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Is 'attractive' a general term or is it something specific to a person?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After looking at many profiles, i've noticed some which say things along the line of 'don't message unless you are attractive'

And it occurred to me how pointless writing something like that on your profile is, as what one person finds attractive, another does not. And how does that person know if they're attractive to the person they're messaging unless they message them and draw attention to their pic/profile in the first place! haha.

So this got me thinking, is the word 'attractive' a word which can be an umbrella term and used regardless of if you actually find yourself liking that specific person, but they still have some kind of 'quality' which can be deemed attractive in a universal kind of way.

Or can attractive only be used when you specifically like someone. and have an attraction to them?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

whether someone is attractive to me is more than looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol I don't need to find a person attractive to shag em .

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

there are beautiful people so ugly, I wouldn't want to be anywhere near..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was told I was attractive in a punkish way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think sterotypes are there for a reason so that when generalizing we can use the term to build up an idea of what someone is like.

Totally agree with your point about we all find different things attractive, but beauty of varying levels can be generalized to a stereotypical type of attractive.

eg if there were 100 men/women infront of us and we all had to label them as attractive or not, id be certain roughly 80% of the answers would be the same of who the public generally found attractive or not..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol I don't need to find a person attractive to shag em ."

honest to god with some of the shit that comes outta your mouth i can only presume your poor meets are people who dont use the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whether someone is attractive to me is more than looks"

you can have a very good looking person with a very ugly personality. Attractive isn't just about being good looking, it's the whole package...or it is for me anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol I don't need to find a person attractive to shag em .

honest to god with some of the shit that comes outta your mouth i can only presume your poor meets are people who dont use the forums "
Not sure whats ur problem is, u talk some shit to and yes I meet most of my shags outside here lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whether someone is attractive to me is more than looks

you can have a very good looking person with a very ugly personality. Attractive isn't just about being good looking, it's the whole package...or it is for me anyway "

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

There's a consensus on what 'attractive' normally is, but I can say 'I find him extremely attractive' for entirely other reasons.

You can even perceive that eg a face is not conventionally attractive, and yet find it hugely attractive regardless. Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attractive

is a very personal thing.

I don't find tattoos or smoking attractive.

However, there are many who do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol I don't need to find a person attractive to shag em .

honest to god with some of the shit that comes outta your mouth i can only presume your poor meets are people who dont use the forums Not sure whats ur problem is, u talk some shit to and yes I meet most of my shags outside here lol."

my issue is that you show no lack of self respect or respect for women who you seek pleasure from.

we share our crap 'love' of tv and exchange posts within those threads but you do yourself no justice by voicing opinions like that.

i get all this 'free speech' stuff but what good will it do you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok so my post was perhaps a bit harsh and word selection could have been better, i typed without thinking and am sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol I don't need to find a person attractive to shag em .

honest to god with some of the shit that comes outta your mouth i can only presume your poor meets are people who dont use the forums Not sure whats ur problem is, u talk some shit to and yes I meet most of my shags outside here lol.

my issue is that you show no lack of self respect or respect for women who you seek pleasure from.

we share our crap 'love' of tv and exchange posts within those threads but you do yourself no justice by voicing opinions like that.

i get all this 'free speech' stuff but what good will it do you? "
I got no issue here so don't need to explain myself to you, bye bye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sort of think your right because a lot of men on here who other women find good looking I don't. some people like katy price everyone would find attractive because certain looks are attractive to the majority.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

attractive to one may be ugly to another

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"lol I don't need to find a person attractive to shag em .

honest to god with some of the shit that comes outta your mouth i can only presume your poor meets are people who dont use the forums Not sure whats ur problem is, u talk some shit to and yes I meet most of my shags outside here lol."

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"lol I don't need to find a person attractive to shag em .

honest to god with some of the shit that comes outta your mouth i can only presume your poor meets are people who dont use the forums Not sure whats ur problem is, u talk some shit to and yes I meet most of my shags outside here lol.

my issue is that you show no lack of self respect or respect for women who you seek pleasure from.

we share our crap 'love' of tv and exchange posts within those threads but you do yourself no justice by voicing opinions like that.

i get all this 'free speech' stuff but what good will it do you? "
at least he's honest and not one of the are licking sycophants on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest, I have to be attracted to them!!

Possibly shallow but hey everyone is different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder - though some people have more beholders than others.

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol I don't need to find a person attractive to shag em .

honest to god with some of the shit that comes outta your mouth i can only presume your poor meets are people who dont use the forums Not sure whats ur problem is, u talk some shit to and yes I meet most of my shags outside here lol.

my issue is that you show no lack of self respect or respect for women who you seek pleasure from.

we share our crap 'love' of tv and exchange posts within those threads but you do yourself no justice by voicing opinions like that.

i get all this 'free speech' stuff but what good will it do you? at least he's honest and not one of the are licking sycophants on here"
Yes your right there

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"whether someone is attractive to me is more than looks"

This

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