FabSwingers.com forum: I'll cry if I want to...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I can't get over how many threads are started based on things that people write, assume, don't write, respond to or use their profile for...

if you don't respond to mail, you're a stuck up bitch

if you put on your profile an age range and aren't flexible about it, you're rude

if you don't want single men, you're arrogant

if you don't want tv's/ts's or gays, you're a homophobe

if you don't want couples, you're ignorant

if you don't want to accept a friend request, you're up your own arse

if you refuse to meet at the last minute, you're a timewaster

if you don't plaster naked or/and face pics on your profile then you're not worthy of using the site.

I get so pissed off with people telling me what I should put on MY profile, until the day admin set a criteria about what I must put on MY profile and it goes through rigorous assessment to ensure it fits the criteria of each and every other person that uses the site, I am going to treat it as just that...MY PROFILE.

You have your profile, concern yourself with that and if it works for you, congratulations, if it doesn't then maybe it needs work...but the choice is yours....surely that's enough??

By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

well said and very well put !!! there is no right or wrong profile . if thats what you are happy with then thats all that matters !! no one has any right to assume there way of doing things or writing a profile is any better than anyone elses .

if ppl stopped using their energy to negative effect and in a posative way, maybe more ppl will get more sucessfull meets . plus maybe so meny of the decent folks wouldnt be leaving the site .

just focus on your own business and let others take care of theres ..we are supposidly adults here after all.though sometimes i do wonder ..

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't let it bother you, some people post things for affect because they're bored and looking to start a drama.

Easier said than done I know, sad people.

Your profile works for you - so enjoy and ignore!