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By *aurenka OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

What size do you prefer? Ok, I know, most of you will say it is all about proportion and it can be a true.

But I met few guys who prefer bigger sized ladies, and some are "he bigger the better" some are not.

Personally I just cannot understand what can be attractive in a big woman let just say "American size" (I meant 400 pounds or sth)

And all BBW ladies - do u like your body, or you would want to get yourself slimmer shape?

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Interesting thread - your answer first? Z

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

My preference would be for slimmer ladies, but I recognise there are very attractive curvier ones.

Not too big though.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I love my body I have been Slim and wasn't happy I've been bigger and wasn't happy however now I've learnt to love what I have and have made the most of it......As for the bigger ladies and their admirers it's what they like and don't really judge that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id love to be slimmer and taking steps to cut down and reduce my size

Speaking as a larger than large lady guys have found the shape of my body appealing, the warmth it gives off,, the way my skin/fat moves when i move or being spanked (that jelly belly or fat ass ripple)

Guess being larger often means larger breasts, thicker thighs, massive rear end.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

being honest I hate my body and always dieting but find men love it especially big boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love bbws, the bigger the better

Any bbws in the west mids who want service, just ask

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

a lady with a bbw shaped body is still a lady .. just as,sexy .. fun and interesting as any of her slenderer sisters .. so im not sizeist

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I'm losing weight as I want to be more healthy but very content in my own skin

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I love bbws, the bigger the better

Any bbws in the west mids who want service, just ask"

Who wants service?? Are they second hand cars or something lol

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By *aurenka OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"Interesting thread - your answer first? Z"

First I am straight but I can appreciate beauty of woman.

And some biiig ladies (SOME!!!) can be sexy as hell

As for me, I am gradually losing weight and feel great about it.

I feel sexier ever pound lost

And if guy founds attractive lady who looks like three whales bonded by their tailed - that put me off, defiantly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love bbws, the bigger the better

Any bbws in the west mids who want service, just ask"

ok now answer the question,, WHY do you like them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And if guy founds attractive lady who looks like three whales bonded by their tailed - that put me off, defiantly"

is a man not allowed personal preference too then? I like beef roast dinners but nice to change it up with lamb once in a while

Why would him finding other women attractive impact you?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Interesting thread - your answer first? Z

First I am straight but I can appreciate beauty of woman.

And some biiig ladies (SOME!!!) can be sexy as hell

As for me, I am gradually losing weight and feel great about it.

I feel sexier ever pound lost

And if guy founds attractive lady who looks like three whales bonded by their tailed - that put me off, defiantly"

There is not need to be so disrespectful to those that are larger than you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the way bbw look and feel....a fuller figure for a man to explore...lifting those breasts and getting right under them and licking and sucking every inch......I just enjoy the time that can be spent pleasuring a larger lady whobis not afraid to show her curves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And if guy founds attractive lady who looks like three whales bonded by their tailed - that put me off, defiantly

is a man not allowed personal preference too then? I like beef roast dinners but nice to change it up with lamb once in a while

Why would him finding other women attractive impact you?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the way bbw look and feel....a fuller figure for a man to explore...lifting those breasts and getting right under them and licking and sucking every inch......I just enjoy the time that can be spent pleasuring a larger lady whobis not afraid to show her curves"

now you mention it guys ive been with like the weight of my boobs surrounding their cock,, again when they can put their hands underneath them.

my squishiness is quite a nice texture (even if i do say so myself)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate the term BBW, but if that's what women who are big to describe themselves then fine by me.

Last time I weight myself was a month or so back, It said I was 20 stone, but I'm also pregnant.

I couldn't give two fucks if people didn't like my size, their personal preference, fair enough. We all have preferences, however there is no need to be so disrespectful like you're more superior.

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By *aurenka OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"And if guy founds attractive lady who looks like three whales bonded by their tailed - that put me off, defiantly

is a man not allowed personal preference too then? I like beef roast dinners but nice to change it up with lamb once in a while

Why would him finding other women attractive impact you?"

Do I forbid him being attracted to who he is??

I am not sure how it works for you, but for me attraction is not a body is also mind.

And I could find some mental stuff which puts me off.

Defiantly one of them is liking giant shapeless woman.

Everyone has right to his preferences, right? I don't find that set of mind sexy, simple as that.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I love bbws, the bigger the better

Any bbws in the west mids who want service, just ask"
thats one of those posh german cars isnt it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And if guy founds attractive lady who looks like three whales bonded by their tailed - that put me off, defiantly

is a man not allowed personal preference too then? I like beef roast dinners but nice to change it up with lamb once in a while

Why would him finding other women attractive impact you?

Do I forbid him being attracted to who he is??

I am not sure how it works for you, but for me attraction is not a body is also mind.

And I could find some mental stuff which puts me off.

Defiantly one of them is liking giant shapeless woman.

Everyone has right to his preferences, right? I don't find that set of mind sexy, simple as that.

"

Thanks for explaining..

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

size dosnt mater to me as i tend to look more at the character of a person than with there looks

as i have already been with a few different sizes of people there size isnt in question as i liked the person that i was with

as for those that do go on there diet i will support them but with me being skinny im sneaking the chocolate and cream cakes elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not bbw I'm fat I've tried losing weight but not had much luck I worry about my weight but people I've met haven't been bothered and it doesn't stop me having lots of fun with the right person...... Although little nervous about meeting new people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own

Everyone is gorgeous in their own way

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"Interesting thread - your answer first? Z

First I am straight but I can appreciate beauty of woman.

And some biiig ladies (SOME!!!) can be sexy as hell

As for me, I am gradually losing weight and feel great about it.

I feel sexier ever pound lost

And if guy founds attractive lady who looks like three whales bonded by their tailed - that put me off, defiantly"

its two whales don't exaggerate lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the way bbw look and feel....a fuller figure for a man to explore...lifting those breasts and getting right under them and licking and sucking every inch......I just enjoy the time that can be spent pleasuring a larger lady whobis not afraid to show her curves

now you mention it guys ive been with like the weight of my boobs surrounding their cock,, again when they can put their hands underneath them.

my squishiness is quite a nice texture (even if i do say so myself) "

Couldnt have said it better..what an amazing sensation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a big woman and love the attention I get!! I'm lucky coz I've not been hit with the ugly stick and I have a killer personality!! I have size 10 friends that have no confidence, my sex life is better than theirs on average so I love all my wobbly bits

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I like curves, to me they are one of the signs of femininity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a size 24 when i joined slimming world in January, i hated my body and had no confidence at all, i even stopped meeting because the thought of getting naked infront of someone made me feel sick

i have since lost 7 and a half stone, I'm not at my goal yet but getting there, i feel both physically and mentally so much better, it have given me my confidence and i have started meeting again, i get loads more mail since i have lost weight, ive also noticed better looking guys now mail me

i did get offers when i was a size 24, there are men out there who like women of all sizes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy with my size ...I'm happy with my confidence too ..I have plenty of size 10/12 friends who have serious hangups over their shape /size ..I'm justhappy and feel sexy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And if guy founds attractive lady who looks like three whales bonded by their tailed - that put me off, defiantly

is a man not allowed personal preference too then? I like beef roast dinners but nice to change it up with lamb once in a while

Why would him finding other women attractive impact you?"

I think I get what she means, like for example if my other half had told me he really fancied all these girls I thought were not all that great looking id be thinking that I must look the same if thats what he is into x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my hubby doesn't like fat women much but he does like dawn French he thinks shes pretty. I have to lose weight because of health problems, being plumps ok and I think some women look too skinny which doesn't always look good, to me. theres a young girl near us who was very skinny my hubby said she didn't look healthy but some people are naturaly thin and often when they are very young.

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By *aurenka OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"And if guy founds attractive lady who looks like three whales bonded by their tailed - that put me off, defiantly

is a man not allowed personal preference too then? I like beef roast dinners but nice to change it up with lamb once in a while

Why would him finding other women attractive impact you?

I think I get what she means, like for example if my other half had told me he really fancied all these girls I thought were not all that great looking id be thinking that I must look the same if thats what he is into x"

Not exactly this.

I now how do I look like, I can have some insecurities, but no way I could thin comparing to some huge 500 pounds poor girl.

It is more I would like being appreciate for my sexy side, not just for being big girl with hope for progress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my wobbles, I think it is that fact that guys find attractive about me, I don't apologise for them I embrace the fact I have them

I find women with wobbles attractive too, I love the softness of the curves and adore a huge wobbly butt, a podgy pussy is just delightful to have a handful of!

I would be lying if I said I would never change my shape if I had a magic wand but it would only be from a fashion point of _iew, I love clothes and it drives me batty when I spot a new frock and its not in my size, but other than that I'm happy with my lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am concerned at times guys only show interest in me as a tick box to say 'yep done n tried' and am cautious of the guys who _iew me as a fetish and want to feed me up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i am concerned at times guys only show interest in me as a tick box to say 'yep done n tried' and am cautious of the guys who _iew me as a fetish and want to feed me up "

I have had this concern too previously which is why I find verification good I tend to check if they really do have a liking for the larger form, often there is a good mix of shapes and I like that more shows they just love women in general not one to discriminate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i am concerned at times guys only show interest in me as a tick box to say 'yep done n tried' and am cautious of the guys who _iew me as a fetish and want to feed me up

I have had this concern too previously which is why I find verification good I tend to check if they really do have a liking for the larger form, often there is a good mix of shapes and I like that more shows they just love women in general not one to discriminate"

Same x

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