FabSwingers.com forum: Why hide profile

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hello again I might not get shot down here again

But why do people hide profile ?

Then a couple of hours put it back on .

My ?is what do they gain from this ?

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they want to....nobody else's business I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are avoiding someone probably you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to annoy you......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The clue is in your username, OP.

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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago

South Coast

I do that all the time... Mostly because I want to, partially because I choose to and also because I can

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Shush, I'm counting to 100 and keep losing my place. I've got to go and find them when I get to 100.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks a big help lol not

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've not got a problem with that or my friends .........

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

the fact that you know that much information about their profile tells me that you are on it all the time ....i think you might be the problem here !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im not the problem . she's on friend list we only talk every 2-3 days checking in with each other and it's not sexual so want to know what can be gained

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you NEED to know? Only profile you need to worry about is yours....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

She's a friend tines aren't Right here I've looked she hasn't just blocked me she's hidden profile can you hide profile to 1 person

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm asking cause I'm a bit concerned

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I hide my profile when I'm not looking for meets, to remove myself from site search results and to cut messages I receive down to a minimum.

What's hard to understand about that?

A profile here is effectively an advertisement of a person and what they are looking for. If they don't want to be advertising themselves then they can hide their profile.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I'm asking cause I'm a bit concerned "

So message her and ask if she's ok.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

She had never hidden profile she's gone on meet tonight she's always logged on now her profile hidden it's not her

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

i can see what you maybe cant ...read this thread back tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We are fab friends only no numbers exchanged I asked for help and got shot down it's not her

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"She had never hidden profile she's gone on meet tonight she's always logged on now her profile hidden it's not her "

WTF are you on about? If you want to know why she's hidden her profile, message her and ask her.

I've told you why I hide mine. I have no idea why she has hidden hers.

If it's hidden, it's hidden to everyone, not just you.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"We are fab friends only no numbers exchanged I asked for help and got shot down it's not her "

Shot down? What is not her? You are making no sense.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

when did you get shot down in flames ..you asked for advice and got advice ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually when people hide their profiles they want a little peace and a break....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"She had never hidden profile she's gone on meet tonight she's always logged on now her profile hidden it's not her

WTF are you on about? If you want to know why she's hidden her profile, message her and ask her.

I've told you why I hide mine. I have no idea why she has hidden hers.

If it's hidden, it's hidden to everyone, not just you."

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just tried again profile hidden so not her like u got shot down a week ago when asked a question in general stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She has gone on a meet and you two are only fab friends. She probably does not want you seeing a verification and is worried about your reaction or feelings.

From my point of view you seem to involved in her business and should take a step back.

You have posted this thread for a reason?

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

you are coming across as very wierd to me !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im one side of country she is other we are just fab friends nothing else a chat on line That's is us

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

no it clearly isnt ...you are obsessive in a very worrying way !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It isn't that way at all sorry if it looks that way but not at all I'm just concerned for a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im one side of country she is other we are just fab friends nothing else a chat on line That's is us "

So why does it concern you so much that her profile is hidden? Just accept it and move on....

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Just tried again profile hidden so not her like u got shot down a week ago when asked a question in general stuff "

I still don't understand what you're saying. Literally, what you have written makes no sense. You could try dividing it in to sentences, which might help.

Nobody has shot you down.

What does "so not her like u" mean?

And seriously, just message her and ask if she's ok. This is coming across as a bit stalkerish.

Asking why people may hide their profile is one thing but asking us why your friend has is pointless. We can't possibly know.

If the profile says "this user has hidden their profile" it's hidden to everyone.

If it says you can't access the profile because they have blocked you or you have blocked them, one of you has blocked the other.

Now just ask her and stop freaking out.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"It isn't that way at all sorry if it looks that way but not at all I'm just concerned for a friend "

Message HER!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's just not her she's never done it

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

so fucking what ...you dont even have her phone number (according to a previous post) ...what is this obsession ...does she need to notify you what she is doing with her profile ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"so fucking what ...you dont even have her phone number (according to a previous post) ...what is this obsession ...does she need to notify you what she is doing with her profile ?"

Really 2014 sorry

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"It's just not her she's never done it "

Well now she has. For her own reasons, which we have no possible chance of knowing.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

it is 2014 ..was there a point there ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It isn't that way at all sorry if it looks that way but not at all I'm just concerned for a friend

Message HER!"

Tried Unread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's busy.....

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

you are a seriously wierd guy in my opinion ...you have never ...met ..spoke to this woman or anything else ...ive witnessed marriages collapsing with less dramas !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear lol

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"It isn't that way at all sorry if it looks that way but not at all I'm just concerned for a friend

Message HER!

Tried Unread "

Then take the hint? She's hidden her profile and isn't reading or replying to messages which suggests she is busy or wants to be left alone for a bit.

Pestering her will probably get you blocked. She knows where you are if she needs you. Leave her in peace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It isn't that way at all sorry if it looks that way but not at all I'm just concerned for a friend

Message HER!

Tried Unread

Then take the hint? She's hidden her profile and isn't reading or replying to messages which suggests she is busy or wants to be left alone for a bit.

Pestering her will probably get you blocked. She knows where you are if she needs you. Leave her in peace."
i was about to say the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they want to....nobody else's business I guess. "

Mines hidden but has been for ages.

Mind ya beeswax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crikey, if someone created this much halibaloo if I chose to hide my profile I'd be highly embarrassed

I have a feeling she wont thank you for your concern if she sees this thread

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Strange ppl on here very very strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Strange ppl on here very very strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can so Picture it, The Ladies on a meet and getting a blinding spitroast, Just about coming to the Vinegar stroke and...Oh hold that thought lads ive just got to answer a few messages from a blacked out Face on me Friends list

Pervius Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is your name Billie Piper?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm asking cause I'm a bit concerned "

Have you asked your friend? Thought not cos if I was in her situation you'd be blocked by now. It's absolutely none of your business, dressed up as concern or whatever your friend has her reason for doing it. HER reason!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

OP, I hope your head is OK this morning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congratulations OP!

You have hit the jackpot with the most Fab cliché no.1s in a single post!!!

Why do people hide their profile?

Because they are away and don't want any messages.

Because they are being hassled by people constantly looking at their profile and want it stopped.

Because they think a vanilla someone who knows them is searching for them on FAB.

Because they accidently hit the hide profile button.

Because they want to piss off the profile surfers.

Because they have a STI and don't want to keep explaining why they cannot play.

Because ...... please fill in the blanks.

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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago

London

"OP, I hope your head is OK this morning.

Excuse me we're friends, so why have hidden your profile? Lol

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

I think we can all see what's going on. It's all so that we can have a trilogy of threads.

Coming soon to a forum near you

"Why have I been blocked?"

and

"Why have I been reported?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everybody she was in trouble police involved and she's very shocked

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I can't be arsed wading through the one liners when I'm not that interested in meeting anyone.

I'm always curious as to why anyone cares though, isn't it better just to concentrate on what you're doing than what other people are doing?

Of course you could always ask your friend why she does that, I'd guess she's probably better placed to answer than we are.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Thanks everybody she was in trouble police involved and she's very shocked"

And now the forum knows. I see it wasn't alcohol causing you to post but something else entirely.

If I told a friend why I am hidden I would not expect them to tell the world and her horny husband.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Thanks everybody she was in trouble police involved and she's very shocked"

Bet she's delighted that you've just shared her business with all of us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading this thread has been like one of those fantasy adventure books I used to read as a kid. Often bizarre and ALWAYS confusing! I'm glad I read it while sober although I think drugs may have helped!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks everybody she was in trouble police involved and she's very shocked

Bet she's delighted that you've just shared her business with all of us!

I see your profile is hidden, can I ask why?

Is it not you?

Is it just me that can't see it?

Are you decorating your kitchen?

Is it because.......

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Thanks everybody she was in trouble police involved and she's very shocked

Bet she's delighted that you've just shared her business with all of us!

I see your profile is hidden, can I ask why?

Is it not you?

Is it just me that can't see it?

Are you decorating your kitchen?

Is it because......."

I'm squeezing a spot on my bum and I didn't want anyone to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks everybody she was in trouble police involved and she's very shocked

Bet she's delighted that you've just shared her business with all of us!

I see your profile is hidden, can I ask why?

Is it not you?

Is it just me that can't see it?

Are you decorating your kitchen?

Is it because.......

I'm squeezing a spot on my bum and I didn't want anyone to see.

Let me squeeze that bum for you Deej

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Thanks everybody she was in trouble police involved and she's very shocked

Bet she's delighted that you've just shared her business with all of us!

I see your profile is hidden, can I ask why?

Is it not you?

Is it just me that can't see it?

Are you decorating your kitchen?

Is it because.......

I'm squeezing a spot on my bum and I didn't want anyone to see.

Let me squeeze that bum for you Deej

In a good way or have you developed some weird puss fetish?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

It's a site wide game of hide n seek. You will see details in the Hide & Seek thread in Platinum members forum.

I am currently leading the league. Granny and View in joint second.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks everybody she was in trouble police involved and she's very shocked

Bet she's delighted that you've just shared her business with all of us!

I see your profile is hidden, can I ask why?

Is it not you?

Is it just me that can't see it?

Are you decorating your kitchen?

Is it because.......

I'm squeezing a spot on my bum and I didn't want anyone to see.

Let me squeeze that bum for you Deej

In a good way or have you developed some weird puss fetish?

What was that? pussy fetish?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Thanks everybody she was in trouble police involved and she's very shocked

And now the forum knows. I see it wasn't alcohol causing you to post but something else entirely.

If I told a friend why I am hidden I would not expect them to tell the world and her horny husband.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

OP, you could do with learning the meaning of discretion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, you could do with learning the meaning of discretion."

I think a lot of people on Fab could do with learnign that VV

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello again I might not get shot down here again

But why do people hide profile ?

Then a couple of hours put it back on .

My ?is what do they gain from this ?

Thanks"

Most likely they don't want more new mail so hide it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol its just an ego boost usually, they think they r so popular so they hide it lol.

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By *oxy lady 1Couple
over a year ago

oxford

Beats me ?? What's the point , Surely that's why we are all on here, ? To find new friends , ( don't be shy ) xxx

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"It's a site wide game of hide n seek. You will see details in the Hide & Seek thread in Platinum members forum.

I am currently leading the league. Granny and View in joint second."

I keep getting found.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, you could do with learning the meaning of discretion.

I think a lot of people on Fab could do with learnign that VV

Post of the day! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I hope that all helped clear up your question now you know it's none of your buisness , lol

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By *ondiniumCouple
over a year ago

Wisbech

Not sure if this has already been suggested (as I couldn't be bothered to read all the responses, as witty and enlightening as I'm sure they are) but you could just ask them - after all, they are your friends.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Not sure if this has already been suggested (as I couldn't be bothered to read all the responses, as witty and enlightening as I'm sure they are) but you could just ask them - after all, they are your friends."

It was suggested. He's tried. She hasn't read the message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks everybody she was in trouble police involved and she's very shocked

Bet she's delighted that you've just shared her business with all of us!

Wow!! Indiscretion or what!

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By *ondiniumCouple
over a year ago

Wisbech

"It was suggested. He's tried. She hasn't read the message."

Ah OK, thanks for saving me from reading the full thread.... you have been elevated to the position of "Official Reading Assistant (Unpaid)".

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"It was suggested. He's tried. She hasn't read the message.

Ah OK, thanks for saving me from reading the full thread.... you have been elevated to the position of "Official Reading Assistant (Unpaid)".

Er, thanks. Does the job come with a hat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide mine from time to time.. sometimes just because I'm to busy , or I want a break.

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By *adgodCouple
over a year ago

Greensburg

This is an excellent example of what makes us leery of having internet based friendships.

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By *ondiniumCouple
over a year ago

Wisbech

"Er, thanks. Does the job come with a hat?"

A hat? We're not made of money you know! Jeez, the nerve of some people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bit of breathing space- or on holiday - time out - pissed off - changing the profile - all sorts of reasons just cos they can

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Er, thanks. Does the job come with a hat?

A hat? We're not made of money you know! Jeez, the nerve of some people!

I'm not doing it if there's no hat.

*pouts*

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"OP, you could do with learning the meaning of discretion.

I think a lot of people on Fab could do with learnign that VV

Post of the day! x"

deffinatly!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Im so glad all well in fab world again

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"This is an excellent example of what makes us leery of having internet based friendships. "

That's why my friends list only has friends on it. The word is bandied around with abandon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks everybody she was in trouble police involved and she's very shocked"

Doesn't really explain why she hid her profile tho

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Reading this thread has been like one of those fantasy adventure books I used to read as a kid. Often bizarre and ALWAYS confusing! I'm glad I read it while sober although I think drugs may have helped!!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

She had a bad meet without going into detail he took phone

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

[Removed by poster at 08/08/14 00:14:36]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for clearing that up, Ive been going crazy with worry here,

I shall phone international rescue toot suite and have them call off the search for the missing messages

Gimp

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

"She had a bad meet without going into detail he took phone "

Oh its all clear now why she hid her profile, why she deleted your message, why you feel the need to tell people and that all us cynics are fools

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"She had a bad meet without going into detail he took phone "

But, once again, you have gone in to unnecessary detail with information that is not yours to share.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"She had a bad meet without going into detail he took phone

Oh its all clear now why she hid her profile, why she deleted your message, why you feel the need to tell people and that all us cynics are fools"
she had a very traumatic night so read other posts befor you put your input in she didn't delete message get the facts

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

"She had a bad meet without going into detail he took phone

Oh its all clear now why she hid her profile, why she deleted your message, why you feel the need to tell people and that all us cynics are foolsshe had a very traumatic night so read other posts befor you put your input in she didn't delete message get the facts "

Sorry I do apologize you did say unread rather than deleted but it's not just me questioning your behaviour. Take it as feedback rather than criticism although I do admit much of it, including my own, may come across negatively

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

*cough* DISCRETION*cough*

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Ffs is this still going get a pigging life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ffs is this still going get a pigging life"

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Ffs is this still going get a pigging life"

It went six hours and there was nothing more to say until the OP provided an update.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im not the problem . she's on friend list we only talk every 2-3 days checking in with each other and it's not sexual so want to know what can be gained "
lol the wifes got one like you

try facebook!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Ffs is this still going get a pigging life

It went six hours and there was nothing more to say until the OP provided an update.

An I thought jackanorie had finished

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It isn't that way at all sorry if it looks that way but not at all I'm just concerned for a friend

Message HER!

Tried Unread "

she obviously has a life apart from you - i suggest you try and get one -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to annoy you......

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