by that might cause me to pass a compliment without the hint of a sexual undertone.

On here however there is an ever present sexual undertone. But if Wish to pass a compliment I will. Often it is with a bit of humour which makes it less embarrassing I guess.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

swaggers in a manly way .. bear hugs one or two raises a glass and shakes hands .. with a firm grip . .. and breezes out again .. hi bladey . mysterious .. brighton sexy brain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men have more important things on their mind,like sex,beer and sport

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I suppose it depends what or who you're complimenting. I don't think I've complimented strangers, friends yes. I've had guys come upto me and say nice shirt/shoes etc and I've thanked them. Deep down I wonder if they're gay, but it's still nice to hear. I find compliments off women are easier on my ear

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By *himanMan
over a year ago

chichester

Doesnt bother me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not sure to be honest. I wonder if it's deemed to be a sign of weakness, not very masculine a bit like men showing emotion? "

I put much of it down to my Polish roots. We kiss men and women when we say hello or goodbye. The same thing with compliments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm comfortable enough with myself not to worry about it and wouldn't feel uncomfortable when giving a guy a compliment.. Like nice car mate or great shot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm comfortable enough with myself not to worry about it and wouldn't feel uncomfortable when giving a guy a compliment.. Like nice car mate or great shot

But would you say your hair looks nice today?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im cool with it and i think we all like to hear compliments i it gives me a warm glow and i will compliment other men i see no problem with it does not mean i want to jump in bed with them and the same for woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no but thats a cool cut, cool pony tail, mowhark or do you use bic pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother me

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Doesn't bother me

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you got a great six pack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm comfortable enough with myself not to worry about it and wouldn't feel uncomfortable when giving a guy a compliment.. Like nice car mate or great shot

But would you say your hair looks nice today? "

Not something that would roll off the tongue but would have no problems saying that shirt looks good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm comfortable enough with myself not to worry about it and wouldn't feel uncomfortable when giving a guy a compliment.. Like nice car mate or great shot

But would you say your hair looks nice today?

Not something that would roll off the tongue but would have no problems saying that shirt looks good. "

would you ask a male friend if your bum looked big in your new trousers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So what is your theory, OP?

Men in Britain don't hold hands either.

Put the ball in the back of the net with gay abandon & hetero image subsides! lol

yes they do, here in Brighton lots of gay couples hold hands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is funny we seem to be programmed to take the piss out of each other, but find it hard to complement each other.

Although a few days a go I bumped into some one who I hadn't seen in a few years, he had lost a shed load of weight. I felt it ok to mention that fact, so we can compliment each other just in safe topics.

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

"So what is your theory, OP?

Men in Britain don't hold hands either.

Put the ball in the back of the net with gay abandon & hetero image subsides! lol

yes they do, here in Brighton lots of gay couples hold hands. "

sorry I was referring to male friends rather than lovers..

check out north Africa for example.

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By *uperGuy68Man
over a year ago

Southampton

"It is funny we seem to be programmed to take the piss out of each other, but find it hard to complement each other. "

This kind of sums it up really!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know why guys do that. If they think givong or receiving a compliment affects their sexuality..there's some insecurities within themselves.

I have no issues with men, women or TVs/Ts complimenting me or trying to start a conversation with me.

Just because we speak doesn't mean my sexuality will change. I just like to speak to everybody and have a laugh. I think that's what it comes down to.

...it's only then do i think you'd realise how openminded and laidback people really are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The reaction of the complementee is the pertinent issue here .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think it is odd for guys compliment other gents. the other day, i was have drinks with my friends (a cpl and another single girl ) and the one lady goes to the other nice shirt and shoes. I mocked them and complimented my friends shirt and shoes. It just doesn't seem right!

on the other hand, i love it when i am fucking a guys wife and he compliments on me fucking her hard and that i have nice talents in bringing his wife to pleasure.

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