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By *aurenka OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

Are you perfectly fine being single, or your would like some great relationship?

If yes, could you be in monogamist relation?

Would you be able to live without swinging, or you think you would got some extra sex on a side?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes I could...but having been on the scene for many many years...I have some proper friendships(that do not revolve around sex), I'd probably be quite open to any new partner that needs to know my past.I believe I'm honest and loyal..so it starts with no lies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very happy being single and I'm not looking for a partner.....

But saying that if it happened then it would be nice

I'm more likely to meet someone like minded off here than in vanilla life where swinging is already part of the vocabulary, but it would very much depend on the relationship between us if we decided to carry on swinging or if vanilla introduce it

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By *aul.J.JMan
over a year ago

Sedgley

I would love a relationship.....just need to find a woman to put up with me!!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think genuine nice people are hard to find, so I prefer to stay single its actually hard to find a nice girl now adays so I just don't bother looking, and if I did get a nice girl then I wouldn't do any of this as I don't like sharing :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im fine being single, though i would in time like a relationship and be a family.

its not practical at the moment though, but open minded too it. no it wouldnt be a swinging one

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I never want a relationship inside or outside swinging, never....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy being single as its much less complicated. I don't miss having a partner around as I have my children, great friends and family. Also Fab lol. In my last relationship we swung for a bit together but I wasn't keen. I doubt I'd do that again so for now I'm happy on my own. I'm selfish and like my house as is lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not long out of a relationship so yes I'm ok being single

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By *aurenka OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"I never want a relationship inside or outside swinging, never...."

can u explain why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not looking for a partner if it happens it happens but can't see it myself and I'm ok with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Are you perfectly fine being single, or your would like some great relationship?

If yes, could you be in monogamist relation?

Would you be able to live without swinging, or you think you would got some extra sex on a side?"

im fine being single whilst im with my kids or busy at work. bur on a night time when they are in bed i miss the cuddles and the intimacy...

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"yes I could...but having been on the scene for many many years...I have some proper friendships(that do not revolve around sex), I'd probably be quite open to any new partner that needs to know my past.I believe I'm honest and loyal..so it starts with no lies."

This!

I pick it up and put it down as and when I'm single or not but I have too many mates that I wouldn't give up so having a relationship means trust. Not every bloke is cool with the fact that I have sexual history with a lot of my friends. There's no danger I'd start something with someone who was unaware of my past. Honesty and communication are everything.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I never want a relationship inside or outside swinging, never....

can u explain why?"

yeah sure, I have a fantastic non compromising life that I enjoy to the max. I am way too fixed in my ways, I am totally self absorbed and most things have to revolve round me and I will not share what I have.

and I am totally self aware and honest about it

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

It would be nice to find someone but I would like swinging involved in it as well

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've been single for 8+ years now, so not sure I could have another one, though I do say, never say never as you never know who you will meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm perfectly happy being single, that said, I have lots of relationships. My 'multi' relationships are all of different levels, some short term some long term. Some inside this scene, most outside of it. The only constant throughout all of them is no sexual exclusivity. I enjoy variety, the chase and the first kiss too much.

I have been monogomous in the past and I know I could be in the future, but simply don't want to be. Single life suits me right now, and I suit it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes I could...but having been on the scene for many many years...I have some proper friendships(that do not revolve around sex), I'd probably be quite open to any new partner that needs to know my past.I believe I'm honest and loyal..so it starts with no lies."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never want a relationship inside or outside swinging, never....

can u explain why?

yeah sure, I have a fantastic non compromising life that I enjoy to the max. I am way too fixed in my ways, I am totally self absorbed and most things have to revolve round me and I will not share what I have.

and I am totally self aware and honest about it"

I was gonna say in short he's a selfish loveable cunt lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never want a relationship inside or outside swinging, never....

can u explain why?

yeah sure, I have a fantastic non compromising life that I enjoy to the max. I am way too fixed in my ways, I am totally self absorbed and most things have to revolve round me and I will not share what I have.

and I am totally self aware and honest about it"

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I never want a relationship inside or outside swinging, never....

can u explain why?

yeah sure, I have a fantastic non compromising life that I enjoy to the max. I am way too fixed in my ways, I am totally self absorbed and most things have to revolve round me and I will not share what I have.

and I am totally self aware and honest about it

I was gonna say in short he's a selfish loveable cunt lol"

you are too kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Are you perfectly fine being single, or your would like some great relationship?

If yes, could you be in monogamist relation?

Would you be able to live without swinging, or you think you would got some extra sex on a side?"

I am happy as a single guy, however I am not totally against getting in a relationship... Never say never... And yeah, I didn't think I could ever be monogamous in a relationship, but then I got in a few and I was faithful (would you look at that lool)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes I could...but having been on the scene for many many years...I have some proper friendships(that do not revolve around sex), I'd probably be quite open to any new partner that needs to know my past.I believe I'm honest and loyal..so it starts with no lies.

This!

I pick it up and put it down as and when I'm single or not but I have too many mates that I wouldn't give up so having a relationship means trust. Not every bloke is cool with the fact that I have sexual history with a lot of my friends. There's no danger I'd start something with someone who was unaware of my past. Honesty and communication are everything. "

I dont care what mingers u met in the past..its now u and me baby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes I could...but having been on the scene for many many years...I have some proper friendships(that do not revolve around sex), I'd probably be quite open to any new partner that needs to know my past.I believe I'm honest and loyal..so it starts with no lies."

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"yes I could...but having been on the scene for many many years...I have some proper friendships(that do not revolve around sex), I'd probably be quite open to any new partner that needs to know my past.I believe I'm honest and loyal..so it starts with no lies.

This!

I pick it up and put it down as and when I'm single or not but I have too many mates that I wouldn't give up so having a relationship means trust. Not every bloke is cool with the fact that I have sexual history with a lot of my friends. There's no danger I'd start something with someone who was unaware of my past. Honesty and communication are everything.

I dont care what mingers u met in the past..its now u and me baby "

Haha... I fear we'd spend more time fucking about with cameras!

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton


"

Are you perfectly fine being single, or your would like some great relationship?

If yes, could you be in monogamist relation?

Would you be able to live without swinging, or you think you would got some extra sex on a side?"

I am making the most of being single for over 2 years now! The previous 17 years or so, I have always been with someone. Fisrt hubby, when he died, I stupidly 'felt so alone', I went pretty much straight into a 3 year relationship with a guy who turned out to be a violent d*unk. When I escaped that, within weeks I was back with a childhood sweetheart. I ended that after 6 months, wondering what the hell I was doing lol.. past should have stayed in the past.

A relationship will happen for me again.. of course it will. When it happens, I will deal with it when it comes.

Yes It could be monogamous, if it is not with a swinger, I could never cheat. I might carry on being a perv if it is with a swinger. Depends on how and when it happens!

I am not looking for anything though.. just enjoying my life right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes I could...but having been on the scene for many many years...I have some proper friendships(that do not revolve around sex), I'd probably be quite open to any new partner that needs to know my past.I believe I'm honest and loyal..so it starts with no lies.

This!

I pick it up and put it down as and when I'm single or not but I have too many mates that I wouldn't give up so having a relationship means trust. Not every bloke is cool with the fact that I have sexual history with a lot of my friends. There's no danger I'd start something with someone who was unaware of my past. Honesty and communication are everything.

I dont care what mingers u met in the past..its now u and me baby

Haha... I fear we'd spend more time fucking about with cameras! "

mines waterproof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not the girlfriend type. I've accepted that I can't have a relationship.. so I am more suited to companionship..

I couldn't ever be monogamous though

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By *himanMan
over a year ago

chichester

V happy being single x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

yeah sure, I have a fantastic non compromising life that I enjoy to the max. I am way too fixed in my ways, I am totally self absorbed and most things have to revolve round me and I will not share what I have.

and I am totally self aware and honest about it"

This

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"yes I could...but having been on the scene for many many years...I have some proper friendships(that do not revolve around sex), I'd probably be quite open to any new partner that needs to know my past.I believe I'm honest and loyal..so it starts with no lies.

This!

I pick it up and put it down as and when I'm single or not but I have too many mates that I wouldn't give up so having a relationship means trust. Not every bloke is cool with the fact that I have sexual history with a lot of my friends. There's no danger I'd start something with someone who was unaware of my past. Honesty and communication are everything.

I dont care what mingers u met in the past..its now u and me baby

Haha... I fear we'd spend more time fucking about with cameras!

mines waterproof "

Show off!

Mines bigger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever happens happens really, secure enough to be single or happy getting together if I thought it had potential etc.

If I was in love, getting married etc, I'd 99.9% come off here, the other 0.1% would be in the rare married but happy swinging etc, I don't think that works though if there's kids involved etc, for me.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I never want a relationship inside or outside swinging, never....

can u explain why?

yeah sure, I have a fantastic non compromising life that I enjoy to the max. I am way too fixed in my ways, I am totally self absorbed and most things have to revolve round me and I will not share what I have.

and I am totally self aware and honest about it"

I tell you what, I met my other half on here: you could be describing me. What I'm struggling with is compromising in my own house. Saying "we/us/our" opposed to "me/mine/my" is hard...but I'm getting there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With my husband I missed the relationship more then I missed the person... I realize this since I fell deeply for some one just recently and my heart noticed the difference.. I'm happy being single when I'm busy but I crave it when I'm alone... I've always had a companion in my life and I think it's going to take a while to get use to it... Do I want another relationship? Not after my last one has left me feeling this way... Why would I put myself through it again??

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I never want a relationship inside or outside swinging, never....

can u explain why?

yeah sure, I have a fantastic non compromising life that I enjoy to the max. I am way too fixed in my ways, I am totally self absorbed and most things have to revolve round me and I will not share what I have.

and I am totally self aware and honest about it

I tell you what, I met my other half on here: you could be describing me. What I'm struggling with is compromising in my own house. Saying "we/us/our" opposed to "me/mine/my" is hard...but I'm getting there!"

I would be medicated to the hilt to allow it, I wouldn't know what the day was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its difficult to say "never again", because of the socks being blown off thing.

When someone comes along that truly blows your socks off (and trust me, as a single man, mine are fair welded on), well its madness not to want to commit to them if they feel the same.

However I think relationships are strong when they are based on trust and equality, and insofar as I am experienced, I don't think I have had those things in the past.

So having been married, and in other long-term relationships, I am not "actively" seeking the sock blower offer "

and right now, as many have said, I am a little bit self obsessed and absorbed to give someone the commitment they truly deserve from a relationship.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I have had two long term monogamous relationships (over 10 years each) and some shorter term ones. In a relationship I am always monogamous.

However, I prefer the single life but not simply because I can hook up with lots of different people.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

but to you Mistress, be happy

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!


"It would be nice to find someone but I would like swinging involved in it as well "

This

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

But we would have to both want it....and it had to feel right for both involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes I could...but having been on the scene for many many years...I have some proper friendships(that do not revolve around sex), I'd probably be quite open to any new partner that needs to know my past.I believe I'm honest and loyal..so it starts with no lies.

This!

I pick it up and put it down as and when I'm single or not but I have too many mates that I wouldn't give up so having a relationship means trust. Not every bloke is cool with the fact that I have sexual history with a lot of my friends. There's no danger I'd start something with someone who was unaware of my past. Honesty and communication are everything.

I dont care what mingers u met in the past..its now u and me baby

Haha... I fear we'd spend more time fucking about with cameras!

mines waterproof

Show off!

Mines bigger! "

yours cracked when u took a selfie...so there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Are you perfectly fine being single, or your would like some great relationship?

If yes, could you be in monogamist relation?

Would you be able to live without swinging, or you think you would got some extra sex on a side?"

I am fine being single and actually like it. I do miss certain things of a relationship but happy being single and doing what I like when I want.

If I got into a relationship with someone I didn't meet from fab I would come off it and be faithful.

If I met someone from fab he wouldn't want to have 3somes and more somes. We would just go to clubs or parties for our enjoyment and excitement if that's what we both wanted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am looking for my sex fantasy can you help me make it a reality You know, we could always make that fantasy a reality

....Question ,Question .... Why is it so hard to find a woman for a threesome mmf

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I am comfortable being single, going where I want when I want and meeting who I want. If I did find someone then I would stop meeting totally as I find when I am in love I don't want to meet, I would still be here for the forum though

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"i am looking for my sex fantasy can you help me make it a reality You know, we could always make that fantasy a reality

....Question ,Question .... Why is it so hard to find a woman for a threesome mmf

"

Are you just posting this on as many threads as you can?

I can be happy single, but I don't think monogamous relationships are for me - so right now I have the best of both worlds.

A boyfriend I care a lot for, who is happy that I have this side of my life (He's not on fab now, was briefly but its not for him) I don't want to marry him, and we'd kill one another living together, so we meet up when we are free, and talk and text in between times. He's more than a FB or FWB, but not a live in partner. It suits both of us.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Been single now for 8 years. At the beginning I would have liked to find someone to care for me but over the years I realised I am a lot happier like this.

I have no intention of giving up nsa sex and clubs, and prefer one off meets, so things are likely to stay the same now.

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By *atcherofmyballsMan
over a year ago

hereford

Been single for the last 20 years I'm ok with things as they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been single for a few years now I miss the company, a fwb or swinging partner would be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like having a 'boyfriend' but my 2 longterm relationships both ended badly with me being cheated on so now I have real trust issues. I like this lifestyle at the moment, I have a longterm fb and a couple of other regulars. Suits me for now

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"

Are you perfectly fine being single, or your would like some great relationship?

If yes, could you be in monogamist relation?

Would you be able to live without swinging, or you think you would got some extra sex on a side?"

More than happy being single, not looking for relationship

Cheated on all my relationships and my marriage - not suited to monogamy

Would struggle to live without swinging

These are all the easy answers. However, I've made some good friends through swinging and I've got a club buddy (female, but we don't play together) who I see more often than some friends and family and we've started to plan to do vanilla stuff together as well as our epic tour of the UK swinging club scene, so I reckon I've found a "relationship" from Fab (soz, Wyrd...try not to be too frightened )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am happy with my life as it is, to be honest i don't have any intentions to be in a relationship ever again, i just cant be bothered with it anymore

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"

yours cracked when u took a selfie...so there "

FFS... you promised not to tell anyone that!! Twat!

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

In a relationship with someone I am always monogamous whilst with them and only swung as a couple whilst with them as had roughly same frame of mind

being single i can enjoy myself as much as i like

as goes for your past thats up to you if you tell me i tend to be not that bothered about it as thats past history and has nothin to do with me

with mine i will tell you it anyway if you ask about it

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Have been single for just over a year now and although I am not actively seeking another relationship, I wouldn't rule one out. My last ex knew I was on here and even took some of ma photos even though she didn't want to join herself.

I suppose it would be nice to meet someone else that was into swinging, but I would always tell anyone that I met what I do and then let them make an informed decision on whether they want to take things any further.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"so I reckon I've found a "relationship" from Fab (soz, Wyrd...try not to be too frightened )"

Aaaaiiiieeeeeeeee!!!

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"I think genuine nice people are hard to find, so I prefer to stay single its actually hard to find a nice girl now adays so I just don't bother looking, and if I did get a nice girl then I wouldn't do any of this as I don't like sharing :p"

So you wouldn't share your gf but will quite happily meet a couple? wow, so any women you meet on here are not nice girls then? Thankfully you're not close enough to have to bother blocking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally having being single on and off for 4 years, I am ready to meet someone more constant now as I do miss certain things.

I do believe, however, that a relationship is what you make it, regardless of all of our past. Our situations are ours to own until we are in a place in our own mind to change that.

I seek touch, attention and sexual contact etc. on a regular basis when in a relationship and if I don't get that then I will seek elsewhere after a while so as much as I would like to remain monogamous perhaps I would keep fab in my favourites list - just in case. X

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think being single is massively under-rated, and over looked by society too. How many films have us single folk as the main characters? There always seems a need to have a 'happy' couple in it or to form - anything else must be _iewed as misery. Im happy for now and just take life as it comes and no need to think about open relationships or whatever in future as now is just great. One step at a time works well.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I am a 'wrong font' here really, I would far prefer to in a monogamous relationship , just not prepared to settle for second best, and refuse to go without meanwhile! ! No way I would tolerate a second rate relationship just to get sex like some people do, so this is a viable alternative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am happily single for the time being. Not ready for commitment in my life just yet. I do however like the thought of being in an magnogamous relationship in the distant future, maybe once I've moved location and settled down. Wouldn't want a swinging relationship so wouldn't get involved with a swinger unless they were prepared to leave the scene or be patient of whether I wanted to carry on swinging..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Are you perfectly fine being single, or your would like some great relationship?

If yes, could you be in monogamist relation?

Would you be able to live without swinging, or you think you would got some extra sex on a side?

More than happy being single, not looking for relationship

Cheated on all my relationships and my marriage - not suited to monogamy

Would struggle to live without swinging

These are all the easy answers. However, I've made some good friends through swinging and I've got a club buddy (female, but we don't play together) who I see more often than some friends and family and we've started to plan to do vanilla stuff together as well as our epic tour of the UK swinging club scene, so I reckon I've found a "relationship" from Fab (soz, Wyrd...try not to be too frightened )"

Aww congrats to you both. The perfect relationship.

(That sounds sarcy but it's not. x)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually couldn't be happier being single. I have the best time in all quadrants of my life. I can't even contemplate being stuck with one person. If it ever happens, he will be a very special man indeed.

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By *xpresMan
over a year ago

Elland

90% I'm cool with my single life but now n again I kinda would like a relationship sometimes

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