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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I have been thinking about people's preferences for a while now and of course I have my own.

My question to you lovely forum folk here is have you ever decided or found a certain person that makes you step outside of your normal preferences or have you been approached by someone who you have been outside theirs?

Personally I have where the person that has sparked the interest via the forums or whilst in chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im not telling

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol thanks for the party political reply Hows the fence sitting going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got no preferences, all she have to be is horny for the night lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes just once as wanted to say that I had met someone way out of my age preference but couldn't take it further as just didn't seem right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there's one or two who use the forums who are out of my age range or may have partners that given the opportunity I'd probably jump on....they live miles away though...

Personality can sway a decision sometimes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes absolutely! As I get older I find that I'm not so 'tunnel visioned'.

When a personality comes across it can make a huge difference, I find in chat having some good cheeky banter works well. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes just once as wanted to say that I had met someone way out of my age preference but couldn't take it further as just didn't seem right"

wow really and could I ask what the age gap was? But at least you had a go good for you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes quite often.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"there's one or two who use the forums who are out of my age range or may have partners that given the opportunity I'd probably jump on....they live miles away though...

Personality can sway a decision sometimes!"

I agreed 100% with that as you can find that connection and bang your hooked and want to know more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our preferences are always fluid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time,

Mine are not set in stone,

Apart from being 100% straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes just once as wanted to say that I had met someone way out of my age preference but couldn't take it further as just didn't seem right

wow really and could I ask what the age gap was? But at least you had a go good for you x"

I think I was about 48/49 and he 25

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes absolutely! As I get older I find that I'm not so 'tunnel visioned'.

When a personality comes across it can make a huge difference, I find in chat having some good cheeky banter works well. x"

Yeah laughter can lead to a very positive outcome and personally for me if you can laugh with them i think the sex tends to be that much better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met someone once out of comfort zone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there's one or two who use the forums who are out of my age range or may have partners that given the opportunity I'd probably jump on....they live miles away though...

Personality can sway a decision sometimes!

I agreed 100% with that as you can find that connection and bang your hooked and want to know more. "

Definitely! Don't get me wrong, there has to be a physical attraction... but if a guy makes me laugh and has a nice face I'm almost a sure thing! Haha!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All the time,

Mine are not set in stone,

Apart from being 100% straight "

lol your 100% safe from me mate and I do feel people preferences evolve the longer they are here as they explore their own boundaries.

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By *entkevMan
over a year ago

Dover

My main preference is that she has a pulse... but I'll even bend that rule for the right corpse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes just once as wanted to say that I had met someone way out of my age preference but couldn't take it further as just didn't seem right

wow really and could I ask what the age gap was? But at least you had a go good for you x

I think I was about 48/49 and he 25"

Brilliant lucky boy indeed..

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I met someone once out of comfort zone "

how so was this for you then? Age / status or another?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"there's one or two who use the forums who are out of my age range or may have partners that given the opportunity I'd probably jump on....they live miles away though...

Personality can sway a decision sometimes!

I agreed 100% with that as you can find that connection and bang your hooked and want to know more.

Definitely! Don't get me wrong, there has to be a physical attraction... but if a guy makes me laugh and has a nice face I'm almost a sure thing! Haha! "

yup ditto if the lady can laugh and talk with the best of them then I am a very happy man.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My main preference is that she has a pulse... but I'll even bend that rule for the right corpse. "

OMG pmsl mate so wrong but made me chuckle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met someone once out of comfort zone

how so was this for you then? Age / status or another? "

Age and another

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Our preferences are always fluid"

Yeah, I like a pint or two as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My main preference is that she has a pulse... but I'll even bend that rule for the right corpse. "

gives a whole new meaning to the word stiff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I've met outside of my preferences. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. The person has to do/say something that makes me want to take that gamble.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

My preferences are not rigid...

I will play with 8, 9, 10 inches....

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Yep!

In 8 months, Fab has opened my eyes on a few things...

One is bi guys. I wouldn't have considered them before joining - which is odd considering I have loved watching gay porn for years.. but now I think - well sleeping safe with a bi guy is as safe or risky as sleeping with anyone on here. Plus I might actually get to watch 2 guys in the flesh.

Another is playing with guys asses or considering using a strap-on. Wouldn't have gone there a year ago, but now... well

And playing with a TV I would now .. Thanks again to Fab, I never realised so many like girls! (Sorry that sounded so crap lol.. I mean.. ahh I don't know what I mean.) Of course a lot like girls, A lot have opened my eyes to how approachable they are. OK I am going to stop there before I make myself look like (even more of) a tit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes the forums definitely help as I have bent my rules on age a little and on my smoking rule.

Both with very good results

I definitely get more open minded the older I get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have preferences but just recently ive been chatting to guys of similar age where as before id always go older

so mine are adaptable

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Smoking I will bend on...but if it is too strong I cant.

I have no other hard and fast rules, its all organic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to like the look of them a bit and like there profile too but sometimes you don't know till you meet someone and depends whos available.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have sex with whomever I'm attracted to. He could be any age,colour,size,shape or even a she

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By *entkevMan
over a year ago

Dover


"My main preference is that she has a pulse... but I'll even bend that rule for the right corpse.

OMG pmsl mate so wrong but made me chuckle. "

Hey you have to have a sense of humour to be on this site.

Plus you know they'll be no negative feedback and for once you'll be able to roll off... fart and go to sleep knowing its not the worse smell in the room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes just once as wanted to say that I had met someone way out of my age preference but couldn't take it further as just didn't seem right

wow really and could I ask what the age gap was? But at least you had a go good for you x

I think I was about 48/49 and he 25

Brilliant lucky boy indeed.. "

Like I said though it didn't go to a second meet and I only meet socially first so that's as far as it went

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

Well I seem to have developed a liking for the geeky/nerdy looking type. A total bonus if they actually are geeky too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah our not meeting single guys preferences on our profile. That's very fluid for the right situation.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Older guys are my preference and it is probably holding me back from meeting some very lovely young men but I just can't go there, it seems so wrong for me and even though I chat to a few younger guys I just cannot arrange a meet no matter how lovely they are

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Fab world older guys are my preference mid 40's upwards...dating world guys that are 38 to 40ish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've lowered my age range but that's but it. I prefer younger men so the top end of my age range is 5 years younger then me. Comes from having an ex who is now 61 I suppose.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"Fab world older guys are my preference mid 40's upwards...dating world guys that are 38 to 40ish "

Why is this pray tell ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My main preference is that she has a pulse... but I'll even bend that rule for the right corpse.

OMG pmsl mate so wrong but made me chuckle.

Hey you have to have a sense of humour to be on this site.

Plus you know they'll be no negative feedback and for once you'll be able to roll off... fart and go to sleep knowing its not the worse smell in the room. "

Haha so very true

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There is some great responses from the lovely people of forum thank you so much for your time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My only preference is mutual attraction. Everything else can change.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Fab world older guys are my preference mid 40's upwards...dating world guys that are 38 to 40ish

Why is this pray tell ?"

Because in my fab world I like old farts lol, in my dating world I like men a little older, I want children and I find that older men have had their fill of kids and had the snip

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"My preferences are not rigid...

I will play with 8, 9, 10 inches...."

8-10 inches and not rigid?

God knows how big they'd be erect!!

A

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

have preferences like others but not set in stone

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